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A Leadership Handbook for Anyone Who Aspires to Be a Great Leader

A Leadership Handbook for Anyone Who Aspires to Be a Great Leader

Every day you hear about it: Why some leaders are better than others? Why some are bosses while others are leaders? How to become a good leader? What are the qualities of a leader? From world leaders to team leaders at work, leadership seems to be something that can’t be detached from our lives. But why is that and what really makes up an incredible leader?

The Necessity of Leadership

If We’re All Talented People, Why Do We Still Need a Leader?

From ancient times to in the information age these days, to survive, human beings needed an organized way to settle and grow. Such organization was necessary to maintain control and protect our settlements.

True Leadership Enables People to Work Toward the Same Goal Together.

With a good leader, people are motivated to grow and will perform their best to reach the goal.

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The Impact of Leadership

How Becoming a Manager Is Different From Becoming a Leader

Managing and leading is different. With a great leadership, people are happier and more productive. Yet with a poor leadership, people have low morale and are likely to fail to achieve their goals.

Why It Is Wrong to Glorify a Leader and Belittle a Follower

It is not correct to have the pervasive notion that being good at following others is a negative trait. Even though it is important to have a leader, it doesn’t make it less important to have followers. Simply put, leaders don’t exist without followers.

How to Become a Truly Great Leader

What Separates a Leader from a Boss

10 Differences Between A Boss And A Real Leader

It takes more than just bossing people around to be a leader.

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Why Everyone Loves the Leader Instead of the Boss

A happy and motivated team comes from their leader’s positive attitude. Even in the worst situations such as experiencing low team morale or facing a failure, a great leader stays positive and figure out ways to keep the team motivated to solve the problems together.

10 Signs of A Charismatic Leader

It’s imperative for a leader to have a sense of humor, particularly when things go wrong. Being approachable is an important quality for a leader because no one wants to work with an arrogant person who is not opened for communication.

How Leadership is Related to Personality Types

No Matter What Your Personality Is, You Have the Potential to Lead

When it comes to leadership, it really doesn’t matter what personality type you are. Whether you’re an introvert, extrovert or ambivert, becoming a leader is more about the skills and attitude.

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This is Why Introverts Can Be Good Leaders

In the past, extroverted people seemed to have a higher chance to become a leader. But obviously these days, we witness success achieved by many introverted leaders such as Bill Gates, Warren Buffett and Larry Page.

How to Develop a Unique Leading Style

What Is Your Leadership Style And How To Become A Charismatic Leader

All great leaders excel a unique leading style. They are all charismatic for a different reason. While each leading style has its strengths and weaknesses, great leaders can strike a balance when leading the team in different situations.

Why Faking Another Leadership Style Is Doomed to Fail

Great leaders stay true to themselves without faking another leading style because they understand that no leadership is perfect. What they can control to make things better is amplifying their strengths.

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Good Reads to Consider on Leadership

15 Best Leadership Books Every Young Leader Needs To Read

This list of the 15 best leadership books will inform and inspire all aspiring leaders.

10 Books You Must Read to Strengthen Your Leadership Skills

If you are determined to better your leadership skills, add these 10 books to your reading list.

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Last Updated on March 31, 2020

How To Break the Procrastination Cycle

How To Break the Procrastination Cycle

How often do you find yourself procrastinating? Do you wish you could procrastinate less? We all know how debilitating procrastination can make us feel, and it seems to be a challenge we all share. Procrastination is one of the biggest hindrances to moving forward and doing the things that we want to in life.

There are many reasons why you might be procrastinating, and sometimes, it is really difficult to pinpoint why. You might be procrastinating because of something related to the past, present, or future (they are all intertwined), or it could be as simple as biological factors. Whatever the reason, most of us follow a cycle when we procrastinate, from the moment we decide to do something to actually getting it done, or in this case, not getting it done.

The Vicious Procrastination Cycle

For some reason, it helps to understand that we all go through the same thing, even though we often feel like the only person in the world who struggles with this. Do you resonate with the cycle below?

1. Feeling Eager and Energized

This is when you commit to taking a new action or getting something done. You are feeling confident and optimistic that, this time round, you will do it!

2. Apprehension Starts to Come Up

The beginning stages of optimism are starting to fade. There is still time, but you haven’t done anything yet, and you start to feel uneasy. You realize that you actually have to do something to get it done, and that good intentions are not enough.

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3. Still No Action

More time has passed. You still haven’t taken any action and probably have a lot of excuses why. You start to panic a little and wish you had started sooner. Your panic starts to turn into frustration and perhaps even irritability.

4. Flicker of Hope Left

You can still make it; there is a little time left and you ponder how you are going to get it done. The rush you get from leaving your task until the last minute gives you a flicker of hope. There is still time; you can do this!

5. Fading Quickly

Your hope starts to quickly fade as you try desperately to understand why you just can’t do this. You may feel desperate and have thoughts like, “What is wrong with me?” and “Why do I ALWAYS do this?” You feel discouraged, or perhaps angry and resentful at yourself.

6. Vow to Yourself

Once the feeling of anger or disappointment disappears, you most likely swear to yourself that this will never happen again; that this was the last time and next time will be different.

Does this sound like you? Is the next time different? I understand the devastating effect that procrastination has on many lives, and for some, it is a really serious problem. You also have, on the other hand, those who procrastinate but it doesn’t affect them in any way. You know whether it is affecting you or not and whether it undermines your results.

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How to Break the Procrastination Cycle

Unless you break the cycle, you will keep reinforcing it!

To break the cycle, you need to change the sequence of events. Here is my suggestion on how you can effectively break the vicious cycle you are in!

1. Feeling Eager and Energized

This is when you commit to taking a new action or getting something done. You are feeling confident and optimistic that, this time round, you will do it! The first stage is always the same.

2. Plan

Thinking alone will not help; you need to plan your actions. I always put my deadlines one or two days in advance because you know Murphy’s Law! Take into consideration everything that you need to do, how long it will take you, and what you will need to get it done, then plan the individual steps.

3. Resistance

Just because you planned doesn’t mean that this time is guaranteed to be different. You will most likely still feel the resistance so expect this. This stage is key to identifying why you are procrastinating, so when you feel the resistance, try to identify it immediately.

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What is causing you to hesitate in this moment? What do you feel?  Write them down if it helps.

4. Confront Those Feelings

Once you have identified what could possibly be holding you back, for example, fear of failure, lack of motivation, etc. You need to work on lessening the resistance.

Ask yourself, “What do I need to do to move forward? What would make it easier?” If you find that you fear something, overcoming that fear is not something that will happen overnight — keep this in mind.

5. Put Results Before Comfort

You need to keep moving forward and put results before comfort. Take action, even if it is only for 10 minutes. The key is to break the cycle and not reinforce it. You have more control that you think.

6. Repeat

Repeat steps 3-5 until you achieve what you first set out to do.

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Final Thoughts

Change doesn’t happen overnight, and if you have some deeper underlying reasons why you procrastinate, it may take longer to finally break the cycle.

If procrastination is holding you back in life, it is better to deal with it now than to deal with the negative consequences later on. It is not a question of comfort anymore; it is a question of results. What is more important to you?

Learn more about how to stop procrastinating here: What Is Procrastination and How to Stop It (The Complete Guide)

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