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The 36 Most Important Questions You Will Ever Ask In Your Love Life

The 36 Most Important Questions You Will Ever Ask In Your Love Life

Sometimes, people meet strangers who suddenly become friends – they get closer and perhaps become lovers. Sounds pretty easy, right? But hey! Without the proper steps, it’s never an easy task to achieve. Many people lose their possible lovers because they fail to get along or ask the right questions. Here’s the big one; Josh Haner in his article, Try the 36 Questions on the Way to Love, gives an in-depth insight into how mutual vulnerability calls for more intimacy. Apparently, Josh Haner’s article will make you understand how to find your love and foster closeness in no much time.

36 questions to finding your love!

Getting to know someone, and suddenly a developing friendship could be quite a herculean task if the proper steps are not taken. Haner’s article will not just open your eyes into what being in love is, instead it would go deep to give you access to 36 questions that can make you get closer to a stranger, and perhaps become lovers. If you’ve ever come across a stranger that you admired so much to the point that you wish you had talked to him/her, then you can attest to the fact that throwing friendly questions matters on your way to love. You don’t need to be caught up in such scenario anymore if you can lay your hands on Haner’s work and follow the instructions diligently.

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Am I doing it right?

Often, I wonder what stops me from walking up to a stranger, start up a conversation and not sound boring. Perhaps I lack what to say or ask – this is common to many people nowadays, and that’s where John Haner’s work and the guide come to play. You just need to know the questions to chip in at that beginning time to win the stranger’s heart and get closer.

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Get this; mutual vulnerability fosters closeness, and you may not get close to a stranger if you cannot be bold and ask series of personal and friendly questions. You’ll be doing yourself right to read this article. Then you’ll learn how to improve your love life and get along with strangers without hassle. To read the full article, click here.

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Anna Chui

Anna is a communication expert and a life enthusiast. She's the editor of Lifehack and loves to write about love, life, and passion.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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