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15 “Starts and Stops” That All People In Their 20s Should Put On Their New Year Goal List

15 “Starts and Stops” That All People In Their 20s Should Put On Their New Year Goal List

The beginning of a new year also signifies the new beginning in our lives, the time when we should evaluate our progress so far, look into the future and make new goals that will improve our lives. If you are in your 20s, you are still looking for yourself, yet you should be aware that now is the best time to make some changes to achieve personal growth and lead a better life in the years to come, otherwise you might regret not setting the right goals earlier in your life.

1. Start writing down your goals

If you force yourself to sit down and think about where you want your life to go, helps you articulate your hopes and vision, and also helps you keep track of your progress. By writing down your short-term and long-term plans, you will get the sense of which direction you should go in.

2. Start letting go of your ego

Ego can blind us and stop us on the road to progress. The earlier you learn how to shut down your ego, the better. You need to be able to learn to admit you were wrong, and to accept other people’s opinions.

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3. Start showing loved ones you care

Life is short, so don’t miss out on showing your loved ones how much you care about them. Let them know how much you love them every day with small gestures to show them how grateful you are that they are part of your life.

4. Start conducting weekly reviews

Taking a look at every week at terms of what went well and what went wrong is a great practice. It will help you see what you need to change to avoid mistakes in the future.

5. Start getting involved in meaningful causes

Your 20s are the time when you have the most energy and enthusiasm, so use this time to do something good and improve the world around you.

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6. Start following current events

If you follow what’s going around you, you will have more chances to find what interests you and what you are passionate about, and you will have plenty of topics to talk about when you meet new people.

7. Start appreciating failure

If you try out a lot of new things, and fail, it actually a good thing – you will learn many valuable lessons. You will know what works best for you and how to make changes if something is not going according to your plan.

8. Start expressing gratitude

Learn to be grateful for all you have in your life now, and that’s how you will learn to appreciate all the good things latter in life and not take everything for granted.

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9. Start holding yourself accountable for your actions

It is always easier to place the blame for your actions on somebody else, but that is not going to solve your problems. Start taking responsibility when something goes wrong.

10. Stop sticking around in a bad relationship

Love is a powerful thing, but if there is no love in a relationship, don’t think twice – let it go. Don’t let the fear of being alone prevent you from finding the real love.

11. Stop being satisfied with yourself

Not being satisfied with yourself doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be confident, but rather not to stop dreaming and reaching for bigger goals and constantly improve yourself.

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12. Stop putting off all your life plans

Spend more time with your loved ones so that you don’t regret sacrificing important moments later in your life for the sake of business success.

13. Stop making excuses

If you want to see some change in your life you cannot sit around and make excuses as for why things are going bad. You will be more successful stop coming up with excuses for everything and hold yourself back.

14. Stop trying to live someone else’s life

You will never be able to satisfy everyone, so learn to follow your instinct and stick to your values. If you listen to what other people say you should do, you give them control over your life. Your life is your own, so don’t let anyone make the decisions for you.

15. Stop feeling bad about the past

You can’t relive the past, so there’s no point in thinking what could have been if you had made different choices. Focus on what lies ahead and think of past experiences as lessons that will help you in the future.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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