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Christmas For A Solo Traveler: How To Avoid Feeling Lonely

Christmas For A Solo Traveler: How To Avoid Feeling Lonely

In winter, during Christmas for some, it can be where the pain starts. Family celebrations, laughter and the clinking of glasses can all bring upon nostalgic memories. It’s a beautiful season, the city lit with the glimmer of Christmas. The trees decorated, people wrapped in their coats and scarves, walking around sipping on warm drinks and watching this can make a lonely traveler’s eye water.

How can a traveler cope with the feeling of loneliness during Christmas? Can something keep you from crying?

As an avid traveler, I’ve managed to put together a few things based on my experience that can help any traveler during Christmas. In this festive season, this article can be great company for any traveler.

1. Embrace Nature and Find New Food

If one is continuously focusing on the negative, it becomes difficult for one to focus on the positive. As a traveler, you are responsible to constantly keep your emotions in check. This is because you’re solely responsible for motivating your mind and body to look at the best and make the best of the situation.

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The two best elements for any traveler is to be one with nature and enjoy different delicacies. As an avid traveler, I usually take trips to rural villages, visiting undiscovered landscapes and enjoying the best nature has to offer. Sometimes camping is a great idea, if the weather is right, you’ll be able to isolate yourself and regain your balance.

On the other hand, food has been a great companion too. I personally enjoy local foods, fast foods tend to create a negative ambiance as it’s both unhealthy and depressive. The ingredients in fast foods affect a part of your brain that gets your mood as well as your energy down. So if you’re traveling especially during the festive season, make sure to enjoy some fine food.

2. Find Unique Places or Warmer Places To Travel

Winter is a season that can make an active person hibernate like a bear, so if you’ve been on the road for long and feeling nostalgic, make sure your next destination is a warm one.

Warm countries are constantly bustling with people and life. You’ll find people laughing and screaming their heartiest desires. Therefore, being surrounded by a buzzing ambiance can take your mind off it. On the other hand, some warm places are rather secluded and are usually filled with just a handful of tourists. In such a close-knit community, you’ll be able to make friends more easily and create your own routine.

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For example, one of my favorite places would be the Canary Islands. Lanzarote is a small island and one of the farthest of the Canary Islands, they’re usually filled with travelers and adventurers who’s looking for something unique. Being there during Christmas can allow you to enjoy the Christmas and also meet others who’re up for some adventures too.

So what are you waiting for?

3. Adapt With CouchSurfing

CouchSurfing has been an amazing tool for any traveler. A place that connects strangers all around the world who’s just looking for friendship and globalization. It’s one way you can meet citizens from the country and enjoy the country from their point of view.

If you’re feeling lost and find it hard to understand the culture or adapt to the country, then opt to Couchsurfing. Plus, if you’re a budget traveler you’ll find it much cheaper to bunk in with a local. If you’re lucky, your host might even take you around town and highlight the best places you could go around the country.

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Personally, I’ve traveled most of the countries using Couchsurfing. It gave me a different perspective and allowed me to have a sense of direction in a strangers nation. Plus, these days, even my partner prefers to travel by Couchsurfing and we have always had a great time.

So try CouchSurfing out.

4. Skype Your Family With Your New Strangers

Finally, nothing beats loneliness than talking to your family. Hearing your mom going on and on about your annoying cousins and enjoying your dad talking about all the delicious food. The family represents a warm blanket sometimes when it gets too warm all you need to do is stick a foot out.

So make a small Skype call to your loved ones and introduce them to your strangers. Being in a foreign country never be afraid to talk to talk to strangers. By sharing your side of the world to them, you’ll create a brand new tradition.

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Your family would enjoy having you be part of their festivities as much as you would enjoy sharing yours with them.

In Conclusion

Traveling alone can be challenging, especially during the festive seasons, so all you can do is making the best of it through improvising, appreciating and enjoying your life as it is.

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Last Updated on December 3, 2019

10 Life Lessons You’d Better Learn Early on in Life

10 Life Lessons You’d Better Learn Early on in Life

There are so many lessons I wish I had learned while I was young enough to appreciate and apply them. The thing with wisdom, and often with life lessons in general, is that they’re learned in retrospect, long after we needed them. The good news is that other people can benefit from our experiences and the lessons we’ve learned.

Here’re 10 important life lessons you should learn early on:

1. Money Will Never Solve Your Real Problems

Money is a tool; a commodity that buys you necessities and some nice “wants,” but it is not the panacea to your problems.

There are a great many people who are living on very little, yet have wonderfully full and happy lives… and there are sadly a great many people are living on quite a lot, yet have terribly miserable lives.

Money can buy a nice home, a great car, fabulous shoes, even a bit of security and some creature comforts, but it cannot fix a broken relationship, or cure loneliness, and the “happiness” it brings is only fleeting and not the kind that really and truly matters. Happiness is not for sale. If you’re expecting the “stuff” you can buy to “make it better,” you will never be happy.

2. Pace Yourself

Often when we’re young, just beginning our adult journey we feel as though we have to do everything at once. We need to decide everything, plan out our lives, experience everything, get to the top, find true love, figure out our life’s purpose, and do it all at the same time.

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Slow down—don’t rush into things. Let your life unfold. Wait a bit to see where it takes you, and take time to weigh your options. Enjoy every bite of food, take time to look around you, let the other person finish their side of the conversation. Allow yourself time to think, to mull a bit.

Taking action is critical. Working towards your goals and making plans for the future is commendable and often very useful, but rushing full-speed ahead towards anything is a one-way ticket to burnout and a good way to miss your life as it passes you by.

3. You Can’t Please Everyone

“I don’t know the secret to success, but the secret to failure is trying to please everyone” – Bill Cosby.

You don’t need everyone to agree with you or even like you. It’s human nature to want to belong, to be liked, respected and valued, but not at the expense of your integrity and happiness. Other people cannot give you the validation you seek. That has to come from inside.

Speak up, stick to your guns, assert yourself when you need to, demand respect, stay true to your values.

4. Your Health Is Your Most Valuable Asset

Health is an invaluable treasure—always appreciate, nurture, and protect it. Good health is often wasted on the young before they have a chance to appreciate it for what it’s worth.

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We tend to take our good health for granted, because it’s just there. We don’t have to worry about it, so we don’t really pay attention to it… until we have to.

Heart disease, bone density, stroke, many cancers—the list of many largely preventable diseases is long, so take care of your health now, or you’ll regret it later on.

5. You Don’t Always Get What You Want

“Life is what happens while you’re busy making other plans.” – John Lennon

No matter how carefully you plan and how hard you work, sometimes things just don’t work out the way you want them to… and that’s okay.

We have all of these expectations; predetermined visions of what our “ideal” life will look like, but all too often, that’s not the reality of the life we end up with. Sometimes our dreams fail and sometimes we just change our minds mid-course. Sometimes we have to flop to find the right course and sometimes we just have to try a few things before we find the right direction.

6. It’s Not All About You

You are not the epicenter of the universe. It’s very difficult to view the world from a perspective outside of your own, since we are always so focused on what’s happening in our own lives. What do I have to do today? What will this mean for me, for my career, for my life? What do I want?

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It’s normal to be intensely aware of everything that’s going on in your own life, but you need to pay as much attention to what’s happening around you, and how things affect other people in the world as you do to your own life. It helps to keep things in perspective.

7. There’s No Shame in Not Knowing

No one has it all figured out. Nobody has all the answers. There’s no shame in saying “I don’t know.” Pretending to be perfect doesn’t make you perfect. It just makes you neurotic to keep up the pretense of manufactured perfection.

We have this idea that there is some kind of stigma or shame in admitting our limitations or uncertainly, but we can’t possibly know everything. We all make mistakes and mess up occasionally. We learn as we go, that’s life.

Besides—nobody likes a know-it-all. A little vulnerability makes you human and oh so much more relatable.

8. Love Is More Than a Feeling; It’s a Choice

That burst of initial exhilaration, pulse quickening love and passion does not last long. But that doesn’t mean long-lasting love is not possible.

Love is not just a feeling; it’s a choice that you make every day. We have to choose to let annoyances pass, to forgive, to be kind, to respect, to support, to be faithful.

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Relationships take work. Sometimes it’s easy and sometimes it’s incredibly hard. It is up to us to choose how we want to act, think and speak in a relationship.

9. Perspective Is a Beautiful Thing

Typically, when we’re worried or upset, it’s because we’ve lost perspective. Everything that is happening in our lives seems so big, so important, so do or die, but in the grand picture, this single hiccup often means next to nothing.

The fight we’re having, the job we didn’t get, the real or imagined slight, the unexpected need to shift course, the thing we wanted, but didn’t get. Most of it won’t matter 20, 30, 40 years from now. It’s hard to see long term when all you know is short term, but unless it’s life-threatening, let it go, and move on.

10. Don’t Take Anything for Granted

We often don’t appreciate what we have until it’s gone: that includes your health, your family and friends, your job, the money you have or think you will have tomorrow.

When you’re young, it seems that your parents will always be there, but they won’t. You think you have plenty of time to get back in touch with your old friends or spend time with new ones, but you don’t. You have the money to spend, or you think you’ll have it next month, but you might not.

Nothing in your life is not guaranteed to be there tomorrow, including those you love.

This is a hard life lesson to learn, but it may be the most important of all: Life can change in an instant. Make sure you appreciate what you have, while you still have it.

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