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How American TV Show New Girl Has Broken Sitcom Stereotypes

How American TV Show New Girl Has Broken Sitcom Stereotypes
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Fresh from the winter break with a brand new time slot (Tuesday, 8 pm, ET), New Girl continues to rack up the glowing reviews; this is a rare achievement for such a longstanding sitcom. The show is now in its sixth season and shows no signs of slowing down!

A key to the long-lasting popularity of New Girl has been the show’s unwillingness to bow to typical sitcom stereotypes. Whether binging on Netflix or catching rerun blocks on cable, the show’s legion of fans has always appreciated their beloved gang of characters’ refusal to fall prey to the mapped-out rules that seem to govern the characters of most other shows.

Breaking from accepted societal norms in this way has worked to the show’s advantage. Hopefully, other sitcoms will take notice and be more inclined to follow New Girl’s lead by going against the grain. 

Redefining Masculinity

In the hands of lesser writers, New Girl’s basic premise would be a nearly intolerable parade of masculine vs. feminine clichés. We have Jess, the kooky teacher with the lovably messed-up life, rooming with three males, Nick, Schmidt, and Wilson. And they’re in a massive Los Angeles apartment. I know – like what could go wrong, right?

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Those unfamiliar with the show might most likely envision Jess having to struggle with your run of the mill stereotypical guy behavior.

Pick your poison: uncleanliness, sports marathons on the television, and a steady stream of disgusting male antics. However, in a clever twist, the writer—Elizabeth Meriwether—and the entire cast turn these outdated ideas on their head, subverting stock pitfalls and embracing a more hip, modern outlook that connects with younger viewers.

So, what we have with New Girl is a trio of sensitive, hip urban males who are more inclined to give Jess dating advice than to try to climb into bed with her at the closest opportunity. Hence, instead of the typical “girl living with a bunch of guys” easy punchlines and slapstick gags, the comedy revolves around the day-to-day lives of the four main characters and their banter around the apartment.

In essence, New Girl is a modern character staging where men and women are on equal footing. As such, they can hang out on the same level without the clashing interests or sexual undertones that may have been incorporated into a “girl tossed in with a bunch of guys” show just ten years, or even five years, previous.

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Portraying Race on Prime Time

Although the show got off to a bit of a rocky start on the race angle, suffering much criticism for switching out Damon Wayans Jr. with Lamorne Morris’s Winston as the “token” black roommate early on. However, the show quickly rebounded and began portraying race in ways that knocked the doors off your standard sitcom narrative.

First, there was the notorious, and hilarious, episode where Schmidt takes Winston’s joke about smoking ‘crack’ seriously and ventures into the projects to score some. The misunderstanding sets up a series of hijinks which include mistaking a kind stranger offering directions for a robber, a wallet for a gun, and a turn-of-the-tables accusation on Schmidt himself.

Granted, it was risky territory to venture into, and Schmidt’s scolding of his wayward character was done with a tongue-in-cheek élan that stood in direct contrast to the politically correct dogma that could have easily been written for the situation in most other modern sitcoms. Nonetheless, they managed to pull it off.

As a matter of fact, Winston manages to buck racial stereotypes right from the introduction of his character. Here is a black man who isn’t that good at sports, who wins over a woman’s affection by hanging with her at a girl’s night, and who turns out to be a trustworthy and skilled babysitter. He never cheats on his girlfriends, and loves cats. Think back to the sitcoms you watched as a child, or even to any other sitcom currently running. Has there ever been a less stereotypical black character than Winston?

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The real kicker here is when Wayans came back to the cast. Unlike what shows would have done in the past, i.e. “replace one black guy with another one,” New Girl boldly broke the mold and took on two prominent black characters. This breach of the “only one member of an ethical group allowed per white sitcom” code further pushed New Girl into unchartered territory as far as racial identity is concerned.

A Brave New World

It isn’t often that a cable sitcom comes around and challenges age-old formulas and unwritten rules that most writers and directors would just assume their audiences want.

In fact, shows that cannot fit into any category are often left by the wayside, dying quick one-season deaths, or never even making it beyond the pilot phase. New Girl managed to dodge this fate through strong writing, a likable cast, and an immediate following that has remained loyal to the show for the duration of its run.

Hopefully, other sitcom writers, directors, and producers can take up this charge and step forward with smart, challenging, and non-stereotypical fare for the TV viewing public. As a rapidly changing society fueled by recent leaps in ethnic advances and LGBT awareness, the viewing public no longer needs to the stale, formulaic fare win.

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The message is simple: To win the hearts of today’s viewers, shows must be willing to push the envelope.

Featured photo credit: Caitlyn Wilson via unsplash.com

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How to Overcome the Fear of Public Speaking (A Step-by-Step Guide)

How to Overcome the Fear of Public Speaking (A Step-by-Step Guide)
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You’re standing behind the curtain, just about to make your way on stage to face the many faces half-shrouded in darkness in front of you. As you move towards the spotlight, your body starts to feel heavier with each step. A familiar thump echoes throughout your body – your heartbeat has gone off the charts.

Don’t worry, you’re not the only one with glossophobia(also known as speech anxiety or the fear of speaking to large crowds). Sometimes, the anxiety happens long before you even stand on stage.

Your body’s defence mechanism responds by causing a part of your brain to release adrenaline into your blood – the same chemical that gets released as if you were being chased by a lion.

Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you overcome your fear of public speaking:

1. Prepare yourself mentally and physically

According to experts, we’re built to display anxiety and to recognize it in others. If your body and mind are anxious, your audience will notice. Hence, it’s important to prepare yourself before the big show so that you arrive on stage confident, collected and ready.

“Your outside world is a reflection of your inside world. What goes on in the inside, shows on the outside.” – Bob Proctor

Exercising lightly before a presentation helps get your blood circulating and sends oxygen to the brain. Mental exercises, on the other hand, can help calm the mind and nerves. Here are some useful ways to calm your racing heart when you start to feel the butterflies in your stomach:

Warming up

If you’re nervous, chances are your body will feel the same way. Your body gets tense, your muscles feel tight or you’re breaking in cold sweat. The audience will notice you are nervous.

If you observe that this is exactly what is happening to you minutes before a speech, do a couple of stretches to loosen and relax your body. It’s better to warm up before every speech as it helps to increase the functional potential of the body as a whole. Not only that, it increases muscle efficiency, improves reaction time and your movements.

Here are some exercises to loosen up your body before show time:

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  1. Neck and shoulder rolls – This helps relieve upper body muscle tension and pressure as the rolls focus on rotating the head and shoulders, loosening the muscle. Stress and anxiety can make us rigid within this area which can make you feel agitated, especially when standing.
  2. Arm stretches – We often use this part of our muscles during a speech or presentation through our hand gestures and movements. Stretching these muscles can reduce arm fatigue, loosen you up and improve your body language range.
  3. Waist twists – Place your hands on your hips and rotate your waist in a circular motion. This exercise focuses on loosening the abdominal and lower back regions which is essential as it can cause discomfort and pain, further amplifying any anxieties you may experience.

Stay hydrated

Ever felt parched seconds before speaking? And then coming up on stage sounding raspy and scratchy in front of the audience? This happens because the adrenaline from stage fright causes your mouth to feel dried out.

To prevent all that, it’s essential we stay adequately hydrated before a speech. A sip of water will do the trick. However, do drink in moderation so that you won’t need to go to the bathroom constantly.

Try to avoid sugary beverages and caffeine, since it’s a diuretic – meaning you’ll feel thirstier. It will also amplify your anxiety which prevents you from speaking smoothly.

Meditate

Meditation is well-known as a powerful tool to calm the mind. ABC’s Dan Harris, co-anchor of Nightline and Good Morning America weekend and author of the book titled10% Happier , recommends that meditation can help individuals to feel significantly calmer, faster.

Meditation is like a workout for your mind. It gives you the strength and focus to filter out the negativity and distractions with words of encouragement, confidence and strength.

Mindfulness meditation, in particular, is a popular method to calm yourself before going up on the big stage. The practice involves sitting comfortably, focusing on your breathing and then bringing your mind’s attention to the present without drifting into concerns about the past or future – which likely includes floundering on stage.

Here’s a nice example of guided meditation before public speaking:

2. Focus on your goal

One thing people with a fear of public speaking have in common is focusing too much on themselves and the possibility of failure.

Do I look funny? What if I can’t remember what to say? Do I look stupid? Will people listen to me? Does anyone care about what I’m talking about?’

Instead of thinking this way, shift your attention to your one true purpose – contributing something of value to your audience.

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Decide on the progress you’d like your audience to make after your presentation. Notice their movements and expressions to adapt your speech to ensure that they are having a good time to leave the room as better people.

If your own focus isn’t beneficial and what it should be when you’re speaking, then shift it to what does. This is also key to establishing trust during your presentation as the audience can clearly see that you have their interests at heart.[1]

3. Convert negativity to positivity

There are two sides constantly battling inside of us – one is filled with strength and courage while the other is doubt and insecurities. Which one will you feed?

‘What if I mess up this speech? What if I’m not funny enough? What if I forget what to say?’

It’s no wonder why many of us are uncomfortable giving a presentation. All we do is bring ourselves down before we got a chance to prove ourselves. This is also known as a self-fulfilling prophecy – a belief that comes true because we are acting as if it already is. If you think you’re incompetent, then it will eventually become true.

Motivational coaches tout that positive mantras and affirmations tend to boost your confidents for the moments that matter most. Say to yourself: “I’ll ace this speech and I can do it!”

Take advantage of your adrenaline rush to encourage positive outcome rather than thinking of the negative ‘what ifs’.

Here’s a video of Psychologist Kelly McGonigal who encourages her audience to turn stress into something positive as well as provide methods on how to cope with it:

4. Understand your content

Knowing your content at your fingertips helps reduce your anxiety because there is one less thing to worry about. One way to get there is to practice numerous times before your actual speech.

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However, memorizing your script word-for-word is not encouraged. You can end up freezing should you forget something. You’ll also risk sounding unnatural and less approachable.

“No amount of reading or memorizing will make you successful in life. It is the understanding and the application of wise thought that counts.” – Bob Proctor

Many people unconsciously make the mistake of reading from their slides or memorizing their script word-for-word without understanding their content – a definite way to stress themselves out.

Understanding your speech flow and content makes it easier for you to convert ideas and concepts into your own words which you can then clearly explain to others in a conversational manner. Designing your slides to include text prompts is also an easy hack to ensure you get to quickly recall your flow when your mind goes blank.[2]

One way to understand is to memorize the over-arching concepts or ideas in your pitch. It helps you speak more naturally and let your personality shine through. It’s almost like taking your audience on a journey with a few key milestones.

5. Practice makes perfect

Like most people, many of us are not naturally attuned to public speaking. Rarely do individuals walk up to a large audience and present flawlessly without any research and preparation.

In fact, some of the top presenters make it look easy during showtime because they have spent countless hours behind-the-scenes in deep practice. Even great speakers like the late John F. Kennedy would spend months preparing his speech beforehand.

Public speaking, like any other skill, requires practice – whether it be practicing your speech countless of times in front of a mirror or making notes. As the saying goes, practice makes perfect!

6. Be authentic

There’s nothing wrong with feeling stressed before going up to speak in front of an audience.

Many people fear public speaking because they fear others will judge them for showing their true, vulnerable self. However, vulnerability can sometimes help you come across as more authentic and relatable as a speaker.

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Drop the pretence of trying to act or speak like someone else and you’ll find that it’s worth the risk. You become more genuine, flexible and spontaneous, which makes it easier to handle unpredictable situations – whether it’s getting tough questions from the crowd or experiencing an unexpected technical difficulty.

To find out your authentic style of speaking is easy. Just pick a topic or issue you are passionate about and discuss this like you normally would with a close family or friend. It is like having a conversation with someone in a personal one-to-one setting. A great way to do this on stage is to select a random audience member(with a hopefully calming face) and speak to a single person at a time during your speech. You’ll find that it’s easier trying to connect to one person at a time than a whole room.

With that said, being comfortable enough to be yourself in front of others may take a little time and some experience, depending how comfortable you are with being yourself in front of others. But once you embrace it, stage fright will not be as intimidating as you initially thought.

Presenters like Barack Obama are a prime example of a genuine and passionate speaker:

7. Post speech evaluation

Last but not the least, if you’ve done public speaking and have been scarred from a bad experience, try seeing it as a lesson learned to improve yourself as a speaker.

Don’t beat yourself up after a presentation

We are the hardest on ourselves and it’s good to be. But when you finish delivering your speech or presentation, give yourself some recognition and a pat on the back.

You managed to finish whatever you had to do and did not give up. You did not let your fears and insecurities get to you. Take a little more pride in your work and believe in yourself.

Improve your next speech

As mentioned before, practice does make perfect. If you want to improve your public speaking skills, try asking someone to film you during a speech or presentation. Afterwards, watch and observe what you can do to improve yourself next time.

Here are some questions you can ask yourself after every speech:

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  • How did I do?
  • Are there any areas for improvement?
  • Did I sound or look stressed?
  • Did I stumble on my words? Why?
  • Was I saying “um” too often?
  • How was the flow of the speech?

Write everything you observed down and keep practicing and improving. In time, you’ll be able to better manage your fears of public speaking and appear more confident when it counts.

If you want even more tips about public speaking or delivering a great presentation, check out these articles too:

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