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5 Most Important Internet Rules All Children Should Learn

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5 Most Important Internet Rules All Children Should Learn

In the modern world of ubiquitous internet access, parents can no longer reliably keep their children off the web. Rather than fighting the presence of the internet, parents nowadays have had come to terms with the fact that children are growing up in a world of constant connectivity.

The best way to prepare your child for that reality is to teach them early on how to safely navigate the web without putting themselves or their family at risk. There are a number of safety tips your child can use to protect themselves on the internet, including five of the most important ‘internet rules’ all parents should teach their children.

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1. Everything stays on the internet forever

One of the most important lessons to teach your children is that absolutely everything you post online will stay on the internet forever. Even when you delete content you’ve uploaded, website servers will frequently maintain a copy of the content you posted, and multiple archiving programs maintain different versions of websites to preserve changing content. Your kids must recognize that any information, photos, or posts they share on social media or other websites may become permanently associated with them, and can harm future education and work opportunities.

2. Use privacy settings liberally

Your kids should learn about privacy settings on social media sites, how to control and maximize them whenever possible. Websites like Facebook and Twitter have options to post privately or to a controlled audience, but your kids may not realize that their accounts are unlocked and viewable to even users they’ve blocked. Instagram has a geolocation tagging feature that can pin the location of a photo down the exact address, often revealing someone’s exact home location unintentionally. Parents should review social media privacy settings with their kids, ensuring that nothing they post is publically viewable, including their location.

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3. Identify obvious signs of scams and viruses

The internet is rife with scams, viruses, and malware that aren’t always easy to identify. There are some classic types of scams that your kids should be prepared to face, including emails claiming to be from an organization or business. Kids should learn to double check a URL before logging into a website to ensure they’re not entering their login info into a scam website. They should also learn to avoid clicking on suspicious links that may download something onto a computer unintentionally, as well as how to install and use malware protection.

4. Internet behavior has real life consequences

Your kids should learn, along with how to protect themselves, how to conduct themselves online. Many children may unintentionally find themselves in toxic internet communities that encourage illegal behavior, insisting that it not be taken seriously because “the internet isn’t real life.” Worse, they might gain access to the so-called dark web where such activity goes unchecked. Internet harassment, trolling, doxxing, and scamming do have serious real life consequences, up to and including federal prison charges depending on the severity. Your child should learn to apply the same rules of using manners and treating people with respect during their internet interactions. They can learn to recognize signs of illegal behavior online as well.

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5. Recognize and report cyberbullying

Cyberbullying is a problem that kids growing up with the internet face more and more frequently. Like real-life bullying, it has serious consequences on their emotional development and self-esteem. It can feel exceptionally worse, actually, because kids feel like they can’t get away from it wherever they go. Dozens of cases of teen and child suicide associated with cyberbullying have been reported in the past several years. Your kids should know where they can turn to report cyberbullying—and that should include you—as well as when to report it.

Teach your kids how to protect themselves online for their emotional self-esteem, their future prospects, and the safety of your computer. It’s an invaluable skill they will need as they grow up in the modern world of constant internet connectivity.

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Last Updated on January 5, 2022

How to Help Your Child to Get Better Grades

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How to Help Your Child to Get Better Grades

Children are most likely to say that they want to just lounge around or rest for a while after spending hours listening to lecture after lecture from their teachers. There is nothing wrong with this if they had a rough day.

What’s disturbing, is if they deliberately stay away from schoolwork or procrastinate when it comes to reviewing for their tests or completing an important science project.

When it seems that it is becoming a habit for your child to put off school work, it’s time for you to step in and help your child develop good study habits to get better grades. It is important for you to emphasize to your child the importance of setting priorities early in life. Don’t wait for them to flunk their tests, or worse, fail in their subjects before you talk to them about it.

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You can help your children hurdle their tests with these 7 tips:

1. Help them set targets

Ask your child what they want to achieve for that particular school year. Tell them to set a specific goal or target. If they say, “I want to get better grades,” tell them to be more specific. It will be better if they say they want to get a GPA of 2.5 or higher. Having a definite target will make it easier for them to undertake a series of actions to achieve their goals, instead of just “shooting for the moon.”

2. Preparation is key

At the start of the school year, teachers provide an outline of a subject’s scope along with a reading list and other course requirements. Make sure that your child has all the materials they need for these course requirements. Having these materials on hand will make sure that your child will have no reason to procrastinate and give them the opportunity to study in advance.

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3. Teach them to mark important dates

You may opt to give them a small notebook where they can jot down important dates or a planner that has dates where they can list their schedule. Ask them to show this to you so you can give them “gentle reminders” to block off the whole week before the dates of an exam. During this week, advise your child to not schedule any social activity so they can concentrate on studying.

4. Schedule regular study time

Encourage your child to set aside at least two hours every day to go through their lessons. This will help them remember the lectures for the day and understand the concepts they were taught. They should be encouraged to spend more time on subjects or concepts that they do not understand.

5. Get help

Some kids find it hard to digest or absorb mathematical or scientific concepts. Ask your child if they are having difficulties with their subjects and if they would like to seek the help of a tutor. There is nothing wrong in asking for the assistance of a tutor who can explain complex subjects.

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6. Schedule some “downtime”

Your child needs to relax from time to time. During his break, you can consider bringing your child to the nearest mall or grocery store and get them a treat. You may play board games with them during their downtime. The idea is to take his mind off studying for a limited period of time.

7. Reward your child

If your child achieves their goals for the school year, you may give them a reward such as buying them the gadget they have always wanted or allowing them to vacation wherever they want. By doing this, you are telling your child that hard work does pay off.

Conclusion

You need to take the time to monitor your child’s performance in school. Your guidance is essential to helping your child realize the need to prioritize their school activities. As a parent, your ultimate goal is to expose your child to habits that will lay down the groundwork for their future success.

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