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Christmas For A Solo Traveler: How To Avoid Feeling Lonely

Christmas For A Solo Traveler: How To Avoid Feeling Lonely

In winter, during Christmas for some, it can be where the pain starts. Family celebrations, laughter and the clinking of glasses can all bring upon nostalgic memories. It’s a beautiful season, the city lit with the glimmer of Christmas. The trees decorated, people wrapped in their coats and scarves, walking around sipping on warm drinks and watching this can make a lonely traveler’s eye water.

How can a traveler cope with the feeling of loneliness during Christmas? Can something keep you from crying?

As an avid traveler, I’ve managed to put together a few things based on my experience that can help any traveler during Christmas. In this festive season, this article can be great company for any traveler.

1. Embrace Nature and Find New Food

If one is continuously focusing on the negative, it becomes difficult for one to focus on the positive. As a traveler, you are responsible to constantly keep your emotions in check. This is because you’re solely responsible for motivating your mind and body to look at the best and make the best of the situation.

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The two best elements for any traveler is to be one with nature and enjoy different delicacies. As an avid traveler, I usually take trips to rural villages, visiting undiscovered landscapes and enjoying the best nature has to offer. Sometimes camping is a great idea, if the weather is right, you’ll be able to isolate yourself and regain your balance.

On the other hand, food has been a great companion too. I personally enjoy local foods, fast foods tend to create a negative ambiance as it’s both unhealthy and depressive. The ingredients in fast foods affect a part of your brain that gets your mood as well as your energy down. So if you’re traveling especially during the festive season, make sure to enjoy some fine food.

2. Find Unique Places or Warmer Places To Travel

Winter is a season that can make an active person hibernate like a bear, so if you’ve been on the road for long and feeling nostalgic, make sure your next destination is a warm one.

Warm countries are constantly bustling with people and life. You’ll find people laughing and screaming their heartiest desires. Therefore, being surrounded by a buzzing ambiance can take your mind off it. On the other hand, some warm places are rather secluded and are usually filled with just a handful of tourists. In such a close-knit community, you’ll be able to make friends more easily and create your own routine.

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For example, one of my favorite places would be the Canary Islands. Lanzarote is a small island and one of the farthest of the Canary Islands, they’re usually filled with travelers and adventurers who’s looking for something unique. Being there during Christmas can allow you to enjoy the Christmas and also meet others who’re up for some adventures too.

So what are you waiting for?

3. Adapt With CouchSurfing

CouchSurfing has been an amazing tool for any traveler. A place that connects strangers all around the world who’s just looking for friendship and globalization. It’s one way you can meet citizens from the country and enjoy the country from their point of view.

If you’re feeling lost and find it hard to understand the culture or adapt to the country, then opt to Couchsurfing. Plus, if you’re a budget traveler you’ll find it much cheaper to bunk in with a local. If you’re lucky, your host might even take you around town and highlight the best places you could go around the country.

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Personally, I’ve traveled most of the countries using Couchsurfing. It gave me a different perspective and allowed me to have a sense of direction in a strangers nation. Plus, these days, even my partner prefers to travel by Couchsurfing and we have always had a great time.

So try CouchSurfing out.

4. Skype Your Family With Your New Strangers

Finally, nothing beats loneliness than talking to your family. Hearing your mom going on and on about your annoying cousins and enjoying your dad talking about all the delicious food. The family represents a warm blanket sometimes when it gets too warm all you need to do is stick a foot out.

So make a small Skype call to your loved ones and introduce them to your strangers. Being in a foreign country never be afraid to talk to talk to strangers. By sharing your side of the world to them, you’ll create a brand new tradition.

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Your family would enjoy having you be part of their festivities as much as you would enjoy sharing yours with them.

In Conclusion

Traveling alone can be challenging, especially during the festive seasons, so all you can do is making the best of it through improvising, appreciating and enjoying your life as it is.

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Last Updated on December 2, 2018

7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

When giving a presentation or speech, you have to engage your audience effectively in order to truly get your point across. Unlike a written editorial or newsletter, your speech is fleeting; once you’ve said everything you set out to say, you don’t get a second chance to have your voice heard in that specific arena.

You need to make sure your audience hangs on to every word you say, from your introduction to your wrap-up. You can do so by:

1. Connecting them with each other

Picture your typical rock concert. What’s the first thing the singer says to the crowd after jumping out on stage? “Hello (insert city name here)!” Just acknowledging that he’s coherent enough to know where he is is enough for the audience to go wild and get into the show.

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It makes each individual feel as if they’re a part of something bigger. The same goes for any public speaking event. When an audience hears, “You’re all here because you care deeply about wildlife preservation,” it gives them a sense that they’re not just there to listen, but they’re there to connect with the like-minded people all around them.

2. Connect with their emotions

Speakers always try to get their audience emotionally involved in whatever topic they’re discussing. There are a variety of ways in which to do this, such as using statistics, stories, pictures or videos that really show the importance of the topic at hand.

For example, showing pictures of the aftermath of an accident related to drunk driving will certainly send a specific message to an audience of teenagers and young adults. While doing so might be emotionally nerve-racking to the crowd, it may be necessary to get your point across and engage them fully.

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3. Keep going back to the beginning

Revisit your theme throughout your presentation. Although you should give your audience the credit they deserve and know that they can follow along, linking back to your initial thesis can act as a subconscious reminder of why what you’re currently telling them is important.

On the other hand, if you simply mention your theme or the point of your speech at the beginning and never mention it again, it gives your audience the impression that it’s not really that important.

4. Link to your audience’s motivation

After you’ve acknowledged your audience’s common interests in being present, discuss their motivation for being there. Be specific. Using the previous example, if your audience clearly cares about wildlife preservation, discuss what can be done to help save endangered species’ from extinction.

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Don’t just give them cold, hard facts; use the facts to make a point that they can use to better themselves or the world in some way.

5. Entertain them

While not all speeches or presentations are meant to be entertaining in a comedic way, audiences will become thoroughly engaged in anecdotes that relate to the overall theme of the speech. We discussed appealing to emotions, and that’s exactly what a speaker sets out to do when he tells a story from his past or that of a well-known historical figure.

Speakers usually tell more than one story in order to show that the first one they told isn’t simply an anomaly, and that whatever outcome they’re attempting to prove will consistently reoccur, given certain circumstances.

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6. Appeal to loyalty

Just like the musician mentioning the town he’s playing in will get the audience ready to rock, speakers need to appeal to their audience’s loyalty to their country, company, product or cause. Show them how important it is that they’re present and listening to your speech by making your words hit home to each individual.

In doing so, the members of your audience will feel as if you’re speaking directly to them while you’re addressing the entire crowd.

7. Tell them the benefits of the presentation

Early on in your presentation, you should tell your audience exactly what they’ll learn, and exactly how they’ll learn it. Don’t expect them to listen if they don’t have clear-cut information to listen for. On the other hand, if they know what to listen for, they’ll be more apt to stay engaged throughout your entire presentation so they don’t miss anything.

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