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5 Unforgettable and Incredibly Unique Date Ideas In NYC

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5 Unforgettable and Incredibly Unique Date Ideas In NYC

If you’ve done a lot of traveling, you know that many of the so-called “most romantic destinations” on the planet can be sadly underwhelming in person. The Eiffel Tower, for example, is small by modern standards and surrounded by vocal souvenir vendors. Central Park is crowded and frequented by noisy, colorful characters. For a person looking for last-minute date ideas in NYC, the fear of boring one’s date with a succession of tourist traps and overworked hotspots is therefore very real. How do you choose an activity that will not only impress a first date, but also show them a unique view of this famous city?

If you find yourself grasping at straws while looking for fun first date ideas, why not try one of the five unique first date ideas below? These fascinating, lesser-known attractions are sure to create romantic memories that last a lifetime:

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1) The High Line Park

The High Line Park was only recently developed, so it remains one of NYC’s true hidden gems—and one of the most unique date ideas you could ever hope to find. The High Line is nothing like your average city park. Instead of being a plain patch of trees, grass, and benches, the High Line is built entirely on top of an old above-ground railway line. According to the Culture Cheat Sheet, “There’s a lot to love about the High Line, but most fascinating of all is the perspective this park offers as you navigate the “wilderness” of downtown Manhattan. The High Line combines historical architecture and rugged natural beauty with a view of the steady commuter traffic below, creating a surreal — and totally incomparable — urban landscape.”

2) Jet ski Tours

Though jet skiing is often associated with rural settings, you can actually do it right here in NYC thanks to SeaTheCity jet ski tours. What better romantic getaway is there for the active couple than an exciting, adrenaline-pumping ride through NYC’s iconic waterways? There’s no easier way to see the city—and experience exhilarating freedom away from the crowds—than a jet ski tour. When it comes to awesome date ideas in NYC, this one’s got some serious horsepower behind it.

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3) The Dream House

If you’re looking for creative date ideas that don’t involve art museums or concert halls—most of which your artistically-inclined date has probably visited before—check out the Dream House on Tribeca’s Church Street. Created in 1993 by married couple La Monte Young (a composer) and his visual artist wife Marian Zazeela, the Dream House represents the zenith of their 40 years of creative collaboration. In the Dream House, as Zazeela explains, “Together, the sound and light can be experienced as a new form or new media: the sound and light environment. The experience of the two mediums together as one requires a new, or at least different, mode of attention.” To produce this effect, every move a visitor makes in the Dream House creates a different array of sounds. Meanwhile, surreal pink lighting guides them through their journey.

4) The Cloisters

This often-overlooked branch of the Metropolitan Museum of Art, located in northern Manhattan’s Fort Tryon Park, is replete with lush gardens and medieval art and architecture. If you’re looking for memorable date ideas, the authentic historic pillars (many of which have been imported from Europe) and over 2000 works of art in the Cloisters are sure to please.

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5) Greenacre Park

If you have ever wished you could sit next to a stunning waterfall with your date, but you assumed such an experience was impossible in the middle of NYC, let Greenacre Park expand your horizons. Located in the heart of midtown Manhattan on 51st street, this “pocket park” (at just 1/4 of an acre) boasts a 25-foot waterfall, tranquil greenery, and ornate benches and patio tables. There is no finer urban oasis in which to impress a first date.

Just as we often find love unexpectedly, many of NYC’s most romantic locations are also among its most hidden. Don’t be afraid to look beyond this list when planning your second, third, and fourth dates—there are many more quietly charming locales left to be found in the Big Apple.

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Last Updated on November 22, 2021

Thanksgiving: It’s About The Simple Things

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Thanksgiving: It’s About The Simple Things

Thanksgiving, a day of pure gluttony, football, and possible uncomfortable situations with family members that you may or may not like. Oh, yeah, and the whole “know and reflect on what it is to be thankful and grateful.”

During the holiday season many people forget what this time of year is bout and are too worried about getting the “early-bird” deals on Black Friday and making sure that they have the perfect gifts for their loved ones. I am sort of a “Grinch” when it comes to the holiday season, mostly because of that mentality by many of the poeple around me.

But instead of being grinch-like this holiday season, I decided to simplify things and get back to what this time of year is actually is about; being thankful for what I have and what I can give.

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Simplify

I’m not a “minimalist” in any real sense, but in the last few months the talks of Patrick Rhone and others have got me to rethink my stance. Can you really have too much stuff?

Absolutely.

And with all that stuff comes the burden and the weight of it on your back.

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If you feel that the things around you are out of control, maybe it’s time to simplify and be thankful and grateful for what you have and use. Here are a few things that you can do to simplify:

  • You know those gadgets in the drawer that you said you were going to sell? Well, time to get the listing on eBay and sell them. Or, send them to a place like Gazelle. Even if they are old and won’t get money, you can at least recycle them.
  • Get rid of things you don’t need. Like old books, clothes, tools, etc. Have something that’s been laying around forever with no use? Donate it to a charity or church. If you aren’t using it, someone else could be.
  • Find your productivity tools and stick with them. Use tools and gadgets that serve multiple purposes so you can simplify your tool set.

Be Mindful

You don’t have to be a master Buddhist or meditator to be mindful (although, it can definitely help). Being mindful comes down to being cognizant of the present and not keeping yourself in the past or future. It’s about living in the moment and being aware of yourself and everything around you. It’s just being.

Without getting too “California” on you, it is super important to be mindful during the holiday rush. Rather than worrying about the things that you forgot at your house on the way to relatives or thinking about the next stop in your endless holiday travels, just breath and think about what you are currently doing.

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Spend the time with your family and friends and don’t crush the moment. Try not to concentrate so hard on getting the perfect photo of the “awesome moment” of the day and actually miss the awesome moment.

Being mindful over the holidays will help you be with your families, friends, and yourself allowing you to enjoy your time.

Reflect

As the year is coming to a close (yes, it really is that close!) it’s a great time to start reflecting on what you have accomplished and what you haven’t. Within the next few weeks we will have a more throrough reflection article here at Lifehack.org, but reflecting every now and then over your holiday break is a great way to see where you have been doing well in your life and where you need to improve.

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Reflection shouldn’t be used to “get down” on yourself. Reflection should be used to take an honset inventory of what you have accomplished, how you handeled situations, and what you can do better. If you journal everyday (a daily form of reflection) it may be a good time to start going over some of the things that you have written and start to put together a year’s end journal entry. I mean, how else will you write your autobiography?

But, seriously, reflecting on yourself makes you aware of your successes and faults and helps you plan and make goals for the coming year. It makes you a better person.

So, while you are stuffing your face with bird, stuffing, and mashed taters’, remember that the holidays are much more than the superficial things. Use this holiday to become a better person.

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