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4 Ways To Make Your Home A “Sweet Home”

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4 Ways To Make Your Home A “Sweet Home”

Growing up, if you can recall the taste of the wild berries in your home or the smell of your mom’s stew, bouncing on the stove. Do you remember digging in that delicious bowl of stew, with your parents and sibling fighting over the leftovers?

Can you recall the ambiance that brought all those emotions together? What makes a home a “sweet home”? What brings back the old sweet ambiance in our modern day homes? Our white walls and our marble tables give us the illusion of modernization, however, what gives you the comfort of being in that house with your parents and the pot of stew?

1. Watch The Stars From Your Bed

In our modern society, we either pay an extravagant amount of money to enjoy just one night being blanketed by the stars, we put the charges on our credit card or we hike for miles for a camping site. However, have you considered skylights?

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A skylight is where you will invest a little so you and your family can marvel at the beauty of nature from the comfort of your own home. Some prefer a traditional way of having a skylight, with wooden paneling and an exquisite Hogwarts style roof while others prefer a more modern take.

Anyways, families who have skylights are more likely to develop a healthy mindset, as well as a calmer ambiance. Recreating old family values becomes easier with the right accessories, doesn’t it?

2. Enjoy The Fall Weather From Your Own Gallery

Fall or autumn is one of the most amazing seasons of the year. Watching the golden leaves fall and carpet the ground beautifully can take one’s breath away. However, the one issue that comes with the beauty of fall is the unbearable cold and unpredictable weather.

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How do you enjoy this beautiful season without falling sick? Can you enjoy it from the comfort of your own home?

Surprisingly, having a conservatory at home has become a new trend. Where some model it to be a beautiful garden, others turn into a tiny office or family room. Having tea or working in the midst of a beautiful scenery allows the mind to function better and the soul to feel lighter.

In the modern world, aren’t we all seeking for some form of peace?

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3. Opt For Wood Instead Of Marble

Traveling across the world, I have personally noticed the houses that capture the beautiful ambiance of tradition and culture are usually the homes that use the elements of nature. Elements of nature such as soil bricks and wooden sticks may seem a cliche or not up to modernization, however, that’s what seems to keep the families happy and healthy.

Instead of using marbles and modeling tiles, one should opt for renewable wood. Having a wooden house doesn’t only keep your psychological health in balance but it also keeps the house well insulated without consuming electricity.

If you’re looking for a way to have an eco-friendly yet modern home, then why not opt for a more natural form of a building. Some types of wood are known to last for decades, why not make your home one of the strongest built in this decade.

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4. You Can Never Go Wrong With Choosing Earthly Colors

The final element of any house is the color of the house. The color of each space and what it represents. Color can create different illusions from widening the space to making it calm and cozy. The right color is what guarantees the character and personality of the house.

The bright colors are the ones usually least selected. Earthly colors such as brown, blue, white and green bring on different meanings to the ambiance as well as the persona of the house. Combining colors the right way in the right space will create a zen space for you and your family.

A family that’s healthy emotionally will ensure its longevity and calmness despite the circumstances. Why not create this opportunity for you and your family?

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In Conclusion

Your house is your sanctuary, so wouldn’t it be a good idea to incorporate the old heritage into a new style of living. Even in the world of modernization, we needn’t be constricted to the typical design of how our homes should look like.

So why not get wild and creative?

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Last Updated on November 18, 2021

10 Proven Ways to Judge a Person’s Character

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10 Proven Ways to Judge a Person’s Character

We all fall into the trap of judging a person’s character by their appearance. How wrong we are! All too often, the real character of the person only appears when some negative event hits them or you. Then you may see a toxic person emerging from the ruins and it is often a shock.

A truly frightening example is revealed in the book by O’Toole in Bowman called Dangerous Instincts: How Gut Instincts Betray Us. A perfectly respectable, charming, well dressed neighbor was found to have installed a torture chamber in his garage where he was systematically abusing kidnapped women. This is an extreme example, but it does show how we can be totally deceived by a person’s physical appearance, manners and behavior.

So, what can you do? You want to be able to assess personal qualities when you come into contact with colleagues, fresh acquaintances and new friends who might even become lifelong partners. You want to know if they are:

  • honest
  • reliable
  • competent
  • kind and compassionate
  • capable of taking the blame
  • able to persevere
  • modest and humble
  • pacific and can control anger.

The secret is to reserve judgment and take your time. Observe them in certain situations; look at how they react. Listen to them talking, joking, laughing, explaining, complaining, blaming, praising, ranting, and preaching. Only then will you be able to judge their character. This is not foolproof, but if you follow the 10 ways below, you have a pretty good chance of not ending up in an abusive relationship.

1. Is anger a frequent occurrence?

All too often, angry reactions which may seem to be excessive are a sign that there are underlying issues. Do not think that every person who just snaps and throws his/her weight around mentally and physically is just reacting normally. Everyone has an occasional angry outburst when driving or when things go pear-shaped.

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But if this is almost a daily occurrence, then you need to discover why and maybe avoid that person. Too often, anger will escalate to violent and aggressive behavior. You do not want to be near someone who thinks violence can solve personal or global problems.

2. Can you witness acts of kindness?

How often do you see this person being kind and considerate? Do they give money to beggars, donate to charity, do voluntary work or in some simple way show that they are willing to share the planet with about 7 billion other people?

I was shocked when a guest of mine never showed any kindness to the weak and disadvantaged people in our town. She was ostensibly a religious person, but I began to doubt the sincerity of her beliefs.

“The best index to a person’s character is how he treats people who can’t do him any good, and how he treats people who can’t fight back.”

Abigail Van Buren

3. How does this person take the blame?

Maybe you know that s/he is responsible for a screw-up in the office or even in not turning up on time for a date. Look at their reaction. If they start blaming other colleagues or the traffic, well, this is an indication that they are not willing to take responsibility for their mistakes.

4. Don’t use Facebook as an indicator.

You will be relieved to know that graphology (the study of that forgotten skill of handwriting) is no longer considered a reliable test of a person’s character. Neither is Facebook stalking, fortunately. A study showed that Facebook use of foul language, sexual innuendo and gossip were not reliable indicators of a candidate’s character or future performance in the workplace.

5. Read their emails.

Now a much better idea is to read the person’s emails. Studies show that the use of the following can indicate certain personality traits:

  • Too many exclamation points may reveal a sunny disposition
  • Frequent errors may indicate apathy
  • Use of smileys is the only way a person can smile at you
  • Use of the third person may reveal a certain formality
  • Too many question marks can show anger
  • Overuse of capital letters is regarded as shouting. They are a definite no-no in netiquette, yet a surprising number of  people still use them.

6. Watch out for the show offs.

Listen to people as they talk. How often do they mention their achievements, promotions, awards and successes? If this happens a lot, it is a sure indication that this person has an over-inflated view of his/her achievements. They are unlikely to be modest or show humility. What a pity!  Another person to avoid.

7. Look for evidence of perseverance.

A powerful indicator of grit and tenacity is when a person persists and never gives up when they really want to achieve a life goal. Look for evidence of them keeping going in spite of enormous difficulties.

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Great achievements by scientists and inventors all bear the hallmark of perseverance. We only have to think of Einstein, Edison (who failed thousands of times) and Nelson Mandela to get inspiration. The US Department of Education is in no doubt about how grit, tenacity and perseverance will be key success factors for youth in the 21st century.

8. Their empathy score is high.

Listen to how they talk about the less fortunate members of our society such as the poor, immigrants and the disabled. Do you notice that they talk in a compassionate way about these people? The fact that they even mention them is a strong indicator of empathy.

People with zero empathy will never talk about the disadvantaged. They will rarely ask you a question about a difficult time or relationship. They will usually steer the conversation back to themselves. These people have zero empathy and in extreme cases, they are psychopaths who never show any feelings towards their victims.

9. Learn how to be socially interactive.

We are social animals and this is what makes us so uniquely human. If a person is isolated or a loner, this may be a negative indicator of their character. You want to meet a person who knows about trust, honesty and loyalty. The only way to practice these great qualities is to actually interact socially. The great advantage is that you can share problems and celebrate success and joy together.

“One can acquire everything in solitude, except character.”

Stendhal

 10. Avoid toxic people.

These people are trying to control others and often are failing to come to terms with their own failures. Typical behavior and conversations may concern:

  • Envy or jealousy
  • Criticism of partners, colleagues and friends
  • Complaining about their own lack of success
  • Blaming others for their own bad luck or failure
  • Obsession with themselves and their problems

Listen to these people talk and you will quickly discover that you need to avoid them at all costs because their negativity will drag you down. In addition, as much as you would like to help them, you are not qualified to do so.

Now, having looked at some of the best ways to judge a person, what about yourself? How do others see you? Why not take Dr. Phil’s quiz and find out. Can you bear it?

Featured photo credit: Jacek Dylag via unsplash.com

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