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Why You Shouldn’t Trust Just Anyone To Handle Your Wedding Photography

Why You Shouldn’t Trust Just Anyone To Handle Your Wedding Photography

You’re finally making plans for your big day. You pick the venue and get the perfect flowers. You select a caterer and organize a scrumptious meal. And then, you make the mistake of thinking all photographers (professional and amateur) are the same, so you decide to just pick the first one that has the date available. Or worse yet, you decide to forgo the pro and use a friend or family member who enjoys doing photography as a hobby.

But, there are at least two good reasons why you shouldn’t let just anyone do your wedding photography. And we’ll explore them both here.

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1. Your Wedding Only Happens Once

The biggest reason you shouldn’t treat your wedding photography haphazardly is simple: you only get married once. These memories are special and you are going to want them preserved. Choosing a photographer randomly out of the phonebook or as an answer to an online ad isn’t going to cut it. For one, photographers often specialize in particular styles and events, so it pays to research options carefully. Second, photographers have different skill levels, even if they are all professionals.

A wedding photographer has experience in the kinds of shots you will want. For example, if you want all of the basic poses and group shots, it helps to work with someone who knows them all by heart. Additionally, those with experience will be able to help everyone adjust their positioning to ensure the most flattering photos possible. While other professionals may have notable skills in their area, it helps to have someone who can anticipate what you are likely to want.

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During the ceremony and reception, certain key events can occur in only a few moments notice, if any is given at all. Someone experienced in photographing weddings will be familiar with the timing and tempo of these events, making it easier for them to capture the big moments as they occur.

Working with a friend or family member can be even riskier, especially if their interest in photography is casual. Aside from being unfamiliar with posing techniques and the timing of the ceremony, they are also more inclined to be distracted during the event, or even somewhat inebriated if alcohol is served.

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2. Your Friends And Family Are There To Celebrate

Aside from the risk of missing important moments being photographed if you allow a friend or family member to handle the duty, you both miss out on the opportunity to enjoy each other’s company during the event. Photographing a wedding is a time-consuming project, as it can require hundreds of photos to be taken to capture a few dozen great shots. That means, if your friend or family member is trying to take pictures and have fun during the festivities, some photographic opportunities will be lost. And, if they capture all of the shots, they may miss out on enjoying the celebration in you and your partner’s honor.

Either way, there is the risk of conflict. If they don’t get all of the pictures you hoped for, you may be upset based on their performance. Similarly, they may be resentful of being asked to work so diligently while others had the chance to enjoy themselves.

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A professional wedding photographer normally has no direct connection to members of the bridal party or their friends or family. That means they can be fully dedicated to the task at hand and won’t feel like they are being pulled away from a joyous event.

So, if you want to make sure you get high-quality pictures of every important moment during the ceremony and reception, going with a professional wedding photographer is your best bet. And, remember, your wedding only happens once, so make sure you have the best moments captured for future enjoyment and reflection.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

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By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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