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Living Alone? 3 Tips To Make Your Home Safer

Living Alone? 3 Tips To Make Your Home Safer

More people than ever live alone, making home security a major concern. It is frightening to imagine an intruder breaking in when no one is at home or, worse yet, when you’re asleep. Getting anxious about a worst-case scenario won’t keep you safe, but some simple checkpoints can go a long way.

Believe it or not, it could benefit you to think like an intruder when considering whether your home is secure.

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Identify Security Risks

Are there easy-access areas in your home that you may not be aware of? Move through the home and check door hinges, screens, window locks or garage doors that don’t close properly. If you really wanted to get into the house from the outside, could you do it?

If you would think like a thief for a moment, you might guess that the easier the access, the choicer the plum, i.e., your belongings. Thieves notice homes that appear to be easy to burglarize. This is a honed skill, leading to a reward in goods. If you notice something is broken – for example, a gap in a screen or a window that won’t lock – address the problem immediately. If you’re renting, ask the landlord to repair the problems for your safety.

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Know Your Neighbors

Today people come and go, and many times people have neighbors whom they have never met. Living alone makes knowing your neighbors a must. A neighbor who keeps watch is very helpful. It is important to cultivate good relationships with people who live around you, and those who have lived in the neighborhood for a while can advise you on the safety of your particular area.

Potential thieves don’t care for neighborhoods where people appear to be observing properties around them. A thief does not like seeing a car in the neighbor’s driveway, nor a person strolling around the yard next door. Robbery is best accomplished unseen.

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A vigilant neighbor at home next door is a definite deterrent. A neighbor who is a friend and who will notify you (or the authorities if necessary) is even better.

Install Security Alarms

A study interviewing burglars indicated that the presence of an alarm system sign would send them off to easier pickings. This was especially true for burglars who carefully planned robbery strategies. No thief wants to enter a home and be blasted with a loud alarm system and instant police notification.

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Smart home systems create a secure access to a home that no ordinary burglar would consider, and they offer top-notch, dependable technology.

A mobile app provides complete viewing of your residence while you are out, and the cameras can be monitored 24/7. A mobile device can allow residents to lock doors, adjust temperatures, turn on or off lights and open or close a garage door from anywhere in the world. Even such things as an appliance left on or a leak in a pipe can be instantly detected and an alert given.

The system can give a potential burglar the impression that someone is in the home, with lights and television turning on and shades lifting at different times of the day. A potential thief is very interested in whether or not someone is at home. If it seems an occupant is in the home, most prudent burglars will not attempt a robbery.

Be Vigilant to Stay Safe

We all want to keep our homes as safe as possible, and with new technology there are even more way to do it. Above we discussed three tips that could help you increase the safety of your home. It’s important to pay attention and be aware of any suspicious activity around your home.

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Last Updated on February 15, 2019

Why Is Goal Setting Important to a Truly Fulfilling Life?

Why Is Goal Setting Important to a Truly Fulfilling Life?

In Personal Development-speak, we are always talking about goals, outcomes, success, desires and dreams. In other words, all the stuff we want to do, achieve and create in our world.

And while it’s important for us to know what we want to achieve (our goal), it’s also important for us to understand why we want to achieve it; the reason behind the goal or some would say, our real goal.

Why is goal setting important?

1. Your needs and desire will be fulfilled.

Sometimes when we explore our “why”, (why we want to achieve a certain thing) we realize that our “what” (our goal) might not actually deliver us the thing (feeling, emotion, internal state) we’re really seeking.

For example, the person who has a goal to lose weight in the belief that weight loss will bring them happiness, security, fulfillment, attention, popularity and the partner of their dreams. In this instance, their “what” is weight-loss and their “why” is happiness (etc.) and a partner.

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Six months later, they have lost the weight (achieved their goal) but as is often the case, they’re not happier, not more secure, not more confident, not more fulfilled and in keeping with their miserable state, they have failed to attract their dream partner.

After all, who wants to be with someone who’s miserable? They achieved their practical goal but still failed to have their needs met.

So they set a goal to lose another ten pounds. And then another. And maybe just ten more. With the destructive and erroneous belief that if they can get thin enough, they’ll find their own personal nirvana. And we all know how that story ends.

2. You’ll find out what truly motivates you

The important thing in the process of constructing our best life is not necessarily what goals we set (what we think we want) but what motivates us towards those goals (what we really want).

The sooner we begin to explore, identify and understand what motivates us towards certain achievements, acquisitions or outcomes (that is, we begin moving towards greater consciousness and self awareness), the sooner we will make better decisions for our life, set more intelligent (and dare I say, enlightened) goals and experience more fulfilment and less frustration.

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We all know people who have achieved what they set out to, only to end up in the same place or worse (emotionally, psychologically, sociologically) because what they were chasing wasn’t really what they were needing.

What we think we want will rarely provide us with what we actually need.

3. Your state of mind will be a lot healthier

We all set specific goals to achieve/acquire certain things (a job, a car, a partner, a better body, a bank balance, a title, a victory) because at some level, most of us believe (consciously or not) that the achievement of those goals will bring us what we really seek; joy, fulfilment, happiness, safety, peace, recognition, love, acceptance, respect, connection.

Of course, setting practical, material and financial goals is an intelligent thing to do considering the world we live in and how that world works.

But setting goals with an expectation that the achievement of certain things in our external, physical world will automatically create an internal state of peace, contentment, joy and total happiness is an unhealthy and unrealistic mindset to inhabit.

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What you truly want and need

Sometimes we need to look beyond the obvious (superficial) goals to discover and secure what we really want.

Sadly, we live in a collective mindset which teaches that the prettiest and the wealthiest are the most successful.

Some self-help frauds even teach this message. If you’re rich or pretty, you’re happy. If you’re both, you’re very happy. Pretty isn’t what we really want; it’s what we believe pretty will bring us. Same goes with money.

When we cut through the hype, the jargon and the self-help mumbo jumbo, we all have the same basic goals, desires and needs:

Joy, fulfilment, happiness, safety, peace, recognition, love, acceptance, respect, connection.

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Nobody needs a mansion or a sport’s car but we all need love.

Nobody needs massive pecs, six percent body-fat, a face lift or bigger breasts but we all need connection, acceptance and understanding.

Nobody needs to be famous but we all need peace, calm, balance and happiness.

The problem is, we live in a culture which teaches that one equals the other. If only we lived in a culture which taught that real success is far more about what’s happening in our internal environment, than our external one.

It’s a commonly-held belief that we’re all very different and we all have different goals — whether short term or long term goals. But in many ways we’re not, and we don’t; we all want essentially the same things.

Now all you have to do is see past the fraud and deception and find the right path.

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