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The Only Guide You Need for the Best Movies to Watch

The Only Guide You Need for the Best Movies to Watch

Everyone of us has a list of movies that have great impact in life: movies that inspire us when we’re lost in life; movies that cheer us up when we feel hopeless; and movies that bring us laughter when we want a break from the hectic life.

Here’s a list of great movies to watch that’s handpicked by Lifehack’s editors, from original movies to adaptations, from romance to fantasy, comedy and documentary. You will surely find some that fit what you need.

Motivational Movies That Lift You Up

35 Inspirational Movies That Will Change Your Life

Life-changing movies like Spirited Away and Life of Pi can perhaps help you discover the deeper meaning of life.

5 Movies That Will Have A Profound Impact On Your Life

‘If you want something, go get it.’ This is what we learn from the movie, The Pursuit of Happyness. Great movies like this can always teach us valuable life lessons.

20 Movies For People Who Are Having A Quarter-Life Crisis

When you’re in your late 20s and early 30s, do you feel like trapping in your job or relationship? Movies like Silver Linings Playbook and About Time are best for your quarter-life motivations.

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30 Movies You Should Watch Before 40

Turning 40 doesn’t mean getting old but being a little wiser and a little more mature. With this list, by the time you’re 40 you can say you know a little something about going through different life stages.

5 Feel Good Movies Guaranteed To Lift Your Spirits

Things don’t always happen as you wish and we all know that. But when the moment comes, all you need is the cure to help you cry it out, laugh out loud to start feeling better.

10 Movies You Should Watch To Boost Your Mood And Energy

There are films that make you cry (when you need a good cry), and help you vent your frustrations and enliven you.

Inspirational Movies That Lead You To Success

4 Awe-inspring Movies That Will Inspire the Bill Gates out of You

If you want to be like Bill Gates and create your own success in career, you should not miss these inspiring movies.

10 Movies You Need To Watch To Be More Successful

Sometimes a movie could be our motivational bridge to the success we truly desire. After watching these movies, you will come to know what kind of success you’re looking for.

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10 Movies Every Entrepreneur Should Watch

If you are preparing yourself to become an entrepreneur, you must watch these movies which get you the inspirations you need.

Joyful Movies To Watch With Your Kids And Families

16 Inspiring Movies To Watch With Children

These movies and fun animations deliver meaningful messages to kids and are really fun to watch.

10 Must Watch Movies To Share With Your Families (Especially During Christmas!)

These heart-warming Christmas movies are the best movie ideas for you to share with your families!

Classic Movies to Enjoy With Your Kids Even Though It’s Not Christmas Time

If you just want to stay at home and spend some quiet time with your kids, here’s a list of classic Christmas movies that all kids would love. Because all kids love Christmas!

Romantic Movies To Watch With Your Other Half

20 Best Romantic Movies to Watch on Valentine’s Day

Other than Titanic and Love, Actually, there are still a number of movies that would make you feel loved. What’s better than spending a movie night with your other half?

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Documentaries That Reveal The Unknown Side Of The World

21 Inspirational Documentaries That Will Change How You See the World

Documentaries are grounded in true stories and they can inspire in a way fictionalized films can’t. From the power of nature to the hidden truth of a person, all these are intriguing.

50 Best Documentaries Of All Time That Will Change Your Life

Documentaries have the potential to change your life, whether this involves a glimpse at the life of an unhealthy adult or traveling with a flock of animals.

Adapted Movies That Put Real Stories And Fiction On Screen

15 Classic Movies That Are Based On Real Stories

Have you ever wondered how it feels like when your life story is put on screen? Powerful stories like The Pianist are great examples of how talented producers turn real stories into fascinating movies.

20 Amazing Novels You Should Read Before You Watch The Movies Based on Them

Many blockbusters are adapted from great novels. Apart from reading the novels, you shouldn’t miss their adapted movies as they visualize your favorite characters on screen.

EXTRA! Too Good To Miss: Unnoticed Best Movies Of All Time

Best 25 Films In The 21st Century That You Should Not Miss (Concluded by BBC)

This list of amazing movies are concluded by BBC. There’re many amazing films released over the last 17 years. They’re all amazing in their unique way and some of them really stand out from others.

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12 Best Foreign Movies Of All Time That Will Expand Your Worldview

Not all foreign movies are boring or slow-paced, many in fact offer eye-opening insights. To truly enjoy the wide variety of films that’s out there, you can’t miss these impressive foreign films.

40 Best Indie Movies of All Time

There are blockbusters and then there are indie films which work with a limited budget and are produced independently. But these independent movies are often great ones.

10 Iconic Movies from the 90s

Most people don’t understand the nostalgia embedded with the 90s, but it’s easy to explain it once you know the immense amount of lifestyle improvements achieved in just ten years, and how it responds to a different uprising.

9 Movies You Would Love to Watch if You Know They Exist in 2015

Throughout 2015, there are so many blockbusters that you probably have watched, yet there are always some hidden gems that are yet to be discovered.

30 Best Movies of All Time

What makes a movie great? These 30 movies will tell you why some stand the test of time while others slowly (or rather quickly) lose their value.

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Narcissistic Personality: What Is It and How to Deal with a Narcissist?

Narcissistic Personality: What Is It and How to Deal with a Narcissist?

He asks you for your opinion, but only follows his own advice regardless of what you say.She loves to talk about herself, everything about her is just better than you.  When you try to share anything happy about yourself, she seriously doubts it.

If you know someone who acts like these examples, there’s a chance they might be a narcissist.

What is a narcissistic personality?

Narcissism is a spectrum personality disorder which most of us have.

In popular culture, narcissism is interpreted as a person who’s in love with themselves, more accurately, their idealized selves. Narcissists believe that they are too unique to be understood and that they are so good that they demand for admiration from others.

Psychologist Stephen Johnson writes that,[1]

the narcissist is someone who has buried his true self-expression in response to early injuries and replaced it with a highly developed, compensatory false self.

The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) describes narcissistic personality as a personality disorder. It is a spectrum disorder, which means it exists on a continuum ranging from some narcissistic traits to the full-blown personality disorder.[2]

Narcissistic Personality Disorder is not very common, but the truth is, we all have some of the narcissistic traits.

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Traits of a narcissist:

  • They have a deep need for admiration and validation. They think they’re special and too unique to be understood.
  • They feel they are superior to other. They achieve more and know a lot more than you.
  • They do not show their vulnerabilities. They fear what others think of them and they want to remain superior in all situations.
  • They are unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others. They want to be the centre of attention and believe that showing emotions is a sign of weakness.
  • They are skilled manipulators and are emotionally abusive. They know how to make use of their charm to take advantage of others to get what they want.

How are narcissists different from others?

Narcissism expert and the author of Narcissism in a Nutshell, Zari Ballard, tried to answer some common questions asked by non-narcissists about what a narcissist thinks and feels from a narcissist’s perspective.[3]

Do narcissists know they are narcissists and are they happy?

We could really care less about how others feel. We enjoy our so called cold existence. True narcissists don’t want to change. We feel in total control of our lives using this method.

Do narcissists know or understand right from wrong?

Narcissists know the difference between right and wrong because they understand cause and effect. There is no “guilty conscience” giving them a clue and they are displaying the symptom of being “indifferent to social norms” while most likely presenting as ‘cold-hearted.’

Narcissists have a very different thinking mechanism. They see things from a different perspective. Unlike non-narcissists and empaths, they don’t have much sympathy and are reluctant to show emotions to others.

Why do people become narcissists?

1. Narcissism is vulnerability taken to an extreme.

The root of a narcissistic personality is a strong resistance to feeling vulnerable with anyone.[4]

Narcissists refuse to put themselves in a position where they feel vulnerable. They fear that others will take advantage of their weaknesses, so they learn to camouflage their weaknesses by acting strong and powerful. The think showing emotions to others is a sign of weakness, so they learn to hide their emotions and act cold-hearted most of the times.

Narcissists live in a state of anxiety because they are highly aware of their emotions and how others think of them.

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Vulnerability aversion, is the root of a narcissistic personality.

2. A narcissistic personality could be a result of a wounded past.

Narcissists are desperate to seek validation constantly because they either didn’t feel worthwhile and valued in the past, or were being paid too much attention as the most precious and unique one in the world.

Faulty or inadequate parenting, for example a lack of limit setting, is believed to be a major cause, and both permissive and authoritarian styles of parenting have been found to promote narcissistic symptoms.[5]

Both parents who fail to see the worth in a child, and parents who spoil and give excessive praise to the child promote narcissism as the child grows. While the former ones make the child feel inferior of others and want to get more attention, the latter ones encourage an idealized-self in the child.

How to deal with a narcissist?

1. If someone close to you is a narcissist, embrace the differences.

There’re different personality types and not everyone will think and act the same as you do. Instead of trying to change others, learn to accept the differences and strike a balance when you really have to communicate with them.

2. Don’t try to change them, focus on your own needs.

Try to understand that narcissists are resistant to change, it’s more important for you to see who they really are, instead of who you want them to be. Focus on how you feel, and what you want yourself to be.

Embrace the fact that there’re different types of personality and the only thing you can control is your attitude and your own actions.

3. Recognize what they do only comes from their insecurity.

Narcissists are quite vulnerable deep inside, they question others because that’s how they can make themselves feel better.

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When you learn that what a narcissist does to you is nothing personal, but something that comes from their insecurity, you know that sometimes they just need a certain amount of reassurance.

This is especially important if the narcissist is someone you have to closely work with, or if they’re your family member. The right amount of reassurance can calm them down and get the tasks on hand completed.

4. Ask them what would others think instead of what’d others feel.[6]

Narcissists don’t feel guilty, but they care about how others think of them deep in their heart.

Clinical psychologist Al Bernstein explains:

There are just things, like other people’s feelings, that narcissists rarely consider. If you have their ear, don’t tell them how people might react; instead, ask probing questions. Narcissists are much more likely to act on ideas that they think they thought up themselves.

If you have to work with a narcissist closely, focus on the facts and ideas, not the emotions.

5. Let go of the need of getting a narcissist’s approval.

You’re not who a narcissist says you are. Don’t let their blame game undermine your self-esteem, and don’t argue with them just to defend what you believe is right.

There is no point arguing with a narcissist just to prove them wrong because they will not give in proving themselves right. It’s more likely that you’ll get more upset when they disagree with you in an unpleasant way.

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Know your own worth and detach from a narcissist’s opinion on you.

6. If a narcissist is hurting you, stay away from them.

Remember, a healthy relationship is two-sided. It’s about mutual respect and it’s based on give and take. But any kind of relationship with a narcissist is likely to be the contrary, it’s about making the narcissist happy and constantly supporting them. A relationship like this will only weigh you down and is unhealthy for your growth.

7. Set a boundary and always keep it.

If you’re setting a boundary, you have to be willing to keep it. When a narcissist sees that you’re trying to take back control of your life, they will try to test your limits, it’s just their instinct to do it.

Be prepared that your boundary will be challenged. Make your boundary clear, have all the actions needed to be taken in your mind.

For example, if you have decided to stop communicating with them, they will likely to show up in front of you just to talk to you. Be brave enough to keep your boundary, don’t back down and get close to them again; or else they will not take your boundary seriously any more.

8. Learn when to walk away.

When a narcissist starts to make you feel uncomfortable and doubt about yourself, it’s time to pick yourself up and give yourself enough respect to just walk away from them.

If you’re in love with a narcissist, you should seriously think about ending the relationship and move on for a better life. If the narcissist is your family member, you don’t have to be cruel to them, but it’s better to keep distance from them.

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