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7 basic tips for public speaking

7 basic tips for public speaking

Communication is the key to any successful business that involves interacting in public. Public speaking is a difficult activity for many, but it is of great importance in every event. However, as a businessperson, you will have to constantly present your business to your customers, your partners, or your prospective investors. And, you must do it the right way.

Public speaking is really not a difficult task. It’s nothing more than talking, and you do this practically all the time. You only need to learn how to do it in front of a group and perfect some skills. That way, the mystery surrounding public speaking will eventually disappear.

Here, we will give you some keys to becoming a good speaker that will help you learn how to express your ideas before an audience, whether it’s of ten, a hundred or a thousand people.

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1. Define your goal clearly

Before you engage in any public speech, first ask yourself: what do I want to accomplish with my speech? This will simplify your writing or planning process and help you clearly define the main objective of your speech.

2. Always express yourself with simplicity

When you speak in public, your audience will understand one or two ideas from what you are trying to get across.  If you fail to express yourself and the point you wish to communicate in just a few sentences, then your speech is not well defined. If you lack the foresight to know what you want to say, this will affect how you deliver your speech in public.

 2. Get organized

Always make your assertions short when delivering a public speech. It is important to order the elements in your speech. It is necessary to divide a speech into an introduction, the main points that are going to be expressed, and the conclusion.

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Sometimes, you may decide to start with the final phrase. But, this depends on you. Once you know where you are going, you can decide on the path through the speech that suits you best and will send the message you want to convey. It is important to have a powerful conclusion, because in most cases, that is what people remember in your speech.

3. Be brief

Another important tip for developing a perfect speech is to limit the duration. You must be cautious about the amount of time you spend delivering your speech. Usually, the duration of a good speech is, at most, 10 to 15 minutes. Your audience will be happier if you go straight to the point to prevent the speech from becoming boring. Avoid speaking for too long.

4. Be yourself

Never try to be different from who you are. Be yourself. If the information you want to convey does not interest your audience, try to make it lively. Share experiences that the listeners do not know about. Convey to the audience how you feel about the topic, whether it is fear, sadness, deep emotion, indifference, or annoyance. However, this is not applicable in all cases. Consider the space, time, and audience for your speech to ensure you deliver an appropriate speech. This is an effective weapon in public speaking.

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5. Engage with the audience

Before you begin any public speech, you must establish a bond between the public and yourself. Put on a smile, remember to thank the person who introduced you, then wait a moment until you have caught the attention of everyone before you start your speech or PowerPoint presentation. The audience will then realize that you are speaking and will be more willing to pay attention to you. The moment the public becomes attentive, make sure to establish eye contact. Select a few friendly faces in the audience, and as you speak, look at one, then another, until you’ve made eye contact with people throughout the whole audience.

6. Avoid reading your speech

Reading a speech before an audience won’t make your speech effective. It is advisable and important to keep notes that will help you remember what you want to say and where you are going. It’s a good idea to make bullet points in your notes with the main points of the speech.

7. Relax

It is natural to experience some nervous tension when you are about to speak in public. This could even make you forget your lines. The first thing you should do is to take a long, deep breath, moving your diaphragm smoothly and rhythmically, to help relax your nerves. This will give you a better footing and confidence as you deliver the speech.

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If you apply these few tips mentioned above and put them into practice, I bet you will become a pro at public speaking.

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Last Updated on December 3, 2019

10 Life Lessons You’d Better Learn Early on in Life

10 Life Lessons You’d Better Learn Early on in Life

There are so many lessons I wish I had learned while I was young enough to appreciate and apply them. The thing with wisdom, and often with life lessons in general, is that they’re learned in retrospect, long after we needed them. The good news is that other people can benefit from our experiences and the lessons we’ve learned.

Here’re 10 important life lessons you should learn early on:

1. Money Will Never Solve Your Real Problems

Money is a tool; a commodity that buys you necessities and some nice “wants,” but it is not the panacea to your problems.

There are a great many people who are living on very little, yet have wonderfully full and happy lives… and there are sadly a great many people are living on quite a lot, yet have terribly miserable lives.

Money can buy a nice home, a great car, fabulous shoes, even a bit of security and some creature comforts, but it cannot fix a broken relationship, or cure loneliness, and the “happiness” it brings is only fleeting and not the kind that really and truly matters. Happiness is not for sale. If you’re expecting the “stuff” you can buy to “make it better,” you will never be happy.

2. Pace Yourself

Often when we’re young, just beginning our adult journey we feel as though we have to do everything at once. We need to decide everything, plan out our lives, experience everything, get to the top, find true love, figure out our life’s purpose, and do it all at the same time.

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Slow down—don’t rush into things. Let your life unfold. Wait a bit to see where it takes you, and take time to weigh your options. Enjoy every bite of food, take time to look around you, let the other person finish their side of the conversation. Allow yourself time to think, to mull a bit.

Taking action is critical. Working towards your goals and making plans for the future is commendable and often very useful, but rushing full-speed ahead towards anything is a one-way ticket to burnout and a good way to miss your life as it passes you by.

3. You Can’t Please Everyone

“I don’t know the secret to success, but the secret to failure is trying to please everyone” – Bill Cosby.

You don’t need everyone to agree with you or even like you. It’s human nature to want to belong, to be liked, respected and valued, but not at the expense of your integrity and happiness. Other people cannot give you the validation you seek. That has to come from inside.

Speak up, stick to your guns, assert yourself when you need to, demand respect, stay true to your values.

4. Your Health Is Your Most Valuable Asset

Health is an invaluable treasure—always appreciate, nurture, and protect it. Good health is often wasted on the young before they have a chance to appreciate it for what it’s worth.

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We tend to take our good health for granted, because it’s just there. We don’t have to worry about it, so we don’t really pay attention to it… until we have to.

Heart disease, bone density, stroke, many cancers—the list of many largely preventable diseases is long, so take care of your health now, or you’ll regret it later on.

5. You Don’t Always Get What You Want

“Life is what happens while you’re busy making other plans.” – John Lennon

No matter how carefully you plan and how hard you work, sometimes things just don’t work out the way you want them to… and that’s okay.

We have all of these expectations; predetermined visions of what our “ideal” life will look like, but all too often, that’s not the reality of the life we end up with. Sometimes our dreams fail and sometimes we just change our minds mid-course. Sometimes we have to flop to find the right course and sometimes we just have to try a few things before we find the right direction.

6. It’s Not All About You

You are not the epicenter of the universe. It’s very difficult to view the world from a perspective outside of your own, since we are always so focused on what’s happening in our own lives. What do I have to do today? What will this mean for me, for my career, for my life? What do I want?

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It’s normal to be intensely aware of everything that’s going on in your own life, but you need to pay as much attention to what’s happening around you, and how things affect other people in the world as you do to your own life. It helps to keep things in perspective.

7. There’s No Shame in Not Knowing

No one has it all figured out. Nobody has all the answers. There’s no shame in saying “I don’t know.” Pretending to be perfect doesn’t make you perfect. It just makes you neurotic to keep up the pretense of manufactured perfection.

We have this idea that there is some kind of stigma or shame in admitting our limitations or uncertainly, but we can’t possibly know everything. We all make mistakes and mess up occasionally. We learn as we go, that’s life.

Besides—nobody likes a know-it-all. A little vulnerability makes you human and oh so much more relatable.

8. Love Is More Than a Feeling; It’s a Choice

That burst of initial exhilaration, pulse quickening love and passion does not last long. But that doesn’t mean long-lasting love is not possible.

Love is not just a feeling; it’s a choice that you make every day. We have to choose to let annoyances pass, to forgive, to be kind, to respect, to support, to be faithful.

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Relationships take work. Sometimes it’s easy and sometimes it’s incredibly hard. It is up to us to choose how we want to act, think and speak in a relationship.

9. Perspective Is a Beautiful Thing

Typically, when we’re worried or upset, it’s because we’ve lost perspective. Everything that is happening in our lives seems so big, so important, so do or die, but in the grand picture, this single hiccup often means next to nothing.

The fight we’re having, the job we didn’t get, the real or imagined slight, the unexpected need to shift course, the thing we wanted, but didn’t get. Most of it won’t matter 20, 30, 40 years from now. It’s hard to see long term when all you know is short term, but unless it’s life-threatening, let it go, and move on.

10. Don’t Take Anything for Granted

We often don’t appreciate what we have until it’s gone: that includes your health, your family and friends, your job, the money you have or think you will have tomorrow.

When you’re young, it seems that your parents will always be there, but they won’t. You think you have plenty of time to get back in touch with your old friends or spend time with new ones, but you don’t. You have the money to spend, or you think you’ll have it next month, but you might not.

Nothing in your life is not guaranteed to be there tomorrow, including those you love.

This is a hard life lesson to learn, but it may be the most important of all: Life can change in an instant. Make sure you appreciate what you have, while you still have it.

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