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4 Tips for a Successful Mentor-Mentee Relationship

4 Tips for a Successful Mentor-Mentee Relationship

Did you know that 80% of CEOs have had mentors? And, that 35% of employees who don’t receive regular mentoring plan to look for another job within 12 months? Data from an Emerging Workforce Study conducted by Management Mentors shows how “more and more, people and organizations are recognizing the importance and value of mentoring.”

According to mentoring.org statistics, “90% of young adults who had a mentor are interested in becoming a mentor” and what is more, they are “130% more likely to hold leadership positions”.[1]

There are clear benefits to having a mentor, but how can you ensure you are making the most out of your mentor-mentee relationship? These six tips will help you develop a successful relationship:

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1. Create inspiring and personal role models

Mentees need to see their mentors as real life role models. In this sense, mentors need to be inspiring, but at the same time, there needs to exist a personal connection.

In one of her articles for Open Colleges, TV Presenter and Journalist, Shelly Horton clarifies how “personal connections have a bigger influence on professional women than celebrities do.” She also explains that “research from The Westpac Women of Influence Report from a few years ago, confirms that Australian women are looking to role models with a bit of integrity.” And according to the same study, “Australian women seem to aspire to be like women they know and respect personally. They look for attributes such as honesty and trustworthiness, good communication skills and respect for others”.

2. Set up clear goals and expectations

Mentor and mentee need to agree on their goals and mutual expectations from the beginning. According to Ellesse, author of Goal Setting College, even “before you approach someone to be your mentor, you’ll need to find out what you want to learn first so that you’ll find the right fit.”

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As a mentee, you need to make clear what you want to get from this relationship. It may be to help you secure funding, land your next big client or get a particular job. You will also need to know when do you want to accomplish your main objective. To be able to achieve your primary goal, it is recommended to break it down into smaller and more manageable goals that will help you get there. Both mentor and mentee should be aware of the objectives and agree on the completion time.

It is good to decide and schedule your meetings upfront as well as to talk about what will be the dynamic of your sessions together. Knowing what to expect from each other will be of great help to achieve the agreed objectives.

3. Mutual benefit

The principal beneficiary of this relationship should be the mentee. However, only a win-win situation will keep the relationship alive and fruitful. In this regard, mentors should also benefit from it.

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As a mentor, you may want to set up your own goals and have a clear understanding of what you want to achieve with this relationship. It may be gaining knowledge in a new space and area of expertise, or perhaps to improve your coaching skills. In some cases, mentors are looking for new projects to invest in. Being the initiator’s mentor may get you first in line to invest when the moment comes.

4. Open and sincere communication

Communication is key in every relationship. But when it comes to professional mentorship, it becomes especially important, as neither side wants to waste time.

As a mentee, you should prepare the agenda ahead of the meeting and take the initiative in the topics you want to cover in each session. You should also raise the issues or questions and listen to your mentor’s advice. Soak up as much knowledge and advice from your mentor as you can. If you think your meetings are not being productive anymore or that you are not getting enough help on a certain area, your relationship may have run its course. But it is not the end of the world. If that is the case, be open with your mentor and explain the situation. It may be time to find a new person to discuss new concerns.

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As a mentor, you must be honest with your mentee. If they are not ready to take the next step in their business, you should make them aware. Always try to be constructive and explain what they need to work on before making a strategic move. Offering positive but sincere feedback will keep your mentee motivated and working in the right direction.

Overall, both sides need to be implicated in building a prosperous mentorship program. Exceptional communication and great commitment will be key for success, as well as mutual respect and a dose of trust.

Featured photo credit: Ann Brown via flickr.com

Reference

[1] MENTOR: Mentoring Impact

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Last Updated on June 25, 2019

How to Ace an Interview: 10 Tips from a Professional Career Advisor

How to Ace an Interview: 10 Tips from a Professional Career Advisor

Wondering how to ace an interview? In this article, you will learn everything you need to nail your dream job — from resume submission to the end of the interview cycle.

In order to land a job interview, you must start with submitting a great resume. Submitting resumes is generally done by, “apply now”, the way many apply for consideration to a job requisition. Even if not applying the tradition way, let’s say, emailing someone in your network about an opportunity- you will still need a great resume.

So first thing first, work on your resume.

Today in the United States, 98% of organizations use applicant tracking systems (ATS) to extract information from an applicant’s resume to build a digital applicant profile that can be searched, filtered, and/or ranked.[1] So, a resume that is ATS friendly is part one for landing and acing a job interview.

To do this, a resume must have certain formatting and keywords to get the resume through the scan and into the hands of a recruiter. Without a resume that works with and for today’s technology and requirements, an interview can be difficult to land.

Here’s a great DIY Resume Guide (Do it Yourself Resume Guide) to help you craft an ATS and Recruiter friendly resume:[2]

There used to be a time where a job application was enough, today, an ATS friendly resume leads all methods in landing a job interview.

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Now, let’s talk about acing that interview.

A job interview is part 2 of the job application process. An interview is where applicants that have met the minimum requirements are selected to discuss the job opportunity with the employer or hiring manager.

Interviews are generally conducted via telephone, in person, and or applications/technology such as Skype. When the interview is landed, these 10 tips will help you ace the job interview:

1. Going for a Job Opportunity That Speaks to Your Passion

Having a passion for the job/ industry is extremely important. Doing something that aligns with inner passion is important for quality of life.

People that have passion for the job that they are interviewing for generally have better interview experiences. When we talk about what we love, it is seen in our faces, our body language, and heard in our tone. Here’re 10 Reasons Why Following Your Passion Is More Important Than Money.

In short, consideration of talents, discovering the things that make you happy and sad, and what you love losing yourself in.

2. Study the Job Description: Essential Job Functions and Qualification Requirements

Doing this will allow you the opportunity to develop examples of past and present experience that relate to the essential job functions and required qualifications.

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Examples of experience is always a plus for interviewers, painting a full picture goes a long way. Even when not asked for an example, it is always a plus to tie answers to interview questions to examples from your experience.

If there is a portfolio (work samples: images, writing samples, published work, videos, awards, etc.) of work- that’s even better!

3. Research the Company and the Interviewer(s)

Being an employee means entering into a relationship with an employer. In many areas of life, research is done prior to committing; researching a company prior to an interview is no different.

It is important to determine if the company is a good fit and therefore makes it easier to answer “why do you want to work here?” It helps better verbalize how past experience, skills, and values align with the company’s mission, and it shows the interviewer that you are interested in more than just a job.

4. Think Positive and Tap into Confidence

Positivity exudes confidence and both are necessary, so the employers knows that trust can be given.

Thoughts lead to action, therefore, operating from a positive perspective will reveal confidence. The goal of the interview is to land the job offer; employers need to believe that you believe in yourself so that they can believe you. Here are a few tips for positive thinking.

5. Have Copies of the Resume Used to Apply for the Job

It’s always good to be ready for extra interviewers in the room; many interviews today are panel interviews/ multi-person interviews.

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Though a resume was likely submitted with the application, it is always a good idea to come with extra copies in anticipation of the potential need. If there was no resume submission, it is crucial that you provide a copy during the interview; doing this shows the employer preparedness and resolution to challenges.

6. Plan for Behavior Based Interview Questions

Most companies use pre-selected questions, often times having a list of behavior-based questions. Usually these questions start with: “provide an example of”, “tell me about a time when”, and/or “describe a time/situation when”.

Having examples of problems solved and strategies used, initiatives led, contributions to teams and departments, will help ace a job interview. Painting a picture to help employers see skills, qualifications, and experience is extremely important during a job interview.

7. Make a List of Selling Points

It’s important to be proactive about the selling points that you want to make in an interview. This is where a portfolio works great! It is a great idea to make a list of selling points that reaffirms and demonstrates skills, qualifications, and experience.

Consider: awards, programs/ processes launched that led to cost savings and/or profitability, training/education, etc.

8. Showcase a Mixture of Personality and Professionalism

Companies like to make sure that interviewees are a good match for the company culture. Having a good balance of personality and professionalism during a job interview is key.

Personality can be shown when discussing hobbies, community service or extracurricular activities in answers to behavior-based questions, when describing your passion, and when discussing selling points.

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9. Have Your Questions Ready- Interviewing Isn’t One-Sided

Interviews are two-sided, like all relationships (an employee and employer agreement is a type of relationship). Before entering in many relationships, we all have a set of questions that we need answers to, prior to making the decision to commit.

Beyond doing this for self (because asking questions helps reduce doubt and uncertainty), it also shows the employer that there is interest in the company and its future and, shows that you are informed.

Here are a few considerations: “Can you tell me about the team I’ll be working with?”, “Why is this position open?”, and “What qualifications/ skills are important to succeed in this role?” You can also take a look at this guide for more idea: 7 Questions to Ask in a Job Interview That Will Impress the Interviewer

10. Follow-up with a Thank You Note

Interviewers love gratitude. Sending a “thank you for taking the time to discuss the job opening with me”, is very important to acing an interview.

Interviewers discuss one job opening with many applicants. A thank you note can serve as gratitude and the final chance to showcase selling points. This is also the opportunity to address any concerns that the interviewer may have had in the interview.

Summing It up

Consider a job interview a house. the foundation for acing a job interview is passion. The frame is a resume that lands the interview. The plumbing and electrical are showing up with confidence, providing a list of selling points, having examples of your experience and qualifications, and engaging the interviewer. The roof is showing gratitude with a thank you note.

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Featured photo credit: Nik MacMillan via unsplash.com

Reference

[1] Jobscan: What is an Applicant Tracking System?
[2] Veronica Castillo: New Job- DIY Resume

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