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4 Simple Games To Get The Party Started

4 Simple Games To Get The Party Started

So, you’re hosting a party and after weeks and months of planning, the day has finally come. However, you’ve invited friends from a few different social circles and they’re not really mingling. Luckily for you, we have four simple games you can pull out and play to break the ice, bring everyone together, and really get the party atmosphere going.

1. Beer Pong

In recent times, this has become a party essential. Even if the party is with people under the drinking age, you can just replace the beer with lemonade or squash. Regardless of the drink, this is a great way to have fun, and it’s an extremely simple game to organize. All you need is some plastic cups, a table, and a ping pong ball.

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To play with ten plastic cups, set up a triangle with four cups in a line closest to the edge of one end of the table. Then, place three cups in front of these cups, and then two in front of these. Finish off with one single cup closest to the middle of the table. Essentially, it will look like the shape of a triangle; like the red balls in snooker (or multi-colored balls in billiards) before the break. With this set up on both sides of the table, players will stand behind their cups on one side of the table, and take turns trying to throw the ball into the opponent’s cups. When a shot lands, the player behind the cups has to drink its contents; the first team to remove all of the other team’s cups is the winner. When it comes to breaking the ice, this will bring the competition and life out of everyone.

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2. Forehead Investigator

With just some post-it notes and a pen, everyone can get involved in this game, and it’s a great way to have fun. With a post-it note each, everyone must write a famous person, character, or name that will be recognized by all on their note. Then, each person sticks the name they wrote on someone else’s forehead (make sure the recipient doesn’t see the name). If all goes well, everyone will have a post-it note on their head. Then, taking turns, you will ask each other questions that will give a yes or no answer, using them to try to figure out the name on your forehead. With this game, you can have forfeits and funny punishments for those who take the longest to guess their person, and a cool prize for the winner.

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3. Truth or Dare

Truth or dare is a party classic that has been played for many years. Simply sit in a circle, or around the room, and take turns to either answer a question truthfully or perform a dare instead. The only things you need to play are some good truth or dare questions[1] to use. Although, these days, you can just download a truth or dare app[2] to handle everything. Either way, if you’re getting to know people, the truth questions are a great way to do this; but perhaps you may learn even more about others from the various dares that you get them to do!

4. The Mummy

Finally, let’s finish with a simple game that will get messy and produce a lot of laughs. In truth, it couldn’t be easier; after splitting into teams, each team will have a designated mummy. Then, as quickly as possible, each team has to wrap their mummy completely in toilet paper so no visible skin or clothing can be seen (except for the mouth and eyes of course). The team to mummify their player the fastest wins!

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Last Updated on December 10, 2019

5 Smart Reasons to Start Journal Writing Today

5 Smart Reasons to Start Journal Writing Today

Here’s the truth: your effectiveness at life is not what it could be. You’re missing out.

Each day passes by and you have nothing to prove that it even happened. Did you achieve something? Go on a date? Have an emotional breakthrough? Who knows?

But what you do know is that you don’t want to make the same mistakes that you’ve made in the past.

Our lives are full of hidden gems of knowledge and insight, and the most recent events in our lives contain the most useful gems of all. Do you know why? It’s simple, those hidden lessons are the most up to date, meaning they have the largest impact on what we’re doing right now.

But the question is, how do you get those lessons? There’s a simple way to do it, and it doesn’t involve time machines:

Journal writing.

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Improved mental clarity, the ability to see our lives in the big picture, as well as serving as a piece of evidence cataloguing every success we’ve ever had; we are provided all of the above and more by doing some journal writing.

Journal writing is a useful and flexible tool to help shed light on achieving your goals.

Here’s 5 smart reasons why you should do journal writing:

1. Journals Help You Have a Better Connection with Your Values, Emotions, and Goals

By journaling about what you believe in, why you believe it, how you feel, and what your goals are, you understand your relationships with these things better. This is because you must sort through the mental clutter and provide details on why you do what you do and feel what you feel.

Consider this:

Perhaps you’ve spent the last year or so working at a job you don’t like. It would be easy to just suck it up and keep working with your head down, going on as if it’s supposed to be normal to not like your job. Nobody else is complaining, so why should you, right?

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But a little journal writing will set things straight for you. You don’t like your job. You feel like it’s robbing you of happiness and satisfaction, and you don’t see yourself better there in the future.

The other workers? Maybe they don’t know, maybe they don’t care. But you do, you know and care enough to do something about it. And you’re capable of fixing this problem because your journal writing allows you to finally be honest with yourself about it.

2. Journals Improve Mental Clarity and Help Improve Your Focus

If there’s one thing journal writing is good for, it’s clearing the mental clutter.

How does it work? Simply, whenever you have a problem and write about it in a journal, you transfer the problem from your head to the paper. This empties the mind, allowing allocation of precious resources to problem-solving rather than problem-storing.

Let’s say you’ve been juggling several tasks at work. You’ve got data entry, testing, e-mails, problems with the boss, and so on—enough to overwhelm you—but as you start journal writing, things become clearer and easier to understand: Data entry can actually wait till Thursday; Bill kindly offered earlier to do my testing; For e-mails, I can check them now; the boss is just upset because Becky called in sick, etc.

You become better able to focus and reason your tasks out, and this is an indispensable and useful skill to have.

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3. Journals Improve Insight and Understanding

As a positive consequence of improving your mental clarity, you become more open to insights you may have missed before. As you write your notes out, you’re essentially having a dialogue with yourself. This draws out insights that you would have missed otherwise; it’s almost as if two people are working together to better understand each other. This kind of insight is only available to the person who has taken the time to connect with and understand themselves in the form of writing.

Once you’ve gotten a few entries written down, new insights can be gleaned from reading over them. What themes do you see in your life? Do you keep switching goals halfway through? Are you constantly dating the same type of people who aren’t good for you? Have you slowly but surely pushed people out of your life for fear of being hurt?

All of these questions can be answered by simply self-reflecting, but you can only discover the answers if you’ve captured them in writing. These questions are going to be tough to answer without a journal of your actions and experiences.

4. Journals Track Your Overall Development

Life happens, and it can happen fast. Sometimes we don’t take the time to stop and look around at what’s happening to us at each moment. We don’t get to see the step-by-step progress that we’re making in our own lives. So what happens? One day it’s the future, and you have no idea how you’ve gotten there.

Journal writing allows you to see how you’ve changed over time, so you can see where you did things right, and you can see where you took a misstep and fell.

The great thing about journals is that you’ll know what that misstep was, and you can make sure it doesn’t happen again—all because you made sure to log it, allowing yourself to learn from your mistakes.

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5. Journals Facilitate Personal Growth

The best thing about journal writing is that no matter what you end up writing about, it’s hard to not grow from it. You can’t just look at a past entry in which you acted shamefully and say “that was dumb, anyway!” No, we say “I will never make a dumb choice like that again!”

It’s impossible not to grow when it comes to journal writing. That’s what makes journal writing such a powerful tool, whether it’s about achieving goals, becoming a better person, or just general personal-development. No matter what you use it for, you’ll eventually see yourself growing as a person.

Kickstart Journaling

How can journaling best be of use to you? To vent your emotions? To help achieve your goals? To help clear your mind? What do you think makes journaling such a useful life skill?

Know the answer? Then it’s about time you reap the benefits of journal writing and start putting pen to paper.

Here’s what you can do to start journaling:

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