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Christmas For A Solo Traveler: How To Avoid Feeling Lonely

Christmas For A Solo Traveler: How To Avoid Feeling Lonely

In winter, during Christmas for some, it can be where the pain starts. Family celebrations, laughter and the clinking of glasses can all bring upon nostalgic memories. It’s a beautiful season, the city lit with the glimmer of Christmas. The trees decorated, people wrapped in their coats and scarves, walking around sipping on warm drinks and watching this can make a lonely traveler’s eye water.

How can a traveler cope with the feeling of loneliness during Christmas? Can something keep you from crying?

As an avid traveler, I’ve managed to put together a few things based on my experience that can help any traveler during Christmas. In this festive season, this article can be great company for any traveler.

1. Embrace Nature and Find New Food

If one is continuously focusing on the negative, it becomes difficult for one to focus on the positive. As a traveler, you are responsible to constantly keep your emotions in check. This is because you’re solely responsible for motivating your mind and body to look at the best and make the best of the situation.

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The two best elements for any traveler is to be one with nature and enjoy different delicacies. As an avid traveler, I usually take trips to rural villages, visiting undiscovered landscapes and enjoying the best nature has to offer. Sometimes camping is a great idea, if the weather is right, you’ll be able to isolate yourself and regain your balance.

On the other hand, food has been a great companion too. I personally enjoy local foods, fast foods tend to create a negative ambiance as it’s both unhealthy and depressive. The ingredients in fast foods affect a part of your brain that gets your mood as well as your energy down. So if you’re traveling especially during the festive season, make sure to enjoy some fine food.

2. Find Unique Places or Warmer Places To Travel

Winter is a season that can make an active person hibernate like a bear, so if you’ve been on the road for long and feeling nostalgic, make sure your next destination is a warm one.

Warm countries are constantly bustling with people and life. You’ll find people laughing and screaming their heartiest desires. Therefore, being surrounded by a buzzing ambiance can take your mind off it. On the other hand, some warm places are rather secluded and are usually filled with just a handful of tourists. In such a close-knit community, you’ll be able to make friends more easily and create your own routine.

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For example, one of my favorite places would be the Canary Islands. Lanzarote is a small island and one of the farthest of the Canary Islands, they’re usually filled with travelers and adventurers who’s looking for something unique. Being there during Christmas can allow you to enjoy the Christmas and also meet others who’re up for some adventures too.

So what are you waiting for?

3. Adapt With CouchSurfing

CouchSurfing has been an amazing tool for any traveler. A place that connects strangers all around the world who’s just looking for friendship and globalization. It’s one way you can meet citizens from the country and enjoy the country from their point of view.

If you’re feeling lost and find it hard to understand the culture or adapt to the country, then opt to Couchsurfing. Plus, if you’re a budget traveler you’ll find it much cheaper to bunk in with a local. If you’re lucky, your host might even take you around town and highlight the best places you could go around the country.

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Personally, I’ve traveled most of the countries using Couchsurfing. It gave me a different perspective and allowed me to have a sense of direction in a strangers nation. Plus, these days, even my partner prefers to travel by Couchsurfing and we have always had a great time.

So try CouchSurfing out.

4. Skype Your Family With Your New Strangers

Finally, nothing beats loneliness than talking to your family. Hearing your mom going on and on about your annoying cousins and enjoying your dad talking about all the delicious food. The family represents a warm blanket sometimes when it gets too warm all you need to do is stick a foot out.

So make a small Skype call to your loved ones and introduce them to your strangers. Being in a foreign country never be afraid to talk to talk to strangers. By sharing your side of the world to them, you’ll create a brand new tradition.

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Your family would enjoy having you be part of their festivities as much as you would enjoy sharing yours with them.

In Conclusion

Traveling alone can be challenging, especially during the festive seasons, so all you can do is making the best of it through improvising, appreciating and enjoying your life as it is.

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Last Updated on June 13, 2019

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

Think you have a boring life?

The definition of boring is dull or not interesting. Maybe you’ve been doing the same thing and living the same life for too long, or maybe your daily routine is limiting your growth and happiness. Whatever your reason is, the following list of 20 things can definitely make any day more interesting. Some of them are silly, while some are more meaningful, so hopefully just reading the list makes your life less boring and sparks your creativity.

Let’s dive in the list to quit your boring life and start living an interesting (and meaning) one!

1. Channel Your 7-Year-Old Self

What would he or she want to do right now? Color? Paint? Run around outside? Play dress up? Eat with your hands? Play that instrument hiding in the back of your closet that you haven’t touched in years?

Just because you’re a grown up doesn’t mean any of this stuff will be less enjoyable than you remember it. Give yourself permission to play.

2. Go Play with Kids

Speaking of little kids, if you have your own or access to any (in a non-creepy way, like they’re your niece or your best friend’s kid, you get the idea) go play with them!

They didn’t create an entire show called Kids Say The Darndest Things because kids aren’t hilarious. They also keep things so simple, and we can really stand to be reminded of this and stop allowing ourselves to get bogged down in boring details.

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3. Order a Hot Dog

While you’re eating it, Google: “What’s in a hot dog?” You decide whether or not you want to finish it.

4. For the Ladies: Wear Your Sexiest Lingerie Under Your Work Clothes

Your “little secret” will leave you feeling anything but boring all day!

5. Play Cell Phone Roulette

You’ll need at least one buddy for this. Scroll through the contacts in your phone, stop on a random one and call the person.

You could spark an incredible catch up session or be incredibly awkward. Neither are boring.

6. Fill out a Pack of Thank-You Cards

Give them to random people who probably don’t get thanked too often for doing what they do ever day.

Ideas: police officers, librarians, servers, baristas, cab drivers, sanitation workers, teachers, people behind any check out counter, receptionists, your friends, the guy at the falafel stand, etc.

7. Sign up for a Class in Something You’ve “Always Wanted to Do”, or Something That Makes You Really Uncomfortable

Ideas: pole dancing, salsa lessons, improv, pottery, cooking, knitting (yup, there are classes for this, too!), karate, boxing, something techy like the workshops they run in Apple stores, get Rosetta Stone and learn that language you’ve always wanted to speak, etc.

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What’s good about joining an interest class is that you will also meet new people!

8. Interview Your Grandparents About Their Lives

You can bet they’ve had some crazy experiences you probably never knew about.

9. Get up on Stage at an Open Mic Night

Whether you’re funny or not, get up on stage and just talk funny. And if you’re not, memorize a few of your favorite jokes and tell those!

10. Do Something for Someone Else That You Wish Someone Would Do for You

We all have a few ideas on this list. I promise you will feel amazing after and anything but bored.

11. Start a DIY Project in Your Home

It doesn’t have to be super complicated. If you need ideas, there’re plenty on Pinterest. Or you can also check out these 30 Awesome DIY Projects that You’ve Never Heard of.

12. Plan a Weekend Trip or an All-Out Vacation

This will give you something to look forward to.

Even if you don’t have the time or money to go on a vacation, plan for a staycation, which is same fun and relaxing!

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13. People Watch

Find a bench in a crowded area (centers of transportation like airports, bus stops and train stations are great for this!) and just observe.

People are infinitely interesting.

14. Eat Something You’ve Never Eaten Before

Bonus points if it’s a random fruit or veggie.

15. Dance

You can get your friends together for a night on the town or just pull up a video on YouTube and bust a move from your own living room.

If you’re feeling extra brave, you can even dance in public and get other people involved.

16. Go to YOUTUBE and Search “Funny Pets” or “Funny Babies”

This is also a great quickie ab workout as you will be laughing hysterically.

17. Pick up a Book and Start Reading

Check out the NY Times Best Sellers lists and grab a new book you can get lost in.

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18. Step Away from the Computer and Go Get Some Time with People You Care About in Real Life

Facebook stalking doesn’t count as real social interaction. You can even share this post with your friends and vote on which one you’d like to do together!

19. Check out a Museum You’ve Never Been to Before

OK, depending on your interests, this one might actually be boring. If you love learning, art or different cultures though, this one is for you!

20. Write a List of Things You Desire and Truly Want

This is a great way to help you figure out the real reason why you’re feeling bored about your life. Maybe you haven’t really done things that you truly enjoy? Maybe what you’ve wanted to do all the time has been left behind?

Think about the list of things you really want to do, and ask yourself why you aren’t doing these things (yet). Then start taking your first step to make what you want happen.

Now go make your life interesting and live your dream life!

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