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How To Keep Your Pets Warm In Winter.

How To Keep Your Pets Warm In Winter.

Our pets are our great friends. It doesn’t matter if you’re a cat lover or a dog lover, having a pet back home waiting for you can be comforting in this modern age. We indulge in the fact of having someone waiting for us at home after a long days work. It’s a pleasurable feeling to be back to a living being that indulges on the mere fact that we are home.

Unlike us humans, our pets are more affected by our seasonal changes compared to us. We are constantly protected, we shed our clothes to minimalism when necessary or we add on layers like an onion. However, our pet’s aren’t as flexible, they may go through some shedding process during the summer and their fur may be thicker during the winter but they aren’t as liberated as us.

During winter it could be the hardest for our furry friends, so how do we keep them warm and ensure their comfort?

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As a person who’s with both a cat and a dog, it’s become a routine of winter proofing for both of my furry mates. As my dog enjoys waddling around the cold whilst my cat shrieks as soon Mr.Snow is in town. Based on various trials and errors, this article came about to help various other pet owners to keep your furry friends warm during the winters.

1. Avoid Outdoor Kenneling

Especially for dog’s, during the summers our dogs sometimes enjoy being out chasing butterflies. They enjoy being outdoors however during the nights they may snuggle by our feet. However, the major mistakes sometimes some pet owners make is practicing outdoor kenneling. Leaving your pets outside can put them in a mental stress as they lack the sense of belonging and being part of the family.

During the winters, the psychological strain can take a new direction into becoming a physical strain. Their coat often times isn’t enough to protect towards the harsh weathers, hence it’s best to ignore the outdoor kennel, better yet completely remove it and keep you lovely pet inside.

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You will be able to shelter it from the harsh weather and at the same time, you’ll be the loving family it needs to be both psychologically and physically healthy.

2. Always Keep Pet Shoes At Hand

We as humans would tend to go crazy if we were left in the house for the entire day, our pets are the same too. Sometimes we tend to prioritize differently and sometimes we feel it’s fine to keep our pets indoors all day, however scientifically it’s a known fact that both humans and animals need the time out to breath fresh air and explores a change of scenery.

One of the most important things any pet owner should remember is if the weather get’s too harsh make sure to carry with your pet mittens or better known as pet shoes. This would keep them warm and their feet protected. This tip is particularly useful for smaller dogs, as they’re much more temperature sensitive compared to larger dogs. Hence, always take on some extra pair of mittens with you.

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3. In Winter Feed Your Pets More

Food helps your body produce natural insulation. It creates heat and allows your body to warm your body up from the inside. For many pet owners, we usually have a fixed rhythm or routine on how we feed our pets. We train them to follow and adapt to that rhythm and at the same time, we also have a measurement of what we feed and how much we feed them.

However, according to seasons and temperature, our body requires a different amount of fuel to keep our energy as well as our internal insulation on par. During winter one’s body requires more fuel to provide us both energy and insulation. This same concept applies to our pets.

Hence, always keep in mind to feed them well and hydrate them enough.

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4. Constant Cuddles And Love

Winter always signifies the time of cuddles and love. We enjoy simple snuggles with our loved ones and we enjoy the coziness and comfort of being with our loved ones. That same concept applies to our pets, our pets love being loved and our pets enjoy being cuddled so why not during this winter give them the extra attention.

Sometimes we are consumed with our lives, we are constantly growing and we are constantly adapting our environment. However, within the eyes of our pets, we are the only one that plays a constant presence of attachment and love. Therefore there’s nothing that keeps them warm compared to our love and compassion.

Featured photo credit: Reader’s Digest via readersdigest.co.uk

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Last Updated on May 21, 2019

How to Communicate Effectively in Any Relationship

How to Communicate Effectively in Any Relationship

For all our social media bravado, we live in a society where communication is seen less as an art, and more as a perfunctory exercise. We spend so much time with people, yet we struggle with how to meaningfully communicate.

If you believe you have mastered effective communication, scan the list below and see whether you can see yourself in any of the examples:

Example 1

You are uncomfortable with a person’s actions or comments, and rather than telling the individual immediately, you sidestep the issue and attempt to move on as though the offending behavior or comment never happened.

You move on with the relationship and develop a pattern of not addressing challenging situations. Before long, the person with whom you are in relationship will say or do something that pushes you over the top and predictably, you explode or withdraw completely from the relationship.

In this example, hard-to-speak truths become never- expressed truths that turn into resentment and anger.

Example 2

You communicate from the head and without emotion. While what you communicate makes perfect sense to you, it comes across as cold because it lacks emotion.

People do not understand what motivates you to say what you say, and without sharing your feelings and emotions, others experience you as rude, cold or aggressive.

You will know this is a problem if people shy away from you, ignore your contributions in meetings or tell you your words hurt. You can also know you struggle in this area if you find yourself constantly apologizing for things you have said.

Example 3

You have an issue with one person, but you communicate your problem to an entirely different person.

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The person in whom you confide lacks the authority to resolve the matter troubling you, and while you have vented and expressed frustration, the underlying challenge is unresolved.

Example 4

You grew up in a family with destructive communication habits and those habits play out in your current relationships.

Because you have never stopped to ask why you communicate the way you do and whether your communication style still works, you may lack understanding of how your words impact others and how to implement positive change.

If you find yourself in any of the situations described above, this article is for you.

Communication can build or decimate worlds and it is important we get it right. Regardless of your professional aspirations or personal goals, you can improve your communication skills if you:

  • Understand your own communication style
  • Tailor your style depending on the needs of the audience
  • Communicate with precision and care
  • Be mindful of your delivery, timing and messenger

1. Understand Your Communication Style

To communicate effectively, you must understand the communication legacy passed down from our parents, grandparents or caregivers. Each of us grew up with spoken and unspoken rules about communication.

In some families, direct communication is practiced and honored. In other families, family members are encouraged to shy away from difficult conversations. Some families appreciate open and frank dialogue and others do not. Other families practice silence about substantive matters, that is, they seldom or rarely broach difficult conversations at all.

Before you can appreciate the nuance required in communication, it helps to know the familial patterns you grew up with.

2. Learn Others Communication Styles

Communicating effectively requires you to take a step back, assess the intended recipient of your communication and think through how the individual prefers to be communicated with. Once you know this, you can tailor your message in a way that increases the likelihood of being heard. This also prevents you from assuming the way you communicate with one group is appropriate or right for all groups or people.

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If you are unsure how to determine the styles of the groups or persons with whom you are interacting, you can always ask them:

“How do you prefer to receive information?”

This approach requires listening, both to what the individuals say as well as what is unspoken. Virgin Group CEO Richard Branson noted that the best communicators are also great listeners.

To communicate effectively from relationship to relationship and situation to situation, you must understand the communication needs of others.

3. Exercise Precision and Care

A recent engagement underscored for me the importance of exercising care when communicating.

On a recent trip to Ohio, I decided to meet up with an old friend to go for a walk. As we strolled through the soccer park, my friend gently announced that he had something to talk about, he was upset with me. His introduction to the problem allowed me to mentally shift gears and prepare for the conversation.

Shortly after introducing the shift in conversation, my friend asked me why I didn’t invite him to the launch party for my business. He lives in Ohio and I live in the D.C. area.

I explained that the event snuck up on me, and I only started planning the invite list three weeks before the event. Due to the last-minute nature of the gathering, I opted to invite people in the DMV area versus my friends from outside the area – I didn’t want to be disrespectful by asking them to travel on such short notice.

I also noted that I didn’t want to be disappointed if he and others declined to come to the event. So I played it safe in terms of inviting people who were local.

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In the moment, I felt the conversation went very well. I also checked in with my friend a few days after our walk, affirmed my appreciation for his willingness to communicate his upset and our ability to work through it.

The way this conversation unfolded exemplified effective communication. My friend approached me with grace and vulnerability. He approached me with a level of curiosity that didn’t put me on my heels — I was able to really listen to what he was saying, apologize for how my decision impacted him and vow that going forward, I would always ask rather than making decisions for him and others.

Our relationship is intact, and I now have information that will help me become a better friend to him and others.

4. Be Mindful of Delivery, Timing and Messenger

Communicating effectively also requires thinking through the delivery of the message one intends to communicate as well as the appropriate time for the discussion.

In an Entrepreneur.com column, VIP Contributor Deep Patel, noted that persons interested in communicating well need to master the art of timing. Patel noted,[1]

“Great comedians, like all great communicators, are able to feel out their audience to determine when to move on to a new topic or when to reiterate an idea.”

Communicating effectively also requires thoughtfulness about the messenger. A person prone to dramatic, angry outbursts should never be called upon to deliver constructive feedback, especially to people whom they do not know. The immediate aftermath of a mass shooting is not the ideal time to talk about the importance of the Second Amendment rights.

Like everyone else, I must work to ensure my communication is layered with precision and care.

It requires precision because words must be carefully tailored to the person with whom you are speaking.

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It requires intentionality because before one communicates, one should think about the audience and what the audience needs in order to hear your message the way you intended it to be communicated.

It requires active listening which is about hearing verbal and nonverbal messages.

Even though we may be right in what we say, how we say it could derail the impact of the message and the other parties’ ability to hear the message.

Communicating with care is also about saying things that the people in our life need to hear and doing so with love.

The Bottom Line

When I left the meeting with my dear friend, I wondered if I was replicating or modeling this level of openness and transparency in the rest of my relationships.

I was intrigued and appreciative. He’d clearly thought about what he wanted to say to me, picked the appropriate time to share his feedback and then delivered it with care. He hit the ball out of the park and I’m hopeful we all do the same.

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