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18 Dating Ideas with Breathtaking Scenery in the East of England

18 Dating Ideas with Breathtaking Scenery in the East of England

Are you looking for the perfect setting for a romantic date in the East of England? When you first meet someone for a date, getting out and about in lovely scenery allows you to relax and get to know one another. The East of England includes some of the most beautiful and historic landscapes in the country so whether you fancy a walk on the beach, mountain biking through a forest or visiting an atmospheric garden, our creative dating ideas offer something for everyone.

1. Spot seals at Blakeney Point

    Blakeney Point is part of the Blakeney National Nature Reserve, which offers beautiful views of the Norfolk coastline and is perfect for a date with someone loves animals and nature, take a boat trip to see the numerous grey seals who can often be seen basking on the beaches here; you might even be lucky enough to see baby seals.

    2. Take a trip on a traditional sailing barge at Maldon

      If your date loves the romance of days gone by, enjoy a memorable date in the fresh sea air with a trip around Northey and Osea Islands in the Thames estuary on an authentic Thames sailing barge at Maldon. Enjoy tea and cakes on board as the scenery glides serenely by.

      3. Watch the sunset from Southend Pier

        Meet your date at the iconic Southend Pier, the longest and one of the oldest pleasure piers in the world, to watch the sun going down. Try your luck in the amusement arcade before catching the old-fashioned train back again.

        4. Soak up the atmosphere at Audley End House

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          For a romantic date in the surroundings of a stunning country mansion, enjoy the atmosphere of Jacobean opulence at Audley End House, where you can explore the grounds and lake created by Capability Brown.

          5. Stroll through the flower gardens at Bridge End Garden, Saffron Walden

            What could be more romantic than the exquisite flower gardens at Bridge End? Why not meet your date at this “secret garden” near the Fry Art Gallery that has been recently restored to its former Victorian splendour.

            6. Climb the heights of romance at Layer Marney Tower

              For a date at an unusual location with splendid views over rural Essex and the Blackwater, the climb of 99 steps to the top of Layer Marney Tower, built by one of Henry V111’s courtiers, repays the effort. The gardens are beautiful throughout the year but the rose garden is at its most fragrant in summer.

              7. Explore the beautiful landscapes of Constable country at Dedham Vale

                You and your date can enjoy tranquillity and natural beauty when you explore Dedham Vale, an AONB in Suffolk first made famous by Constable in paintings such as “Flatford Mill”. Get away from the hustle and bustle and explore on foot or by cycle: there are several routes to choose from.

                8. Discover the romance of ancient history at Sutton Hoo

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                  Sutton Hoo is the perfect setting for a date with anyone interested in the romance of ancient history and culture. Explore the museum together and then take a stroll through nearby fields and woodland to see the atmospheric Anglo-Saxon burial mounds.

                  9. Take in the romantic views at Waddesdon Manor

                    You and your date can reconnect with nature in the stunning grounds of Waddesdon Manor, a palatial 19th century chateau. The house is set high on a ridge with majestic views over surrounding countryside and is the perfect place to spend time getting to know your date better.

                    10. View Cambridge the romantic way from a traditional punt

                      Whether you opt for a guided punt tour or a self-hire punt, you and your date can cosy up as you explore the lovely scenery of the River Cam at Cambridge. Head along the iconic College Backs or out towards rural Grantchester.

                      11. Challenge yourselves with an exciting date at Go Ape!

                        For all those with a head for heights, why not meet your date at Go Ape! at Thetford. Set in beautiful woodland, Go Ape! will take you both on the adventure of a lifetime as you climb through the tree tops and zoom down zip wires.

                        12. A date for animal lovers at Whipsnade Zoo

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                          Animal lovers will be enchanted by the suggestion of meeting for a date at Whipsnade Zoo. Set in the rolling Chiltern hills, the zoo and safari park is home to a collection of exotic animals in superbly landscaped, spacious enclosures.

                          13. Admire the idyllic view from Horsey Windpump

                            Leave the car behind as you and your date stroll through the wild and remote landscapes of the Norfolk Broads at Horsey; the ancient windpump is open to the public and you can climb to the top for even more fabulous views.

                            14. Take a walk on the wild side at Orford Ness Lighthouse

                              If your date loves wide, empty beaches, why not visit Orford Ness lightouse? A five minute boat trip from Orford Quay takes you across to the wild and remote Orford Ness, where there is a short walk to the lighthouse itself.

                              15. Get close to nature at Wicken Fen

                                Wicken Fen is the oldest nature reserve in the country and is a great place for a date for those interested in birds and other animals; it is home to more than 9000 species and can be explored by cycle, on foot or by boat.

                                16. A romantic canoe trip for two on the tranquil Great Ouse

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                                  For a more active date, try a half day canoe trail on the Great Ouse near Bedford. The river is safe for novice canoeists and meanders past Bedford’s historic town centre and through rural villages and meadows.

                                  17. Explore cultural delights by the sea at Aldeburgh

                                    Whether you stroll along the beach and enjoy a coffee in one of the many cafes and pubs, take a row boat out on the peaceful mere at Thorpeness or go to a concert at the world famous Snape Maltings, Aldeburgh is an enchanting place for a date at any time of the year.

                                    18. Mountain bike through the stunning scenery of Thetford Forest

                                      A mountain biking date is a great choice for sporty people – it’s often easier to get to know someone when you’re focussing on doing something exciting in the open air. There are plenty of trails to choose from that will take you through beautiful scenery, such as Thetford Forest.

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                                      Featured photo credit: Unknown via english-heritage.org.uk

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                                      Last Updated on October 20, 2020

                                      How to Stop Procrastinating: 11 Practical Ways for Procrastinators

                                      How to Stop Procrastinating: 11 Practical Ways for Procrastinators

                                      You have a deadline looming. However, instead of doing your work, you are fiddling with miscellaneous things like checking email, social media, watching videos, surfing blogs and forums. You know you should be working, but you just don’t feel like doing anything.

                                      We are all familiar with the procrastination phenomenon. When we procrastinate, we squander away our free time and put off important tasks we should be doing them till it’s too late. And when it is indeed too late, we panic and wish we got started earlier.

                                      The chronic procrastinators I know have spent years of their life looped in this cycle. Delaying, putting off things, slacking, hiding from work, facing work only when it’s unavoidable, then repeating this loop all over again. It’s a bad habit that eats us away and prevents us from achieving greater results in life.

                                      Don’t let procrastination take over your life. Here, I will share my personal steps on how to stop procrastinating. These 11 steps will definitely apply to you too:

                                      1. Break Your Work into Little Steps

                                      Part of the reason why we procrastinate is because subconsciously, we find the work too overwhelming for us. Break it down into little parts, then focus on one part at the time. If you still procrastinate on the task after breaking it down, then break it down even further. Soon, your task will be so simple that you will be thinking “gee, this is so simple that I might as well just do it now!”.

                                      For example, I’m currently writing a new book (on How to achieve anything in life). Book writing at its full scale is an enormous project and can be overwhelming. However, when I break it down into phases such as –

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                                      • (1) Research
                                      • (2) Deciding the topic
                                      • (3) Creating the outline
                                      • (4) Drafting the content
                                      • (5) Writing Chapters #1 to #10,
                                      • (6) Revision
                                      • (7) etc.

                                      Suddenly it seems very manageable. What I do then is to focus on the immediate phase and get it done to my best ability, without thinking about the other phases. When it’s done, I move on to the next.

                                      2. Change Your Environment

                                      Different environments have different impact on our productivity. Look at your work desk and your room. Do they make you want to work or do they make you want to snuggle and sleep? If it’s the latter, you should look into changing your workspace.

                                      One thing to note is that an environment that makes us feel inspired before may lose its effect after a period of time. If that’s the case, then it’s time to change things around. Refer to Steps #2 and #3 of 13 Strategies To Jumpstart Your Productivity, which talks about revamping your environment and workspace.

                                      3. Create a Detailed Timeline with Specific Deadlines

                                      Having just 1 deadline for your work is like an invitation to procrastinate. That’s because we get the impression that we have time and keep pushing everything back, until it’s too late.

                                      Break down your project (see tip #1), then create an overall timeline with specific deadlines for each small task. This way, you know you have to finish each task by a certain date. Your timelines must be robust, too – i.e. if you don’t finish this by today, it’s going to jeopardize everything else you have planned after that. This way it creates the urgency to act.

                                      My goals are broken down into monthly, weekly, right down to the daily task lists, and the list is a call to action that I must accomplish this by the specified date, else my goals will be put off.

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                                      Here’re more tips on setting deadlines: 22 Tips for Effective Deadlines

                                      4. Eliminate Your Procrastination Pit-Stops

                                      If you are procrastinating a little too much, maybe that’s because you make it easy to procrastinate.

                                      Identify your browser bookmarks that take up a lot of your time and shift them into a separate folder that is less accessible. Disable the automatic notification option in your email client. Get rid of the distractions around you.

                                      I know some people will out of the way and delete or deactivate their facebook accounts. I think it’s a little drastic and extreme as addressing procrastination is more about being conscious of our actions than counteracting via self-binding methods, but if you feel that’s what’s needed, go for it.

                                      5. Hang out with People Who Inspire You to Take Action

                                      I’m pretty sure if you spend just 10 minutes talking to Steve Jobs or Bill Gates, you’ll be more inspired to act than if you spent the 10 minutes doing nothing. The people we are with influence our behaviors. Of course spending time with Steve Jobs or Bill Gates every day is probably not a feasible method, but the principle applies — The Hidden Power of Every Single Person Around You

                                      Identify the people, friends or colleagues who trigger you – most likely the go-getters and hard workers – and hang out with them more often. Soon you will inculcate their drive and spirit too.

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                                      As a personal development blogger, I “hang out” with inspiring personal development experts by reading their blogs and corresponding with them regularly via email and social media. It’s communication via new media and it works all the same.

                                      6. Get a Buddy

                                      Having a companion makes the whole process much more fun. Ideally, your buddy should be someone who has his/her own set of goals. Both of you will hold each other accountable to your goals and plans. While it’s not necessary for both of you to have the same goals, it’ll be even better if that’s the case, so you can learn from each other.

                                      I have a good friend whom I talk to regularly, and we always ask each other about our goals and progress in achieving those goals. Needless to say, it spurs us to keep taking action.

                                      7. Tell Others About Your Goals

                                      This serves the same function as #6, on a larger scale. Tell all your friends, colleagues, acquaintances and family about your projects. Now whenever you see them, they are bound to ask you about your status on those projects.

                                      For example, sometimes I announce my projects on The Personal Excellence Blog, Twitter and Facebook, and my readers will ask me about them on an ongoing basis. It’s a great way to keep myself accountable to my plans.

                                      8. Seek out Someone Who Has Already Achieved the Outcome

                                      What is it you want to accomplish here, and who are the people who have accomplished this already? Go seek them out and connect with them. Seeing living proof that your goals are very well achievable if you take action is one of the best triggers for action.

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                                      9. Re-Clarify Your Goals

                                      If you have been procrastinating for an extended period of time, it might reflect a misalignment between what you want and what you are currently doing. Often times, we outgrow our goals as we discover more about ourselves, but we don’t change our goals to reflect that.

                                      Get away from your work (a short vacation will be good, else just a weekend break or staycation will do too) and take some time to regroup yourself. What exactly do you want to achieve? What should you do to get there? What are the steps to take? Does your current work align with that? If not, what can you do about it?

                                      10. Stop Over-Complicating Things

                                      Are you waiting for a perfect time to do this? That maybe now is not the best time because of X, Y, Z reasons? Ditch that thought because there’s never a perfect time. If you keep waiting for one, you are never going to accomplish anything.

                                      Perfectionism is one of the biggest reasons for procrastination. Read more about why perfectionist tendencies can be a bane than a boon: Why Being A Perfectionist May Not Be So Perfect.

                                      11. Get a Grip and Just Do It

                                      At the end, it boils down to taking action. You can do all the strategizing, planning and hypothesizing, but if you don’t take action, nothing’s going to happen. Occasionally, I get readers and clients who keep complaining about their situations but they still refuse to take action at the end of the day.

                                      Reality check:

                                      I have never heard anyone procrastinate their way to success before and I doubt it’s going to change in the near future. Whatever it is you are procrastinating on, if you want to get it done, you need to get a grip on yourself and do it.

                                      Bonus: Think Like a Rhino

                                      More Tips for Procrastinators to Start Taking Action

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