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6 Essential Accessories Every Fashion Minded Man Should Own

6 Essential Accessories Every Fashion Minded Man Should Own
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Sometimes, getting it right with fashion and style can be difficult. And sometimes, many men make serious mistakes when trying to own basic fashion accessories that will come in handy, and complement fashion and style. It is important for every man to take basic fashion accessories seriously, especially if he wants to look more presentable and appealing to others. But, there are some very basic accessories men often fail to own.

If you are in a fix and require some basic fashion accessories that will complement your closet, here are 6 must have fashion accessories for all men.

1. Ties[1]

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    Men use neck ties for many reasons, beyond style or fashion look. There’s nothing better than wearing a nice suit and a nice tie. Neck ties are wonderful fashion accessories every man should own, even though it is not an element of daily use. Neck ties brings out the smartness in a man’s outfit if properly worn; it also makes a man appear positive, and emits a sense of high expectation and productivity. Though, using a well-selected tie has numerous benefits, it will also make a man feel more comfortable, regardless of his environment.

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    2. A Watch[2]

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      Apart from being one of the most frequently used accessories for men, a wrist watch is the most convenient way to tell the time, irrespective of a man’s occupation. There are different kinds of watches, each coming with a particular style and design; some are designed for special occasions, while others are made for corporate attire. Regardless of the design and style, a good quality watch is the perfect accessory to demonstrate a man’s taste.

      Working with time has always been a crucial factor in the life of a hardworking man. Successful men are often measured by their relationship with time, such as time management and punctuality. Therefore, wearing an accessory that will help a man manage time properly is a sign of a responsible, committed and well-organized man.

      3. Shoes[3]

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        Shoes are designed to protect and comfort the feet while engaging in various activities. Wearing uncomfortable shoes can have negative effects on a man’s personal well-being. As a man looking to complete a closet with the right shoes, you will only need at least two pairs of these shoes to cover all occasions and everyday use. For example, a pair of brogues shoes will cover everyday use, black cap toe leather oxfords will fit in well for business and formal occasions, loafers will blend for casual days, and dress boots are great for informal occasions.

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        4. Sunglasses[4]

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          Sunglasses are special accessories that often give an interesting touch to a man’s outfit. And of course, the eyes are sensitive; prolonged exposure to the sun can lead to a variety of ailments. Not only do sunglasses protect your eyes from harmful UV Rays, but they’re a man’s staple fashion accessory, adding a unique finishing touch to any outfit. The health benefit of wearing sunglasses far out-weighs its fashion magic.

          Though they do, at most times, seem like fashion accessories, they could really do well for a man. Sunglasses with 100% UVA and UVB protection provide full protection against the sun’s ultraviolet rays, while polarized sunglasses reduces glare. Thus, it is important for a man to own at least a pair, and use them appropriately to complement his fashion taste and protect the eyes.

          5. Belts[5]

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            Every man should have at least 3 belts in his closet. Even though the trend nowadays is preferably for a man’s pants to fit without the need for a belt, they’re still a must-have fashion accessory because it is common for a man’s pants to stretch or sag as you wear them, and belts will help accentuate an outfit.

            For business and corporate men, a belt is necessary to break up some of your outfits, while making you appear simple and smart. However, it is very important for all men irrespective of occupation to have a dress belt, usually a dark brown or a black leather belt with a thin silver belt buckle, and a casual belt for everyday use, as a need for this might arise.

            6. A Briefcase or Messenger Bag[6]

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              A messenger bag can bring so much more to the table for men and help make a fashion style complete. The briefcase is a classic piece for men due to it’s superior acceptance throughout the world. Therefore, good attire for a business purposes should be accompanied by a briefcase or messenger bag to carry a laptop, tablet, and other essential documents needed for formal use. Though some men prefer holding these items in-hand, it is unprofessional, and sends a message of being unorganized.

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              Briefcases alone portray seriousness, and makes a man appear professional. Hence, every man should own a briefcase.

              There are many options for men as far as fashion accessories are concerned. Whichever a man ends up choosing to wear, he should remember: keep it simple, and ensure it suits the situation. Though some of these accessories are not necessarily needed for daily use, it doesn’t mean they will never be needed.

              Featured photo credit: His-and-her via his-and-her.com

              Reference

              [1] http://www.ties.com
              [2] http://www.24diamonds.com
              [3] http://www.comfortingfootwear.com
              [4] http://www.sunglasshut.com
              [5] http://www.beltmaster.com
              [6] http://www.leatherbriefcaseshop.co.uk

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              How to Overcome the Fear of Public Speaking (A Step-by-Step Guide)

              How to Overcome the Fear of Public Speaking (A Step-by-Step Guide)
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              You’re standing behind the curtain, just about to make your way on stage to face the many faces half-shrouded in darkness in front of you. As you move towards the spotlight, your body starts to feel heavier with each step. A familiar thump echoes throughout your body – your heartbeat has gone off the charts.

              Don’t worry, you’re not the only one with glossophobia(also known as speech anxiety or the fear of speaking to large crowds). Sometimes, the anxiety happens long before you even stand on stage.

              Your body’s defence mechanism responds by causing a part of your brain to release adrenaline into your blood – the same chemical that gets released as if you were being chased by a lion.

              Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you overcome your fear of public speaking:

              1. Prepare yourself mentally and physically

              According to experts, we’re built to display anxiety and to recognize it in others. If your body and mind are anxious, your audience will notice. Hence, it’s important to prepare yourself before the big show so that you arrive on stage confident, collected and ready.

              “Your outside world is a reflection of your inside world. What goes on in the inside, shows on the outside.” – Bob Proctor

              Exercising lightly before a presentation helps get your blood circulating and sends oxygen to the brain. Mental exercises, on the other hand, can help calm the mind and nerves. Here are some useful ways to calm your racing heart when you start to feel the butterflies in your stomach:

              Warming up

              If you’re nervous, chances are your body will feel the same way. Your body gets tense, your muscles feel tight or you’re breaking in cold sweat. The audience will notice you are nervous.

              If you observe that this is exactly what is happening to you minutes before a speech, do a couple of stretches to loosen and relax your body. It’s better to warm up before every speech as it helps to increase the functional potential of the body as a whole. Not only that, it increases muscle efficiency, improves reaction time and your movements.

              Here are some exercises to loosen up your body before show time:

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              1. Neck and shoulder rolls – This helps relieve upper body muscle tension and pressure as the rolls focus on rotating the head and shoulders, loosening the muscle. Stress and anxiety can make us rigid within this area which can make you feel agitated, especially when standing.
              2. Arm stretches – We often use this part of our muscles during a speech or presentation through our hand gestures and movements. Stretching these muscles can reduce arm fatigue, loosen you up and improve your body language range.
              3. Waist twists – Place your hands on your hips and rotate your waist in a circular motion. This exercise focuses on loosening the abdominal and lower back regions which is essential as it can cause discomfort and pain, further amplifying any anxieties you may experience.

              Stay hydrated

              Ever felt parched seconds before speaking? And then coming up on stage sounding raspy and scratchy in front of the audience? This happens because the adrenaline from stage fright causes your mouth to feel dried out.

              To prevent all that, it’s essential we stay adequately hydrated before a speech. A sip of water will do the trick. However, do drink in moderation so that you won’t need to go to the bathroom constantly.

              Try to avoid sugary beverages and caffeine, since it’s a diuretic – meaning you’ll feel thirstier. It will also amplify your anxiety which prevents you from speaking smoothly.

              Meditate

              Meditation is well-known as a powerful tool to calm the mind. ABC’s Dan Harris, co-anchor of Nightline and Good Morning America weekend and author of the book titled10% Happier , recommends that meditation can help individuals to feel significantly calmer, faster.

              Meditation is like a workout for your mind. It gives you the strength and focus to filter out the negativity and distractions with words of encouragement, confidence and strength.

              Mindfulness meditation, in particular, is a popular method to calm yourself before going up on the big stage. The practice involves sitting comfortably, focusing on your breathing and then bringing your mind’s attention to the present without drifting into concerns about the past or future – which likely includes floundering on stage.

              Here’s a nice example of guided meditation before public speaking:

              2. Focus on your goal

              One thing people with a fear of public speaking have in common is focusing too much on themselves and the possibility of failure.

              Do I look funny? What if I can’t remember what to say? Do I look stupid? Will people listen to me? Does anyone care about what I’m talking about?’

              Instead of thinking this way, shift your attention to your one true purpose – contributing something of value to your audience.

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              Decide on the progress you’d like your audience to make after your presentation. Notice their movements and expressions to adapt your speech to ensure that they are having a good time to leave the room as better people.

              If your own focus isn’t beneficial and what it should be when you’re speaking, then shift it to what does. This is also key to establishing trust during your presentation as the audience can clearly see that you have their interests at heart.[1]

              3. Convert negativity to positivity

              There are two sides constantly battling inside of us – one is filled with strength and courage while the other is doubt and insecurities. Which one will you feed?

              ‘What if I mess up this speech? What if I’m not funny enough? What if I forget what to say?’

              It’s no wonder why many of us are uncomfortable giving a presentation. All we do is bring ourselves down before we got a chance to prove ourselves. This is also known as a self-fulfilling prophecy – a belief that comes true because we are acting as if it already is. If you think you’re incompetent, then it will eventually become true.

              Motivational coaches tout that positive mantras and affirmations tend to boost your confidents for the moments that matter most. Say to yourself: “I’ll ace this speech and I can do it!”

              Take advantage of your adrenaline rush to encourage positive outcome rather than thinking of the negative ‘what ifs’.

              Here’s a video of Psychologist Kelly McGonigal who encourages her audience to turn stress into something positive as well as provide methods on how to cope with it:

              4. Understand your content

              Knowing your content at your fingertips helps reduce your anxiety because there is one less thing to worry about. One way to get there is to practice numerous times before your actual speech.

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              However, memorizing your script word-for-word is not encouraged. You can end up freezing should you forget something. You’ll also risk sounding unnatural and less approachable.

              “No amount of reading or memorizing will make you successful in life. It is the understanding and the application of wise thought that counts.” – Bob Proctor

              Many people unconsciously make the mistake of reading from their slides or memorizing their script word-for-word without understanding their content – a definite way to stress themselves out.

              Understanding your speech flow and content makes it easier for you to convert ideas and concepts into your own words which you can then clearly explain to others in a conversational manner. Designing your slides to include text prompts is also an easy hack to ensure you get to quickly recall your flow when your mind goes blank.[2]

              One way to understand is to memorize the over-arching concepts or ideas in your pitch. It helps you speak more naturally and let your personality shine through. It’s almost like taking your audience on a journey with a few key milestones.

              5. Practice makes perfect

              Like most people, many of us are not naturally attuned to public speaking. Rarely do individuals walk up to a large audience and present flawlessly without any research and preparation.

              In fact, some of the top presenters make it look easy during showtime because they have spent countless hours behind-the-scenes in deep practice. Even great speakers like the late John F. Kennedy would spend months preparing his speech beforehand.

              Public speaking, like any other skill, requires practice – whether it be practicing your speech countless of times in front of a mirror or making notes. As the saying goes, practice makes perfect!

              6. Be authentic

              There’s nothing wrong with feeling stressed before going up to speak in front of an audience.

              Many people fear public speaking because they fear others will judge them for showing their true, vulnerable self. However, vulnerability can sometimes help you come across as more authentic and relatable as a speaker.

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              Drop the pretence of trying to act or speak like someone else and you’ll find that it’s worth the risk. You become more genuine, flexible and spontaneous, which makes it easier to handle unpredictable situations – whether it’s getting tough questions from the crowd or experiencing an unexpected technical difficulty.

              To find out your authentic style of speaking is easy. Just pick a topic or issue you are passionate about and discuss this like you normally would with a close family or friend. It is like having a conversation with someone in a personal one-to-one setting. A great way to do this on stage is to select a random audience member(with a hopefully calming face) and speak to a single person at a time during your speech. You’ll find that it’s easier trying to connect to one person at a time than a whole room.

              With that said, being comfortable enough to be yourself in front of others may take a little time and some experience, depending how comfortable you are with being yourself in front of others. But once you embrace it, stage fright will not be as intimidating as you initially thought.

              Presenters like Barack Obama are a prime example of a genuine and passionate speaker:

              7. Post speech evaluation

              Last but not the least, if you’ve done public speaking and have been scarred from a bad experience, try seeing it as a lesson learned to improve yourself as a speaker.

              Don’t beat yourself up after a presentation

              We are the hardest on ourselves and it’s good to be. But when you finish delivering your speech or presentation, give yourself some recognition and a pat on the back.

              You managed to finish whatever you had to do and did not give up. You did not let your fears and insecurities get to you. Take a little more pride in your work and believe in yourself.

              Improve your next speech

              As mentioned before, practice does make perfect. If you want to improve your public speaking skills, try asking someone to film you during a speech or presentation. Afterwards, watch and observe what you can do to improve yourself next time.

              Here are some questions you can ask yourself after every speech:

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              • How did I do?
              • Are there any areas for improvement?
              • Did I sound or look stressed?
              • Did I stumble on my words? Why?
              • Was I saying “um” too often?
              • How was the flow of the speech?

              Write everything you observed down and keep practicing and improving. In time, you’ll be able to better manage your fears of public speaking and appear more confident when it counts.

              If you want even more tips about public speaking or delivering a great presentation, check out these articles too:

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