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Study Reveals The Youngest Sibling Is The Funniest (And Something More For Them To Win At Life!)

Study Reveals The Youngest Sibling Is The Funniest (And Something More For Them To Win At Life!)

If the comic relief in your family comes from the youngest sibling, then you are not alone. A study by YouGov, a global online community, revealed that there is a significant difference in the personality qualities of the oldest and the youngest siblings and the latter is said to be the funniest.

The study asked participants to classify how they perceive their sense of humor in comparison to their siblings. Additionally, the study ranked their responsibility, organizational skills, and assertiveness.

The results show that the youngest siblings are hilarious to live with, and they have a strong desire to entertain their family members. Not only are they funny, but they also possess other character traits that help define their personalities.

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    Below are four more positive traits to make you feel proud of having a last-born in your family.

    1. They Are Adventurous

    Unlike firstborns, who take on the leadership roles among siblings by default, the youngest ones are more adventurous to go with their sense of humor. The study was conducted by Frank Sulloway, author of Born to Rebel and a birth order researcher. It said they tend to find a family role that has not already been claimed by their elder siblings.

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    Also, for the last-born to find their place, they tend to experiment often and take more risks so that they assert their identities and talents. Sulloway wrote in his research that they are often more open to experience, and more exploratory, hence their adventurous and humorous mentality.

    2. They Are Relaxed

    According to YouGov, youngest siblings tend to perceive themselves as more relaxed. This outcome usually comes from their parents who had a more relaxed parenting style, due to experience from raising their older children.

    Research also proves that the older sibling feels more responsible compared to their younger brothers and sisters. Since the younger ones do not have many responsibilities, they are likely to feel more relaxed, delightful, and able to perceive humor in circumstances that older siblings may choose to overlook.

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    3. They Are Sociable

    Even though firstborns are more assertive than last-borns, the younger siblings are usually more social, fun-loving and make friends easily according to Sulloway’s studies. Eventually, the youngest members of the family learn how to manipulate others and control situations.

    Another great explanation according to Kevin Leman, a psychologist, and author of The Birth Order Book says that parents are carefree once the last child is born and less nervous than when they were first-time parents. Therefore, last-borns usually bear fewer responsibilities than their elder siblings. This makes them more cheerful, fun-loving, easygoing and affectionate, which are all the key elements of social ability.

    4. They Are Creative

    While studies prove that older siblings on average have higher IQs, the younger siblings are usually more creative. The possible reason is that the parents are less likely to dedicate as much attention when educating their youngest children.

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    You may find this statement negative, but it has some significant benefits in the creativity department. One advantage is that it gives the youngest child opportunities to solve problems alone in an original and creative way.

    This also influences the type of careers the youngest sibling tends to choose. According to a 2011 Career Builder survey, the youngest in the family is often interested in creative jobs, such as architecture, art, design, and writing.

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    11 Tips for Maintaining a Positive Attitude Every Day

    11 Tips for Maintaining a Positive Attitude Every Day

    Maintaining a positive attitude is critical when you want to achieve anything or simply improve the quality of your life. Most success literature will talk about the power of positive thinking and how important it is, but it’s often easier said than done.

    In this article, you’ll find 11 tips for maintaining your positive attitude no matter what’s going on in your life.

    1. You Determine Your Reality

    It’s important to realize that you determine your reality by the way you react to the outside world. When something happens, you get to choose whether it’s a positive or negative situation and react accordingly.

    For example, if you lose your job, your first reaction will likely be one of anger, frustration, and hopelessness. However, what if you were able to turn those emotions around and look at that experience as an opportunity.

    You now have the chance to find a job where you will be able to learn new skills and perhaps even be happier. And in the meantime, you have some free time to analyze what direction you want the next stage of your life to go in.

    2. Start Your Day Strong

    Most people have to drag themselves out of bed, and this sets a negative state of mind for their entire day. Positive people create a long-term morning ritual that reinforces how great life is and how happy they are to be alive.

    I used to wake up and immediately turn on Bon Jovi’s “It’s My Life to get me into a positive mood. Now I start my day by reading or listening to something positive. Whether you have 1 minute, 15 minutes, or an hour to dedicate to your ritual, you can start the day in a way that helps you feel relaxed and ready for the day ahead.

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    Cultivate a positive attitude with a great morning routine.

      3. Exercise Is the Natural Feel-Good Drug

      Exercise is a great way to maintain a good attitude because of all the positive chemicals it releases into the bloodstream.

      One study found that between groups who participated in high-intensity interval training, moderate continuous training, and no exercise, those in the second group experienced the greatest drop in depressive symptoms and stress[1]. Therefore, if you’re looking to exercise to help you feel good, get your heart rate up, but don’t push too hard or you may increase overall stress.

      Also, remember that exercise can include many activities. If you don’t like running, try dancing or kickboxing instead. Put on some upbeat music to kick up the positive vibes even more.

      4. Use Books, Audio and Videos to Overload Your Brain with Positivity

      There are millions of amazing books, podcasts, and videos for you to absorb from people who are inspiring and living the life of their dreams. Tap into their positive emotions and their experience by learning how they think and what they do to create the lives they want.

      You can do this in the morning or while exercising, eating, commuting, cooking, cleaning… there’s always time for positivity.

      5. Your Language Shapes Your Thoughts

      Little changes in your language can change the way you think and how you act. Whenever someone greets you and asks how you’re doing, do you answer with “fine” or “not too bad”? Think about just what this language is communicating to others… and yourself.

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      I always answer with “great,” “fantastic,” or “amazing.” Not only does this remind me that life really is great, but it usually helps the other person shift toward a positive attitude as well.

      Also, take some time to look at the way your inner voice talks to you. Is that language positive or negative? If it’s overly critical or negative, it may be time to tap into some mindfulness meditation in order to shift your inner critic to an inner cheerleader.

      6. Hang out With Positive People

      It is often said that you will have a similar level of health, income and lifestyle as the five people you spend the most time with.

      So if you want to be fit, then start to hang out with fit people. Want to start a business? Then hang out with business owners. And if you want to be positive, make sure you’re hanging out with positive people[2].

      7. Show Your Appreciation for Others

      By appreciating others for a job well done, their outfit, or their smile, you start to cause a positive chain reaction. Stop complaining and focus on all the good others are doing around you.

      Don’t you feel great when you receive a compliment from someone else? Well, if you want to receive more, then start giving them out and watch what happens to the people around you.

      One particular study found that people who sent letters of gratitude experienced significant increases in happiness scores[3]. If you don’t feel like writing a letter, send a nice text to someone who recently helped you out, or send an email thanking your coworker for always helping pick up the slack around the office. Whatever it is, take some time to show gratitude.

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      8. Garbage In, Garbage Out

      This is an expression from programming where the result is only as good as the input. If you’re feeding yourself with negativity all day long, then it’s pretty obvious you’re going to be feeling negative as well.

      A great deal of the media thrives on negativity. Put yourself on a negativity diet (including people) and watch how much easier it is to maintain your positive attitude.

      9. Stop Negative Thoughts in Their Tracks

      It’s hard to be a constantly positive person, and negative thoughts are going to bubble up from time to time. These will be more frequent in the beginning but can decrease as you practice the tips we’re talking about. When you start to notice negative thoughts, you can use a pattern interrupt to stop them in their tracks.

      The idea is to interrupt your current thought pattern and shift to a more positive outlook. One way to do this is to set a visual or auditory cue. It can be something as simple as a bracelet you wear each day or the sound of a car passing outside your window. Whenever you see or hear the cue, use it to shift your thoughts to something positive.

      You can learn more on how to shift your mindset and negative attitudes in the following video:

      10. Live With Gratitude

      So many positive things happen during our day, and we often ignore them while letting one negative comment or event ruin our mood. It can help to keep a gratitude journal where you jot down things you are grateful for each night or during the day.

      If you’re reading this, then you probably live with a roof over your head and food in your belly, which is a daily struggle for a large portion of the world. However, we often take these things for granted and don’t realize just how great we have it.

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      Try refocusing your thoughts towards everything you do have instead of what you don’t. One study found that reflecting on past experiences with a sense of gratitude can lead to increases in both hope and happiness[4]. That’s a great reason to give it a go today.

      You can find more ways to practice gratitude in this article.

      11. Recharge Your Batteries

      One key to adopting a positive attitude is taking the time to recharge your batteries. This might mean taking a few hours on the weekend to read a positive book or taking a few weeks for a holiday.

      If you’re not in the position to travel, you can take a staycation, or have a “home holiday” where you simply switch off from the outside world and spend time doing things you love.

      Final Thoughts

      You now have 11 tips for maintaining your positive attitude, but they are no use to you unless you implement them into your life.

      Start small, and pick the easiest tip or the one that you really love and introduce it into your life starting right now. Then, over time, start implementing the other tips and watch your positivity soar.

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