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How to Pick Your Perfect Wedding Invitation

How to Pick Your Perfect Wedding Invitation

Your wedding invitation serves as an introduction to your guests about the style of your wedding and reception. Often, it will represent your chosen colors as well as your personal aesthetic. To make a cohesive impression, your wedding invitations should be as coordinated as the rest of your big day. If you want to make sure you have chosen the perfect invitations for your wedding, consider the following tips when making your decision.

Style and Theme

Do you picture yourself as a modern bride and groom, or as a more classic couple? Is your wedding focused on a particular theme, such as a time period or location, or is it more about a certain feel? Understand how you picture your wedding, and what key features are going to be involved, allows you to make an invitation selection that will complement the overall concept.

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For example, if you intend to have a contemporary service and reception, you may not want symbolism associated with a 1920s theme, and vice versa. Invitations should fit in with your other design choices to create a seamless impression.

Colors and Shapes

When planning a wedding, choosing colors is often one of the first points of focus. Luckily, most wedding invitation producers have a wide range of colors to choose from for the text, paper, and even envelope. Choose paper stock and font colors that reflect your colors while respecting the overall style of the wedding. And make sure that if you choose a light card stock that you go with a dark font, and pair dark card stock with a light font for suitable contrast. That helps with overall legibility, ensuring your guests can actually read what the invitation says.

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Additionally, most people default to traditional rectangular wedding invitations, even though there are many more choices. While a rectangle is classic, a circle may feel more whimsical, and a square may seem more modern.

Keep the Content Simple

The information on a wedding invitation needs to be clear and concise. While certain formalities, such as spelling out everything (including the time of the ceremony), lead to more text, you don’t want to overcrowd the card. Trying to fit in extra details requires the text to be smaller, and can make it harder to read.

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Double and Triple Check (or More) Your Proof

It is easy to overlook errors when we know what the invitation was meant to say. Since you have many of these details in the forefront of your mind, you are not the ideal proofreader for your own invitations. Have the proofs checked by a few friends and family members. Make sure the date and time are accurate as well as the spelling of any names and locations.

Don’t Delay                                                    

Printing custom invitations takes time, and all wedding invitations need to be custom made. In some cases, it will take a few days while others may require weeks. Since you want to send out the invitations early enough to provide potential guests with sufficient notice, delaying the purchase isn’t really an option.

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Your invitations should be ordered at least four or five months before the wedding to ensure you have enough time to receive them, address them, and mail them to your guests. In some cases, you can acquire your envelopes early, allowing you to get a head start on having them addressed. This is especially helpful if you plan on having them addressed by a professional calligrapher.

You also want your guests to have enough time to RSVP as well as make any necessary arrangements. If you are having a destination wedding, the sooner you can inform your friends and family regarding your upcoming nuptials, the higher the likelihood that they will be able to make arrangements to attend.

Order More than You Need

There is always a chance that some will be damaged or lost in the mail, so you want to have enough to cover those. Also, you may end up sending out additional invitations if those sent during the first round have a larger than expected number that is unable to attend. That allows you to send invitations to any guests who were not originally invited due to the limitations of your space when it becomes apparent you have room.

Additionally, you will want to keep a few as keepsakes. Often, the couple will keep at least one or two, and the parents of the bride and groom may also appreciate an additional copy.

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Last Updated on September 17, 2019

10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

Positive thinking can lead to a lot of positive change in your life. Developing an optimistic outlook can be good for both your physical and mental health.

But sometimes, certain situations arise in life that makes it hard to keep a positive outlook. Take steps to make positive thinking become more like your second nature and you’ll reap the biggest benefits.

Here are 10 ways to make thinking positive thoughts easy:

1. Spend Time with Positive People

If you surround yourself with constant complainers, their negativity is likely to rub off on you.

Spend time with positive friends and family members to increase the likelihood that their positive thinking habits will become yours too. It’s hard to be negative when everyone around you is so positive.

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2. Take Responsibility for Your Behavior

When you encounter problems and difficulties in life, don’t play the role of the victim. Acknowledge your role in the situation and take responsibility for your behavior.

Accepting responsibility can help you learn from mistakes and prevent you from blaming others unfairly.

3. Contribute to the Community

One of the best ways to feel good about what you have, is to focus on what you have to give.

Volunteer in some manner and give back to the community. Helping others can give you a new outlook on the world and can assist you with positive thinking.

4. Read Positive and Inspirational Materials

Spend time each day reading something that encourages positive thinking. Read the Bible, spiritual material, or inspirational quotes to help you focus on what’s important to you in life. It can be a great way to start and end your day.

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5. Recognize and Replace Negative Thoughts

You won’t be successful at positive thinking if you’re still plagued by frequent negative thoughts. Learn to recognize and replace thoughts that are overly negative. Often, thoughts that include words like “always” and “never” signal that they aren’t true.

If you find yourself thinking something such as, “I always mess everything up,” replace it with something more realistic such as, “Sometimes I make mistakes but I learn from them.”

There’s no need to make your thoughts unrealistically positive, but instead, make them more realistic.

6. Establish and Work Toward Goals

It’s easier to be positive about problems and setbacks when you have goals that you’re working toward. Goals will give you motivation to overcome those obstacles when you encounter problems along the way. Without clear goals, it’s harder to make decisions and gauge your progress.

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Learn to set SMART goals to help you achieve more.

7. Consider the Consequences of Negativity

Spend some time thinking about the consequences of negative thinking. Often, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

For example, a person who thinks, “I probably won’t get this job interview,” may put less effort into the interview. As a result, he may decrease his chances of getting the job.

Create a list of all the ways negative thinking impacts your life. It likely influences your behavior, your relationships, and your feelings. Then, create a list of the ways in which positive thinking could be beneficial.

8. Offer Compliments to Others

Look for reasons to compliment others. Be genuine in your praise and compliments, but offer it frequently. This will help you look for the good in other people.

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9. Create a Daily Gratitude List

If you start keeping a daily gratitude list, you’ll start noticing exactly how much you have to be thankful for. This can help you focus on the positive in your life instead of thinking about all the bad things that have happened in the day.

Getting in the habit of showing an attitude of gratitude makes positive thinking more of a habit. Here’re 40 Simple Ways To Practice Gratitude.

10. Practice Self-Care

Take good care of yourself and you’ll be more equipped to think positively.

Get plenty of rest and exercise and practice managing your stress well. Taking care of your physical and mental health will provide you with more energy to focus on positive thinking.

Learn about these 30 Self-Care Habits for a Strong and Healthy Mind, Body and Spirit.

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