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Necessary Steps When Teaching Your Teenager to Drive

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Necessary Steps When Teaching Your Teenager to Drive

You may have some fond memories of learning how to drive with one of your parents, or you may recall your father or mother constantly yelling at you as you first got behind the wheel of a vehicle. No matter what the situation was like for you, you probably realize that soon enough, your teenagers will ask you to teach them how to drive.

Prepare Yourself

Pretending as though your kids are never going to want to procure their licenses might work for a while, but the reality will eventually catch up to you. They are going to ask you to take them out to drive. If you can begin to mentally prepare yourself for this request, you may be ready when the time comes. For example, you might talk with your friends who have teenage drivers so that you can obtain some tips. On the other hand, you may consult with your own parents to find out how they reacted when you first told them that you wanted to learn how to drive.

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Know Your Vehicle

Sitting in the front seat of a new car is often a bit jarring, even for the most experienced of drivers. While you may want to race out to purchase a new vehicle for your teenagers as soon as they obtain their learner’s permits, consider whether that is really the best idea. One of you should have a solid understanding of how to operate the vehicle, and if the car is brand new to you, you may lack that important information. Have your teen check the car daily. Make a brand-new car a reward, not a given.

Make Necessary Repairs

Chances are that you do not want your teenagers to get behind the wheel of a car that is broken without you, so you should not create this environment when they are with you either. Let your kids know that you are happy to take them out on the road, but that you will do so once the necessary repairs are made to the vehicle. If the issues are the result of an accident, you can also demonstrate to them how to navigate this process. Doing so can help prepare them to research elements such as car insurance quotes and accident reports when the time comes.

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Know the Rules

Imagine that you are driving with your teenagers and they ask you an important question about the rules of the road. Now, imagine that you do not know the answer to the question. You may have been driving for so long that the proper actions are second nature to you; however, that doesn’t mean that you necessarily know the reasons behind why you take these actions. Brushing up on your own knowledge can help you to act as better teachers to your children.

Stay Calm

While you do not want to allow your children to perform an action that leads to an accident, you also do not want to move or yell in a way that causes an accident in the first place. You may need to visit a recovery center after driving with your teen, but refraining from freaking out in the car will help your teen drive better. If either you or your partner are significantly calmer than the other, the calmer person should be the one who goes in the car, especially for the first few lessons. Calmly directing your children and knowing when it is truly appropriate to intervene are important.

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Enroll Them in Courses

You’ve probably seen your kids listen to other people better than they listen to you at some point in their lives. This trend may continue when they start to drive, so you should consider enrolling them in classes that teach them more of the rules and allow them to obtain even greater experience on the road. These classes are generally offered at high schools.

Your teenagers will likely eventually want to learn how to drive, and this prospect might alarm you. However, you should not avoid teaching them. When you take initiative, you can show them how to operate a vehicle in a safe and efficient manner.

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Last Updated on January 5, 2022

How to Help Your Child to Get Better Grades

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How to Help Your Child to Get Better Grades

Children are most likely to say that they want to just lounge around or rest for a while after spending hours listening to lecture after lecture from their teachers. There is nothing wrong with this if they had a rough day.

What’s disturbing, is if they deliberately stay away from schoolwork or procrastinate when it comes to reviewing for their tests or completing an important science project.

When it seems that it is becoming a habit for your child to put off school work, it’s time for you to step in and help your child develop good study habits to get better grades. It is important for you to emphasize to your child the importance of setting priorities early in life. Don’t wait for them to flunk their tests, or worse, fail in their subjects before you talk to them about it.

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You can help your children hurdle their tests with these 7 tips:

1. Help them set targets

Ask your child what they want to achieve for that particular school year. Tell them to set a specific goal or target. If they say, “I want to get better grades,” tell them to be more specific. It will be better if they say they want to get a GPA of 2.5 or higher. Having a definite target will make it easier for them to undertake a series of actions to achieve their goals, instead of just “shooting for the moon.”

2. Preparation is key

At the start of the school year, teachers provide an outline of a subject’s scope along with a reading list and other course requirements. Make sure that your child has all the materials they need for these course requirements. Having these materials on hand will make sure that your child will have no reason to procrastinate and give them the opportunity to study in advance.

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3. Teach them to mark important dates

You may opt to give them a small notebook where they can jot down important dates or a planner that has dates where they can list their schedule. Ask them to show this to you so you can give them “gentle reminders” to block off the whole week before the dates of an exam. During this week, advise your child to not schedule any social activity so they can concentrate on studying.

4. Schedule regular study time

Encourage your child to set aside at least two hours every day to go through their lessons. This will help them remember the lectures for the day and understand the concepts they were taught. They should be encouraged to spend more time on subjects or concepts that they do not understand.

5. Get help

Some kids find it hard to digest or absorb mathematical or scientific concepts. Ask your child if they are having difficulties with their subjects and if they would like to seek the help of a tutor. There is nothing wrong in asking for the assistance of a tutor who can explain complex subjects.

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6. Schedule some “downtime”

Your child needs to relax from time to time. During his break, you can consider bringing your child to the nearest mall or grocery store and get them a treat. You may play board games with them during their downtime. The idea is to take his mind off studying for a limited period of time.

7. Reward your child

If your child achieves their goals for the school year, you may give them a reward such as buying them the gadget they have always wanted or allowing them to vacation wherever they want. By doing this, you are telling your child that hard work does pay off.

Conclusion

You need to take the time to monitor your child’s performance in school. Your guidance is essential to helping your child realize the need to prioritize their school activities. As a parent, your ultimate goal is to expose your child to habits that will lay down the groundwork for their future success.

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