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Dad Teaches Son To Just Follow The Rules, But Then The Son Makes His Dad Change His Mind

Dad Teaches Son To Just Follow The Rules, But Then The Son Makes His Dad Change His Mind

Ever feel like you’re going through the daily motions? Get up. Go to work. Come home. Go to bed. Repeat. An incessant, tedious circle of drudgery. Your parents were expected to do it, their parents before them, and now it’s your turn.

You swore you would never become like that. You had passions that didn’t fit into the generic plan. You struggle to retain your individuality, and yet you can feel the monotony begin to sap your strength. Before you get swept deep into a soulless existence, take a lesson in hope from this video. Alike is an award-winning animated short film by Daniel Martínez Lara and Rafa Cano Méndez, showing a father and son struggle with following the expectations of society and choosing their happiness.

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This movie opens with a father and son preparing for their day. The town appears bland, void of color from the buildings and cars to the people, as they trudge to work and school. The father’s sole joy in his life is his colorful happy little boy, it’s what gives him that special spark, and keeps him from becoming like the other colorless souls. On the way to school, the boy stops by a musician playing his violin under a bright orange tree. The boy loves the music, but instead of letting him watch, his dad drags him away to school, where he is expected to do his lessons like the bland children.

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Each day continues the same. Eventually, the boy, forced to conform, loses his zest for life. The father, whose joy was directly connected to his child’s, realizes he was wrong to make the boy follow all of the rules, as he watches the happiness in his boy fade. In hopes of reviving his boy, he suggests they stop to listen to the musician.

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A glimmer of hope sparks in the boy, but the musician is gone, and the boy, hopes dashed, gets ready to turn to the bland life the rest of their world has accepted as their fate. The dad, desperate now not to lose that light in his boy, goes under the tree and though embarrassed, starts pretending to play the violin. The boy stops, shocked at first, then overjoyed, runs over to his dad and throws himself into his arms. In each other’s love, they both glow, vivid again in their happiness.

This moving story portrays a universal message: happiness can not be achieved by complying with the expectations of society, but by following our hearts. Decide to be happy. Choose to be you.

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Last Updated on September 17, 2019

10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

Positive thinking can lead to a lot of positive change in your life. Developing an optimistic outlook can be good for both your physical and mental health.

But sometimes, certain situations arise in life that makes it hard to keep a positive outlook. Take steps to make positive thinking become more like your second nature and you’ll reap the biggest benefits.

Here are 10 ways to make thinking positive thoughts easy:

1. Spend Time with Positive People

If you surround yourself with constant complainers, their negativity is likely to rub off on you.

Spend time with positive friends and family members to increase the likelihood that their positive thinking habits will become yours too. It’s hard to be negative when everyone around you is so positive.

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2. Take Responsibility for Your Behavior

When you encounter problems and difficulties in life, don’t play the role of the victim. Acknowledge your role in the situation and take responsibility for your behavior.

Accepting responsibility can help you learn from mistakes and prevent you from blaming others unfairly.

3. Contribute to the Community

One of the best ways to feel good about what you have, is to focus on what you have to give.

Volunteer in some manner and give back to the community. Helping others can give you a new outlook on the world and can assist you with positive thinking.

4. Read Positive and Inspirational Materials

Spend time each day reading something that encourages positive thinking. Read the Bible, spiritual material, or inspirational quotes to help you focus on what’s important to you in life. It can be a great way to start and end your day.

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5. Recognize and Replace Negative Thoughts

You won’t be successful at positive thinking if you’re still plagued by frequent negative thoughts. Learn to recognize and replace thoughts that are overly negative. Often, thoughts that include words like “always” and “never” signal that they aren’t true.

If you find yourself thinking something such as, “I always mess everything up,” replace it with something more realistic such as, “Sometimes I make mistakes but I learn from them.”

There’s no need to make your thoughts unrealistically positive, but instead, make them more realistic.

6. Establish and Work Toward Goals

It’s easier to be positive about problems and setbacks when you have goals that you’re working toward. Goals will give you motivation to overcome those obstacles when you encounter problems along the way. Without clear goals, it’s harder to make decisions and gauge your progress.

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Learn to set SMART goals to help you achieve more.

7. Consider the Consequences of Negativity

Spend some time thinking about the consequences of negative thinking. Often, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

For example, a person who thinks, “I probably won’t get this job interview,” may put less effort into the interview. As a result, he may decrease his chances of getting the job.

Create a list of all the ways negative thinking impacts your life. It likely influences your behavior, your relationships, and your feelings. Then, create a list of the ways in which positive thinking could be beneficial.

8. Offer Compliments to Others

Look for reasons to compliment others. Be genuine in your praise and compliments, but offer it frequently. This will help you look for the good in other people.

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9. Create a Daily Gratitude List

If you start keeping a daily gratitude list, you’ll start noticing exactly how much you have to be thankful for. This can help you focus on the positive in your life instead of thinking about all the bad things that have happened in the day.

Getting in the habit of showing an attitude of gratitude makes positive thinking more of a habit. Here’re 40 Simple Ways To Practice Gratitude.

10. Practice Self-Care

Take good care of yourself and you’ll be more equipped to think positively.

Get plenty of rest and exercise and practice managing your stress well. Taking care of your physical and mental health will provide you with more energy to focus on positive thinking.

Learn about these 30 Self-Care Habits for a Strong and Healthy Mind, Body and Spirit.

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