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President Obama failed us…that’s what you came up with?

President Obama failed us…that’s what you came up with?

I speak to the whole African American community, with a focus on the entitled, obnoxious ones of us who seem to think that President Barack Obama got elected only to serve us. How disrespectful of anyone to sit back and claim that this man did not do anything for this country or our communities, after 8 years of busting his tail to improve this country all the ways he possibly could.

I would act surprised and horrified at the negative feedback from our own, but it honestly doesn’t surprise me one bit considering so many of us do nothing but tear each other down as if they get paid to do so.

    A black president doesn’t guarantee a black rights policy

    Let’s get one thing clear. Obama may have been elected because so many of us showed up and showed out at the polls both election years, but that didn’t automatically make him obligated or even able to completely advance the African American population into Easy Street. The color of Obama’s skin didn’t automatically guarantee seats at the table for everyone that looks just like him or his wife and kids, nor would that even be fair.

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    Don’t get me wrong. There is nothing wrong with wanting advancement and equality for your race. There’s nothing wrong with being pro-black and wanting to empower your community. But when was it ever okay to slight others because of their race and show favor to one particular race,as a president of the United States? And how can any of you be upset and disappointed in Obama for not doing the very thing most of you already hate Trump for actually doing? Hypocritical much?

      Stop pushing away responsibilty

      It’s time to stop spending so much effort and energy looking for people to blame,and start focusing on accountability and truth. The truth? President Obama didn’t fail the black community, nor did he ignore our cries for justice. President Obama spoke out many times on things the black community is outraged about, and did his best to promote justice and equality for all.

      Electing him did not put him under an obligation to make every single complaint black folks had his agenda. That’s what so many of these organizations we have out here are for. Join some. Already have? Join more. One can never do too much to make the world a better place starting with an individual and/or community level involvement.

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      At what point will we stop complaining about what the higher ups and celebrities AREN’T doing for us, and instead throw ourselves into the community and be the change we want to see in the world? Why spend so much time complaining over what we can’t control, instead of doing what is in our power to change what we can?

      Where the LBGTQ community succeeded

      And for those throwing out the statement that Obama did more to help the LBGTQ communities than African Americans, let’s be real. The LBGTQ communities did more to help the LBGTQ communities than African Americans did to help our communities. It wasn’t that Obama favored their community over ours. It was simply that their community united effectively, was consistent, and followed through. They showed up and showed out where it counted, their voices were heard as well as their demands for their community.

        While we were criticizing each other over what form of protest was acceptable, looking for reasons to voice outrage instead of creating demands to present where it counted, the LBGTQ community was united and solution-oriented. While we were bullying each other over religious beliefs, skin tones, and what women decide to do with their hair or weave, the LBGTQ community was focused on the changes they wanted for their community.

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        While we were busy finding stuff to be temporarily outraged about from week to week to make sure our social media accounts were popping and full of likes, the LBGTQ community was consistent, full of leadership, and wasn’t taking no for an answer.

        The bottom line? Obama didn’t work harder for the LBGTQ community..THEY worked harder and more unified for themselves. So with that being said, Obama didn’t fail us (if you are one of those who feel there was failure)…we failed ourselves.

        Don’t rely solely on a savior

        Especially if you felt one person (with his hands tied on all progress he tried to make) could have us all sitting pretty,paid, and struggle free just because he’s one of us.

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          The Bible teaches us that faith without works is dead. So basically,even the Savior himself felt that you should stop sitting back relying solely on a savior, and do YOUR part to save yourself and others.

          In the words of rapper Mystikal, “Stop ya cryin’ heffa”. Be the change.

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          What Makes People Happy? 20 Secrets of “Always Happy” People

          What Makes People Happy? 20 Secrets of “Always Happy” People

          Some people just seem to float through life with a relentless sense of happiness – through the toughest of times, they’re unfazed and aloof, stopping to smell the roses and drinking out of a glass half full.

          They may not have much to be happy about, but the simplicity behind that fact itself may make them happy.

          It’s all a matter of perspective, conscious effort and self-awareness. Listed below are a number of reasons why some people are always happy.

          1. They Manage Their Expectations

          They’re not crushed when they don’t get what they want – or misled into expecting to get the most out of every situation. They approach every situation pragmatically, hoping for the best but being prepared for the worst.

          2. They Don’t Set Unrealistic Standards

          Similar to the last point, they don’t live their lives in a constant pursuit towards impossible visions of perfection, only to always find themselves falling short of what they want.

          3. They Don’t Take Anything for Granted

          Happiness rests with feeling fulfilled – those who fail to stop and appreciate what they have every now and again will never experience true fulfillment.

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          4. They’re Not Materialistic

          There are arguing viewpoints on whether or not money can really buy happiness; if it can, then we know from experience that we can never be satisfied because there will always be something newer or better that we want. Who has ever had enough money?

          5. They Don’t Dwell

          They don’t sweat the small things or waste time worrying about things that don’t really matter at the end of the day. They don’t let negative thoughts latch onto them and drain them or distract them. Life’s too short to worry.

          6. They Care About Themselves First

          They’re independent, care for themselves and understand that they must put their needs first in order to accommodate the needs of others.

          They indulge, aim to get what they want, make time for themselves and are extremely self-reliant.

          7. They Enjoy the Little Things

          They stop to smell the roses. They’re accustomed to find serenity when it’s available, to welcome entertainment or a stimulating discussion with a stranger when it crosses their path. They don’t overlook the small things in life that can be just as important.

          8. They Can Adapt

          They’re not afraid of change and they work to make the most out of new circumstances, good or bad. They thrive under pressure, are not overwhelmed easily and always embrace a change of pace.

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          9. They Experiment

          They try new things, experience new flavors and never shy away from something they have yet to experience. They never order twice from the same menu.

          10. They Take Their Time

          They don’t unnecessarily rush through life. They work on their own schedule to the extent that they can and maneuver through life at their own relaxing pace.

          11. They Employ Different Perspectives

          They’re not stuck in one perspective; a loss can result in a new opportunity, hitting rock bottom can mean that there’s no where to go but up.

          12. They Seek to Learn

          Their constant pursuit of knowledge keeps them inspired and interested in life. They cherish information and are on a life-long quest to learn as much as they can.

          13. They Always Have a Plan

          They don’t find themselves drifting without purpose. When something doesn’t go as planned, they have a plan for every letter in the alphabet to fall back on.

          14. They Give Respect to Get It

          They are respectful and, in turn, are seen as respectable; the respect they exude earns them the respect they deserve.

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          15. They Consider Every Opportunity

          They always have their eyes open for a new road, a new avenue worth exploring. They know how to recognize opportune moments and pounce on them to make the most of every situation. Success is inevitable for them.

          16. They Always Seek to Improve

          Perpetual self-improvement is the key towards their ongoing thirst for success. Whatever it is they do, they take pride in getting better and better, from social interactions to mundane tasks. Their pursuit at being the best eventually materializes.

          17. They Don’t Take Life Too Seriously

          They’re not ones to get offended easily over-analyze or complicate matters. They laugh at their own faults and misfortunes.

          18. They Live in the Moment

          They don’t live for tomorrow or dwell on what may have happened yesterday. Every day is a new opportunity, a new chapter. They live in the now, and in doing so, get the most out of every moment.

          You can learn how to do so too: How to Live in the Moment and Stop Worrying About the Past or Future

          19. They Say Yes

          Much more often than they say no. They don’t have to be badgered to go out, don’t shy away from new opportunities or anything that may seem inconvenient.

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          20. They’re Self-Aware

          Most important, they’re wholly aware of themselves. They self-reflect and are conscious of their states of mind. If somethings bothering them, they fix it.

          We’re all susceptible to feeling down every now and again, but we are all equipped with the necessary solutions that just have to be discovered.

          Lack of confidence, inability to feel fulfilled, and susceptibility to stress are all matters that can be controlled through the way we handle our lives and perceive our circumstances.

          Learn about How Self-Reflection Gives You a Happier and More Successful Life.

          Final Thoughts

          The main philosophy employed by the happiest includes the idea that life’s simply too short: life’s too short to let things get you down, to take things for granted, to pursue absolute and unrealistic perfection.

          For some, employing these characteristics is a second nature – they do it without knowing. For others, a conscious effort must be put forth every now and again. Self-Awareness is key.

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