It is very essential to define the term “Marriage” because different people have different meanings of the term. No doubt, there are a lot of benefits in union of a man and woman especially the sweetness and beautiful life you enjoy as partners. Many marriages have easily been terminated today. A reason might be that some people failed to understand how to get men committed to you.
As a result of this failure a sweet home will just break off easily. In one of my previous articles I explained the reasons why many relationships fail at their tender period. People sometimes also fail to understand what their partner want. If the level of understanding hits the bottom then the marriage is at the brick of divorce.
Moreover, no matter how full of understanding a relationship is, such a union will face challenges. When the challenges can’t be overcome and coped with it, might lead to divorce.
Divorce without more definition is an obstacle to any relationship. It is also known as the end of marital problems because it is surely the end of the whole marriage when we call it a divorce. It is surely a device that breaks the sweetness and enjoyment of two partners.
According to a Spodek Law Group who assists in overcoming difficulties in divorce with a strong emphasis placed on compassionate, comprehensiveness and cutting edge legal representation. The group explained the major three things in marriage which can lead to divorce. These 3 reasons which all start with an A can pose a huge threat to the stability and understanding level of a romantic relationship. I will explain the three As below.
Addiction is known as a habit of doing something consistently. Though, consistently in the sense that such individuals can’t go without the habit. Such a habit has a negative effect on the life of the individual. Simple examples are those who are addicted to hard drugs like Cocaine, Heroine, Liquor and others. No doubt, a partner’s addiction to any of the above drugs can have a negative effect on your relationship.
Also, addiction to sex of a partner can end a marriage by divorce. I have read many stories where the sole reason why many partners divorced is a sex addiction. A partner will accuse his partner of not satisfying him or her. Another addiction is gambling. All addicted activities can interfere with our living thereby affecting our marriage.
Abuse without doubt can terminate a marriage. Abuse simply means misusing or insult in a marriage. The abuse can be verbal, physical, mental and also economical. The physical abuse in a marriage is also known as “domestic violence”. Good examples of physical abuse are beating, pushing, hitting, pressing etc.
On the other hand, examples of emotional maltreatment is a partner’s high level of jealousy, maltreatment of the spouse, making jest or fun of the partner or revulsion of affection.
However, economical abuse in matrimony is the excessive control of finance by one partner. The misusing of the financial aspect of a relationship by a spouse to mistreat the other spouse so that they live in misery. This makes your partner feel scared, powerless and eventually makes her or him sad or not comfortable in the marriage.
Adultery is said to be an extra-marital affair. It is an intimate infidelity to one’s better half or husband. It’s a costly offensive act on a spiritual, social and moral level because the trust of your companion is being betrayed. In some cultures, adultery is seen as a crime as well, but this is not the case in a few Europeans and African countries. Sincerely commiting adultery poses serious problem within a marriage.
After reading this post, I believe you have learnt from it. Therefore, you need to spare your marriage by understanding your partner. There is nothing good in getting into the stage of divorce. Enjoy your wonderful life and sweet relationship with your partner by learning from these three ‘As’ to avoid divorce.
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