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8 Fun Ways to Make Your Wedding Truly Memorable

8 Fun Ways to Make Your Wedding Truly Memorable

Weddings are, at least on the paper, one of the most memorable moments of our lives. But what couples actually remember after the dust finally settles? Frustration, guest lists, catering, the pursuit for a wedding hall, and other necessary evils. Compared to these chores, the actual ceremony quickly fades into oblivion.

A good part of the responsibility for this situation is from the fact that the wedding ceremony has changed very little since the Middle Ages. And while then, standing in front of the altar and having the feast afterward was probably considered a once-in-a-lifetime experience, the situation in the 21st century is much different.

So, let’s take a look at how to break up this monotony, and bring in some sense of joy, excitement, and fun into weddings again. Here are eight ways to make your wedding truly memorable.

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1. Geeky Wedding

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    The geek culture is on the rise. So, if you’ve ever dreamed of dressing up as a Starfleet officer and having a Star Trek-themed wedding, you couldn’t be born at a better time. But, here’s an even better idea. Induce the ceremony with a healthy dose of Hogwarts magic. Just imagine – you are walking to the wedding aisle where the official is dressed like Dumbledore. You and your future spouse are wearing Hogwarts robes, and your guests are saluting you with their magic wands/fireworks. Weddings can’t be more magical than that. The other two usual suspects are Star Wars (Han and Leia), and comic books (a lot of options to choose from but Superman and Lois Lane are one of the most famous married comic book couples).

    2. Medieval Wedding

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      The best way to turn the tables and make your wedding as archaic as it gets. The best place to do it – a Medieval Fair. Medieval Fairs are usually packed with tons of interesting content. You can organize knights’ duels, a Robin Hood-style competition in archery, horse race, and why not – you can even try to save your maiden from the tower where she’s entrapped. Once you’re done with these exhausting activities, you can heal your wounds with venison, good wine, and the gentle sound of the lute.

      3. Competitive Wedding

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        Most weddings follow the same basic pattern – you welcome your guest, go to the aisle, say “Yes” and then proceed to eat and dance. Why wouldn’t you bring in some competitive spirit into this pretty stale set-up? The possibilities are endless – you can make a karaoke contest, pick some of the Minute to Win It games, or even turn the wedding into a full-blown pub quiz. The first prize could be the first dance with the bride or some other wedding-inspired treat. Split the guests into interesting groups (e.g. bride’s guests vs. groom’s guests, or even better women vs. men), and you ought to have a blast.

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        4. Exotic Destination Wedding

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          How cool it would be if someone asked you, “Where did your wedding took place?” and your answer was “Well, we took the plane to Maldives, brought some friends with us and had a beach wedding. It was unbelievable. All during the winter.” Although the logistics of such a wedding can be more than challenging, you have to admit it – it’s more than worth it. Especially when talking about costs and complications that you have to deal with. But, when you think about it, the cost of this type of wedding can be the same like you’re hosting a traditional 80-guests wedding. You only have to decide.

          5. Active Wedding

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            Not everyone finds so much fun in sitting and eating in an enclosed space. Some of us are more outgoing and like a physical challenge. In that case, spending one of the most important days of your life in nature seems like an excellent idea. And to be quite honest, conquering the nearby mountaintop represents a beautiful metaphor for all the struggles you and your partner went through and all the future mountains you are going to climb by working together. A long hike to some beautiful, remote location where the wedding will take place is just as good of an alternative.

            6. Time-Travel Wedding

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              If you want a themed wedding and can’t decide on a specific theme, why wouldn’t you simply make a quick breeze through the 20th century. Start with roaring 20s, proceed to dapper 50s, feel the disco fever of the 70s, and try out the glam makeup of the 80s, and baggy pants of the 90s. If you want to, you can go even further in the past, or even try to predict the future. All these eras offer a lot of possibilities for fun. Pair the attire with the decade-appropriate food and snacks, and you are in for a treat. So, start looking for vintage clothes and checking online recipes – your time-travel journey is just about to begin.

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              7. Extreme Wedding

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                A wedding for all the people who enjoy a good adrenaline rush. You know how they used to say that entering a marriage is like making a giant leap of faith. Well, now’s your opportunity to make this statement as literal as possible. Take your future spouse on a short flight, pack yourself with a pair of parachutes, and leap into the unknown. If you manage to pull this off in a wedding suit, you will be treading deep into the James Bond territory. Alternatively, you can do a simple bungee jump. Remember, you will be both tempted to scream “Nooooooo,” but you have to say “Yes!” What a way to test your partner, huh?

                8. Underwater Wedding

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                  An excellent way to put a slight twist on the idea of an active wedding. This time though, instead of hiking to the location of the ceremony, you are going to swim there (or to put it more precisely, dive there). Granted, you will have to find the official who is fit enough to dive to the sea bottom, and you will have some trouble saying the marriage vows (cue cards, anyone?), but all these small challenges make an underwater ceremony only more exciting. As for the party, the traditional seaside setup makes the most sense. And there’s a lot of symbolism going on here. You and your future spouse will dive into the water as two separate souls, and resurface as one.

                  Be creative. Do something unique.

                  All you have to do now is to pick one of these themes that is the closest to your heart and start the preparations. If some of these ideas spark an idea of your own, even better. What’s most important is to make your wedding truly fun, exciting and engaging. Life is made of fond memories. Let your wedding take the deserved number one spot.

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                  Last Updated on October 15, 2019

                  How To Be Successful In Life? 13 Tips From The Most Successful People

                  How To Be Successful In Life? 13 Tips From The Most Successful People

                  What is success to you? How to be successful in life?

                  To some, when they think of success, they imagine wealth; others want power; some just want to make a positive impact on the world.

                  All of these are perfectly valid, indeed success is a concept that means different things to different people. Though no matter what success is to you, it almost certainly isn’t something will come easily.

                  There are countless guides and books to being successful, however, as success is personal and unique to each individual. The advice contained in these books can often not be relevant. Therefore following the advice of a single individual can often be unhelpful.

                  With this in mind, considering the advice of a great many people, people whose ideas of success were different both to each other, and quite possibly, to you can be a good alternative.

                  What follows is a list of thirteen of the best pieces of advice from some of the most successful people who have ever lived. If you want to learn how to be successful, these 13 tips are essential:

                  1. Think Big

                    From Michelangelo Buonarroti, Great Renaissance Artist:

                    “The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark.”

                    There are few artists as influential as Michaelangelo. Today centuries after his death, his work still inspires and connects to people. His work is world famous, just think of his statue of David, or the Mural in the Sistine Chapel in the Vatican.

                    Imagine then, if he decided not to work as an artist.

                    Being a successful artist has always been extremely difficult, imagine if he decided to give up this ambition in favour of something easier?

                    Oftentimes, people often decided to put their dreams aside for something more “realistic”. To give up their dream for something easier. This quote teaches us the danger of such a point of view.
                    Instead be ambitious.

                    2. Find What You Love to Do and Do It

                      From Oprah Winfrey, Media Mogul:

                      “You know you are on the road to success if you would do your job and not be paid for it.”

                      This is a good quote to remember and think about when you’re at work.

                      Imagine being as successful as possible in your current job. Ultimately you’ll probably find yourself working extremely hard and this it will take up much of your time.

                      If it’s a job you hate, then being successful at it might only mean filling your life with something you hate to do. What’s the sense in this?

                      Instead, why not focus on doing something you love? When you’ve found what you’re passionate about, you get the motivation to keep you moving. Success at this means the fulfilment of your dreams.

                      Not sure what your passion is yet? You should learn about this Motivation Engine first.

                      Even if you’re not successful, you still filled your time with something you love to do. Many successful musicians spent years of their lives doing unpaid performances, the only reason they kept playing was because they loved to perform.

                      3. Learn How to Balance Life

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                        From Phil Knight, CEO of Nike Inc.:

                        “There is an immutable conflict at work in life and in business, a constant battle between peace and chaos. Neither can be mastered, but both can be influenced. How you go about that is the key to success.”

                        All too often, people think that to be successful, they need to make the object of their success their life.

                        If a person thinks their job will lead them to success, then they may spend countless hours per day, and well into the evening working hard.

                        However this comes at the cost of rest, your health and having an enjoyable life. Ultimately they may burn out and cease to be successful at their job anyway.

                        If success comes from having a strong social life and a good group of friends, their job may suffer; meaning that they may lose their job, and then be unable to afford going out with friends.

                        In these ways, success, as Phil Knight says above, is helped by balance. Think of it as a balance between rest and work, or work and play.

                        To achieve that balance, this Ultimate Guide to Prioritizing Your Work And Life can help you.

                        4. Do Not Be Afraid of Failure

                          From Henry Ford, Founder of Ford Motors:

                          “Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.”

                          There is a story, it’s unconfirmed whether it actually happened, yet the message within is none the less true:

                          Thomas Edison inventing the lightbulb was the result of several hundred failed attempts. In an interview, he was asked “How do you feel after all of your failed attempts?”

                          His response was great, “I didn’t fail, I learned hundreds of ways not to invent the lightbulb”

                          He saw each “failure” as a lesson. From that lesson he learned what won’t work, and also might work instead.

                          Each failed attempt, each rejection, were key steps on his path to success. It is easy to feel like you should give up after a failure. But perhaps in that failure is a lesson.

                          Pay attention to your failures, study them. Perhaps then you’ll learn how to succeed.

                          If you find it difficult to fight your fear of failure, here’s a guide for you: Why You Have the Fear of Failure (And How to Conquer It Step-By-Step)

                          5. Have an Unwavering Resolution to Succeed

                            From Colonel Sanders, Founder of KFC:

                            “I made a resolve then that I was going to amount to something if I could. And no hours, nor amount of labor, nor amount of money would deter me from giving the best that there was in me. And I have done that ever since, and I win by it. I know.”

                            This, in many ways relates to the above quote about learning from your failures.

                            It’s the easiest thing in the world to give up from a failure. The only way to push on is if you have the true burning desire to succeed, to not be moved or dissuaded from your goals.

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                            If you are not truly dedicated towards success, then each failure will hurt more, each set back will slow you down.

                            Success is hard; without the unwavering desire to succeed, this difficulty may seem insurmountable. With the desire, it is merely an obstacle to go through.

                            6. Be a Person of Action

                              From Leonardo da Vinci, Renaissance Genius:

                              “It had long since come to my attention that people of accomplishment rarely sat back and let things happen to them. They went out and happened to things.”

                              Though it was said hundreds of years ago, it works just as much today as it ever had. It applies to literally any successful person.

                              Think about it, picture someone like William Shakespeare:

                              When we think of the time he lived in, we think of the time in a way shaped by him. When we think of Renaissance era Italy, we think of Michelangelo and Leonardo Da Vinci. Or think about the present day, Bill Gates or Steve Jobs. Our current way of life would simply be incomparably different if they didn’t accomplish what they did.

                              You’re probably reading this article on a device by a company that they either founded or companies influenced by them.

                              All these figures were proactive, they saw ways to do things differently and did them. If they let the world shape them, then they’d simply fit into the background. Instead they shaped the world.

                              Applying this to you?

                              Don’t be afraid of going outside the norm. If you can think of a better way to do something, do it that way. If you fail, try again.

                              7. Cultivate Positive Relationships

                                From Theodore Roosevelt, 26th President of America: “

                                The most important single ingredient in the formula of success is knowing how to get along with people.”

                                The best leaders and some of the most influential people (and Theodore Roosevelt is one of the best leaders and one of the most influential people to have lived) were not those who caused commotions, who fought with people or disregarded people; but were people who were friendly to those around them.

                                People liked them. They wanted them to do well.

                                This is key to good leadership.

                                It’s logical. If someone likes you, they want to help you; if you give them a suggestion, they’ll gladly follow through with it.

                                But if someone doesn’t like you, they may either refuse to help or actively get in your way.

                                What’s more, it’s always a good idea to cultivate good relationships. You can never tell who will prove to become someone who’ll be able to help you in a big way, or even be a good and supportive friend.

                                As such, help people and they may help you; and be good to people, and they my be good to you.

                                8. Don’t Be Afraid of Introducing New Ideas

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                                  From Mark Twain, Famed Author:

                                  “A person with a new idea is a crank until the idea succeeds.”

                                  It is an unfortunate truth that those with the boldest ideas are often disregarded.

                                  Most of us are taught from an early age to think and do things similarly to everyone else. This can be great to fill an existing role. But to truly do things differently (and all successful people did things differently), you need to think differently.

                                  If you have a new idea, don’t throw it away because it’s new and different; instead, celebrate it. Your strange new idea might one day be the one that leads you to success.

                                  9. Believe in Your Capacity to Succeed

                                    From Walter Disney, Founder of Walt Disney Company:

                                    “If you can dream it, you can do it.”

                                    Success has to be something you can imagine yourself achieving.

                                    It is possible that you will come across those who doubt you and your ability to succeed. You must not become one of these people because the moment you cease believing and dreaming is the moment these dreams fall away.

                                    Keep dreaming!

                                    10. Always Maintain a Positive Mental Attitude

                                      From Thomas Jefferson, 3rd President of America:

                                      “Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.”

                                      Like the above quote says, you need to trust in your ability to succeed. This is the only way to cultivate the right mindset.

                                      Replace negative thoughts with the positive ones. You need to approach problems, not as obstacles stopping you, but merely tasks that need to be completed for you to keep going.

                                      If you stay positive and think like this, setbacks won’t affect you so much, people’s doubts won’t impact you and even the biggest obstacles will seem like minor problems.

                                      However with the wrong mindset of doubt, you’ll be much easier to stop.

                                      11. Don’t Let Discouragement Stop You from Pressing On

                                        From Abraham Lincoln, 16th President of America:

                                        “Let no feeling of discouragement prey upon you, and in the end you are sure to succeed.”

                                        It is an unfortunate fact of human nature — all of us in some way, doubt ourselves. This can be made far worse if others doubt us too.

                                        When surrounded by doubts, giving up can actually seem like a good idea.

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                                        Don’t pay attention to the doubts. If you are discouraged, ignore it.

                                        If this discouragement moves into your mind and you begin to doubt yourself. It is important to ignore this too.

                                        This is How Self Doubt Keeps You Stuck and How to Overcome It

                                        12. Be Willing to Work Hard

                                          From JC Penny, Founder of JC Penney Inc.:

                                          “Unless you are willing to drench yourself in your work beyond the capacity of the average man, you are just not cut out for positions at the top.”

                                          You might have heard the quote that “success is 1% inspiration, 99% perspiration” or you may have heard about the 10,000 hours idea.

                                          Whichever way you frame it, they say one thing:

                                          True success comes from work.

                                          You’ll never become successful if you don’t work towards your goal in life and keep working towards it.

                                          Check out this article and you’ll understand Why Hard Work Beats Talent.

                                          13. Be Brave Enough to Follow Your Intuition

                                            From Steve Jobs, Co-founder of Apple Inc.:

                                            “Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”

                                            In ancient Greece, there was a group of Oracles who lived in Delphi. Everyone who needed advice or to know their future visited them, from the poorest of society to kings. Above the doorway of the temple were the words “know thyself”.

                                            If you strongly believe and desire something, chances are that you already have an idea how to get there. If not, you may naturally know what things will help you and what things will slow you down.

                                            It’s like how your body can detect danger even when things seem safe.

                                            Ultimately then, you need to trust your own instincts.

                                            Final Thoughts

                                            What you might have noticed is that many of the above lessons are similar — most are about developing the right state of mind. This clearly suggests that the key to achieving success, in whatever you wish, comes down to the way you approach it mentally.

                                            Moreover, no matter what stage of life you’re at now, you can still make a difference and pursue success. You can make resetting your life possible when you do this: How to Start Over and Reboot Your Life When It Seems Too Late

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