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4 Things You Should Definitely Do Before Turning 30

4 Things You Should Definitely Do Before Turning 30

Turning 30 is a terrifying prospect for a lot of people, even if, in practical terms, nothing really changes when you wake up on the morning of that dreaded birthday. Psychologically speaking, however, the impact of reaching this particular milestone can be huge.

It can feel like the pressure to be a ‘grown-up’ has suddenly increased tenfold, and with our 20s suddenly behind us, we can experience a sense of loss and regret, as though time is running out to follow our dreams.

But it doesn’t need to be this way. It’s all about perspective, and taking the time to do these four things will help set you up to tackle the challenges of life after 30 and eliminate regrets.

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1. Take risks and fail

There’s nothing to say you should stop taking risks once you reach your 30s, but are you really all that likely to if you never have before?

Failure is a part of life and shouldn’t put us off trying new things, but all too often, that isn’t the case. The good news is, the more often you take risks that don’t quite work out, the more courage you develop to face the challenges life throws at you in the future.

Taking risks in your 20s, regardless of the outcome, helps you develop a thicker skin, which sets you up nicely for more success in your 30s. You’ll learn a lot, too, and that’s never a bad thing.

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2. Explore what you like… and what you don’t like

There’s plenty of time to stick to one thing later, so take the opportunity to explore who you are and what you want. Not sure about your job? Try something different while you can. And if you don’t know whether or not you’ll like the alternative, you can always change again. How will you know whether something else is better for you if you don’t give it a go?

Use your 20s to find out what you like, who you like, and what you want to do with the rest of your life. There’s no need to make any firm decisions just yet, and when you do, you’ll be more certain they’re the right ones for you.

The longer you leave it to make a change, the harder it is, and that makes you feel pressured into settling for a less than perfect life. Take the chance to try as much as you can early on and you’ll have a fully developed idea of where you’re headed.

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3. Figure out which learning methods work best for you

People often say that we never stop learning, and it’s true in every sense. For our personal and professional development, we continually educate ourselves throughout life, and at no point is this more important than the crucial growth and career advancement stage during our 30s.

Your 20s are the perfect time to figure out how you learn most effectively so that by the time you hit 30, you’ll already have it down.

Do you learn things best from other people? Are you more someone whose personal growth comes from contemplative time spent alone? A big reader who gains the most knowledge from books? Maybe you’re a mix, or something else entirely. Whatever it is that helps you learn, it’s for you and you alone to figure out, and the sooner you do so, the more time you’ll have to put it into practice for lifelong improvement.

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4. Travel to a lot of different places

“Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness,” Mark Twain famously wrote, and, as it happens, science has proven him right [1].

When we experience different cultures, we gain a greater understanding of the world as a whole and its interconnected nature, and that is a huge positive in terms of personal growth, building trust and empathy towards our fellow humans. Extensive travel is beneficial on a more simple level, too. It can be relaxing, exciting and everything in between, and gives us experiences that aren’t possible otherwise.

While it’s still possible – and absolutely recommended – to travel whenever we can throughout life, for most people it’s easiest during our 20s, before too much responsibility sets in and we suddenly don’t have the time anymore.

What’s more, the memories you make traveling before turning 30 will set you up with an enduring wanderlust that makes you far more likely to keep traveling later in life, with all the benefits it brings.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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