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Everyone Is Fighting Their Own Battle, That’s Why You Need To Be Your Best Cheerleader

Everyone Is Fighting Their Own Battle, That’s Why You Need To Be Your Best Cheerleader

It’s was so comforting and assuring to have a full support system around you growing up, with your parents and siblings making you feel protected, cheering you on through each new step of your childhood, and providing comfort through hard times. Yet, once you become a young adult, it suddenly seems to you that you are left to face the scary grownup world on your own, making you feel like you were abandoned by your closest ones.

If you feel this way at times, here’s what you need to know in order to stop relying on anyone else but yourself and start being your best cheerleader.

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Of course, your closest family members want all the best for you, and your friends as well. Yet, there will be certain times when even your parents won’t be able to support you. Sometimes they will disagree with your plans simply because they don’t understand, and that’s fine, as long as you’ve got your own back and believe in yourself, you will be just fine.

Other times, you and your once close friends will grow distant and the support that you were used to getting from them will disappear. Those are the conditions you can’t really control. What you can control is the relationship that you have with yourself. As long as you don’t give up on yourself and continue to cheer yourself on even through the worst times, you will become much less dependent upon others’ support and approval.

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Apart from not getting the support from the people who truly care about you, you will come across many mean people whose sole intention will be to undermine you and your work. That is why you have to build your own support system in order to not get discouraged.

Another important truth you need to realize in order to stop looking for support outside yourself, is that everyone is fighting their own battle. If you take the time to think about the life of any person you know, you will realize that we are all working on some of our personal issues. Therefore, to expect others to constantly support us would be quite selfish and egocentric.

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Having great family and group of friends is amazing, yet understanding that they won’t be around to cheer us all the time is what will make us stronger and more self-reliant.

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Last Updated on June 26, 2020

10 Things To Remember When Everything Goes Wrong

10 Things To Remember When Everything Goes Wrong

Problems and heartaches in life are inevitable. However, there are some things to remember when you’re right in the thick of it that can help you get through it. When everything seems to be going wrong, practice telling yourself these things.

1. This Too Shall Pass

Sometimes life’s rough patches feel like they’re going to last forever. Whether you’re dealing with work-related issues, family problems, or stressful situations, very few problems last for a lifetime. So remind yourself, that things won’t be this bad forever.

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2. Some Things are Going Right

When things are going wrong, it’s hard to recognize what is going right. It’s easy to screen out the good things and only focus on the bad things. Remind yourself that some things are going right. Purposely look for the positive, even if it is something very small.

3. I Have Some Control

One of the most most important things to remember is that you have some control of the situation. Even if you aren’t in complete control of the situation, one thing you can always control is your attitude and reaction. Focus on managing what is within your control.

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4. I Can Ask for Help

Asking for help can be hard sometimes. However, it’s one of the best ways to deal with tough situations. Tell people what you need specifically if they offer to help. Don’t be afraid to call on friends and family and ask them for help, whether you need financial assistance, emotional support, or practical help.

5. Much of This Won’t Matter in a Few Years

Most of the problems we worry about today won’t actually matter five years from now. Remind yourself that whatever is going wrong now is only a small percentage of your actual life. Even if you’re dealing with a major problem, like a loved one’s illness, remember that a lot of good things are likely to happen in the course of a year or two as well.

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6. I Can Handle This

A lack of confidence in handling tough times can add to stress. One of the best things to remember is that you can handle tough situations. Even though you might feel angry, hurt, disappointed, or sad, it won’t kill you. You can get through it.

7. Something Good Will Come Out of This

No matter how bad a situation is, it’s almost certain that something good will come out of it. At the very least, it’s likely that you will learn a life lesson. Perhaps you learn not to repeat the same mistake in the future or maybe you move on from a bad situation and find something better. Look for the one good thing that can result when bad things happen.

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8. I Can Accept What’s Out of my Control

There are many things that aren’t within your control. You can’t change the past, another person’s behavior, or a loved one’s health issues. Don’t waste time trying to force others to change or trying to make things be different if it isn’t within your control. Investing time and energy into trying to things you can’t will cause you to feel helpless and exhausted. Acceptance is one of the best way to establish resilience.

9. I Have Overcome Past Difficulties

One of the things to remember when you’re facing difficulties, is that you’ve handled problems in the past. Don’t overlook past difficulties that you’ve dealt with successfully. Remind yourself of all the past problems you’ve overcome and you’ll gain confidence in dealing with the current issues.

10. I Need to Take Care of Myself

When everything seems to be going wrong, take care of yourself. Get plenty of rest, get some exercise, eat healthy, and spend some time doing leisure activities. When you’re taking better care of yourself you’ll be better equipped to deal with your problems.

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