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Would You Like To Make A Lasting Impression With Just 4 Questions?

Would You Like To Make A Lasting Impression With Just 4 Questions?

There you are, seated and perhaps thinking about what you can see today, and the happenings around. Apparently, thinking about what tomorrow holds seems to be the least you do each day. Smack! You should consider today, tomorrow and the future, then you can get thought-provoking questions to seek answers; then you can make the world a lot better. Have you ever tried to spark up a conversation with a stranger, but it appears too hard to do? Then you need to know the 4 thought-provoking questions to spark up conversations, as described by Nadia Petschek Rawls. When you read this article, you can quickly realise what you have been doing wrong, the thoughts you shouldn’t compromise, and how to spark up a conversation.

Can you handle these questions?

What if someone walks up to you and ask what you would do if you could upload your brain to the computer? Sounds quite strange, right? Great! That’s one of the thought-provoking questions that would have you scratching your head to get something reasonable as an answer. Now you know; such question can spark up a lengthy conversation between you and a stranger.

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Another possible question could inquire how reasonable it would be to alter your kid’s gene or the morals to be programmed into intelligent machines and autonomous cars. All these issues will surely not leave you so easy with thoughts.

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I found it hard to get through these

Throw many people some kinds of questions, and I bet they would take some time before they answer, and these answers would be unique to their feelings, thoughts, and lifestyles. I’ve sat with people I wanted to be my close friends, but I can tell I sounded boring, and that’s why the mission became a failed one. All thanks to this article, I can easily pull up a conversation with anyone and make it last without pissing them.

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You too could read and ask people these thought-provoking questions; you’ll most likely spark up something significant. Oh yes! It’s that easy. To read the full article, click here.

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Last Updated on April 9, 2020

How To Trust Your Intuition When You’re Making a Decision

How To Trust Your Intuition When You’re Making a Decision

When you have an important decision to make, what is the first thing you do?

You want to know if your decision is right or wrong because, of course, you want to make the right choice. Do you go to friends hoping they will tell you? Do you agonize over it writing lists? Or have you ever tried to feel into the wisdom of your body? We all have the ability to read the body’s signs – inwards and out. But not everyone knows how to listen and trust your intuition.

You may have noticed two voices in your head arguing back and forth. They can get loud and confusing because they both seem concerned for your well-being.

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So which one is your inner knowing and which is simply resistant? You can tell through the simple exercise of slowing down, breathing deeply and tuning into your body. You will notice very real signs.

Everyone can tune into their intuition with the simple exercise outlined below. If you want to know how to trust your intuition, read on.

The Golden Rule

A rising, light and expansive feeling in your heart is a yes. A sinking, contracting and heavy feeling in your gut is a maybe or a no, which are both a no. The best way to access these feelings is by slowing down with a deep breath.

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Access Your Inner Guidance

Think of a simple decision you have to make that has two sides to it. Forgetting your background stories, take each at a time and sort of role play as you alternate each option in your mind.

Don’t go into the details of how you’ll get there or how a certain person might feel about it. Drop the stories and worries around it, simply be with one option, as though it is your choice. Remember, you can always pick up your concerns again right afterwards, if you want!

Bring option A into your mind like you are already there. It doesn’t have to be super specific, just imagine it is the direction you take. Start with the breath because it is clearing, it resets your nervous system and brings you to be completely present. Begin with your long, deep breath, exhaling all the way out.

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As you sit there and think of option A, notice what is happening in your body. What sensations are there, and where? Do you feel a buzzing in a limb or a prickling sensation? Maybe butterflies in your stomach? Sit with it, not judging it. Simply take note of what your body is telling you. If it is light and expansive then you have a good option. Now, take another breath to clear out option A.

Next you will probably notice feelings in different parts of your body as you focus on option B. Again, drop the fear and doubt you might have around it. Let yourself imagine (just for now) that this is what you’re choosing. Your breath is so important in this because it slows you down and connects you with your inner guidance. Give yourself that few extra seconds to deepen your breath. It will help you feel incredibly clear.

Become curious about the feelings in your body and how they are different from the last option. What do they mean? The answer is always in the weight of them. If they rise and feel light, you have your yes. The option that feels shrouded, heavier, contracted and sinking deeper in your stomach is the warning. It sounds simplistic, because it is.

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Your body has a profound and simple wisdom. When you let go of old expectations and open up to myriad possibilities, you can easily feel the best avenue to take simply by following what feels best. This is an important key in manifestation because how you feel at the start of any endeavor is generally how it will play out. So the lighter you feel about a situation, the happier it will be.

The Bottom Line

A special thing about intuition is that it never explains, it simply points the way. It may not always seem logical, but if it feels best then it will lead you to your success.

Remember, you need not to explain yourself either. Your internal yes will always be with you. The more you practice this and follow your internal yes, the stronger it will become and the more confidence you will gain! Soon you will notice it to be second nature, and the answer will come to you in a heart beat.

How have you connected to your intuition? We would love to hear how this exercise works for you. Where did you feel the yes or the no in your body? 

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