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8 Cultural Date Ideas In Somerset That Cost Nothing

8 Cultural Date Ideas In Somerset That Cost Nothing

Somerset is well-known for its delicious cider and world-famous Cheddar cheese, pretty thatched cottages and enchanting woodlands. But it is also a land rich in culture. It calls to be explored, to be shared. From the Mendip Hills to Minehead, expect to be transported through time and see fairytale castles and ancient harbours. Jaw-dropping landscapes, much designated an area of outstanding natural beauty, it is guaranteed to set the scene for any romantic date in Somerset.

While cheese, cider, and most things seldom come free, much of Somerset’s impressive heritage is free to indulge your senses in. Here are 8 cultural dating ideas that won’t cost a penny.

1. Find treasure in Watchet

Watchet Harbour

    Meet your date at Watchet’s historic harbour, and if the picturesque seaside location doesn’t impress, dazzle them with stories about hidden treasures. Home to an early Iron Age fort, Watchet had to defend itself from many enemies, including Vikings looting the locally produced coins. Suggesting a stroll along the coastline in search of ancient ammonite fossils should bring out the child in both of you; you might find a coin, you might find love.

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    2. Nestle up in a reserve and discover a rare species

    Greylake Wetlands

      If you love nature, it’s probably important to find a mate who appreciates the natural world as much as you do. There are over 70 designated nature reserves across the county to explore with your kindred spirit. The Levels and Moors in Somerset are home to Greylake, Ham and Wall play host to the famous Avalon Marshes. Both are home to some of Britain’s rarest species.

      3. Don’t be cheesy in Cheddar

      Cheddar Gorge

        The first thing most people think of when they hear about Cheddar is cheese. But the Cheddar Gorge Cheese Company’s name gives a clue to why people have been visiting the area for hundreds of years. Cheddar’s spectacular limestone gorge, 500 feet at its highest, demands to be ogled from riverside walks below or cliff-top footpaths above.

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        4. Art lovers connect in Bruton

        Hauser and Wirth Gallery

          The Hauser and Wirth Somerset gallery and gardens boasts a world-class multi-purpose arts centre. Set in the grounds of a restored 18th century farm at Bruton, the Guardian once dubbed it the next Guggenheim. Check out their website to see a calendar of events throughout the year.

          5. Be seduced by Wells

          Wells Somerset

            They say the best things come in small packages, and the city of Wells, with its 12th century cathedral littered with over 300 statues and carvings, is no exception. It may be Somerset’s only city, and you’ve probably seen bigger towns, but Somerset loves the fact it plays host to England’s smallest city. At the foot of the Mendip Hills, the city’s architecture tells a spell-binding story you’ll get lost in. Take your date’s hand and meander around its majestic streets.

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            6. A knight’s tale at Nunney Castle

            Nunney Castle

              There are few places where you can easily access and visit a medieval castle. Dating back to 1370, Nunney Castle may be a ruin, but it’s well-preserved. Complete with a moat, it has an awe-inspiring great tower, flanked by four rounded corner towers, and was the creation of a local knight with a taste for opulence. If you believe in fairy tales, this could be the start of yours.

              7. A Victorian romance in Clevedon

              Clevedon Pier

                How about meeting your date at a Victorian bandstand in Clevedon? Overlooking the Severn Estuary, this pretty Victorian seaside town packs a choice of features, Clevedon Pier being a must. A pebbled beach will supply enough flat stones for skimming, whilst its marine lake provides a haven for both native and migrating birds. Salthouse Field’s cute light railway runs around its edges.

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                8. Be Street wise about compatibility

                Clarks Village

                  The village of Street is home to Britain’s first factory outlet centre. Clarks Village has over 90 famous brands to peruse if you need a little retail therapy. Of course, this article is about dating ideas you can do for free, so this is strictly window shopping. What a perfect opportunity to see if you and your potential lover have similar tastes in things.

                  Image Sources: Watchet Harbour via invisiblestudio.org; Greylake via stjohnspool-birds.co.uk; Cheddar Gorge via cheddargorge.co.uk; Hauser and Wirth Gallery via hauserwirthsomerset.com; Wells via walkingbritain.co.uk; Nunney Castle via dronestagr.am; Clevedon Pier via clevedonpier.co.uk; Clarks Village via wikiwand.com.

                  Featured photo credit: Unknown via cheddargorge.co.uk

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                  The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

                  The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

                  Are you waiting for life events to turn out the way you want so that you can feel more positive about your life? Do you find yourself having pre-conditions to your sense of well-being, thinking that certain things must happen for you to be happier? Do you think there is no way that your life stresses can make you anything other than “stressed out” and that other people just don’t understand?  If your answer is “yes” to any of these questions, you might find yourself lingering in the land of negativity for too long!

                  The following are some tips to keep positive no matter what comes your way. This post will help you stop looking for what psychologists call “positivity” in all the wrong places!  Here are the ten essential habits of positive people.

                  1. Positive people don’t confuse quitting with letting go.

                  Instead of hanging on to ideas, beliefs, and even people that are no longer healthy for them, they trust their judgement to let go of negative forces in their lives.  Especially in terms of relationships, they subscribe to The Relationship Prayer which goes:

                   I will grant myself the ability to trust the healthy people in my life … 

                  To set limits with, or let go of, the negative ones … 

                  And to have the wisdom to know the DIFFERENCE!

                   2.  Positive people don’t just have a good day – they make a good day.

                  Waiting, hoping and wishing seldom have a place in the vocabulary of positive individuals. Rather, they use strong words that are pro-active and not reactive. Passivity leads to a lack of involvement, while positive people get very involved in constructing their lives. They work to make changes to feel better in tough times rather than wish their feelings away.

                  3. For the positive person, the past stays in the past.

                  Good and bad memories alike stay where they belong – in the past where they happened. They don’t spend much time pining for the good ol’ days because they are too busy making new memories now. The negative pulls from the past are used not for self-flagellation or unproductive regret, but rather productive regret where they use lessons learned as stepping stones towards a better future.

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                  4. Show me a positive person and I can show you a grateful person.

                  The most positive people are the most grateful people.  They do not focus on the potholes of their lives.  They focus on the pot of gold that awaits them every day, with new smells, sights, feelings and experiences.  They see life as a treasure chest full of wonder.

                  5. Rather than being stuck in their limitations, positive people are energized by their possibilities.

                  Optimistic people focus on what they can do, not what they can’t do.  They are not fooled to think that there is a perfect solution to every problem, and are confident that there are many solutions and possibilities.  They are not afraid to attempt new solutions to old problems, rather than spin their wheels expecting things to be different this time.  They refuse to be like Charlie Brown expecting that this time Lucy will not pull the football from him!

                  6. Positive people do not let their fears interfere with their lives!

                  Positive people have observed that those who are defined and pulled back by their fears never really truly live a full life. While proceeding with appropriate caution, they do not let fear keep them from trying new things. They realize that even failures are necessary steps for a successful life. They have confidence that they can get back up when they are knocked down by life events or their own mistakes, due to a strong belief in their personal resilience.

                  7. Positive people smile a lot!

                  When you feel positive on the inside it is like you are smiling from within, and these smiles are contagious. Furthermore, the more others are with positive people, the more they tend to smile too! They see the lightness in life, and have a sense of humor even when it is about themselves. Positive people have a high degree of self-respect, but refuse to take themselves too seriously!

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                  8. People who are positive are great communicators.

                  They realize that assertive, confident communication is the only way to connect with others in everyday life.  They avoid judgmental, angry interchanges, and do not let someone else’s blow up give them a reason to react in kind. Rather, they express themselves with tact and finesse.  They also refuse to be non-assertive and let people push them around. They refuse to own problems that belong to someone else.

                  9. Positive people realize that if you live long enough, there are times for great pain and sadness.

                  One of the most common misperceptions about positive people is that to be positive, you must always be happy. This can not be further from the truth. Anyone who has any depth at all is certainly not happy all the time.  Being sad, angry, disappointed are all essential emotions in life. How else would you ever develop empathy for others if you lived a life of denial and shallow emotions? Positive people do not run from the gamut of emotions, and accept that part of the healing process is to allow themselves to experience all types of feelings, not only the happy ones. A positive person always holds the hope that there is light at the end of the darkness.  

                  10. Positive person are empowered people – they refuse to blame others and are not victims in life.

                  Positive people seek the help and support of others who are supportive and safe.They limit interactions with those who are toxic in any manner, even if it comes to legal action and physical estrangement such as in the case of abuse. They have identified their own basic human rights, and they respect themselves too much to play the part of a victim. There is no place for holding grudges with a positive mindset. Forgiveness helps positive people become better, not bitter.

                  How about you?  How many habits of positive people do you personally find in yourself?  If you lack even a few of these 10 essential habits, you might find that the expected treasure at the end of the rainbow was not all that it was cracked up to be. How could it — if you keep on bringing a negative attitude around?

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                  I wish you well in keeping positive, because as we all know, there is certainly nothing positive about being negative!

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