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6 Great Tips If You Plan To Vacation Alone

6 Great Tips If You Plan To Vacation Alone

There are some things we should do at least once in our lives, and in my opinion traveling alone should be on the list. Though, the idea can be a bit scary since we are accustomed to traveling in the midst of family or friends. Traveling alone can be one of the most amazing and rewarding experience that can change a person’s perception of life.

Been alone can help you rediscover your true nature, you will learn a lot about yourself in a way that is simply impossible when you are in the midst of those in your everyday life.

This article will expose you to 6 great tips you could adopt if you plan to travel alone.

1. Meet Wonderful People

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    When you travel with a group of friends or family, it is normal to stick to your small circle of familiar faces. Therefore, hindering any possible opportunity for interactions with strangers. But, when you are out there all alone, do yourself a favor, meet new people, make friends along the way, and probably you might even end up making friends for a lifetime.

    Always remember that being a lone traveler automatically makes you an interesting person and other people will be interested in you to learn things about where you come from, your culture and norms. Do not be skeptical or feel insecure, feel free to share a story about where you come from.

    2. Breath Freedom

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      You do not have to answer to anyone or decide with a partner on what to see, how to sleep on the mattress, where to eat, type of shoe to wear or even when to go out for a drink.  If you have never been alone, this opportunity will teach you to be totally responsible for yourself and accountable for all your actions. This could be a bit challenging but, the reward has great benefits.

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      For example, whenever one of life’s little challenges emerges, you can always remind yourself of all that you have handled on your own when you were on vacation. Having the experience of doing things on your own without help or distractions can help boost self-esteem.

      3. Do What Pleases You

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        There is nothing absolutely better than traveling relaxed and confident. Therefore, do not try to impress or please anyone, ensure you visit the places that please you, browse cheap online local stores for an opportunity to buy locally made products, enjoy your time and plan what you are going to do at your pace.  Pleasing yourself is more important and does a lot to contribute to the success of your experience. Hence, you can sleep as little or as much as you want, eat what your heart desires, and indulge yourself with whatever gladdens you.

        4. Limousine Party

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          A limousine ride is not something we can do every day. Hence, you could plan ahead to organize a limousine party and celebrate with wonderful people you have met. Sometimes, strangers can really make our day worthwhile. However, ensure the party is properly planned ahead of your arrival and use online tools like find a limousine directory to help you get the best limousine party deals available or better still carry out a direct search on Google. This alone could prove to be one of the most rewarding and memorable experience.

          Don’t feel shy in asking people few people to come along for your little party. This addition could help you see the city in another dimension.

          5. Call Your Family

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            Family is all we have and it is important to give them some peace of mind. Take out some time and call your close relatives and friends at least once during your vacation, this will give them the assurance that you are safe and comfortable.

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            Making just a single phone call will avail you the opportunity to further explore your vacation without worrying about those you have left at home.

            6. Learn Learn Learn

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              Learning has no limit and it very important to utilize the opportunity of been alone to learn. This will broaden your horizon and improve your thinking. Traveling alone can help you achieve this goal without distraction.

              It will be a beautiful and rewarding experience to partake in the culture and local activities of people from other ethnicity and nationality. Doing this will open your eyes to many possibilities. This will help you change your ideology and breed more respect for the culture and way of life of other people.

              Finally, when you go on vacation open your mind and heart to absolve experiences that will touch you. Though, visits to some places during your trip might not be as beautiful or rewarding as anticipated. Remember, those experiences are also a part of growing.

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              Why Is Goal Setting Important to a Truly Fulfilling Life?

              Why Is Goal Setting Important to a Truly Fulfilling Life?

              In Personal Development-speak, we are always talking about goals, outcomes, success, desires and dreams. In other words, all the stuff we want to do, achieve and create in our world.

              And while it’s important for us to know what we want to achieve (our goal), it’s also important for us to understand why we want to achieve it; the reason behind the goal or some would say, our real goal.

              Why is goal setting important?

              1. Your needs and desire will be fulfilled.

              Sometimes when we explore our “why”, (why we want to achieve a certain thing) we realize that our “what” (our goal) might not actually deliver us the thing (feeling, emotion, internal state) we’re really seeking.

              For example, the person who has a goal to lose weight in the belief that weight loss will bring them happiness, security, fulfillment, attention, popularity and the partner of their dreams. In this instance, their “what” is weight-loss and their “why” is happiness (etc.) and a partner.

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              Six months later, they have lost the weight (achieved their goal) but as is often the case, they’re not happier, not more secure, not more confident, not more fulfilled and in keeping with their miserable state, they have failed to attract their dream partner.

              After all, who wants to be with someone who’s miserable? They achieved their practical goal but still failed to have their needs met.

              So they set a goal to lose another ten pounds. And then another. And maybe just ten more. With the destructive and erroneous belief that if they can get thin enough, they’ll find their own personal nirvana. And we all know how that story ends.

              2. You’ll find out what truly motivates you

              The important thing in the process of constructing our best life is not necessarily what goals we set (what we think we want) but what motivates us towards those goals (what we really want).

              The sooner we begin to explore, identify and understand what motivates us towards certain achievements, acquisitions or outcomes (that is, we begin moving towards greater consciousness and self awareness), the sooner we will make better decisions for our life, set more intelligent (and dare I say, enlightened) goals and experience more fulfilment and less frustration.

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              We all know people who have achieved what they set out to, only to end up in the same place or worse (emotionally, psychologically, sociologically) because what they were chasing wasn’t really what they were needing.

              What we think we want will rarely provide us with what we actually need.

              3. Your state of mind will be a lot healthier

              We all set specific goals to achieve/acquire certain things (a job, a car, a partner, a better body, a bank balance, a title, a victory) because at some level, most of us believe (consciously or not) that the achievement of those goals will bring us what we really seek; joy, fulfilment, happiness, safety, peace, recognition, love, acceptance, respect, connection.

              Of course, setting practical, material and financial goals is an intelligent thing to do considering the world we live in and how that world works.

              But setting goals with an expectation that the achievement of certain things in our external, physical world will automatically create an internal state of peace, contentment, joy and total happiness is an unhealthy and unrealistic mindset to inhabit.

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              What you truly want and need

              Sometimes we need to look beyond the obvious (superficial) goals to discover and secure what we really want.

              Sadly, we live in a collective mindset which teaches that the prettiest and the wealthiest are the most successful.

              Some self-help frauds even teach this message. If you’re rich or pretty, you’re happy. If you’re both, you’re very happy. Pretty isn’t what we really want; it’s what we believe pretty will bring us. Same goes with money.

              When we cut through the hype, the jargon and the self-help mumbo jumbo, we all have the same basic goals, desires and needs:

              Joy, fulfilment, happiness, safety, peace, recognition, love, acceptance, respect, connection.

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              Nobody needs a mansion or a sport’s car but we all need love.

              Nobody needs massive pecs, six percent body-fat, a face lift or bigger breasts but we all need connection, acceptance and understanding.

              Nobody needs to be famous but we all need peace, calm, balance and happiness.

              The problem is, we live in a culture which teaches that one equals the other. If only we lived in a culture which taught that real success is far more about what’s happening in our internal environment, than our external one.

              It’s a commonly-held belief that we’re all very different and we all have different goals — whether short term or long term goals. But in many ways we’re not, and we don’t; we all want essentially the same things.

              Now all you have to do is see past the fraud and deception and find the right path.

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