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5 Unforgettable and Incredibly Unique Date Ideas In NYC

5 Unforgettable and Incredibly Unique Date Ideas In NYC

If you’ve done a lot of traveling, you know that many of the so-called “most romantic destinations” on the planet can be sadly underwhelming in person. The Eiffel Tower, for example, is small by modern standards and surrounded by vocal souvenir vendors. Central Park is crowded and frequented by noisy, colorful characters. For a person looking for last-minute date ideas in NYC, the fear of boring one’s date with a succession of tourist traps and overworked hotspots is therefore very real. How do you choose an activity that will not only impress a first date, but also show them a unique view of this famous city?

If you find yourself grasping at straws while looking for fun first date ideas, why not try one of the five unique first date ideas below? These fascinating, lesser-known attractions are sure to create romantic memories that last a lifetime:

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1) The High Line Park

The High Line Park was only recently developed, so it remains one of NYC’s true hidden gems—and one of the most unique date ideas you could ever hope to find. The High Line is nothing like your average city park. Instead of being a plain patch of trees, grass, and benches, the High Line is built entirely on top of an old above-ground railway line. According to the Culture Cheat Sheet, “There’s a lot to love about the High Line, but most fascinating of all is the perspective this park offers as you navigate the “wilderness” of downtown Manhattan. The High Line combines historical architecture and rugged natural beauty with a view of the steady commuter traffic below, creating a surreal — and totally incomparable — urban landscape.”

2) Jet ski Tours

Though jet skiing is often associated with rural settings, you can actually do it right here in NYC thanks to SeaTheCity jet ski tours. What better romantic getaway is there for the active couple than an exciting, adrenaline-pumping ride through NYC’s iconic waterways? There’s no easier way to see the city—and experience exhilarating freedom away from the crowds—than a jet ski tour. When it comes to awesome date ideas in NYC, this one’s got some serious horsepower behind it.

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3) The Dream House

If you’re looking for creative date ideas that don’t involve art museums or concert halls—most of which your artistically-inclined date has probably visited before—check out the Dream House on Tribeca’s Church Street. Created in 1993 by married couple La Monte Young (a composer) and his visual artist wife Marian Zazeela, the Dream House represents the zenith of their 40 years of creative collaboration. In the Dream House, as Zazeela explains, “Together, the sound and light can be experienced as a new form or new media: the sound and light environment. The experience of the two mediums together as one requires a new, or at least different, mode of attention.” To produce this effect, every move a visitor makes in the Dream House creates a different array of sounds. Meanwhile, surreal pink lighting guides them through their journey.

4) The Cloisters

This often-overlooked branch of the Metropolitan Museum of Art, located in northern Manhattan’s Fort Tryon Park, is replete with lush gardens and medieval art and architecture. If you’re looking for memorable date ideas, the authentic historic pillars (many of which have been imported from Europe) and over 2000 works of art in the Cloisters are sure to please.

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5) Greenacre Park

If you have ever wished you could sit next to a stunning waterfall with your date, but you assumed such an experience was impossible in the middle of NYC, let Greenacre Park expand your horizons. Located in the heart of midtown Manhattan on 51st street, this “pocket park” (at just 1/4 of an acre) boasts a 25-foot waterfall, tranquil greenery, and ornate benches and patio tables. There is no finer urban oasis in which to impress a first date.

Just as we often find love unexpectedly, many of NYC’s most romantic locations are also among its most hidden. Don’t be afraid to look beyond this list when planning your second, third, and fourth dates—there are many more quietly charming locales left to be found in the Big Apple.

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Last Updated on September 20, 2018

How to Stay Calm and Cool When You Are Extremely Stressful

How to Stay Calm and Cool When You Are Extremely Stressful

Being in a hurry all the time drains your energy. Your work and routine life make you feel overwhelmed. Getting caught up in things beyond your control stresses you out…

If you’d like to stay calm and cool in stressful situations, put the following 8 steps into practice:

1. Breathe

The next time you’re faced with a stressful situation that makes you want to hurry, stop what you’re doing for one minute and perform the following steps:

  • Take five deep breaths in and out (your belly should come forward with each inhale).
  • Imagine all that stress leaving your body with each exhale.
  • Smile. Fake it if you have to. It’s pretty hard to stay grumpy with a goofy grin on your face.

Feel free to repeat the above steps every few hours at work or home if you need to.

2. Loosen up

After your breathing session, perform a quick body scan to identify any areas that are tight or tense. Clenched jaw? Rounded shoulders? Anything else that isn’t at ease?

Gently touch or massage any of your body parts that are under tension to encourage total relaxation. It might help to imagine you’re in a place that calms you: a beach, hot tub, or nature trail, for example.

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3. Chew slowly

Slow down at the dinner table if you want to learn to be patient and lose weight. Shoveling your food down as fast as you can is a surefire way to eat more than you need to (and find yourself with a bellyache).

Be a mindful eater who pays attention to the taste, texture, and aroma of every dish. Chew slowly while you try to guess all of the ingredients that were used to prepare your dish.

Chewing slowly will also reduce those dreadful late-night cravings that sneak up on you after work.

4. Let go

Cliche as it sounds, it’s very effective.

The thing that seems like the end of the world right now?

It’s not. Promise.

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Stressing and worrying about the situation you’re in won’t do any good because you’re already in it, so just let it go.

Letting go isn’t easy, so here’s a guide to help you:

21 Things To Do When You Find It Hard To Let Go

5. Enjoy the journey

Focusing on the end result can quickly become exhausting. Chasing a bold, audacious goal that’s going to require a lot of time and patience? Split it into several mini-goals so you’ll have several causes for celebration.

Stop focusing on the negative thoughts. Giving yourself consistent positive feedback will help you grow patience, stay encouraged, and find more joy in the process of achieving your goals.

6. Look at the big picture

The next time you find your stress level skyrocketing, take a deep breath, and ask yourself:

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Will this matter to me…

  • Next week?
  • Next month?
  • Next year?
  • In 10 years?

Hint: No, it won’t.

I bet most of the stuff that stresses you wouldn’t matter the next week, maybe not even the next day.

Stop agonizing over things you can’t control because you’re only hurting yourself.

7. Stop demanding perfection of yourself

You’re not perfect and that’s okay. Show me a person who claims to be perfect and I’ll show you a dirty liar.

Demanding perfection of yourself (or anybody else) will only stress you out because it just isn’t possible.

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8. Practice patience every day

Below are a few easy ways you can practice patience every day, increasing your ability to remain calm and cool in times of stress:

  • The next time you go to the grocery store, get in the longest line.
  • Instead of going through the drive-thru at your bank, go inside.
  • Take a long walk through a secluded park or trail.

Final thoughts

Staying calm in stressful situations is possible, all you need is some daily practice.

Taking deep breaths and eat mindfully are some simple ways to train your brain to be more patient. But changing the way you think of a situation and staying positive are most important in keeping cool whenever you feel overwhelmed and stressful.

Featured photo credit: Brooke Cagle via unsplash.com

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