Advertising
Advertising

Thinking Introverts Are Weird? Check These 16 Comics Before You Make The Judgement

Thinking Introverts Are Weird? Check These 16 Comics Before You Make The Judgement

It’s very unfortunate that us introverts are often misunderstood and misjudged. People tend to think and believe that we are weird and don’t like to leave our homes, talk to people, or have friends. We enjoy living a private existence and tend to keep our thoughts to ourselves. In a somewhat reinforcement-happy society, people like us can leave everyone else feeling very confused.

It’s important for introverts to understand that even though this is a common misconception, there is nothing wrong with them and they don’t need to change or “fix” their behaviors. You are actually very normal! Illustrator Marzi Wilson does a great job of showing us that it really is ok to be introverted through her work. Below are three pictures from her book “Introvert Doodles”.

It’s not that I don’t like you, I really like you. It’s just important for me to have alone time so I can recharge.

    Try getting to know me before judging me.

      Just because you don’t understand me, doesn’t mean that something is wrong with me. Try understanding before judging me.

        At the party, you’ll always find me off by myself playing with the animals.

          Me: This is a really sincere and cute boy. I should definitely let him take me out.
          Inner me: Blow him off and go home and think about him instead.

            I scare people because I am whole all by myself.

              I am so overwhelmed with anxiety. Give me my bed…and my cat.

                My innermost thoughts make my heart so full.

                  It is passion, or it is nothing.

                    I want nothing more than to go home, curl up on my couch with my favorite book, and drink a cup of sleepy time tea.

                      Large groups of people for an extended period of time makes my skin crawl.

                        Don’t talk to me, just bring me food and leave me be.

                          Can we just skip to the part where you massage my scalp in silence?

                            You don’t need to understand me, and I don’t need to explain myself to you.

                              Don’t forget that the quiet ones will surprise you!

                                Sometimes I really do wonder why I even bother leaving my house.

                                  More by this author

                                  Erica Wagner

                                  Freelance Writer

                                  If You Don’t Want To Become A Toxic Person Unknowingly, You Should Quit This Habit 9 Illustrations That Perfectly Capture How Life Changes After Marriage 10 Psychological Tricks That Can Make Your Life Much Easier 57 Things to Do to Make You Let Go More Easily Stop Doing the Traditional Warm-Up, You Need Dynamic Stretching Instead

                                  Trending in Communication

                                  1 How to Make Changes in Life To Be The Very Best Version of You 2 Adapting to Change: Why It Matters and How to Do It 3 Why It’s Never Too Late To Redefine Yourself 4 Feeling Like It Might Be Too Late To Pursue Your Dreams? Think Again 5 How SMART Goal Setting Makes Lasting Changes in Your Life

                                  Read Next

                                  Advertising
                                  Advertising
                                  Advertising

                                  Last Updated on February 18, 2019

                                  Why It’s Never Too Late To Redefine Yourself

                                  Why It’s Never Too Late To Redefine Yourself

                                  The ability to reinvent and redefine yourself is a bold, daring and purposeful choice. It doesn’t just happen. You have to make a conscious, intentional choice and then follow through.

                                  If the thought of forging a new path, changing habits, thought patterns and your inner circle of friends scares you – you’re not alone. Change can be a very scary thing. It takes courage, fortitude and a bit of faith to decide to shed your old self and don a new persona. However, it is one of the most critical processes one must repeatedly endure in the pursuit of destiny. Change unlocks new levels of potential.

                                  The Need for Change

                                  Everyday when we wake up, we make a decision. We decide to follow our routine or we decide to go off script and shake things up a bit. For those who are creatures of habit, routine is comfortable, easy and produces very little stress. The problem with this is, after a while you stop growing.

                                  Advertising

                                  We all reinvent ourselves at some point in our lives. It is absolutely necessary to achieve certain levels of success.

                                  Reflect back on who you were as a teenager and then who you were at 25. Those are two very different people. Most of us are completely different. Your thought patterns changed, your appearance, job, level of education and even your friends– changed. We like to refer to this as “growing up” or maturing and consider it to be one of life’s natural progressions. However the changes you made were purposeful and deliberate.

                                  This process must be a lifelong and continuous cycle. You are never too old to refresh yourself.

                                  Advertising

                                  Happy_old_man

                                    Signs It’s Time to Redefine

                                    “Just as established products and brands need updating to stay alive and vibrant, you periodically need to refresh or reinvent yourself.”– Mireille Guiliano

                                    So how do you know when it’s time for a system upgrade? There are signs along the way that alert you that it is time for an overhaul. The first sign is the feeling of being stuck. If you feel like you are in a rut, you’re bored with life or you need some newness and excitement, a self reinvention may be in order. Re-evaluate your life vision and your goals. Is that vision still valid and are your goals consistent with your vision and–are they achievable? If you are off course, it’s time for a change. If you are not moving forward and making progress, it’s time for a change.

                                    Advertising

                                    In life, there’s no such thing as neutrality–you’re either moving forward or you are moving backward. Time constantly moves forward and if you are standing still, you are actually losing ground. No matter your age or stage in life– there is always room for improvement.

                                    “You’re never too old to set another goal or dream a new dream.” ~C. S. Lewis

                                    The second sign that you are due for a change is the occurrence of major life events in which change is forced upon you. Getting married, starting a new job, being promoted, ending a relationship, becoming a parenting or relocating are all prime opportunities to completely overhaul your life.

                                    Advertising

                                    When these major shifts occur in your life–you have to shift with them. You can’t have a single mentality and have a successful marriage. You can’t remain selfish and irresponsible, and raise a healthy, well-adjusted child. You can’t be promoted to a supervisory position and keep the same subordinate attitude. Each level of success requires something different from you.

                                    Aronld in Predator

                                      Consider, for a moment, Arnold Schwarzenegger. People may have different opinions about his character and some of his life choices, but he is a master at reinventing himself. He achieved the ultimate success as a professional body builder by earning the title “Mr. Universe” three times. He then earned a tremendous amount of fame and fortune in the entertainment industry making action/adventure films. And in his latest role, he served two terms as the Governor of California. He succeeded as a professional body builder, a film star and a politician. Each role required massive amounts of change, commitment, strength and hard work.

                                      And if Arnold can do it…so can you!

                                      Featured photo credit: BK via flickr.com

                                      Read Next