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40 Communication Skills for Lifelong Success and Happiness

40 Communication Skills for Lifelong Success and Happiness

How many times have you heard that good communication is important, without being told what that actually means?

This article will give you tons of helpful, specific communication skills that you can start learning right away.

Being able to communicate better could:

  • Improve your relationship
  • Help you get along better with family and friends
  • Reduce feelings of social anxiety
  • Help you to get the career you want
  • Make other people enjoy speaking to you more
  • Increase your self-worth
  • Allow you to help others more effectively
  • Reduce conflicts and arguments

Are you ready to seriously boost your communication skills? Let’s go.

Communication skills at work

Learning to communicate well at work means you’ll get along better with coworkers, perform better, and be more likely to get the promotions you want.

How to give compliments

How to keep your team happy and motivated as a manager.

How to receive constructive criticism.

How to manage workplace conflicts.

How to deal with a co-worker you don’t like.

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How to be confident without coming across as arrogant.

How to give helpful feedback.

How to leave a job on good terms .

How to deal with an angry customer.

How to fire an employee.

Communication skills in relationships

Communication is so important in a relationship. Learn to weather the bad times as well as the good with these key skills.

How to argue constructively with your partner.

How to have a great first date.

How to ask somebody out on a date.

How to spend more quality time with your partner.

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How to get to know your partner better.

How to make up after arguments.

How to take a compliment.

How to stop lying and be honest.

How to meet your partner’s family for the first time.

Communication skills with friends

Friendships can be just as complicated as relationships, and being able to communicate well makes everything easier. Make friends for life by following these tips.

How to come across as funny.

How to make conversation with new people.

How to comfort a crying person.

How to listen effectively to others.

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How to keep a conversation going

How to say no to an invitation.

How to be a good roommate.

How to end a friendship.

How to reconnect with old friends.

How to use body language to communicate.

Communication skills with family

We all have a family of some kind, whether we like them or not. Learning to communicate well cuts down on arguments and strengthens your bond with parents, siblings and extended family members.

How to communicate with moody teenagers.

How to get along better with your parents.

How to deal with big family gatherings.

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How to have fun with your siblings.

How to talk to elderly relatives.

How to play with children.

How to become closer to your family.

How to stay connected when you don’t live near family.

How to balance work and family life.

How to avoid toxic family members.

Strong communication skills make almost every situation easier. Take some time to learn them now and your future self will thank you.

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Last Updated on April 1, 2019

How to Be Happy: Why Pursuing Happiness Will Make You Unhappy

How to Be Happy: Why Pursuing Happiness Will Make You Unhappy

When we talk about happiness, we often think about staying happy all the time – every single day, every single minute with zero negativity. Many try to pursue this constant state of “happiness” as their ultimate goal, and avoid anything that may take it away from them.

But, what is the meaning of this type of “happiness”?

It’s a lot like your favorite food. The more often you have it isn’t always better. On the contrary, when you only have a chance to eat it sparingly, that’s when you really savor every bite. So is it the food itself that makes you happy, or is it how valuable it is to you when you are eating it?

Always remember that only by experiencing sadness do we understand what it is to be happy.

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Don’t Assume Others Are Always Happy

Most people see those who have seemingly perfect lives and assume they are happy all the time. Since childhood, we are conditioned to chase the idea of “happily-ever-after” that we see in fairytales. On social media, everyone tends to share only the best looking aspects of their lives. So, it’s very easy to have a distorted view of what “happiness” is around us.

In reality, there is always something missing, something lacking, or something unpleasant.

No one has a perfect life. Even the most glamorous celebrities or the richest billionaires have their own set of challenges and problems.

When we feel negative, we’re only focusing on a small fluctuating curve. As CEO of Lifehack, I’ve had to deal with countless problems, and some of them felt like real setbacks at the time. During those moments, it really seemed like these problems would be the life or death of my company and my life goals. But, I got through them; and, weeks, months and eventually years passed with many more ups and downs.

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You need to keep your sights on the extended curve.  Looking back now, a lot of those “really big” problems at the time now seem like only small blips in a long line of experiences. Recalling them in my mind now makes me smile!

Stop Trying to Be Happy–Just Be

It’s natural to want to be happy as often as possible.

So what can we do?

First, throw away the belief that a perfect life means happiness. Personally, I would be miserable if everything was perfect. It’s through experiencing the pains of lifelong challenges that drives us to care for others when they are experiencing similar trials. If life was perfect, you wouldn’t be able to empathize. If life was perfect, you wouldn’t grow.

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To be truly happy, stop chasing permanent happiness.

It sounds like a paradox. But, what I mean is to accept that there will be ups and downs throughout life. Gracefully understand that happiness is a fluctuation of positive and negative events.

Understand the importance of gratitude. Instead of focusing on the unpleasant moment, flash back your memory to when you didn’t have something. I like to think about my career, for example. When I didn’t have a career I was passionate about, I felt lost and demotivated. I felt like everyone was figuring out their lives but me. But, when I found my purpose and started Lifehack, I was deeply happy, even before I realized I would be successful! This memory keeps me going when I hit tough spots. It takes the darkness to make us grateful for the light.

Happiness and Sadness Exist Together

What it all comes down to is this: your life will be filled with beautiful, happy and incredible moments–happy tears and joyous shouts and funny stories. But, your life will also be filled with rain and storms that never seem like they will pass while you’re going through them.

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But, whether your face is warmed by the sunshine, or your heart is dampened by the rain, know that it’s all part of the ebb and flow of life.

Treasure the happy moments and power through the sad ones. Don’t try to avoid “sad” or “negative” experiences, and blindly chase being “happy”. In the end you will achieve a true level of contentment in your life, based on meaningful experiences and achievements. Being able to create growth and meaning out of both positive and negative events — that is the true meaning of “happiness”.

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