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15 “Starts and Stops” That All People In Their 20s Should Put On Their New Year Goal List

15 “Starts and Stops” That All People In Their 20s Should Put On Their New Year Goal List

The beginning of a new year also signifies the new beginning in our lives, the time when we should evaluate our progress so far, look into the future and make new goals that will improve our lives. If you are in your 20s, you are still looking for yourself, yet you should be aware that now is the best time to make some changes to achieve personal growth and lead a better life in the years to come, otherwise you might regret not setting the right goals earlier in your life.

1. Start writing down your goals

If you force yourself to sit down and think about where you want your life to go, helps you articulate your hopes and vision, and also helps you keep track of your progress. By writing down your short-term and long-term plans, you will get the sense of which direction you should go in.

2. Start letting go of your ego

Ego can blind us and stop us on the road to progress. The earlier you learn how to shut down your ego, the better. You need to be able to learn to admit you were wrong, and to accept other people’s opinions.

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3. Start showing loved ones you care

Life is short, so don’t miss out on showing your loved ones how much you care about them. Let them know how much you love them every day with small gestures to show them how grateful you are that they are part of your life.

4. Start conducting weekly reviews

Taking a look at every week at terms of what went well and what went wrong is a great practice. It will help you see what you need to change to avoid mistakes in the future.

5. Start getting involved in meaningful causes

Your 20s are the time when you have the most energy and enthusiasm, so use this time to do something good and improve the world around you.

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6. Start following current events

If you follow what’s going around you, you will have more chances to find what interests you and what you are passionate about, and you will have plenty of topics to talk about when you meet new people.

7. Start appreciating failure

If you try out a lot of new things, and fail, it actually a good thing – you will learn many valuable lessons. You will know what works best for you and how to make changes if something is not going according to your plan.

8. Start expressing gratitude

Learn to be grateful for all you have in your life now, and that’s how you will learn to appreciate all the good things latter in life and not take everything for granted.

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9. Start holding yourself accountable for your actions

It is always easier to place the blame for your actions on somebody else, but that is not going to solve your problems. Start taking responsibility when something goes wrong.

10. Stop sticking around in a bad relationship

Love is a powerful thing, but if there is no love in a relationship, don’t think twice – let it go. Don’t let the fear of being alone prevent you from finding the real love.

11. Stop being satisfied with yourself

Not being satisfied with yourself doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be confident, but rather not to stop dreaming and reaching for bigger goals and constantly improve yourself.

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12. Stop putting off all your life plans

Spend more time with your loved ones so that you don’t regret sacrificing important moments later in your life for the sake of business success.

13. Stop making excuses

If you want to see some change in your life you cannot sit around and make excuses as for why things are going bad. You will be more successful stop coming up with excuses for everything and hold yourself back.

14. Stop trying to live someone else’s life

You will never be able to satisfy everyone, so learn to follow your instinct and stick to your values. If you listen to what other people say you should do, you give them control over your life. Your life is your own, so don’t let anyone make the decisions for you.

15. Stop feeling bad about the past

You can’t relive the past, so there’s no point in thinking what could have been if you had made different choices. Focus on what lies ahead and think of past experiences as lessons that will help you in the future.

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Last Updated on June 13, 2019

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

Think you have a boring life?

The definition of boring is dull or not interesting. Maybe you’ve been doing the same thing and living the same life for too long, or maybe your daily routine is limiting your growth and happiness. Whatever your reason is, the following list of 20 things can definitely make any day more interesting. Some of them are silly, while some are more meaningful, so hopefully just reading the list makes your life less boring and sparks your creativity.

Let’s dive in the list to quit your boring life and start living an interesting (and meaning) one!

1. Channel Your 7-Year-Old Self

What would he or she want to do right now? Color? Paint? Run around outside? Play dress up? Eat with your hands? Play that instrument hiding in the back of your closet that you haven’t touched in years?

Just because you’re a grown up doesn’t mean any of this stuff will be less enjoyable than you remember it. Give yourself permission to play.

2. Go Play with Kids

Speaking of little kids, if you have your own or access to any (in a non-creepy way, like they’re your niece or your best friend’s kid, you get the idea) go play with them!

They didn’t create an entire show called Kids Say The Darndest Things because kids aren’t hilarious. They also keep things so simple, and we can really stand to be reminded of this and stop allowing ourselves to get bogged down in boring details.

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3. Order a Hot Dog

While you’re eating it, Google: “What’s in a hot dog?” You decide whether or not you want to finish it.

4. For the Ladies: Wear Your Sexiest Lingerie Under Your Work Clothes

Your “little secret” will leave you feeling anything but boring all day!

5. Play Cell Phone Roulette

You’ll need at least one buddy for this. Scroll through the contacts in your phone, stop on a random one and call the person.

You could spark an incredible catch up session or be incredibly awkward. Neither are boring.

6. Fill out a Pack of Thank-You Cards

Give them to random people who probably don’t get thanked too often for doing what they do ever day.

Ideas: police officers, librarians, servers, baristas, cab drivers, sanitation workers, teachers, people behind any check out counter, receptionists, your friends, the guy at the falafel stand, etc.

7. Sign up for a Class in Something You’ve “Always Wanted to Do”, or Something That Makes You Really Uncomfortable

Ideas: pole dancing, salsa lessons, improv, pottery, cooking, knitting (yup, there are classes for this, too!), karate, boxing, something techy like the workshops they run in Apple stores, get Rosetta Stone and learn that language you’ve always wanted to speak, etc.

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What’s good about joining an interest class is that you will also meet new people!

8. Interview Your Grandparents About Their Lives

You can bet they’ve had some crazy experiences you probably never knew about.

9. Get up on Stage at an Open Mic Night

Whether you’re funny or not, get up on stage and just talk funny. And if you’re not, memorize a few of your favorite jokes and tell those!

10. Do Something for Someone Else That You Wish Someone Would Do for You

We all have a few ideas on this list. I promise you will feel amazing after and anything but bored.

11. Start a DIY Project in Your Home

It doesn’t have to be super complicated. If you need ideas, there’re plenty on Pinterest. Or you can also check out these 30 Awesome DIY Projects that You’ve Never Heard of.

12. Plan a Weekend Trip or an All-Out Vacation

This will give you something to look forward to.

Even if you don’t have the time or money to go on a vacation, plan for a staycation, which is same fun and relaxing!

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13. People Watch

Find a bench in a crowded area (centers of transportation like airports, bus stops and train stations are great for this!) and just observe.

People are infinitely interesting.

14. Eat Something You’ve Never Eaten Before

Bonus points if it’s a random fruit or veggie.

15. Dance

You can get your friends together for a night on the town or just pull up a video on YouTube and bust a move from your own living room.

If you’re feeling extra brave, you can even dance in public and get other people involved.

16. Go to YOUTUBE and Search “Funny Pets” or “Funny Babies”

This is also a great quickie ab workout as you will be laughing hysterically.

17. Pick up a Book and Start Reading

Check out the NY Times Best Sellers lists and grab a new book you can get lost in.

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18. Step Away from the Computer and Go Get Some Time with People You Care About in Real Life

Facebook stalking doesn’t count as real social interaction. You can even share this post with your friends and vote on which one you’d like to do together!

19. Check out a Museum You’ve Never Been to Before

OK, depending on your interests, this one might actually be boring. If you love learning, art or different cultures though, this one is for you!

20. Write a List of Things You Desire and Truly Want

This is a great way to help you figure out the real reason why you’re feeling bored about your life. Maybe you haven’t really done things that you truly enjoy? Maybe what you’ve wanted to do all the time has been left behind?

Think about the list of things you really want to do, and ask yourself why you aren’t doing these things (yet). Then start taking your first step to make what you want happen.

Now go make your life interesting and live your dream life!

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