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Remember These 3 Hacks If You Want To Charm Your Audience

Remember These 3 Hacks If You Want To Charm Your Audience

Do you remember when you were first asked to present in front of the class at school? For most of us, it was a nerve-wracking experience. One that we can still recall to this day.

Despite how painful that early experience may have been, we quickly learn in life that being able to speak confidently and persuasively to an audience is a vital attribute.

Let’s explore three hacks that will help you present with style, and charm your audience.

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1. Surprise your audience with unusual examples

“Seed a conversation with jolts,” says Mark Levy, president of the branding firm Levy Innovation and author of Accidental Genius. This is excellent advice. Good conversationalists and presenters know how to keep the attention of their audience by using examples from domains outside their specific topic.

For instance, if you’re asked to do a talk on workplace efficiency, don’t just talk about the workplace. Instead, bring your presentation to life by sprinkling it with examples taken from far from the workplace setting (e.g. sports, nature and history).

Another idea is to use quotes from famous people or even lines taken from classic fiction such as William Shakespeare’s A Midsummer Night’s Dream.

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By using unexpected examples, you’ll keep your audience attentive and open to your main message. Furthermore, this will allow you to be creative with your presentations, freeing both you and your audience from topics that may at their heart be dull and lifeless.

2. Become an expert in body language

Good conversationalists naturally pick up on the body language of the person or people that they are communicating with. By spotting specific physical signs, they are able to instantly deduce whether they are losing their audience’s attention – or gaining it.

To improve your communication skills, work on your body language reading skills. Some of the basic things to watch out for include people crossing their arms (which could mean they are trying to block you out), poor or no eye contact (indicative of nervousness or fear), and audience members with their heads tilted downwards (a sign that they are disengaged from you).

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Of course, body language is not a one-way street. To give your verbal communication a physical boost, try these techniques: emphasis your key messages using hand gestures, have great posture when sitting and standing, and finally, if presenting to a large audience, be sure to move confidently around the stage.

3. Entertain, inspire and educate your audience

Do you remember having to sit through university lectures that were delivered in the driest, dullest way possible? It was hard to stay awake, let alone learn anything. However, it doesn’t have to be this way if you learn to deliver your content in an entertaining and inspiring way. The best way to do this is to tell personal stories that your audience can relate to. But, don’t choose just any stories. They should be stories that are emotive, fun and memorable.

For example, if you’re teaching a class of puppy owners how to train their dogs, tell cute, funny stories about mischievous puppies that do their utmost to disobey all instructions given to them (not to mention the puppies who haven’t learned to control their bowels!). Certainly, you should focus on informing or teaching, but wear the hat of an entertainer at all times to let your message come alive in the minds of your audience.

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Audiences want to be charmed, and by following the three hacks above, you’ll be able to do this every time you need to present. You’ll also find yourself developing powerful self-confidence that will come across in all of your communications.

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What Makes People Happy? 20 Secrets of “Always Happy” People

What Makes People Happy? 20 Secrets of “Always Happy” People

Some people just seem to float through life with a relentless sense of happiness – through the toughest of times, they’re unfazed and aloof, stopping to smell the roses and drinking out of a glass half full.

They may not have much to be happy about, but the simplicity behind that fact itself may make them happy.

It’s all a matter of perspective, conscious effort and self-awareness. Listed below are a number of reasons why some people are always happy.

1. They Manage Their Expectations

They’re not crushed when they don’t get what they want – or misled into expecting to get the most out of every situation. They approach every situation pragmatically, hoping for the best but being prepared for the worst.

2. They Don’t Set Unrealistic Standards

Similar to the last point, they don’t live their lives in a constant pursuit towards impossible visions of perfection, only to always find themselves falling short of what they want.

3. They Don’t Take Anything for Granted

Happiness rests with feeling fulfilled – those who fail to stop and appreciate what they have every now and again will never experience true fulfillment.

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4. They’re Not Materialistic

There are arguing viewpoints on whether or not money can really buy happiness; if it can, then we know from experience that we can never be satisfied because there will always be something newer or better that we want. Who has ever had enough money?

5. They Don’t Dwell

They don’t sweat the small things or waste time worrying about things that don’t really matter at the end of the day. They don’t let negative thoughts latch onto them and drain them or distract them. Life’s too short to worry.

6. They Care About Themselves First

They’re independent, care for themselves and understand that they must put their needs first in order to accommodate the needs of others.

They indulge, aim to get what they want, make time for themselves and are extremely self-reliant.

7. They Enjoy the Little Things

They stop to smell the roses. They’re accustomed to find serenity when it’s available, to welcome entertainment or a stimulating discussion with a stranger when it crosses their path. They don’t overlook the small things in life that can be just as important.

8. They Can Adapt

They’re not afraid of change and they work to make the most out of new circumstances, good or bad. They thrive under pressure, are not overwhelmed easily and always embrace a change of pace.

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9. They Experiment

They try new things, experience new flavors and never shy away from something they have yet to experience. They never order twice from the same menu.

10. They Take Their Time

They don’t unnecessarily rush through life. They work on their own schedule to the extent that they can and maneuver through life at their own relaxing pace.

11. They Employ Different Perspectives

They’re not stuck in one perspective; a loss can result in a new opportunity, hitting rock bottom can mean that there’s no where to go but up.

12. They Seek to Learn

Their constant pursuit of knowledge keeps them inspired and interested in life. They cherish information and are on a life-long quest to learn as much as they can.

13. They Always Have a Plan

They don’t find themselves drifting without purpose. When something doesn’t go as planned, they have a plan for every letter in the alphabet to fall back on.

14. They Give Respect to Get It

They are respectful and, in turn, are seen as respectable; the respect they exude earns them the respect they deserve.

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15. They Consider Every Opportunity

They always have their eyes open for a new road, a new avenue worth exploring. They know how to recognize opportune moments and pounce on them to make the most of every situation. Success is inevitable for them.

16. They Always Seek to Improve

Perpetual self-improvement is the key towards their ongoing thirst for success. Whatever it is they do, they take pride in getting better and better, from social interactions to mundane tasks. Their pursuit at being the best eventually materializes.

17. They Don’t Take Life Too Seriously

They’re not ones to get offended easily over-analyze or complicate matters. They laugh at their own faults and misfortunes.

18. They Live in the Moment

They don’t live for tomorrow or dwell on what may have happened yesterday. Every day is a new opportunity, a new chapter. They live in the now, and in doing so, get the most out of every moment.

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19. They Say Yes

Much more often than they say no. They don’t have to be badgered to go out, don’t shy away from new opportunities or anything that may seem inconvenient.

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20. They’re Self-Aware

Most important, they’re wholly aware of themselves. They self-reflect and are conscious of their states of mind. If somethings bothering them, they fix it.

We’re all susceptible to feeling down every now and again, but we are all equipped with the necessary solutions that just have to be discovered.

Lack of confidence, inability to feel fulfilled, and susceptibility to stress are all matters that can be controlled through the way we handle our lives and perceive our circumstances.

Learn about How Self-Reflection Gives You a Happier and More Successful Life.

Final Thoughts

The main philosophy employed by the happiest includes the idea that life’s simply too short: life’s too short to let things get you down, to take things for granted, to pursue absolute and unrealistic perfection.

For some, employing these characteristics is a second nature – they do it without knowing. For others, a conscious effort must be put forth every now and again. Self-Awareness is key.

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