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If You Want To Know More About Someone, Try Their Most Played Songs List

If You Want To Know More About Someone, Try Their Most Played Songs List

Think you’re taking a glance into the deepest, darkest recesses of someone’s soul? Not quite, it’s Spotify’s list of the most listened to songs of 2016. But according to research, song lists can give us a lot more than a mere glimpse into which tunes have gone viral this year.

A three-year investigation carried out by Dr. Adrian North of Curtin University, Australia, correlated the music preferences and personality traits of over 36,000 volunteers. The study’s findings[1] revealed that those who listened predominantly to a specific genre were likely to have certain personality traits associated with that style of music.

So if you’ve ever felt an instant connection to someone because of the music they like, or if you’ve gone the other way and cringed when someone told you what their favourite song was, don’t worry, you’re not alone.

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What can Spotify’s 2016 top streaming list tell us about people’s behaviour

Hip Hop

Well, Drake tops the list for most streamed artist of the year. According to North’s research, hip-hop fans are extroverted and have high self-esteem. They’re less likely to want to sit in their bedrooms poring over the sleeve notes, a pair of headphones shutting out the outside world.

Rap

Another University of Texas study suggested that rap listeners are liberal, tend to perceive themselves as attractive but are also prone to ‘blirtatiousness’, which is best described as saying what’s on one’s mind as soon as it comes up. Kanye West is certainly prone to it. We’ll leave you to decide if it’s a good or a bad thing.

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Pop

Justin Bieber, meanwhile, maintains his position as one of the most streamed artists this year. His attempts at breaking out of teen pop into a more rough-hewn gangster persona may have swayed some, but for those who categorise his music as pop, it is associated with low creativity and nervousness. It’s not all bad though! According to North’s investigation, pop fans also have high self-esteem, as well as being hard-working and outgoing.

Classic Rock

The Beatles are currently Spotify’s top classic rock artists of 2016. North’s study claims that classic rock fans are easygoing, though there’s a caveat. They’re also the most selfish according to the results. If Bon Jovi and the Beatles can both be classified as classic rock though, that’s a pretty wide-ranging genre right there!

Indie Rock

Indie rock fans, who sometimes get a bad rep as hipsters, are vindicated by the findings, which suggest they are creative and open to new experiences. There is a flipside, however, as they have a low self-esteem and work ethic.

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Folk, Jazz, Blues

Older styles such as folk, jazz and blues are, perhaps unsurprisingly, associated with deep thinkers, the genres being a staple for this years surprise Nobel literature prizewinner, Bob Dylan.

Classical music

Classical music lovers are also considered to have high intelligence, high self-esteem and are more likely to be introverted. Though these genres are practically non-existent on Spotify’s most streamed list of 2016, they’re undeniably present in spirit, modern artists borrowing heavily from the styles.

It’s a bit farfetched perhaps to think that a song list can give us a really profound insight into human behaviour. However, North’s paper does draw a direct correlation between musical listening habits and the behavioural traits mentioned.

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What Else Does Research Say About Music?

Not only is classical music associated with smarter people, it is also associated with actively making us smarter. There is existing scientific evidence that suggests classical music can boost brain power[2]. An experiment was carried out in which the exact same lecture was given to two group of students. One, however, was listening to classical music throughout and the other had no music on.

The students were tested on the material of the lecture afterwards. According to the researchers “students who heard the music-enhanced lecture scored significantly higher on the quiz than those who heard the music-free version.”

So educators can help students absorb information “by turning to some old friends: Beethoven, Bach, and Tchaikovsky.”

Music can also apparently make you a better person. A University of Cambridge study recently highlighted a link between musical learning and enhanced emotional intelligence. Similarly, psychology specialists pointed out that crime and drop out rates decreased a decade ago in Venezuela when music lessons were made mandatory in schools[3].

Musical preference has always been a source of intense emotions. Sometimes it results in equally intense, almost tribal-like, rivalries. Whether it’s Blur vs Oasis or Kanye vs everyone, people may enjoy both but they’ll never concede that the other’s better than their favourite. All we know is that according to mounting evidence, next time you’re sending someone a personal playlist, you may also be sending them a window into your mind.

Reference

[1] Individual differences in musical taste,NCBI
[2] Can classical music make you smarter, Barking Up The Wrong Tree
[3] Land of hope and glory, The Guardian

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Last Updated on October 16, 2019

5 Powerful Ways for Building Fulfilling Relationships

5 Powerful Ways for Building Fulfilling Relationships

We all have relationships. We have acquaintances, relatives, colleagues, neighbors and friends. However, for a large percentage of us, many of these relationships are not fulfilling.

They are unfulfilling because they lack real strength; and they lack real strength because they lack real depth.

Unfortunately, in today’s society, we tend to have shallow, superficial relationships with others, and it’s extremely hard for this kind of relationships to provide anything more than faint satisfaction.

I’d like to show you, based on my experience as a communication and confidence coach, how you can add a significant amount of depth, and thus strength, to your relationships and make your social life a whole lot more meaningful.

Here’re 5 simple yet powerful ways for meaningful relationships building:

1. Meet More People

This is an apparent paradox, but the quality of the people you meet has considerably to do with the quantity of people you meet.

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If you don’t know a lot of people and you barely meet one or two new people every season of the year, considering the variety of individuals out there, you won’t meet very often people who are a good match with you in terms of personality, interests and values.

And since this natural match plays a huge part in building strong relationships, you’ll just as seldom have the opportunity to develop strong relationships.

Conversely, if you go out a lot, you meet a lot of new people and you constantly expand your social circle, you’re much more likely to meet people you match up well with, and these people have a tremendous potential to become good friends, reliable partners, etc.

This is why it’s important to meet more people.

2. Talk about the Things That Matter To You

A relationship becomes the strongest when two people discover they believe in the same things and have similar interests. It’s these commonalities regarding values and interests that create the strongest emotional connection.

I’ve noticed that many people keep conversations shallow. They talk about trivial stuff such as the weather, what’s on TV, the lives of various movie stars, but they rarely talk about what really matters to them in life. This is a mistake from my perspective, because it’s the perfect method for a relationship to not develop.

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Talk about the things that truly matter to you and give others a chance to know what you care about and what you believe in. If they believe in the same things and they care about the same things, they’ll eagerly let you know. Thus you’ll find meaningful common ground and you’ll feel more connected.

3. Express Vulnerability

Many people try to come off as perfect. They don’t talk about their failures, they hide their shortcomings and they never say anything that could embarrass them.

This is all just a facade though. You may appear perfect to some, but you know you’re not perfect and they know that too. You’re only human and humans have flaws.

However, by hiding your flaws, what you do succeed in is appearing cold and impersonal. You seem like a marble statue rather than a real person. And this makes it very hard for anyone to connect with you emotionally.

Humans connect with other humans, not with ideals. Keep this in mind and don’t be afraid to let your vulnerability and your humanity show. This is what takes a relationship to the next level.

Take a look at this article and find out Why Showing Vulnerability Actually Proves Your Strength.

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4. Have Integrity

Integrity, as I see it, is the alignment between your thoughts, your words and your actions. When you say what you think and you do what you said you’ll do, you have integrity.

This is a crucial trait because if you have integrity, people can trust you. They can trust you to give them an honest feedback, even when it’s hard to shallow, and they can trust you to keep your promises.

This trust is one of the central pillars of a strong relationship, both in your personal and your professional life. So, as challenging as it can be sometimes, always try to have integrity.

Be honest with the people around you, even when this will initially hurt them. It’s more important for them to trust you than to not feel hurt. And always do what you promised. Even better, think twice before you promise anything, and only promise what you really can and you are willing to do.

5. Be There for Others

Another central pillar of strong relationships is support. Connections between people grow sturdy if they can rely on each other for support when it’s needed, whether that support means a few kind words or several massive actions.

Of course, you can’t be there for everybody, all the time. Your time, energy and other resources are limited. But what you can do is identify the genuinely important people in your life and then seek to be there as much as possible, at least for them.

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Your support will help them practically, and it will comfort them emotionally; which makes one hell of a difference in a relationship.

The Bottom Line

With the right mindset and the right behavior, you can strengthen a wide range of relationships in your life and advance them as far as they can be advanced.

And with strong relationships, not only that you feel more fulfilled, but you feel more connected to the entire world. You feel that your life has real value, you have more fun and you live in the moment. An entire world of opportunities opens up in front of you.

Then your task is to simply walk through the open doors.

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