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How To Make The Most of Your 20s

How To Make The Most of Your 20s

Shut Off Facebook

Disconnect from social media at least once a week. Take a walk, do some writing, or spend time with loved ones. Technology has become such a necessity that we often lose touch with the natural beauties of life.

Don’t Stress About Love

In your 20s, there’s a good chance you are still figuring out who you are. Don’t worry so much about falling in love. Instead, make it a priority to develop as a person in order to figure out what you need in a companion.

Reconnect With Your Parents

I’ve learned the most about my parents in my two years out of college than I have in all of my previous years. When you are older you can connect with your parents in a way you weren’t able to when you were a child. You can really get to know them as individuals and not just as the people who raised you.

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Learn How To Manage Money

Read books, take courses, and develop self-discipline. This is a skill that nobody will teach you and is essential for all adults to have.

Be Ambitious

Chase a dream or invest in your passions. Now is the only time in your life where people will encourage you to be selfish with your needs. You can take a lot more risks at age 20 than when you are older, married, and have kids.

Travel

Meet new people and gain new experiences! This world is huge and diverse and you only get one opportunity to experience it. Immersing yourself in different cultures expands your worldview and intelligence of the world.

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Establish Healthy Habits

Your body is like a vehicle. When you eat well and exercise regularly, you are allowing your body to run on the most efficient fuel it can possibly have. Establishing healthy habits not only makes you a healthier person but it establishes a level of self-respect. It also reflects to those around you that you have a strong self of self and see extreme value in yourself.

Learn A New Skill

Learn to play an instrument, sing, or even a new language.

Read Books

Everything you need to know is in a book. Education can be fun! Find a topic that interests you and immerse yourself in it. There’s no excuse to being an uneducated person. If you are a person with a busy schedule, invest in audiobooks. Audiobooks make it incredibly easy to digest information on the go.

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Do One Thing That Scares You Every Week

This is one of my favorite practices that I have implemented in my life. Go out and challenge yourself! Talk to that attractive person you see at the grocery store. Confront negative feelings you have toward someone. Go skydiving! Avoiding your comfort zone will lead you toward personal growth.

Build A Network

Recognize that you can’t achieve success in life on your own. A strong network is the most powerful asset you can have. Meet people, be friendly, and develop relationships. Offer value to others and you will receive value in return. Knowing the right people can open a lot of doors for you that will aide in your success.

Start A Marketable Project

It can be anything from starting a YouTube channel to starting your own business. Starting young gives you the freedom to fail so don’t be afraid to pursue new challenges.

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Commit To Personal Growth

Think of yourself as a business. If you want to be a successful business you can’t be afraid to invest in yourself. Spend money on personal development classes, videos, or books and commit to becoming the best you you can possibly be.

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Last Updated on March 13, 2019

How to Get out of a Rut: 12 Useful Ways to Get Unstuck

How to Get out of a Rut: 12 Useful Ways to Get Unstuck

Have you gotten into a rut before? Or are you in a rut right now?

You know you’re in a rut when you run out of ideas and inspiration. I personally see a rut as a productivity vacuum. It might very well be a reason why you aren’t getting results. Even as you spend more time on your work, you can’t seem to get anything constructive done. While I’m normally productive, I get into occasional ruts (especially when I’ve been working back-to-back without rest). During those times, I can spend an entire day in front of the computer and get nothing done. It can be quite frustrating.

Over time, I have tried and found several methods that are helpful to pull me out of a rut. If you experience ruts too, whether as a working professional, a writer, a blogger, a student or other work, you will find these useful. Here are 12 of my personal tips to get out of ruts:

1. Work on the small tasks.

When you are in a rut, tackle it by starting small. Clear away your smaller tasks which have been piling up. Reply to your emails, organize your documents, declutter your work space, and reply to private messages.

Whenever I finish doing that, I generate a positive momentum which I bring forward to my work.

2. Take a break from your work desk.

Get yourself away from your desk and go take a walk. Go to the washroom, walk around the office, go out and get a snack.

Your mind is too bogged down and needs some airing. Sometimes I get new ideas right after I walk away from my computer.

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3. Upgrade yourself

Take the down time to upgrade yourself. Go to a seminar. Read up on new materials (#7). Pick up a new language. Or any of the 42 ways here to improve yourself.

The modern computer uses different typefaces because Steve Jobs dropped in on a calligraphy class back in college. How’s that for inspiration?

4. Talk to a friend.

Talk to someone and get your mind off work for a while.

Talk about anything, from casual chatting to a deep conversation about something you really care about. You will be surprised at how the short encounter can be rejuvenating in its own way.

5. Forget about trying to be perfect.

If you are in a rut, the last thing you want to do is step on your own toes with perfectionist tendencies.

Just start small. Do what you can, at your own pace. Let yourself make mistakes.

Soon, a little trickle of inspiration will come. And then it’ll build up with more trickles. Before you know it, you have a whole stream of ideas.

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6. Paint a vision to work towards.

If you are continuously getting in a rut with your work, maybe there’s no vision inspiring you to move forward.

Think about why you are doing this, and what you are doing it for. What is the end vision in mind?

Make it as vivid as possible. Make sure it’s a vision that inspires you and use that to trigger you to action.

7. Read a book (or blog).

The things we read are like food to our brain. If you are out of ideas, it’s time to feed your brain with great materials.

Here’s a list of 40 books you can start off with. Stock your browser with only the feeds of high quality blogs, such as Lifehack.org, DumbLittleMan, Seth Godin’s Blog, Tim Ferris’ Blog, Zen Habits or The Personal Excellence Blog.

Check out the best selling books; those are generally packed with great wisdom.

8. Have a quick nap.

If you are at home, take a quick nap for about 20-30 minutes. This clears up your mind and gives you a quick boost. Nothing quite like starting off on a fresh start after catching up on sleep.

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9. Remember why you are doing this.

Sometimes we lose sight of why we do what we do, and after a while we become jaded. A quick refresher on why you even started on this project will help.

What were you thinking when you thought of doing this? Retrace your thoughts back to that moment. Recall why you are doing this. Then reconnect with your muse.

10. Find some competition.

Nothing quite like healthy competition to spur us forward. If you are out of ideas, then check up on what people are doing in your space.

Colleagues at work, competitors in the industry, competitors’ products and websites, networking conventions.. you get the drill.

11. Go exercise.

Since you are not making headway at work, might as well spend the time shaping yourself up.

Sometimes we work so much that we neglect our health and fitness. Go jog, swim, cycle, whichever exercise you prefer.

As you improve your physical health, your mental health will improve, too. The different facets of ourselves are all interlinked.

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Here’re 15 Tips to Restart the Exercise Habit (and How to Keep It).

12. Take a good break.

Ruts are usually signs that you have been working too long and too hard. It’s time to get a break.

Beyond the quick tips above, arrange for a 1-day or 2-days of break from your work. Don’t check your (work) emails or do anything work-related. Relax and do your favorite activities. You will return to your work recharged and ready to start.

Contrary to popular belief, the world will not end from taking a break from your work. In fact, you will be much more ready to make an impact after proper rest. My best ideas and inspiration always hit me whenever I’m away from my work.

Take a look at this to learn the importance of rest: The Importance of Scheduling Downtime

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