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How to Select a Great Gift for Anyone and for Any Occasion

How to Select a Great Gift for Anyone and for Any Occasion

Whether it is time for the winter holidays, a friend or family member’s birthday, a wedding, or any other gift-giving occasion, selecting the right item to give to someone can feel like quite the challenge. But, although challenging, it is possible to pick a great gift every time. How can someone accomplish such a feat? By following these six easy steps:

Start with a Budget

Before you start looking for ideas, you need to set a budget. It won’t do you any good if you begin searching and find a great gift option that you simply can’t afford. Most online retailers allow you to set price parameters when you are searching for items, that way you can make sure that you are only choosing between gifts you can afford.

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Give Consideration to the Occasion

A gift that would be perfect for a best friend’s birthday might not be the kind of thing that should be opened in front of family at a graduation party. Regardless of whether or not the recipient will appreciate your choice, you need to consider what is appropriate to open in front of other people who may be present.

The occasion may also dictate your goal for the gift. For major milestones, like weddings, you might want to pick an item that is going to be useful as they transition into a new way of living. However, you can often have more fun when choosing items to serve as birthday gifts.

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Now, that doesn’t mean a gift can’t have some personality, just make sure its personality fits the tone and overall goal. For example, if you are attending a friend’s wedding and the couple has an affinity for the retro look, then a toaster oven or waffle maker from Nostalgia Electrics might be the perfect finds for the couple you have in mind. They can get all of the function of today’s appliance with a look that suits their style. Other practical gifts for couples can be found at places like All Modern, West Elm, Home Goods, Ikea, and even Target.

Think in Color

Everyone has their favorite colors to wear or with which they prefer to decorate. When you are choosing items that fit into categories where colors matter, like apparel and home goods, try to select an item in a color you know they already favor. If you aren’t sure what options they would prefer, then stick with something that functions as a neutral, like black, white, gray, or even navy.[1]

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Refer to Hobbies and Interests

Is the recipient an aspiring photographer? A sci-fi movie fanatic? A collector of vintage holiday ornaments?

Any hobby or interest can guide your gift-giving, so don’t be afraid to tread familiar territory for ideas. You may feel like you are being unoriginal by referring to something they are highly involved in, but giving them a new opportunity to dedicate time to something they love will always be well received.

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Think Small

Gift baskets can get a bad rap sometimes, but creating one from scratch can be a lot of fun. Think of a series of small items they may appreciate, and group them together to create an interesting gift. This can be an ideal way to showcase less expensive items that would still be greatly appreciated.

You can choose to work with a theme if you want to be guided through the gift-picking process. For example, a newly married couple may appreciate a gift basket full of various kitchen basics. You can choose utensils, serving pieces, and small gadgets to help supplement the larger items they may receive as gifts. Often, people think of major items when purchasing wedding gifts, but not everyone thinks of everyday items like spatulas, measuring cups, and kitchen towels. For a graduation gift, including gift cards, planners, and a token that hints at their future career might be great things to include in your gift basket.

Don’t Be Afraid to Be Unique

The ability to shop online can open you up to a wealth of options you didn’t even know existed. Some sites specialize in unique offerings that you won’t find at your average big box store. For example, odds and ends like smartphone lenses, breakfast sandwich makers, pencils, and cool vintage wristwatches can be found by shopping online. You won’t find items like that just anywhere. So don’t be afraid to branch out your search and see what inspires you. When you find the right item, you’ll know what to do.

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Last Updated on December 16, 2018

12 Simple Ways You Can Build A Positive Attitude

12 Simple Ways You Can Build A Positive Attitude

We all look for a better and happier life, but somehow we realize it’s our attitude that makes it hard to lead the life we want. How can we build a positive attitude? Grant Mathews has listed out the things (from the easiest to the hardest) we can do to cultivate this attitude on Quora:

1. Listen to good music.

Music definitely improves your mood, and it’s a really simple thing to do.

2. Don’t watch television passively.

Studies have shown that people who watch TV less are happier, which leads me to my next point…

3. Don’t do anything passively.

Whenever I do something, I like to ask myself if, at the end of the day, I would be content saying that I had spent time doing it. (This is why I block sites I find myself wasting too much time on. I enjoy them, but they’re just not worth it when I could be learning something new, or working on projects I care about.)

Time is incredibly valuable.

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4. Be aware of negativity

A community that considers itself intelligent tends to be negativity because criticizing is seen as a signaling mechanism to indicate that you’re more intelligent than the person you corrected. This was irrationally frustrating for me – it’s one of those things you’ll stay up all night to think about.

5. Make time to be alone.

I initially said “take time just to be alone.” I changed it because if you don’t ensure you can take a break, you’ll surely be interrupted.

Being with other people is something you can do to make you happy, but I don’t include it in this list because nearly everyone finds time to talk with friends. On the other hand, spending time just with yourself is almost considered a taboo.

Take some time to figure out who you are.

6. Exercise.

This is the best way to improve your immediate happiness.

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Exercise probably makes you happy. Try and go on a run. You’ll hate yourself while doing it, but the gratification that you get towards the end vastly outweighs the frustration of the first few attempts. I can’t say enough good things about exercise.

Exercising is also fantastic because it gives you time alone.

7. Have projects.

Having a goal, and moving towards it, is a key to happiness.

You have to realize though that achieving the goal is not necessarily what makes you happy – it’s the process. When I write music, I write it because writing is inherently enjoyable, not because I want to get popular (as if!).

8. Take time to do the things you enjoy.

That’s very general, so let me give you a good example.

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One of the things that has really changed my life was finding small communities centered around activities I enjoy. For instance, I like writing music, so I’m part of a community that meets up to write a song for an hour every week. I love the community. I’ve also written a song every week, 37 weeks in a row, which has gradually moved me towards larger goals and makes me feel very satisfied.

9. Change your definition of happiness.

Another reason I think I’m more happy than other people is because my definition of happiness is a lot more relaxed than most people’s. I don’t seek for some sort of constant euphoria; I don’t think it’s possible to live like that. My happiness is closer to stability.

10. Ignore things that don’t make you happy.

I get varying reactions to this one.

The argument goes “if something is making you unhappy, then you should find out why and improve it, not ignore it.” If you can do that, great. But on the other hand, there’s no reason to mope about a bad score on a test.

There’s another counterargument: perhaps you’re moping because your brain is trying to work out how to improve. In fact, this is the key purpose of depression: Depression’s Upside – NYTimes.com

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I can think of examples that go both ways. I remember, for instance, when I was debating a year or two ago and my partner and I would lose a round, I would mull over what we had done wrong for a long time. In that way, I got immensely better at debate (and public speaking in general – did you know debate has amazing effects on your public speaking ability? But now I really digress).

On the other hand, there’s no way that mulling over how dumb you were for missing that +x term on the left hand side will make you better at math. So stop worrying about it, and go practice math instead.

11. Find a way to measure your progress, and then measure it.

Video games are addictive for a reason: filling up an experience bar and making it to the next level is immensely satisfying. I think that it would be really cool if we could apply this concept to the real world.

I put this near the bottom of the list because, unfortunately, this hasn’t been done too often in the real world – startup idea, anyone? So you would have to do it yourself, which is difficult when you don’t even know how much you’ve progressed.

For a while, I kept a log of the runs I had taken, and my average speed. It was really cool to see my improvement over the weeks. (Also, I was exercising. Combining the two was fantastic for boosting happiness.)

12. Realize that happiness is an evolutionary reward, not an objective truth.

It’s easy to see that this is correct, but this is at the bottom of the list for a reason.

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