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Ten Things you can do Right now to Stay Safe in the City

Ten Things you can do Right now to Stay Safe in the City

Your safety isn’t a thing to take lightly. I understand that it’s difficult to know how to be cautious when you have never had any experience with criminals, but you should do your best to keep it that way. Big cities are dangerous and the fact that you may have never witnessed or felt what it’s like to be robbed or hurt doesn’t mean that you never will. Therefore, you should do everything in your power to protect yourself so that if something bad happens, you won’t have to beat yourself up because you haven’t done anything to prevent it. Good precautions significantly lower the chance of you becoming a crime victim. Here’s what you need to do.

1. Take responsibility.

In order to introduce a new protocol into your life, you should first change your mindset. You are responsible for your safety and it’s time to take matters into your own hands. It’s necessary for you to understand that bad things happen randomly and that you might be a target without being aware of it.

2. Be aware.

Speaking of awareness, I know it’s easy to get lost in your thoughts while walking to work or taking a train ride for example, but that’s exactly the opportunity criminals are looking for. You should work on being in the present moment a bit more. However, you shouldn’t allow yourself to go to the extreme and become paranoid and scared. Moderation is the answer here.

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3. Change your routines.

Considering the fact that premeditated crimes require planning, you might be involved in someone’s plotting without realizing it. Once again, I’m not trying to make you paranoid, but that’s just the way criminals work. For example, for a robbery to be successful a criminal will make a replication of your schedule by establishing your habits. That is why you shouldn’t stick to the same routine or route, so make sure to change things. Walk down different streets and try not to be predictable.

4. Secure your home.

This is one routine you should establish and stick to, even when you’re late or in a hurry to get out of your home. A basic checkup will do here. Make sure that all windows are locked, be positive that you locked your doors, and take good care of your keys.

Building a good relationship with your neighbors should be a priority and not just because you can hang out with them every now and then. If something unexpected happens while you’re not around, your neighbors will react more quickly and with more attentiveness if you’re on good terms.

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5. Stop carrying cash.

You should do your best to make it very difficult for criminals to rob you. Face it, walking down an empty street makes you an easy target and if you actually get assaulted, not much damage will be done if you have just a couple of bucks in your wallet. If the assaulter steals your credit cards you can simply call your bank and cancel them.

6. Late night walks are a no-no.

I’d like to emphasize how imperative it is not to do this. I know it seems to be a cheap alternative to taking a cab, but it actually isn’t. Taking a cab will definitely cost less than a robbery and no one will hurt you physically along the way. Therefore, paying for a ride is actually investing in your safety.

7. Sign up for a defense class.

Besides being a very healthy form of exercise, a defense class will help you understand what it’s like to be attacked which will lessen confusion in case it does happen. Confusion is often the reason that crime victims are incapable of reacting. You should also get familiar with legal self-defense products you can have with you to use in case you get assaulted.

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8. Start parking safely.

It doesn’t really matter whether you use a bike or a car for transport. Either way you should pay special attention to where you leave your possessions. I know that this can skip your mind, especially if you’re in a hurry, but it’s better to be safe than sorry which is why you should park only in secure spots in the city.

9. You shouldn’t overshare.

The newest wave of crime happens because of the lack of precautions people take on social platforms. A majority of users are quite reckless when it comes to sharing their personal information, leaving important data like a home address for everyone to see. Do you overshare? Obviously this piece of information combined with you checking into places you visit is a recipe for a home robbery. Simply rethink future posts on social networks and check personal information boxes in order to remove everything that makes you an easy target.

10. Don’t push your luck.

The unfortunate truth is that even the most cautious people in the world sometimes become crime victims. By not even trying to protect yourself and your possessions, you’re almost asking for it. You work hard for what you have and you should introduce changes in your life to protect yourself and your property. It’s not necessary for you to start wearing a suit of armor in order to be safe. You just need to adapt your way of thinking to the fact that crimes happen and take precautions to lessen the chance of becoming a crime victim.

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Last Updated on January 3, 2020

The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

Are you waiting for life events to turn out the way you want so that you can feel more positive about your life? Do you find yourself having pre-conditions to your sense of well-being, thinking that certain things must happen for you to be happier? Do you think there is no way that your life stresses can make you anything other than “stressed out” and that other people just don’t understand?  If your answer is “yes” to any of these questions, you might find yourself lingering in the land of negativity for too long!

The following are some tips to keep positive no matter what comes your way. This post will help you stop looking for what psychologists call “positivity” in all the wrong places!  Here are the ten essential habits of positive people.

1. Positive people don’t confuse quitting with letting go.

Instead of hanging on to ideas, beliefs, and even people that are no longer healthy for them, they trust their judgement to let go of negative forces in their lives.  Especially in terms of relationships, they subscribe to The Relationship Prayer which goes:

 I will grant myself the ability to trust the healthy people in my life … 

To set limits with, or let go of, the negative ones … 

And to have the wisdom to know the DIFFERENCE!

 2.  Positive people don’t just have a good day – they make a good day.

Waiting, hoping and wishing seldom have a place in the vocabulary of positive individuals. Rather, they use strong words that are pro-active and not reactive. Passivity leads to a lack of involvement, while positive people get very involved in constructing their lives. They work to make changes to feel better in tough times rather than wish their feelings away.

3. For the positive person, the past stays in the past.

Good and bad memories alike stay where they belong – in the past where they happened. They don’t spend much time pining for the good ol’ days because they are too busy making new memories now. The negative pulls from the past are used not for self-flagellation or unproductive regret, but rather productive regret where they use lessons learned as stepping stones towards a better future.

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4. Show me a positive person and I can show you a grateful person.

The most positive people are the most grateful people.  They do not focus on the potholes of their lives.  They focus on the pot of gold that awaits them every day, with new smells, sights, feelings and experiences.  They see life as a treasure chest full of wonder.

5. Rather than being stuck in their limitations, positive people are energized by their possibilities.

Optimistic people focus on what they can do, not what they can’t do.  They are not fooled to think that there is a perfect solution to every problem, and are confident that there are many solutions and possibilities.  They are not afraid to attempt new solutions to old problems, rather than spin their wheels expecting things to be different this time.  They refuse to be like Charlie Brown expecting that this time Lucy will not pull the football from him!

6. Positive people do not let their fears interfere with their lives!

Positive people have observed that those who are defined and pulled back by their fears never really truly live a full life. While proceeding with appropriate caution, they do not let fear keep them from trying new things. They realize that even failures are necessary steps for a successful life. They have confidence that they can get back up when they are knocked down by life events or their own mistakes, due to a strong belief in their personal resilience.

7. Positive people smile a lot!

When you feel positive on the inside it is like you are smiling from within, and these smiles are contagious. Furthermore, the more others are with positive people, the more they tend to smile too! They see the lightness in life, and have a sense of humor even when it is about themselves. Positive people have a high degree of self-respect, but refuse to take themselves too seriously!

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8. People who are positive are great communicators.

They realize that assertive, confident communication is the only way to connect with others in everyday life.  They avoid judgmental, angry interchanges, and do not let someone else’s blow up give them a reason to react in kind. Rather, they express themselves with tact and finesse.  They also refuse to be non-assertive and let people push them around. They refuse to own problems that belong to someone else.

9. Positive people realize that if you live long enough, there are times for great pain and sadness.

One of the most common misperceptions about positive people is that to be positive, you must always be happy. This can not be further from the truth. Anyone who has any depth at all is certainly not happy all the time.  Being sad, angry, disappointed are all essential emotions in life. How else would you ever develop empathy for others if you lived a life of denial and shallow emotions? Positive people do not run from the gamut of emotions, and accept that part of the healing process is to allow themselves to experience all types of feelings, not only the happy ones. A positive person always holds the hope that there is light at the end of the darkness.  

10. Positive person are empowered people – they refuse to blame others and are not victims in life.

Positive people seek the help and support of others who are supportive and safe.They limit interactions with those who are toxic in any manner, even if it comes to legal action and physical estrangement such as in the case of abuse. They have identified their own basic human rights, and they respect themselves too much to play the part of a victim. There is no place for holding grudges with a positive mindset. Forgiveness helps positive people become better, not bitter.

How about you?  How many habits of positive people do you personally find in yourself?  If you lack even a few of these 10 essential habits, you might find that the expected treasure at the end of the rainbow was not all that it was cracked up to be. How could it — if you keep on bringing a negative attitude around?

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I wish you well in keeping positive, because as we all know, there is certainly nothing positive about being negative!

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