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5 Registry Items You Need if Your First Home Together is an Apartment

5 Registry Items You Need if Your First Home Together is an Apartment

For newlyweds who are moving into an apartment together, unnecessary houseware is not always the most practical items to add to your registry. Instead of cluttering your new apartment with extra servingware, use your registry to upgrade to space-friendly and functional items. From new sheets to fun artwork that shows off both of your unique styles, there’s a registry item for every newlywed apartment. Let’s take a look at five of our favorites.

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    1. Essential Upgrades

    Let’s be honest—most of us are bound to have mismatched plates and worn-out towels from our college days. When combining households into a new apartment, register for essential upgrades instead of extra fluff. This doesn’t mean you need to register for everything—pick and choose which items are on their way out or could use the upgrade. A good set of nonstick pans is a fantastic investment for a newlywed kitchen, while a new duvet set and snuggly, higher-thread count sheets will last for years to come. If all else fails, register for a gift card to your local home good store where both of you can add upgrades to your home when the time comes.

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      2. A Quality Compact Vacuum

      Vacuums are essential for apartment living, but aren’t an enjoyable item to buy for yourself. Take advantage of having a registry to get the gift of a shiny new compact vacuum. Living in smaller quarters means your place is bound to get dirtier quicker, so register for one that will allow you to quickly clean up so you can get back to newlywed bliss. With a quality apartment-sized vacuum that can tuck into the closet or under your bed, you can clean with ease for years to come without sacrificing valuable space.

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        3. Artwork

        Moving into a new apartment together not only involves combining household goods, it also involves combining both of your tastes. Space in any apartment is limited, so register for a gift card to get bold statement art or frames for a fun gallery wall that shows off memories as a couple and artwork that’s special to both of you. If you both have a lot of artwork from previous homes, sit down with one another and filter through the pieces. Keep the ones that are sentimental or “must-haves” and donate those that aren’t.

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          4. Versatile Furniture

          Registering for furniture may not be the most obvious choice for newlyweds, but as a group gift, a new dining table or desk chair can pack some serious punch. Versatile furniture that can do multiple jobs and work in a variety of future homes is perfect for compact apartment living. Small dining room sets, for instance, can easily tuck into a nook in a future home or function as a desk down the line. No matter what furniture you add to your registry, use it to replace pieces that are starting to fall apart or that don’t fit into your combined newlywed style to keep your new apartment from becoming too cluttered.

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            5. Newlywed Experiences

            Instead of registering for clutter and items you don’t need in your new apartment, register for gift cards for experiences that you can share as a couple as you start your new life together. If you’ve moved to a new apartment in a new city, try out walking tours or a fun tourist attraction. If both of you crave weekend escapes, a gift card to wine tasting at a local winery or a spa getaway is perfect for curing the post-honeymoon blues. Registering for experiences will not only keep your apartment rid of items you don’t need, but it will be the perfect toast to the start of your new life together.

            Tell us: What’s on your registry?

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            Why Is Goal Setting Important to a Truly Fulfilling Life?

            Why Is Goal Setting Important to a Truly Fulfilling Life?

            In Personal Development-speak, we are always talking about goals, outcomes, success, desires and dreams. In other words, all the stuff we want to do, achieve and create in our world.

            And while it’s important for us to know what we want to achieve (our goal), it’s also important for us to understand why we want to achieve it; the reason behind the goal or some would say, our real goal.

            Why is goal setting important?

            1. Your needs and desire will be fulfilled.

            Sometimes when we explore our “why”, (why we want to achieve a certain thing) we realize that our “what” (our goal) might not actually deliver us the thing (feeling, emotion, internal state) we’re really seeking.

            For example, the person who has a goal to lose weight in the belief that weight loss will bring them happiness, security, fulfillment, attention, popularity and the partner of their dreams. In this instance, their “what” is weight-loss and their “why” is happiness (etc.) and a partner.

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            Six months later, they have lost the weight (achieved their goal) but as is often the case, they’re not happier, not more secure, not more confident, not more fulfilled and in keeping with their miserable state, they have failed to attract their dream partner.

            After all, who wants to be with someone who’s miserable? They achieved their practical goal but still failed to have their needs met.

            So they set a goal to lose another ten pounds. And then another. And maybe just ten more. With the destructive and erroneous belief that if they can get thin enough, they’ll find their own personal nirvana. And we all know how that story ends.

            2. You’ll find out what truly motivates you

            The important thing in the process of constructing our best life is not necessarily what goals we set (what we think we want) but what motivates us towards those goals (what we really want).

            The sooner we begin to explore, identify and understand what motivates us towards certain achievements, acquisitions or outcomes (that is, we begin moving towards greater consciousness and self awareness), the sooner we will make better decisions for our life, set more intelligent (and dare I say, enlightened) goals and experience more fulfilment and less frustration.

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            We all know people who have achieved what they set out to, only to end up in the same place or worse (emotionally, psychologically, sociologically) because what they were chasing wasn’t really what they were needing.

            What we think we want will rarely provide us with what we actually need.

            3. Your state of mind will be a lot healthier

            We all set specific goals to achieve/acquire certain things (a job, a car, a partner, a better body, a bank balance, a title, a victory) because at some level, most of us believe (consciously or not) that the achievement of those goals will bring us what we really seek; joy, fulfilment, happiness, safety, peace, recognition, love, acceptance, respect, connection.

            Of course, setting practical, material and financial goals is an intelligent thing to do considering the world we live in and how that world works.

            But setting goals with an expectation that the achievement of certain things in our external, physical world will automatically create an internal state of peace, contentment, joy and total happiness is an unhealthy and unrealistic mindset to inhabit.

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            What you truly want and need

            Sometimes we need to look beyond the obvious (superficial) goals to discover and secure what we really want.

            Sadly, we live in a collective mindset which teaches that the prettiest and the wealthiest are the most successful.

            Some self-help frauds even teach this message. If you’re rich or pretty, you’re happy. If you’re both, you’re very happy. Pretty isn’t what we really want; it’s what we believe pretty will bring us. Same goes with money.

            When we cut through the hype, the jargon and the self-help mumbo jumbo, we all have the same basic goals, desires and needs:

            Joy, fulfilment, happiness, safety, peace, recognition, love, acceptance, respect, connection.

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            Nobody needs a mansion or a sport’s car but we all need love.

            Nobody needs massive pecs, six percent body-fat, a face lift or bigger breasts but we all need connection, acceptance and understanding.

            Nobody needs to be famous but we all need peace, calm, balance and happiness.

            The problem is, we live in a culture which teaches that one equals the other. If only we lived in a culture which taught that real success is far more about what’s happening in our internal environment, than our external one.

            It’s a commonly-held belief that we’re all very different and we all have different goals — whether short term or long term goals. But in many ways we’re not, and we don’t; we all want essentially the same things.

            Now all you have to do is see past the fraud and deception and find the right path.

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