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5 Registry Items You Need if Your First Home Together is an Apartment

5 Registry Items You Need if Your First Home Together is an Apartment

For newlyweds who are moving into an apartment together, unnecessary houseware is not always the most practical items to add to your registry. Instead of cluttering your new apartment with extra servingware, use your registry to upgrade to space-friendly and functional items. From new sheets to fun artwork that shows off both of your unique styles, there’s a registry item for every newlywed apartment. Let’s take a look at five of our favorites.

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    1. Essential Upgrades

    Let’s be honest—most of us are bound to have mismatched plates and worn-out towels from our college days. When combining households into a new apartment, register for essential upgrades instead of extra fluff. This doesn’t mean you need to register for everything—pick and choose which items are on their way out or could use the upgrade. A good set of nonstick pans is a fantastic investment for a newlywed kitchen, while a new duvet set and snuggly, higher-thread count sheets will last for years to come. If all else fails, register for a gift card to your local home good store where both of you can add upgrades to your home when the time comes.

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      2. A Quality Compact Vacuum

      Vacuums are essential for apartment living, but aren’t an enjoyable item to buy for yourself. Take advantage of having a registry to get the gift of a shiny new compact vacuum. Living in smaller quarters means your place is bound to get dirtier quicker, so register for one that will allow you to quickly clean up so you can get back to newlywed bliss. With a quality apartment-sized vacuum that can tuck into the closet or under your bed, you can clean with ease for years to come without sacrificing valuable space.

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        3. Artwork

        Moving into a new apartment together not only involves combining household goods, it also involves combining both of your tastes. Space in any apartment is limited, so register for a gift card to get bold statement art or frames for a fun gallery wall that shows off memories as a couple and artwork that’s special to both of you. If you both have a lot of artwork from previous homes, sit down with one another and filter through the pieces. Keep the ones that are sentimental or “must-haves” and donate those that aren’t.

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          4. Versatile Furniture

          Registering for furniture may not be the most obvious choice for newlyweds, but as a group gift, a new dining table or desk chair can pack some serious punch. Versatile furniture that can do multiple jobs and work in a variety of future homes is perfect for compact apartment living. Small dining room sets, for instance, can easily tuck into a nook in a future home or function as a desk down the line. No matter what furniture you add to your registry, use it to replace pieces that are starting to fall apart or that don’t fit into your combined newlywed style to keep your new apartment from becoming too cluttered.

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            5. Newlywed Experiences

            Instead of registering for clutter and items you don’t need in your new apartment, register for gift cards for experiences that you can share as a couple as you start your new life together. If you’ve moved to a new apartment in a new city, try out walking tours or a fun tourist attraction. If both of you crave weekend escapes, a gift card to wine tasting at a local winery or a spa getaway is perfect for curing the post-honeymoon blues. Registering for experiences will not only keep your apartment rid of items you don’t need, but it will be the perfect toast to the start of your new life together.

            Tell us: What’s on your registry?

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            10 Powerful Ways to Stop Worrying and Start Living Today

            10 Powerful Ways to Stop Worrying and Start Living Today

            Plato knew that the body and mind are intimately linked. And in the late 1800s, the Mayo brothers, famous physicians, estimated that over half of all hospital beds are filled with people suffering from frustration, anxiety, worry and despair. Causes of worry are everywhere, in our relationships and our jobs, so it’s key we find ways to take charge of the stress.

            In his classic book How to Stop Worrying and Start Living, Dale Carnegie offers tools to ditch excessive worrying that help you make a worry-free environment for your private and professional life.

            These are the top 10 tips to grab worry by the horns and wrestle it to the ground:

            1. Make Your Decision and Never Look Back

            Have you ever made a decision in life only to second-guess it afterwards? Of course you have! It’s hard not to wonder whether you’ve done the right thing and whether there might still be time to take another path.

            But keep this in mind: you’ve already made your decision, so act decisively on it and dismiss all your anxiety about it.

            Don’t stop to hesitate, to reconsider, or to retrace your steps. Once you’ve chosen a course of action, stick to it and never waver.

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            2. Live for Today, Package Things up in “Day-Tight Compartments”

            You know that feeling: tossing, turning and worrying over something that happened or something that might, well into the wee hours. To avoid this pointless worrying, you need “day-tight compartments”. Much as a ship has different watertight compartments, your own “day-tight” ones are a way to limit your attention to the present day.

            The rule is simple: whatever happened in the past or might happen in the future must not intrude upon today. Everything else has to wait its turn for tomorrow’s box or stay stuck in the past.

            3. Embrace the Worst-Case Scenario and Strategize to Offset It

            If you’re worried about something, ask yourself: “What’s the worst thing that could happen?” Could you lose your job? Be jailed? Get killed?

            Whatever the “worst” might be, it’s probably not so world-ending. You could probably even bounce back from it!

            If, for example, you lose your job, you could always find another. Once you accept the worst-case scenario and get thinking about contingency plans, you’ll feel calmer.

            4. Put a Lid on Your Worrying

            Sometimes we stress endlessly about negative experiences when just walking away from them would serve us far better.

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            To make squashing that worry easier, try this strategy, straight from stock traders: it’s called the “stop-loss” order, where shares are bought at a certain price, and then their price development is observed. If things go badly and the share price hits a certain point, they are sold off immediately. This stops the loss from increasing further.

            In the same manner, you can put a stop-loss order on things that cause you stress and grief.

            5. Fake It ‘Til You Make It – Happiness, That Is

            We can’t directly influence how we feel, but we can nudge ourselves to change through how we think and act.

            If you’re feeling sad or low, slap a big grin on your face and whistle a chipper tune. You’ll find it impossible to be blue when acting cheerful. But you don’t necessarily need to act outwardly happy; you can simply think happier thoughts instead.

            Marcus Aurelius summed it up aptly:

            “Our life is what our thoughts make it.”

            6. Give for the Joy of Giving

            When we perform acts of kindness, we often do so with the expectation of gratitude. But harboring such expectations will probably leave you disappointed.

            One person well aware of this fact was the lawyer Samuel Leibowitz. Over the course of his career, Leibowitz saved 78 people from going to the electric chair. Guess how many thanked him? None.

            So stop expecting gratitude when you’re kind to someone. Instead, take joy from the act yourself.

            7. Dump Envy – Enjoy Being Uniquely You

            Your genes are completely unique. Even if someone had the same parents as you, the likelihood of someone identical to you being born is just one in 300,000 billion.

            Despite this amazing fact, many of us long to be someone else, thinking the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. But living your life this way is pointless. Embrace your uniqueness and get comfortable with who you really are: How to Be True to Yourself and Live the Life You Want

            8. Haters Will Hate — It Just Means You’re Doing It Right

            When you’re criticized, it often means you’re accomplishing something noteworthy. In fact, let’s take it a step further and consider this: the more you’re criticized, the more influential and important a person you likely are.

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            So the next time somebody talks you down, don’t let it get to you. Take it as a compliment!

            9. Chill Out! Learn to Rest Before You Get Tired

            Scientists agree that emotions are the most common cause of fatigue. And it works the other way around, too: fatigue produces more worries and negative emotions.

            It should be clear, therefore, that you’ve got to relax regularly before you feel tired. Otherwise, worries and fatigue will accumulate on top of each other.

            It’s impossible to worry when you are relaxed, and regular rest helps you maintain your ability to work effectively.

            10. Get Organized and Enjoy Your Work

            There are few greater sources of misery in life than having to work, day in, day out, in a job you despise. It would make sense then that you shouldn’t pick a job you hate, or even just dislike doing.

            But say you already have a job. How can you make it more enjoyable and worry-free? One way is to stay organized: a desk full of unanswered mails and memos is sure to breed worries.

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            Better yet, rethink about the job you’re doing: What to Do When You Hate Your Job but Want a Successful Career

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