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Common Signs and Symptoms of Depression in Parents

Common Signs and Symptoms of Depression in Parents

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    No matter your age, parenthood is one of the most challenging parts of life you can go through – from a physical, emotional, mental, and even financial point of view. There is the pressure of being a good parent to deal with, not to mention the ever-present lack of sleep and alone time, plus the constant demands for your attention and money, bodily changes for many mothers to adjust to, as well as the potential for post-natal depression.

    All in all, it’s no wonder that many parents start to suffer from depression due to the variety of pressures they’re under. Some parents also struggle with additional mental health issues, such as personality disorders or addictions (variously known as having a co-occurring mental health disorder, or being dually disordered), which makes life even more difficult.

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    As a result, it is important for everyone to understand some of the most common symptoms of depression so that you can be aware of your own low mood, or notice that of your partner, loved one, or friend. Read on for some of the top signs of depression that you should be on the lookout for.

    Decreased/Enhanced Appetite or Changes in Weight

    A very common symptom that many people who are depressed experience is a change in their appetite and a corresponding weight gain or loss. If you notice that a family member or friend seems to be eating a lot more or a lot less than normal over an extended period of time, they may be suffering from depression. While of course everyone tends to have times when they don’t feel hungry or end up overindulging, a prolonged change in appetite (that lasts for a couple of weeks or more, and that potentially also leads to a rapid weight gain or loss), can be cause for concern.

    In particular, many moms tend to suffer from a loss of self-esteem after they gain weight during pregnancy and typically have less time to prepare nutritious meals or exercise once their baby has been born. They are more likely to suffer from depressive feelings and even develop eating disorders.

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    Insomnia or Fatigue

    Another very common sign of depression is a change in sleeping patterns. While obviously parents, particularly new ones, often struggle with less sleep because they are woken up by little ones, sleep disturbances can also be caused by anxiety, stress, and deeper psychological issues. Indeed, people who are suffering from depression regularly note that they are trying to deal with insomnia or that they have frequent nightmares that keep them from enjoying a proper night’s sleep.

    In addition, often when people are depressed, they end up feeling fatigued all the time, even if they get enough sleep. Depression may be to blame for lack of energy, disturbed sleeping patterns for lengthy periods of time, low moods, and other depressive signs.

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      Loss of Interest in Normal Activities

      For many people who are coping with depression, social withdrawal is a common sign that they’re suffering, as is a general loss of interest in the normal activities they enjoyed in the past. When people have been feeling down for a sustained amount of time, they often wish to steer clear of company and will avoid many of their usual activities as a result.

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      If, then, you notice that a friend or family member no longer wants to go out, attend their usual sporting events, meet contacts for regular catch-ups, or are otherwise retreating into their shell, this may be a sure sign that they are depressed. Where possible, try to encourage them to get out of the house or away from the office more, even if it is just for short periods of time. Opening the lines of communication, and providing people with a safe place to chat and otherwise feel supported can do wonders for mental health.

      Feelings of Despair

      Lastly, many parents who are struggling with depression suffer from feelings of despair, guilt, hopelessness, and worthlessness. This can be triggered by the dramatic life change that occurs when people become parents or because they may be worried about being a good parent, about the family’s finances, about their body image, their career, health, or familial relationships – just to name a few things. Post-natal depression can also often cause new mothers to start exhibiting negative self-talk and a marked loss of self-esteem.

      If you hear one of your friends or family members speaking negatively about themselves on a regular basis, take note. While everyone has times of self-doubt or worry, people who are depressed often tend to focus solely on thoughts that are harmful to their self-esteem. Keep an eye out for repeated phrases such as “It’s all my fault,” “People would be better off without me,” “I’m a failure,” “I’m a terrible parent,” or “I’m worthless.”

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      Last Updated on August 15, 2018

      7 Amazing Things That Will Happen When You Do Plank Every Day

      7 Amazing Things That Will Happen When You Do Plank Every Day

      Bodyweight exercises are gaining ground in the fitness world due to the practicality and simplicity of getting in shape using your own body weight. Planks are one form of bodyweight exercises that will never go out of fashion. Planks are one of the most effective exercises you can do. Why? Because they require a small time investment on your part, and offer the chance to achieve substantial results in a relatively short span of time.

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      Why is it important to train up our core strength?

      There are numerous sites and blogs which detail ways to build your core muscles or core strength. Often though, these sites neglect to explain what your core muscles actually are, and why building them is important.

      This is quite surprising, as core muscles are quite easy to explain. Your core muscles are a series of muscles in your midsection, and are used in most forms of movement. Though they aren’t housed in your arms or legs, your core muscles can help transfer force from one limb to another, or are used in addition to muscles in your arms or legs to increase their effectiveness. As such a strong core will make a big improvement on your ability to move and exercise further.

      Also they are great for helping other muscles in your midsection such as your abdominal muscles. Your abdominal muscles are important for supporting your back and spinal column, and as such are important aids in preventing injuries. However for them to be most effective you need to spend a lot of time developing your core muscles.

      In short, planking exercises can make a huge improvement in your muscles down your whole body. Making them a hugely effective exercise to perform.

      One Exercise, multiple benefits

      There are few forms of exercise as effective at building your core as planking exercises. However, planking exercises benefit far more than just your core strength.

      By holding yourself in the position for a planking exercise, you’ll notice that your biceps, neck, and shoulder muscles are also being tested and strained. This this encouraging their buildup and development. This is great news if you like to do press ups, developed shoulder muscles will have a big impact on your press up performance.

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      When planking, you are holding yourself up through your arms and biceps and so by holding a planking position, your arm muscles are being toned and developed. Making planking a great alternative exercise to other forms of bicep developing exercises.

      Moving down your midsection, successful plank exercises actually develop the muscles in your butt! These muscles tend to be ignored by a lot of exercises, so this is another great benefit of plank exercises.

      In much the same way as you develop your biceps and arm muscles, holding the planking position helps develop the muscles in your thighs too.

      What is even better is that planking exercises don’t take much time at all. In fact you should probably only spend about ten minutes max per day in the planking exercise.

      What will happen when you start doing planks every day

        1. You’ll improve core definition and performance: 

        Planks are an ideal exercise for the abdominal muscles exactly because they engage all major core muscle groups including the transverse abdominus, the rectus abdominusthe external oblique muscle, and the glutes. The importance of strengthening each muscle group cannot be underestimated either, for all of these groups serve their own purpose. If you strengthen these muscle groups you will notice:

        • Transverse abdominis: increased ability to lift heavier weights.
        • Rectus adbominis: improved sports performance, particularly with jumping. This muscle group is also responsible for giving you the renowned six pack look.
        • Oblique muscles: improved capacity for stable side-bending and waist-twisting
        • Glutes: a supported back and a strong, shapely booty.

        2. You’ll decrease your risk of injury in the back and spinal column

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          Doing planks is a type of exercise that allow you to build muscle while also making sure that you are not putting too much pressure on your spine or hips. According to the American Council on Exercise, doing planks regularly not only significantly reduces back pain but it also strengthens your muscles and ensures a strong support for your entire back, especially in the areas around your upper back.

          Check out this article if you would like to find out about how doing planks on different surfaces can impact the effectiveness of this exercise in strengthening your core.

          3. You’ll experience an increased boost to your overall metabolism

            Planking is an excellent way of challenging your entire body because doing them every day will burn more calories than other traditional abdominal exercises, such as crunches or sit-ups. The muscles you strengthen by doing this exercise on a day-to-day basis will ensure that you burn more energy even when sedentary. This is especially important if you are spending the majority of your day sitting in front of a computer. Also, making it a daily 10- to 1 minute home exercise before or after work will not only provide an enhanced metabolic rate but it will also ensure that that metabolic rate remains high all day long, (yes, even while you are asleep).

            4. You’ll significantly improve your posture

              Planking exercises have a great impact and improvement on your posture. This is great news as a strong posture brings with it a huge number of fantastic benefits .

              A good posture keeps your bones and joins in the correct alignment which means both your bones and joints will be better maintained and more healthy, but also means the overall effectiveness of your muscles will be improved.

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              A good posture will ensure your back or spine is in the correct position and so you will suffer less back pain.

              On top of everything, someone with good posture looks better, healthier, and more confident.

              5. You’ll improve overall balance

                Have you ever felt that when you tried standing on one leg, you couldn’t stand up straight for more than a couple of seconds? It’s not because you were drunk- unless you happened to be at the time!-  but rather, it’s because your abdominal muscles weren’t strong enough to give you the balance you needed. Through improving your balance by doing side planks and planks with extensions you will boost your performance in every kind of sporting activity.

                6. You’ll become more flexible than ever before

                  Flexibility is a key benefit of doing planks regularly, for this form of exercise expands and stretches all your posterior muscle groups – shouldersshoulder blades, and collarbone – while also stretching your hamstrings, arches of your feet, and toes. With a side plank added in to the mix, you can also work on your oblique muscles. This will provide you with further benefits when it comes to hyper-extending your toes, a movement that is crucial for supporting your body’s weight.

                  7. You’ll witness mental benefits

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                    Plank exercises have a particular effect on our nerves, making them an excellent means of improving overall mood. How? Well, they stretch out muscle groups that contribute to stress and tension in the body. Just think about it: you are sitting in your chair, at home or at work, all day long; your thigh muscles get tight, your legs get heavy due to being bent for several hours; and tension develops in your shoulders due to being forced to slump forward all day. These are all circumstances that put too stress on the muscles and nerves. The good news is that planks not only calm your brain, but they can also treat anxiety and symptoms of depression– but only if you make it part of your daily routine.

                    How to hold a plank position

                    1. Get into pushup position on the floor.
                    2. Now bend your elbows 90 degrees and rest your weight on your forearms.
                    3. Keep your torso straight and rigid and your body in a straight line from ears to toes with no sagging or bending.
                    4. Your head is relaxed and you should be looking at the floor.
                    5. Hold the position for as long as you can.
                    6. Remember to breathe. Inhale and exhale slowly and steadily.
                    7. When your form begins to suffer, pull the plug. You’re only benefiting from the plank by actually doing the plank.

                    Watch the video if you have any doubt!

                    Here is a great infographic that shows the best plank variation exercises to evenly target all abdominal muscle groups:

                      How to improve your plank time gradually

                      1. Start with the easier variation if needed. You can start with a bent-knee plank if you can’t perform a regular plank yet. If you can hold a plank for more than two minutes with ease, you can move on to these tougher variations.
                      2. Practise every day. Space your planking exercise throughout the day and do 3-4 times every day. Try to hold the position 10 seconds longer each time.
                      3. Perform other body-weight exercises at the same time. Push-up and squat will improve your core strength too.

                      Are you ready to devote 5-10 minutes of your day, every day, to stay fit, healthy and, most importantly, strong as a bull? Then jump in and make doing plank exercises a part of your life.

                      Who Should Be Cautious Doing The Plank?

                      You need to be cautious doing Planking exercises if any of these risks apply to you:

                      • Prolapse
                      • After prolapse surgery
                      • Pelvic pain conditions
                      • Weak or poorly functioning pelvic floor muscles
                      • Previous childbirth
                      • Overweight

                      Choose an alternative pelvic floor abdominal exercise or consult your doctor before performing plank regularly.

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