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The Key To Stick To Your Goals Is About Making Lifestyle Changes

The Key To Stick To Your Goals Is About Making Lifestyle Changes

Consider the millions of Americans who made New Year’s resolutions in January. It’s safe to say that thousands – if not tens of thousands – have already given up or failed at their goals. Studies reveal an alarming majority of goals go unmet. Things can go awry for many reasons, but a common thread among botched goals whether related to health, fitness, finances, personal growth, etc. is the short-sightedness of the person setting them. The most transformative goals will come about by making lasting lifestyle changes.

4 Health & Fitness Lifestyle Changes To Make This Year

Goals related to health must be specific to your own physical needs. It’s not enough to say “I want to lose weight.” Your health needs may be lowering cholesterol, or blood sugar levels, reducing symptoms of anxiety, treating depression or wanting to lose fat and gain muscle. Whatever the goal, be specific and apply these lifestyle changes for a far better chance of reaching it.

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Replace versus Eliminate – a quick way to stumble on your way to your health goals is to cut something ‘bad’ and not have a ‘good’ equivalent ready to replace it. For instance, if you have decided to eliminate cow’s milk, explore alternatives (i.e. almond, cashew, soy, or coconut milks) until you find one right for you. Too many limitations will be restrictive and punishing.

Create Variety – switching things up will keep goals interesting and motivating. If you work out at the gym, consider trying a new class or take your exercise outdoors. Change up the fruits and vegetables you buy each week. Gradually pushing yourself out of a comfort zone can introduce you to new passions and new friends who live the lifestyle you’re trying to create.

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Support System – it has been proven that support inspires success. If you don’t have a partner or close friend working toward the same goals (or at least cheering you on), find support! There is a myriad of social apps geared toward just that with like minded people sharing frustrations and encouragement. Outside of the digital world, connect with people wherever you find them – clubs, teams, groups, cooking classes, etc.

Remove Temptation – seriously consider your biggest weaknesses, the ones that derail your best efforts… now eliminate the temptation! Do you stress-binge on cookie dough? Toss your refined flour and sugar. Does your gym time get taken by social media surfing? Delete the apps.

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3 Ways To Experience Personal Growth & Financial Gains

Typically, the new year brings to mind resolutions focused on physical appearance, but an increasing number of people are setting out to remodel their inner-self or change their quality of life. Goals in this arena can be more abstract (“I want to be a better person”), but if you want to measure your success, be specific about what you want to achieve and consider these lifestyle changes.

Track your progress – in matters of personal improvements, journaling is key. This doesn’t limit you to pen and paper with, “Dear Diary…” Instead, find what works for you – that may be a sketch book or one of many amazing online journaling tools. If tracking your finances seems daunting, find something that helps you budget, meet goals, and save. Try a top budgeting app (like Mint, PocketGuard, Wally, GoodBudget, etc.) or explore what your bank offers.

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Simplify – setting out to achieve big results (finding happiness, confidence or self-sufficiency for instance) will mean letting go of the small things. Take steps to simplify your life wherever you can. You’ll be amazed at how quickly you can make progress when trivial things are set aside.

Professional Help – especially if your goal is something you have struggled to achieve for years, don’t hesitate to get professional help! An empathetic therapist or clever CPA would be well worth the investment if it allows you stick to your goals and create the life you want.

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How to Stop Procrastinating: 11 Practical Ways for Procrastinators

How to Stop Procrastinating: 11 Practical Ways for Procrastinators

You have a deadline looming. However, instead of doing your work, you are fiddling with miscellaneous things like checking email, social media, watching videos, surfing blogs and forums. You know you should be working, but you just don’t feel like doing anything.

We are all familiar with the procrastination phenomenon. When we procrastinate, we squander away our free time and put off important tasks we should be doing them till it’s too late. And when it is indeed too late, we panic and wish we got started earlier.

The chronic procrastinators I know have spent years of their life looped in this cycle. Delaying, putting off things, slacking, hiding from work, facing work only when it’s unavoidable, then repeating this loop all over again. It’s a bad habit that eats us away and prevents us from achieving greater results in life.

Don’t let procrastination take over your life. Here, I will share my personal steps on how to stop procrastinating. These 11 steps will definitely apply to you too:

1. Break Your Work into Little Steps

Part of the reason why we procrastinate is because subconsciously, we find the work too overwhelming for us. Break it down into little parts, then focus on one part at the time. If you still procrastinate on the task after breaking it down, then break it down even further. Soon, your task will be so simple that you will be thinking “gee, this is so simple that I might as well just do it now!”.

For example, I’m currently writing a new book (on How to achieve anything in life). Book writing at its full scale is an enormous project and can be overwhelming. However, when I break it down into phases such as –

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  • (1) Research
  • (2) Deciding the topic
  • (3) Creating the outline
  • (4) Drafting the content
  • (5) Writing Chapters #1 to #10,
  • (6) Revision
  • (7) etc.

Suddenly it seems very manageable. What I do then is to focus on the immediate phase and get it done to my best ability, without thinking about the other phases. When it’s done, I move on to the next.

2. Change Your Environment

Different environments have different impact on our productivity. Look at your work desk and your room. Do they make you want to work or do they make you want to snuggle and sleep? If it’s the latter, you should look into changing your workspace.

One thing to note is that an environment that makes us feel inspired before may lose its effect after a period of time. If that’s the case, then it’s time to change things around. Refer to Steps #2 and #3 of 13 Strategies To Jumpstart Your Productivity, which talks about revamping your environment and workspace.

3. Create a Detailed Timeline with Specific Deadlines

Having just 1 deadline for your work is like an invitation to procrastinate. That’s because we get the impression that we have time and keep pushing everything back, until it’s too late.

Break down your project (see tip #1), then create an overall timeline with specific deadlines for each small task. This way, you know you have to finish each task by a certain date. Your timelines must be robust, too – i.e. if you don’t finish this by today, it’s going to jeopardize everything else you have planned after that. This way it creates the urgency to act.

My goals are broken down into monthly, weekly, right down to the daily task lists, and the list is a call to action that I must accomplish this by the specified date, else my goals will be put off.

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Here’re more tips on setting deadlines: 22 Tips for Effective Deadlines

4. Eliminate Your Procrastination Pit-Stops

If you are procrastinating a little too much, maybe that’s because you make it easy to procrastinate.

Identify your browser bookmarks that take up a lot of your time and shift them into a separate folder that is less accessible. Disable the automatic notification option in your email client. Get rid of the distractions around you.

I know some people will out of the way and delete or deactivate their facebook accounts. I think it’s a little drastic and extreme as addressing procrastination is more about being conscious of our actions than counteracting via self-binding methods, but if you feel that’s what’s needed, go for it.

5. Hang out with People Who Inspire You to Take Action

I’m pretty sure if you spend just 10 minutes talking to Steve Jobs or Bill Gates, you’ll be more inspired to act than if you spent the 10 minutes doing nothing. The people we are with influence our behaviors. Of course spending time with Steve Jobs or Bill Gates every day is probably not a feasible method, but the principle applies — The Hidden Power of Every Single Person Around You

Identify the people, friends or colleagues who trigger you – most likely the go-getters and hard workers – and hang out with them more often. Soon you will inculcate their drive and spirit too.

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As a personal development blogger, I “hang out” with inspiring personal development experts by reading their blogs and corresponding with them regularly via email and social media. It’s communication via new media and it works all the same.

6. Get a Buddy

Having a companion makes the whole process much more fun. Ideally, your buddy should be someone who has his/her own set of goals. Both of you will hold each other accountable to your goals and plans. While it’s not necessary for both of you to have the same goals, it’ll be even better if that’s the case, so you can learn from each other.

I have a good friend whom I talk to regularly, and we always ask each other about our goals and progress in achieving those goals. Needless to say, it spurs us to keep taking action.

7. Tell Others About Your Goals

This serves the same function as #6, on a larger scale. Tell all your friends, colleagues, acquaintances and family about your projects. Now whenever you see them, they are bound to ask you about your status on those projects.

For example, sometimes I announce my projects on The Personal Excellence Blog, Twitter and Facebook, and my readers will ask me about them on an ongoing basis. It’s a great way to keep myself accountable to my plans.

8. Seek out Someone Who Has Already Achieved the Outcome

What is it you want to accomplish here, and who are the people who have accomplished this already? Go seek them out and connect with them. Seeing living proof that your goals are very well achievable if you take action is one of the best triggers for action.

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9. Re-Clarify Your Goals

If you have been procrastinating for an extended period of time, it might reflect a misalignment between what you want and what you are currently doing. Often times, we outgrow our goals as we discover more about ourselves, but we don’t change our goals to reflect that.

Get away from your work (a short vacation will be good, else just a weekend break or staycation will do too) and take some time to regroup yourself. What exactly do you want to achieve? What should you do to get there? What are the steps to take? Does your current work align with that? If not, what can you do about it?

10. Stop Over-Complicating Things

Are you waiting for a perfect time to do this? That maybe now is not the best time because of X, Y, Z reasons? Ditch that thought because there’s never a perfect time. If you keep waiting for one, you are never going to accomplish anything.

Perfectionism is one of the biggest reasons for procrastination. Read more about why perfectionist tendencies can be a bane than a boon: Why Being A Perfectionist May Not Be So Perfect.

11. Get a Grip and Just Do It

At the end, it boils down to taking action. You can do all the strategizing, planning and hypothesizing, but if you don’t take action, nothing’s going to happen. Occasionally, I get readers and clients who keep complaining about their situations but they still refuse to take action at the end of the day.

Reality check:

I have never heard anyone procrastinate their way to success before and I doubt it’s going to change in the near future.  Whatever it is you are procrastinating on, if you want to get it done, you need to get a grip on yourself and do it.

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