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How to Make the Best of Beach Days

How to Make the Best of Beach Days

A day at the beach can be something to look forward to for many people. But, it can be hard to figure out how to make the best out of your day. Luckily, there are a few tips that can help you enjoy your time on the beach as much as possible. Consider these points for your next beach vacation, and see if you don’t feel like you’ve successfully seized the day.

Pack with a Plan

Although the thought of writing a list of everything you want to bring doesn’t sound appealing, it is one of the easiest ways to help you make sure nothing gets left behind. As you plan your day at the beach, begin by writing down the items you need to bring. Then, when it comes time to pack (or shop) you have a point of reference regarding everything you need.

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Some of the basics for beach days include sunscreen, towels, swimsuits, and sunglasses. You may also want to bring food, and you should definitely have some drinking water on hand. If you are staying overnight, make sure to bring your toothbrush and Waterpik (check out these Waterpikwaterfloss reviews for some recommendations), any medications you need, and suitable clothing.

Don’t Over Schedule

While having some planned activities can be fun, try making room in your schedule to allow for delays or spontaneity. Over-scheduling can actually make the trip more stressful than restful, especially if things don’t go to plan. Give yourself some flexibility to adjust as the day progresses. That way, you can enjoy the trip based on what it is instead of comparing it to what you wanted it to be.

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Don’t Get Tied Up in Reviews

A lot of people check travel reviews, such as those offered by TripAdvisor and Yelp, to help decide where to go. While these sites can provide excellent information, it is easy to get caught up in them. When reading this information, it is important to remember that almost every attraction will have some positive and negative reviews. That means you are unlikely to find a “perfect” place to stop regardless of your destination.

Additionally, reviews aren’t your only source of information. Sometimes, you can get better recommendations by asking people who live and work locally to the beach you are visiting. If you stop by a gas station, hotel, or visitor’s center, ask the people who work there what they enjoy. You may find yourself directed to a hidden gem you would have otherwise missed.

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Be Polite, Always

When you go to a beach, it is important to remember that you aren’t the only person there who is trying to enjoy their day. Other people are looking to dine at local restaurants, lounge on the beach sand, and generally enjoy themselves. While some people’s actions can be frustrating, especially during busy tourist seasons, it is important to remember that (generally) none of it is personal. Take a deep breath, and make an effort to be polite to those around you. Often, expressing your frustration won’t make you feel any better, but being polite can yield positive results.

Ditch Your Digital Device

Most people are chained to their devices. Whether it is a smartphone or tablet, it can almost feel weird to go anywhere without one. But bringing a device to the beach isn’t the best plan. The sand and surf can damage electronics, and may even cause them to fail. Whenever possible, leave your devices in a safe location that isn’t on the beach itself. Plus, it will make it easier to enjoy the company of those who came with you on the trip, and sometimes that is what a day at the beach is all about.

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With this list you will be ready to hit the beach in no time at all. Don’t let the stress of the beach take away your fun. Happy beach day!

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Last Updated on January 3, 2020

The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

Are you waiting for life events to turn out the way you want so that you can feel more positive about your life? Do you find yourself having pre-conditions to your sense of well-being, thinking that certain things must happen for you to be happier? Do you think there is no way that your life stresses can make you anything other than “stressed out” and that other people just don’t understand?  If your answer is “yes” to any of these questions, you might find yourself lingering in the land of negativity for too long!

The following are some tips to keep positive no matter what comes your way. This post will help you stop looking for what psychologists call “positivity” in all the wrong places!  Here are the ten essential habits of positive people.

1. Positive people don’t confuse quitting with letting go.

Instead of hanging on to ideas, beliefs, and even people that are no longer healthy for them, they trust their judgement to let go of negative forces in their lives.  Especially in terms of relationships, they subscribe to The Relationship Prayer which goes:

 I will grant myself the ability to trust the healthy people in my life … 

To set limits with, or let go of, the negative ones … 

And to have the wisdom to know the DIFFERENCE!

 2.  Positive people don’t just have a good day – they make a good day.

Waiting, hoping and wishing seldom have a place in the vocabulary of positive individuals. Rather, they use strong words that are pro-active and not reactive. Passivity leads to a lack of involvement, while positive people get very involved in constructing their lives. They work to make changes to feel better in tough times rather than wish their feelings away.

3. For the positive person, the past stays in the past.

Good and bad memories alike stay where they belong – in the past where they happened. They don’t spend much time pining for the good ol’ days because they are too busy making new memories now. The negative pulls from the past are used not for self-flagellation or unproductive regret, but rather productive regret where they use lessons learned as stepping stones towards a better future.

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4. Show me a positive person and I can show you a grateful person.

The most positive people are the most grateful people.  They do not focus on the potholes of their lives.  They focus on the pot of gold that awaits them every day, with new smells, sights, feelings and experiences.  They see life as a treasure chest full of wonder.

5. Rather than being stuck in their limitations, positive people are energized by their possibilities.

Optimistic people focus on what they can do, not what they can’t do.  They are not fooled to think that there is a perfect solution to every problem, and are confident that there are many solutions and possibilities.  They are not afraid to attempt new solutions to old problems, rather than spin their wheels expecting things to be different this time.  They refuse to be like Charlie Brown expecting that this time Lucy will not pull the football from him!

6. Positive people do not let their fears interfere with their lives!

Positive people have observed that those who are defined and pulled back by their fears never really truly live a full life. While proceeding with appropriate caution, they do not let fear keep them from trying new things. They realize that even failures are necessary steps for a successful life. They have confidence that they can get back up when they are knocked down by life events or their own mistakes, due to a strong belief in their personal resilience.

7. Positive people smile a lot!

When you feel positive on the inside it is like you are smiling from within, and these smiles are contagious. Furthermore, the more others are with positive people, the more they tend to smile too! They see the lightness in life, and have a sense of humor even when it is about themselves. Positive people have a high degree of self-respect, but refuse to take themselves too seriously!

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8. People who are positive are great communicators.

They realize that assertive, confident communication is the only way to connect with others in everyday life.  They avoid judgmental, angry interchanges, and do not let someone else’s blow up give them a reason to react in kind. Rather, they express themselves with tact and finesse.  They also refuse to be non-assertive and let people push them around. They refuse to own problems that belong to someone else.

9. Positive people realize that if you live long enough, there are times for great pain and sadness.

One of the most common misperceptions about positive people is that to be positive, you must always be happy. This can not be further from the truth. Anyone who has any depth at all is certainly not happy all the time.  Being sad, angry, disappointed are all essential emotions in life. How else would you ever develop empathy for others if you lived a life of denial and shallow emotions? Positive people do not run from the gamut of emotions, and accept that part of the healing process is to allow themselves to experience all types of feelings, not only the happy ones. A positive person always holds the hope that there is light at the end of the darkness.  

10. Positive person are empowered people – they refuse to blame others and are not victims in life.

Positive people seek the help and support of others who are supportive and safe.They limit interactions with those who are toxic in any manner, even if it comes to legal action and physical estrangement such as in the case of abuse. They have identified their own basic human rights, and they respect themselves too much to play the part of a victim. There is no place for holding grudges with a positive mindset. Forgiveness helps positive people become better, not bitter.

How about you?  How many habits of positive people do you personally find in yourself?  If you lack even a few of these 10 essential habits, you might find that the expected treasure at the end of the rainbow was not all that it was cracked up to be. How could it — if you keep on bringing a negative attitude around?

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I wish you well in keeping positive, because as we all know, there is certainly nothing positive about being negative!

Featured photo credit: Janaína Castelo Branco via flickr.com

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