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The Best Jobs To Excel The Ability and Talent of introverts!

The Best Jobs To Excel The Ability and Talent of introverts!

We are not all meant to be social butterflies. For many of us the opposite holds true. The very thought of socializing can give some a serious case of clammy hands and butterflies in the stomach. However, that doesn’t mean that introverts are not good at what they do or that they don’t excel in their careers!

The fact is that introverts, if left to their own devices in their peaceful, solitary work room with limited interaction, can produce exemplary work simply because they have the ability to intensely focus on the job at hand and produce quality. Many writers, designers, and programmers are introverts who cannot thrive in socially busy environments for long.

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This difference lies in the way the brains of extroverts and introverts react to stimuli. While extroverts love “buzz” and feel energized by it, introverts start to feel overstimulated very soon. [1] The key for them is to find the best jobs that suit their core skills and personalities.

How to Land the Best Jobs for Introverts

As an introvert who prefers limited interaction with people, jobs that involve socializing are off the menu. Besides, they are unlikely to require your core strengths. The first thing you need to do before starting to send applications is to figure out what job you would truly like to do.

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Begin by writing down your qualifications and core strengths.

Match your skill set with what you most like to do. For example, you may be a writer, but reporting and talking to people to collect information may not be your cup of tea, so think about becoming a work-at-home blogger instead. This will let your work in an environment you love, and help you produce the best quality work. [2]

  • Write detailed resumes that have all the information a recruiter needs, and feel free to put down your personality type as well. We live in the day and age where aggressiveness is valued, but not by everyone. Hand out detailed resumes to recruiters that don’t leave much to be asked at the interview, and honestly tell the people who are hiring about the environment in which you work best. [3]
    If they are hiring you for highly focused work, chances are they won’t care that you are not a social butterfly.
  • Ask yourself straight up questions before accepting a job offer. You applied to the right job in the right way and are now being offered a position. Before accepting, make sure that the company you are going to be joining understands your personality and will not force you to do things that are not up your alley.
    If they have no cabins, ask yourself if you will be okay working in an open environment surrounded by people. Do they want weekly presentations that you are uncomfortable giving? Do they insist on employee social interactions, and if so, are you okay with it? Don’t accept a job thinking you will be able to adapt. Introverts find it hard to work in an environment with distractions and stimulations.
    Find a job that values you for what you are, and does not try to change you. [4]

The 6 Best Jobs Introverts May Give A Try

Usually the best jobs for introverts are the ones that provide an environment that’s relaxing which allows for the most productivity in order to maximize their skill set. [5]

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  1. Animal Care:
    Introverts frequently find that working with animals is far more relaxing than working with most humans, so this is one area in which introverts with a love for animals and nature can excel. You could be something as highly qualified as a marine biologist, an animal explorer, or a veterinarian, or something as simple as a bee keeper or a pet care giver at a pet salon or animal hospital. Think “animals” and there’s so much an introvert can do with the right qualifications, or sometimes just a general interest. [6]
  2. Field Researcher:
    Introverts thrive in environments that are undisturbed by too many nosey faces or questions. If you are introverted with a love for science, the world is your oyster. You could study to be a geologist, an astronomer, an archeologist, a lab worker, or a medical researcher. If you are science-inclined, there’s no dearth of jobs for introverts. [7]
  3. Creative Corner:
    Love art, words, or music? Then being an introvert would be a boon for you because the ability to concentrate on the job at hand can make you an excellent artist, writer, or musician. You may be great at any other such creative pursuit. [8] A creative job gives you the license to be very introverted, for it is accepted for great writers and artists to not follow the norm and be lone wolves. They are all the more respected for it. [9]
  4. Tech Junkie:
    Programming, software development, app making, game designing – the world of IT is a wonderful one for introverts because it allows their high levels of concentration and single-mindedness to produce positive and useful results. It provides them an environment free of distraction in which they can truly thrive. [10]
  5. Data Cruncher:
    There are jobs at which no one dare disturb you while you are working. Think accounting, database management, librarian, auditing, archiving, etc. [11]
  6. Some Off-road Options:
    In case you are not concerned with earning much money, are okay with just about any kind of job, and totally abhor being around people, you can also choose jobs such as long-distance heavy machine driver (think trucks, trains and trailers), embalmer or mortician (the dead don’t interact much), junkyard owner (you can make money out of trash), or court reporter (seriously, all you have to do is listen and type.)

So introverts, while the world may not be verbally appreciative of you, we hope you know that you make the world go ’round and keep its cogs well-oiled in your unobtrusive and hard-working way. [12] Keep calm, and keep working!

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What Does Self-Conscious Mean? (And How to Stop Being It)

What Does Self-Conscious Mean? (And How to Stop Being It)

Have you ever walked into a room and felt like your nerves simply couldn’t handle it? Your heart beats fast, you start to sweat, and you feel like all eyes are on you (even if they’re really not). This is just one of the many ways that being self-conscious can rear its ugly head.

You may not even realize you’re self-conscious, and you may be wondering, “What does self-conscious mean?” That’s a good place to start.

This article will define self-consciousness, show how practically everyone has faced it at one point or another, and give you tips to avoid it.

What Does Self-Conscious Mean?

According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, self-conscious is defined as “conscious of one’s own acts or states as belonging to or originating in oneself.”[1]

Not so bad, right? There’s another definition, though — one that speaks more to what you’re going through: “feeling uncomfortably conscious of oneself as an object of the observation of others.” For those of us who regularly deal with extreme self-consciousness, that second definition sounds about right.

There are many different ways self-consciousness can spring up. You may feel self-conscious around people you know, like your family members or closest friends. You may feel self-conscious at work, even though you spend hours every week around your co-workers. Or you may feel self-conscious when out in public and surrounded by strangers. However, you probably don’t feel self-conscious when you’re home alone.

How to Stop Being Too Self-Conscious

When you’re in the throes of self-consciousness, it’s nearly impossible to remember how to stop feeling that way. That’s why it’s so important to prepare ahead of time, when you’re feeling ready to tackle the problem instead of succumbing to it.

Here are a variety of ways to feel better about yourself and stop thinking about how others see you.

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1. Ask Yourself, “So What?”

One way to banish negative, self-conscious thoughts is to do just that: banish them.

The next time you walk into a room and feel your face getting red, think to yourself, “So what?” How much does it really matter if people don’t like how you look or act? What’s the worst that could happen?

Most of the time, you’ll find that you don’t have a good answer to this question. Then, you can immediately start assigning such thoughts less importance. With self-awareness, you can acknowledge that your negative thoughts are present and realize that you don’t agree with them.[2] They’re just thoughts, after all.

2. Be Honest

A lie that self-consciousness might tell is that there’s one way to act or feel. Honestly, though, everyone else is just figuring life out as well. There isn’t a preferred way to show up to an event, gathering, or public place. What you can do is be honest with your feelings and thoughts.[3]

If you feel offended by something someone says, you don’t have to smile to be polite or laugh to fit in with the crowd. Instead, you can politely say why you disagree or excuse yourself and find a group of people who you relate to better. If you’re nervous, don’t overcompensate by trying to look relaxed and casual — it’ll be obvious you’re putting on a front. Instead, nothing is more endearing than saying, “I’m a little nervous!” to a room of people who probably feel the exact same way.

On the same note, if you don’t understand why someone wants you to do something, question it. You can do this at work, at home, or even with people you don’t know well. Nobody should force you to do something you don’t want to do.

Also, even if you’re willing to do what’s asked of you, there’s nothing wrong with asking for more clarification. People will realize that you’re not a person to be bossed around.

3. Understand Why You’re Struggling at Work

Being self-conscious at work can get in the way of your daily responsibilities, your relationships with co-workers, and even your career as a whole. If you’re facing some sort of conflict but you’re too nervous to speak up, you may be at the whim of what happens to you instead of taking some control.

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If you’re usually confident at work, you may be wondering where this new self-consciousness is coming from. It’s possible that you’re dealing with burnout.[4] Common signs are anxiety, fatigue and distraction, all of which can leave you feeling under-confident.

4. Succeed at Something

When you create success in your life, it’s easier to feel confident[5] and less self-conscious. If you feel self-conscious at work, finish the project that’s been looming over your head. If you feel self-conscious in the gym, complete an advanced workout class.

Exposing yourself to what you’re scared of and then succeeding at it in some way (even just by finishing it) can do wonders for your self-esteem. The more confidence you build, the more likely you are to have more success in the future, which will create a cycle of confidence-building.

5. Treat All of You — Not Just Your Self-Consciousness

Trying to solve your self-consciousness alone may not treat the root of the problem. Instead, take a well-rounded approach to lower your self-consciousness and build confidence in areas where you may struggle.

Even professional counselors are embracing this holistic type of treatment[6] because they feel that the health of the mind and body are inextricably linked. This approach combines physical, spiritual, and psychological components. Common activities and treatments include meditation, yoga, massage, and healthy changes to diet and exercise.

If much of this is new to you, it will pay to give it a try. You never know how it will impact you.

If you’re feeling self-conscious about how your body looks, a massage that makes you feel great could boost your confidence. If you try a new workout, you could have something exciting to talk about the next time you’re in a group setting.

Putting yourself in a new situation and learning that you can get through it with grace can give you the confidence to get through all sorts of events and nerve-wracking moments.

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6. Make the Changes That Are Within Your Control

Let’s say you walk into a room and you’re self-conscious about how you look. However, you may have put a lot of time and effort into your outfit. Even though it may stand out, this is how you have chosen to express yourself.

You have to work on your internal confidence, not your external appearance. There’s nothing to change other than your outlook.

On the other hand, maybe there’s something that you don’t like about yourself that you can change. For example, maybe you hate how a birthmark on your face looks or have varicose veins that you think are unsightly. If you can do something about these things, do it! There’s nothing wrong with changing your appearance (or skills, education, etc.) if it’s going to make you more confident.

You don’t have to accept your current situation for acceptance’s sake. There’s no award for putting up with something you hate. Confidence is also required to make changes that are scary, even if they’re for the better. Plus, it may be an easier fix than you thought. For example, treating varicose veins doesn’t have to involve surgery — sometimes simple compression stockings will take care of the problem.[7]

7. Realize That Everyone Has Awkward Moments

Everyone has said something awkward to someone else and lived to tell the tale. We’ve all forgotten somebody’s name or said, “You too!” when the concession stand girl says to enjoy our movie. Not only are these things uber-common, but they’re not nearly as embarrassing as you feel they are.

Think about how you react when someone else does something awkward. Do you think, “Wow, that person’s such a loser!” or do you think, “What a relief, I’m not the only one who does that.” Chances are good that’s the same reaction others have to you when you stumble.

Remember, self-consciousness is a state of mind that you have control over. You don’t have to feel this way. Do what you need to in order to build your confidence, put your self-consciousness in perspective, and start exercising your “I feel awesome about myself” muscle. It’ll get easier with time.

When Is Being Self-Conscious a Good Thing?

Self-consciousness can sometimes be a good thing[8], but you have to take the awkwardness and nerves out of it.

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In this case, “self-aware” is a much better term. Knowing how you come off to people is an excellent trait; you’ll be able to read a room and understand how what you do and say affects others. These are fantastic skills for people work and personal relationships.

Self-awareness helps you dress appropriately for the occasion, tells you that you’re talking too loud or not loud enough, and guides a conversation so you don’t offend or bore anyone.

It’s not about being someone you’re not — that can actually have adverse effects, just like self-consciousness. Instead, it’s about turning up certain aspects of yourself to perform well in the situation.

Final Thoughts

When you’re self-conscious, you’re constantly battling with yourself in an effort to control how other people view you. You try to change yourself to suit what you think other people want to see.

The truth, though, is that you can’t actually control how other people view you — and you may not even be correct about how they view you in the first place.

Being confident doesn’t happen overnight. Instead, it happens in small steps as you slowly build your confidence and say “no” to your self-consciousness. It also requires accepting that you’re going to feel self-conscious sometimes, and that’s okay.

Sometimes worrying that there is a problem can be more stressful than the problem itself. Feeling bad for feeling self-conscious can be more troublesome than simply feeling it and getting on with the day.

Forgive yourself for being human and make the small changes that will lead to better confidence in the future.

More Tips for Improving Your Self-Esteem

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Reference

[1] Merriam-Webster: Self-conscious
[2] Bustle: 7 Tips On How To Stop Feeling Self-Conscious
[3] Marc and Angel: 10 Things to Remember When You Feel Unsure of Yourself
[4] Bostitch: How to Protect Small Businesses From Burnout
[5] Psychology Today: Self-conscious? Get Over It
[6] Wake Forest University: Embracing Holistic Medicine
[7] Center for Vein Restoration: What Causes Venous Ulcers, and How Are They Treated?
[8] Scientific American: The Pros and Cons of Being Self-Aware

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