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7 basic tips for public speaking

7 basic tips for public speaking

Communication is the key to any successful business that involves interacting in public. Public speaking is a difficult activity for many, but it is of great importance in every event. However, as a businessperson, you will have to constantly present your business to your customers, your partners, or your prospective investors. And, you must do it the right way.

Public speaking is really not a difficult task. It’s nothing more than talking, and you do this practically all the time. You only need to learn how to do it in front of a group and perfect some skills. That way, the mystery surrounding public speaking will eventually disappear.

Here, we will give you some keys to becoming a good speaker that will help you learn how to express your ideas before an audience, whether it’s of ten, a hundred or a thousand people.

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1. Define your goal clearly

Before you engage in any public speech, first ask yourself: what do I want to accomplish with my speech? This will simplify your writing or planning process and help you clearly define the main objective of your speech.

2. Always express yourself with simplicity

When you speak in public, your audience will understand one or two ideas from what you are trying to get across.  If you fail to express yourself and the point you wish to communicate in just a few sentences, then your speech is not well defined. If you lack the foresight to know what you want to say, this will affect how you deliver your speech in public.

 2. Get organized

Always make your assertions short when delivering a public speech. It is important to order the elements in your speech. It is necessary to divide a speech into an introduction, the main points that are going to be expressed, and the conclusion.

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Sometimes, you may decide to start with the final phrase. But, this depends on you. Once you know where you are going, you can decide on the path through the speech that suits you best and will send the message you want to convey. It is important to have a powerful conclusion, because in most cases, that is what people remember in your speech.

3. Be brief

Another important tip for developing a perfect speech is to limit the duration. You must be cautious about the amount of time you spend delivering your speech. Usually, the duration of a good speech is, at most, 10 to 15 minutes. Your audience will be happier if you go straight to the point to prevent the speech from becoming boring. Avoid speaking for too long.

4. Be yourself

Never try to be different from who you are. Be yourself. If the information you want to convey does not interest your audience, try to make it lively. Share experiences that the listeners do not know about. Convey to the audience how you feel about the topic, whether it is fear, sadness, deep emotion, indifference, or annoyance. However, this is not applicable in all cases. Consider the space, time, and audience for your speech to ensure you deliver an appropriate speech. This is an effective weapon in public speaking.

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5. Engage with the audience

Before you begin any public speech, you must establish a bond between the public and yourself. Put on a smile, remember to thank the person who introduced you, then wait a moment until you have caught the attention of everyone before you start your speech or PowerPoint presentation. The audience will then realize that you are speaking and will be more willing to pay attention to you. The moment the public becomes attentive, make sure to establish eye contact. Select a few friendly faces in the audience, and as you speak, look at one, then another, until you’ve made eye contact with people throughout the whole audience.

6. Avoid reading your speech

Reading a speech before an audience won’t make your speech effective. It is advisable and important to keep notes that will help you remember what you want to say and where you are going. It’s a good idea to make bullet points in your notes with the main points of the speech.

7. Relax

It is natural to experience some nervous tension when you are about to speak in public. This could even make you forget your lines. The first thing you should do is to take a long, deep breath, moving your diaphragm smoothly and rhythmically, to help relax your nerves. This will give you a better footing and confidence as you deliver the speech.

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If you apply these few tips mentioned above and put them into practice, I bet you will become a pro at public speaking.

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7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

Relationships are complicated and when you’re unhappy, it can be difficult to tell what’s causing it and what needs to change.

Sometimes it’s as easy as opening up to your partner about your problems, while other times it may be necessary to switch partners or roll solo to get your mind straight.

When you’re in the thick of things, it can be difficult to tell if you’re unhappy in your relationship or just unhappy in general (in which case, a relationship may be just the cure you need).

Here’re signs of an unhappy relationship that is possibly making you feel stuck:

1. You’re depressed about your home life.

No matter what you do in life, you’re going to have good and bad days. Your relationship is no different.

However, no matter what you’re going through at home, you have to feel comfortable in your own home.

If you constantly dread going home because your significant other is there, there’s a problem. Maybe it’s something you already know about, everyone has an argument or just needs some alone time.

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When that yearning to be alone becomes an insatiable obsession over the course of months and years, it’s time to realize you’re not the exception to the rule.

You’re unhappy in your relationship, and you need to take a look in the mirror and do whatever it takes to make yourself smile.

2. You aren’t comfortable being yourself.

Remember all those things you discovered about yourself when you first got together? The way your partner made you feel when you met that made you fall in love with him or her in the first place.

If they don’t make you feel that way anymore, it’s not the end of the world. If your partner makes you uncomfortable about being you, then her or she is only dragging you down. It’s up to you to decide how to handle that.

You need to be comfortable with who you are. This means being comfortable in your skin and with the way you walk, talk, look, breath, move, and all the other things that make you uniquely you.

If the person who supposedly loves you doesn’t make you feel good about yourself, know that you can do better. They’re not even one in a billion.

3. You can’t stop snooping.

Mutual trust is necessary in any relationship. The only way to get that trust is with respect.

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I can find you anywhere online, no matter how private and secure you think you are. The odds of you having a password I can’t crack are slim. If we’ve met in person, I could install a remote key logger on your device without even touching it.

Finding your information online hardly takes a clandestine organization. Any idiot with a Wi-Fi-enabled device can cyberstalk you. I’m just the only idiot in the village admitting it.

So now that we know everyone snoops, it’s time to address your personal habits. Governments snoop because they don’t trust us. If you’re snooping on your partner, it’s because you don’t trust them.

It’s ok to have doubts, and it’s perfectly normal to look into anything that looks weird, but keep in mind that data collection is only half of an investigation.

If you find yourself constantly snooping and questioning everything, clearly there’s a trust issue and the relationship likely needs to end.

4. You’re afraid of commitment.

If you’ve been dating longer than a year and you aren’t engaged, it’s never going to happen.

Commitment is important. People will come up with a million ways to describe why they can’t be committed.

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No matter who you are if you like it, you need to put a ring on it. Find an engagement ring, stick a gemstone in it and marry the person. If you’re not legally able to get married or you don’t believe in it for one reason or another, have a child (or adopt one, however you’re able to) or treat your partner’s family like your own. It’s a huge financial and mental commitment.

If you’re not ready for one or the other after some time, don’t waste anymore of your precious life on the relationship.

Your relationship should be something that propels you forward. If it’s not going anywhere, make it an open relationship and call it what it is—dating multiple people.

5. You imagine a happier life without your partner.

If all you’re doing is imagining a happier life without your partner, it’s a sign that you’re in the wrong relationship. You’re unhappy and you need to get out.

Your partner should be included in your dreams. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a future with someone.

Try to remember what you dreamed of before you got your heart broken by the realities of life, love and the pursuit of human success.

Remember when you would crush on that cute kid in class? You would secretly imagine marrying him or her and going on an adventure—that’s the way life should be.

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If you’re not at least imagining adventures together, then why are you in that relationship?

6. You resent, rather than love your partner.

When a relationship starts to crumble, you begin to resent your partner for all the things you once loved about him or her.

When you’ve reached this point, your partner has reached at least No. 2 on this list. From your partner’s perspective, your unhappiness with them is picked up as bashing them for being who they are.

If you’re both unhappy in the relationship, it’s better if it ends as quickly and painlessly as possible.

7. You chase past feelings.

It’s okay to reminisce about the past, but if all you do is wish things were like they used to be, it’s a sign you’re not on the right path.

You’re unhappy and, at the very least, you need to have an open dialogue about it. This isn’t necessarily a sign that the relationship should end, but it definitely needs a spark.

When you talk to your partner candidly about what it is you’re looking for, you never know how they’ll react. The risk alone is worth it, good or bad.

Final thoughts

If you’re feeling stuck in your current relationship, it’s time to reflect about it with your partner. Don’t ignore these signs of an unhappy relationship as they will slowly go worse and harm both you and your partner in long-term.

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