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A Leadership Handbook for Anyone Who Aspires to Be a Great Leader

A Leadership Handbook for Anyone Who Aspires to Be a Great Leader

Every day you hear about it: Why some leaders are better than others? Why some are bosses while others are leaders? How to become a good leader? What are the qualities of a leader? From world leaders to team leaders at work, leadership seems to be something that can’t be detached from our lives. But why is that and what really makes up an incredible leader?

The Necessity of Leadership

If We’re All Talented People, Why Do We Still Need a Leader?

From ancient times to in the information age these days, to survive, human beings needed an organized way to settle and grow. Such organization was necessary to maintain control and protect our settlements.

True Leadership Enables People to Work Toward the Same Goal Together.

With a good leader, people are motivated to grow and will perform their best to reach the goal.

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The Impact of Leadership

How Becoming a Manager Is Different From Becoming a Leader

Managing and leading is different. With a great leadership, people are happier and more productive. Yet with a poor leadership, people have low morale and are likely to fail to achieve their goals.

Why It Is Wrong to Glorify a Leader and Belittle a Follower

It is not correct to have the pervasive notion that being good at following others is a negative trait. Even though it is important to have a leader, it doesn’t make it less important to have followers. Simply put, leaders don’t exist without followers.

How to Become a Truly Great Leader

What Separates a Leader from a Boss

10 Differences Between A Boss And A Real Leader

It takes more than just bossing people around to be a leader.

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Why Everyone Loves the Leader Instead of the Boss

A happy and motivated team comes from their leader’s positive attitude. Even in the worst situations such as experiencing low team morale or facing a failure, a great leader stays positive and figure out ways to keep the team motivated to solve the problems together.

10 Signs of A Charismatic Leader

It’s imperative for a leader to have a sense of humor, particularly when things go wrong. Being approachable is an important quality for a leader because no one wants to work with an arrogant person who is not opened for communication.

How Leadership is Related to Personality Types

No Matter What Your Personality Is, You Have the Potential to Lead

When it comes to leadership, it really doesn’t matter what personality type you are. Whether you’re an introvert, extrovert or ambivert, becoming a leader is more about the skills and attitude.

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This is Why Introverts Can Be Good Leaders

In the past, extroverted people seemed to have a higher chance to become a leader. But obviously these days, we witness success achieved by many introverted leaders such as Bill Gates, Warren Buffett and Larry Page.

How to Develop a Unique Leading Style

What Is Your Leadership Style And How To Become A Charismatic Leader

All great leaders excel a unique leading style. They are all charismatic for a different reason. While each leading style has its strengths and weaknesses, great leaders can strike a balance when leading the team in different situations.

Why Faking Another Leadership Style Is Doomed to Fail

Great leaders stay true to themselves without faking another leading style because they understand that no leadership is perfect. What they can control to make things better is amplifying their strengths.

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Good Reads to Consider on Leadership

15 Best Leadership Books Every Young Leader Needs To Read

This list of the 15 best leadership books will inform and inspire all aspiring leaders.

10 Books You Must Read to Strengthen Your Leadership Skills

If you are determined to better your leadership skills, add these 10 books to your reading list.

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Last Updated on July 10, 2020

The Power of Ritual: Conquer Procrastination, Time Wasters and Laziness

The Power of Ritual: Conquer Procrastination, Time Wasters and Laziness

Life is wasted in the in-between times. The time between when your alarm first rings and when you finally decide to get out of bed. The time between when you sit at your desk and when productive work begins. The time between making a decision and doing something about it.

Slowly, your day is whittled away from all the unused in-between moments. Eventually, time wasters, laziness, and procrastination get the better of you.

The solution to reclaim these lost middle moments is by creating rituals. Every culture on earth uses rituals to transfer information and encode behaviors that are deemed important. Personal rituals can help you build a better pattern for handling everything from how you wake up to how you work.

Unfortunately, when most people see rituals, they see pointless superstitions. Indeed, many rituals are based on a primitive understanding of the world. But by building personal rituals, you get to encode the behaviors you feel are important and cut out the wasted middle moments.

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Program Your Own Algorithms

Another way of viewing rituals is by seeing them as computer algorithms. An algorithm is a set of instructions that is repeated to get a result.

Some algorithms are highly efficient, sorting or searching millions of pieces of data in a few seconds. Other algorithms are bulky and awkward, taking hours to do the same task.

By forming rituals, you are building algorithms for your behavior. Take the delayed and painful pattern of waking up, debating whether to sleep in for another two minutes, hitting the snooze button, repeat until almost late for work. This could be reprogrammed to get out of bed immediately, without debating your decision.

How to Form a Ritual

I’ve set up personal rituals for myself for handling e-mail, waking up each morning, writing articles, and reading books. Far from making me inflexible, these rituals give me a useful default pattern that works best 99% of the time. Whenever my current ritual won’t work, I’m always free to stop using it.

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Forming a ritual isn’t too difficult, and the same principles for changing habits apply:

  1. Write out your sequence of behavior. I suggest starting with a simple ritual of only 3-4 steps maximum. Wait until you’ve established a ritual before you try to add new steps.
  2. Commit to following your ritual for thirty days. This step will take the idea and condition it into your nervous system as a habit.
  3. Define a clear trigger. When does your ritual start? A ritual to wake up is easy—the sound of your alarm clock will work. As for what triggers you to go to the gym, read a book or answer e-mail—you’ll have to decide.
  4. Tweak the Pattern. Your algorithm probably won’t be perfectly efficient the first time. Making a few tweaks after the first 30-day trial can make your ritual more useful.

Ways to Use a Ritual

Based on the above ideas, here are some ways you could implement your own rituals:

1. Waking Up

Set up a morning ritual for when you wake up and the next few things you do immediately afterward. To combat the grogginess after immediately waking up, my solution is to do a few pushups right after getting out of bed. After that, I sneak in ninety minutes of reading before getting ready for morning classes.

2. Web Usage

How often do you answer e-mail, look at Google Reader, or check Facebook each day? I found by taking all my daily internet needs and compressing them into one, highly-efficient ritual, I was able to cut off 75% of my web time without losing any communication.

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3. Reading

How much time do you get to read books? If your library isn’t as large as you’d like, you might want to consider the rituals you use for reading. Programming a few steps to trigger yourself to read instead of watching television or during a break in your day can chew through dozens of books each year.

4. Friendliness

Rituals can also help with communication. Set up a ritual of starting a conversation when you have opportunities to meet people.

5. Working

One of the hardest barriers when overcoming procrastination is building up a concentrated flow. Building those steps into a ritual can allow you to quickly start working or continue working after an interruption.

6. Going to the gym

If exercising is a struggle, encoding a ritual can remove a lot of the difficulty. Set up a quick ritual for going to exercise right after work or when you wake up.

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7. Exercise

Even within your workouts, you can have rituals. Spacing the time between runs or reps with a certain number of breaths can remove the guesswork. Forming a ritual of doing certain exercises in a particular order can save time.

8. Sleeping

Form a calming ritual in the last 30-60 minutes of your day before you go to bed. This will help slow yourself down and make falling asleep much easier. Especially if you plan to get up full of energy in the morning, it will help if you remove insomnia.

8. Weekly Reviews

The weekly review is a big part of the GTD system. By making a simple ritual checklist for my weekly review, I can get the most out of this exercise in less time. Originally, I did holistic reviews where I wrote my thoughts on the week and progress as a whole. Now, I narrow my focus toward specific plans, ideas, and measurements.

Final Thoughts

We all want to be productive. But time wasters, procrastination, and laziness sometimes get the better of us. If you’re facing such difficulties, don’t be afraid to make use of these rituals to help you conquer them.

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