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12 Cultural Date Ideas In Aberdeen That Cost Nothing

12 Cultural Date Ideas In Aberdeen That Cost Nothing

Dating can be expensive – dinner, drinks and movies all add up, especially if you’re seeing someone worth the costs. The port city of Aberdeen is a beautiful place to date, and you’ve just got to be a little creative to find some romantic but cultural date options that won’t cost you a penny. I have compiled my absolute favourite date ideas that will inspire you to learn new skills, get healthy and expand your mind as you get to know your date in Aberdeen for free.

1. Attend a lunch hour concert at Aberdeen Art Gallery

    At Aberdeen Art Gallery, there is a great line-up of free concerts to attend during your lunch hour. It’s a perfect option for meeting a date who loves culture, but lacks time due to a heavy workload or has children to look after in the evening. Browse the extensive list of concerts here.

    2. Have a bike ride along Aberdeen Beach boardwalk

    aberdeen coastline

      The two-mile stretch of the beautiful, sandy Aberdeen Beach is the perfect setting for a romantic dog walk or paddle in the sea. Also perfect for a race or ride along the boardwalk for fitness lovers. Enjoy the sound of the waves and watch the seagulls as you get to know your date. No bikes? No problem. Borrow your bikes for free from beCyCle, Aberdeen’s community bicycle workshop.

      When asked about the dating scene in Aberdeen, dating site comparison website, Top Aberdeen Dating Sites commented, “There are a great range of free and affordable, but memorable hotspots to take a date in Aberdeen, come rain or shine, whatever the budget. Our favourite spot has got to be Aberdeen Beach at dusk, with a picnic and a bottle of champagne.”

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      3. Spot dolphins at Aberdeen Harbour

      Aberdeen Harbour dolphin watching

        If you walk along the Aberdeen harbour’s edge, you may catch sight of seals and dolphins that often play near the entrance. What could be more romantic than watching dolphins play whilst breathing the fresh sea air?

        4. Attend a free Edinburgh Quartet concert

        Edinburgh Quartet

          It’s rare to have the opportunity to listen to music for free, but the vastly popular Edinburgh String Quartet provides free concerts that includes numbers by Beethoven, Mozart and Shostakovich. Open to all, and hosted all over Scotland, you’ll find a concert and a date to suit you.

          5. Take a free workshop at Aberdeen City Library

            Aberdeen City Library host free workshops such as drawing, sketching and crafts for those who like to get creative. It’s a perfect chance to learn a new skill or hone an existing one for free whilst enjoying the company of your date in a relaxed atmosphere.

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            6. Meditate with your date at Aberdeen Wellbeing Centre

              Meditation is probably not the first thing that springs to mind when figuring out where to take a date. It’s actually a great opportunity to wind down and be in the company of someone new without the pressure of having something to talk about! You’re sure to be super-chilled following your session, and have something to talk about afterwards.

              7. Take a guided tour of Aberdeen Maritime Museum

              Aberdeen Maritime Museum

                Image source: planetware.com

                If you’re of a nervous disposition around new people, especially ones you’re attracted to, a date idea like this is a great option as there is always something to turn your date’s attention to if you feel the conversation is drying up. The free tours at Aberdeen Maritime Museum are a perfect introduction to the Museum which tells the story of the city’s long relationship with the sea.

                8. Listen to the Lunchtime Talks at Aberdeen Art Gallery

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                Lunchtime Talks at Aberdeen Art Gallery

                  If the history of Aberdeen interests you, a free Lunchtime Talk at Aberdeen Art Gallery may be right up your street. It’s the perfect way to spend a lunch break from work, or a midday date.

                  9. Go on a nighttime bike ride

                    If you’ve gotten to know someone a little better, you may want to look for things to do at night that don’t involve drinking and eating. How about attending a free nighttime bike ride around Aberdeen’s centre, hosted by beCyCle, Aberdeen’s community bicycle workshop?

                    10. Master the orienteering courses at Duthie Park

                    Orienteering in Aberdeen

                      For dry days, orienteering is a fun activity to enjoy with a date. There are two free orienteering courses at Duthie Park in Aberdeen. It’s also a great option for dating single parents who want to spend time with each other’s children.

                      11. Have an outdoor adventure with the Countryside Ranger Service

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                      Aberdeen Nature reserves

                        If you love nature, consider attending a free outdoor adventure with the Countryside Rangers. From mushroom spotting to guided walks, to shelter buildings, there is something for every taste and age.

                        12. Get to know the countryside with a Health Walk

                          For those looking to increase their physical activity, take part in a series of free Health Walks. As well as getting some fresh countryside air whilst chatting to your date, you’ll also get to burn a few kcals.

                          Keep your game fresh by introducing some cultural but affordable dating options into your life. You and your date will be sure to have fun whatever the cost.

                          Image Credit: Music book via unsplash.com; beach via visitabdn.com; harbour via bbc.co.uk; Edinburgh String Quartet via edinburghquartet.com; painting via unsplash.com; meditation via unsplash.com; art gallery via aagm.co.uk; bike ride via unsplash.com; park via bhowie25.wordpress.com; woman with binoculars via naturalawakeningsmag.com; countryside via unsplash.com

                          Featured photo credit: Unknown via bbc.co.uk

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                          How to Get out of a Rut: 12 Useful Ways to Get Unstuck

                          How to Get out of a Rut: 12 Useful Ways to Get Unstuck

                          Have you gotten into a rut before? Or are you in a rut right now?

                          You know you’re in a rut when you run out of ideas and inspiration. I personally see a rut as a productivity vacuum. It might very well be a reason why you aren’t getting results. Even as you spend more time on your work, you can’t seem to get anything constructive done. While I’m normally productive, I get into occasional ruts (especially when I’ve been working back-to-back without rest). During those times, I can spend an entire day in front of the computer and get nothing done. It can be quite frustrating.

                          Over time, I have tried and found several methods that are helpful to pull me out of a rut. If you experience ruts too, whether as a working professional, a writer, a blogger, a student or other work, you will find these useful. Here are 12 of my personal tips to get out of ruts:

                          1. Work on the small tasks.

                          When you are in a rut, tackle it by starting small. Clear away your smaller tasks which have been piling up. Reply to your emails, organize your documents, declutter your work space, and reply to private messages.

                          Whenever I finish doing that, I generate a positive momentum which I bring forward to my work.

                          2. Take a break from your work desk.

                          Get yourself away from your desk and go take a walk. Go to the washroom, walk around the office, go out and get a snack.

                          Your mind is too bogged down and needs some airing. Sometimes I get new ideas right after I walk away from my computer.

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                          3. Upgrade yourself

                          Take the down time to upgrade yourself. Go to a seminar. Read up on new materials (#7). Pick up a new language. Or any of the 42 ways here to improve yourself.

                          The modern computer uses different typefaces because Steve Jobs dropped in on a calligraphy class back in college. How’s that for inspiration?

                          4. Talk to a friend.

                          Talk to someone and get your mind off work for a while.

                          Talk about anything, from casual chatting to a deep conversation about something you really care about. You will be surprised at how the short encounter can be rejuvenating in its own way.

                          5. Forget about trying to be perfect.

                          If you are in a rut, the last thing you want to do is step on your own toes with perfectionist tendencies.

                          Just start small. Do what you can, at your own pace. Let yourself make mistakes.

                          Soon, a little trickle of inspiration will come. And then it’ll build up with more trickles. Before you know it, you have a whole stream of ideas.

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                          6. Paint a vision to work towards.

                          If you are continuously getting in a rut with your work, maybe there’s no vision inspiring you to move forward.

                          Think about why you are doing this, and what you are doing it for. What is the end vision in mind?

                          Make it as vivid as possible. Make sure it’s a vision that inspires you and use that to trigger you to action.

                          7. Read a book (or blog).

                          The things we read are like food to our brain. If you are out of ideas, it’s time to feed your brain with great materials.

                          Here’s a list of 40 books you can start off with. Stock your browser with only the feeds of high quality blogs, such as Lifehack.org, DumbLittleMan, Seth Godin’s Blog, Tim Ferris’ Blog, Zen Habits or The Personal Excellence Blog.

                          Check out the best selling books; those are generally packed with great wisdom.

                          8. Have a quick nap.

                          If you are at home, take a quick nap for about 20-30 minutes. This clears up your mind and gives you a quick boost. Nothing quite like starting off on a fresh start after catching up on sleep.

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                          9. Remember why you are doing this.

                          Sometimes we lose sight of why we do what we do, and after a while we become jaded. A quick refresher on why you even started on this project will help.

                          What were you thinking when you thought of doing this? Retrace your thoughts back to that moment. Recall why you are doing this. Then reconnect with your muse.

                          10. Find some competition.

                          Nothing quite like healthy competition to spur us forward. If you are out of ideas, then check up on what people are doing in your space.

                          Colleagues at work, competitors in the industry, competitors’ products and websites, networking conventions.. you get the drill.

                          11. Go exercise.

                          Since you are not making headway at work, might as well spend the time shaping yourself up.

                          Sometimes we work so much that we neglect our health and fitness. Go jog, swim, cycle, whichever exercise you prefer.

                          As you improve your physical health, your mental health will improve, too. The different facets of ourselves are all interlinked.

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                          Here’re 15 Tips to Restart the Exercise Habit (and How to Keep It).

                          12. Take a good break.

                          Ruts are usually signs that you have been working too long and too hard. It’s time to get a break.

                          Beyond the quick tips above, arrange for a 1-day or 2-days of break from your work. Don’t check your (work) emails or do anything work-related. Relax and do your favorite activities. You will return to your work recharged and ready to start.

                          Contrary to popular belief, the world will not end from taking a break from your work. In fact, you will be much more ready to make an impact after proper rest. My best ideas and inspiration always hit me whenever I’m away from my work.

                          Take a look at this to learn the importance of rest: The Importance of Scheduling Downtime

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                          Featured photo credit: Joshua Earle via unsplash.com

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