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3 Simple Tips to Lose Weight and Keep It Off

3 Simple Tips to Lose Weight and Keep It Off

As the old saying goes, “Slow and steady wins the race.” I highly agree with this, especially when it comes to weight loss. Unless you’re a bodybuilder, fitness model or trying to trim down for a shoot, as a regular everyday person, it is hard to sustain a lifestyle full of restrictions. Most people that lose weight quick and gain it back just as quick. Sometimes they gain more than what they started with.

I spent three years overseas and gained 18kg/39.6lbs in that time. Mainly due to a lot of partying, eating and just enjoying the good things in life while travelling. Another three years later since my return, I am happy to say that I have lost it all, slowly but surely.

I have also managed to travel, party, eat the foods I love and still make progress. It is such a great feeling to be able to find that balance between all of the things I love and still reach my fitness goals. I wanted to share my three top tips on how I was able to achieve this without any crazy diets, restrictions or having to give up anything I enjoyed.

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Consistency

Such a simple thing but most often forgotten. We don’t need to turn into a gym junkie or eat clean every single meal. Great for those that have that type of discipline, but if you’re anything like me, it just isn’t sustainable.

Start with creating one habit that will help you to reach your goals and keep it realistic and consistent. For me, it was hard to go back to the gym when I hadn’t been in years. I started with small baby steps and eventually built it up over time. I went for a walk once a week, which turned to twice a week. Then I started to run once a week. (When I say run, I really went for a jog).

I started to get bored with that so I decided to try yoga once a week as it wasn’t strenuous and was actually good for my busy mind. This eventually led me to joining a boot camp, fitness groups and then hitting the gym every now and again alone. Now I go to the gym six times a week without anyone training me as I am literally addicted. If you keep consistent, the tiniest bit of effort makes a massive difference, it all adds up over time.

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80/20 Rule

I made a YouTube vlog about this, as it is a rule I absolutely live by in all aspects of my life. Some people do 90/10 but to be honest, I’m not that disciplined and I love food and socialising way too much. I love pizza, pasta, white rice (I am Asian after all) and I love having a nice sugary treat. Donut time is my weakness.

The 80/20 rule means to eat well 80% of the time and the other 20% is to eat whatever you want, not to the point of binge eating where your stomach wants to burst and you feel sick you could throw up, but in moderation. In saying this, I have been known to eat a whole pizza to myself every now and again, but I am also training quite hard so I don’t feel bad about it.

I still ate the food I enjoyed but made small tweaks. Instead of normal pasta, I would use high fibre pasta made of vegetables or even the wholemeal alternative. Instead of white bread, I would use wholemeal or rye and instead of white rice, I switched to brown. I still eat white rice though; it’s in my Filipino blood!

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Keep Busy

Sometimes it can feel like a drag having to work out, especially when you are starting to get back into things. Keep yourself busy so you aren’t on the couch eating snacks all day in front of the TV. Get outdoors, go have coffee with friends, take a walk and listen to music.

For me, I love the outdoors so I am forever chasing waterfalls, hitting the beach, hiking and taking in the beauty of nature. I find that when I am lost in the moment, the last thing on my mind is to stuff my face with food.

Find new hobbies. If you’re meeting up with friends, suggest a nice stroll somewhere scenic, go check out some nature hot spots in your area and just get busy living. You may even find that you enjoy it and it keeps you away from eating out of boredom.

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Weight loss is a journey and it doesn’t happen overnight. It would be great if it did but unfortunately it doesn’t work like that. Any progress is till progress and more often than not, other people will notice the difference before we do.

Aim for a lifestyle that is sustainable and you know you can enjoy. It’s not about the destination, it’s about progress and maintaining a healthy lifestyle. Every thing starts from the first step, no matter how big or small. Take a moment and think about what you can do that will enable you to reach your goal and just do it. As simple as it sounds, I swear it’s true.

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    Last Updated on November 20, 2018

    10 Reasons Why New Year’s Resolutions Fail

    10 Reasons Why New Year’s Resolutions Fail

    A new year beautifully symbolizes a new chapter opening in the book that is your life. But while so many people like you aspire to achieve ambitious goals, only 12% of you will ever experience the taste of victory. Sound bad? It is. 156 million people (that’s 156,000,000) will probably give up on their resolution before you can say “confetti.” Keep on reading to learn why New Year’s resolutions fail (and how to succeed).

    Note: Since losing weight is the most common New Year’s resolution, I chose to focus on weight loss (but these principles can be applied to just about any goal you think of — make it work for you!).

    1. You’re treating a marathon like a sprint.

    Slow and steady habit change might not be sexy, but it’s a lot more effective than the “I want it ALL and I want it NOW!” mentality. Small changes stick better because they aren’t intimidating (if you do it right, you’ll barely even notice them!).

    If you have a lot of bad habits today, the last thing you need to do is remodel your entire life overnight. Want to lose weight? Stop it with the crash diets and excessive exercise plans. Instead of following a super restrictive plan that bans anything fun, add one positive habit per week. For example, you could start with something easy like drinking more water during your first week. The following week, you could move on to eating 3 fruits and veggies every day. And the next week, you could aim to eat a fistful of protein at every meal.

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    2. You put the cart before the horse.

    “Supplementing” a crappy diet is stupid, so don’t even think about it. Focus on the actions that produce the overwhelming amount of results. If it’s not important, don’t worry about it.

    3. You don’t believe in yourself.

    A failure to act can cripple you before you leave the starting line. If you’ve tried (and failed) to set a New Year’s resolution (or several) in the past, I know it might be hard to believe in yourself. Doubt is a nagging voice in your head that will resist personal growth with every ounce of its being. The only way to defeat doubt is to believe in yourself. Who cares if you’ve failed a time or two? This year, you can try again (but better this time).

    4. Too much thinking, not enough doing.

    The best self-help book in the world can’t save you if you fail to take action. Yes, seek inspiration and knowledge, but only as much as you can realistically apply to your life. If you can put just one thing you learn from every book or article you read into practice, you’ll be on the fast track to success.

    5. You’re in too much of a hurry.

    If it was quick-and-easy, everybody would do it, so it’s in your best interest to exercise your patience muscles.

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    6. You don’t enjoy the process.

    Is it any wonder people struggle with their weight when they see eating as a chore and exercise as a dreadful bore? The best fitness plan is one that causes the least interruption to your daily life. The goal isn’t to add stress to your life, but rather to remove it.

    The best of us couldn’t bring ourselves to do something we hate consistently, so make getting in shape fun, however you’ve gotta do it. That could be participating in a sport you love, exercising with a good friend or two, joining a group exercise class so you can meet new people, or giving yourself one “free day” per week where you forget about your training plan and exercise in any way you please.

    7. You’re trying too hard.

    Unless you want to experience some nasty cravings, don’t deprive your body of pleasure. The more you tell yourself you can’t have a food, the more you’re going to want it. As long as you’re making positive choices 80-90% of the time, don’t sweat the occasional indulgence.

    8. You don’t track your progress.

    Keeping a written record of your training progress will help you sustain an “I CAN do this” attitude. All you need is a notebook and a pen. For every workout, record what exercises you do, the number of repetitions performed, and how much weight you used if applicable. Your goal? Do better next time. Improving your best performance on a regular basis offers positive feedback that will encourage you to keep going.

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    9. You have no social support.

    It can be hard to stay motivated when you feel alone. The good news? You’re not alone: far from it. Post a status on Facebook asking your friends if anybody would like to be your gym or accountability buddy. If you know a co-worker who shares your goal, try to coordinate your lunch time and go out together so you’ll be more likely to make positive decisions. Join a support group of like-minded folks on Facebook, LinkedIn, or elsewhere on the internet. Strength in numbers is powerful, so use it to your advantage.

    10. You know your what but not your why.

    The biggest reason why most New Year’s resolutions fail: you know what you want but you not why you want it.

    Yes: you want to get fit, lose weight, or be healthy… but why is your goal important to you? For example:

    Do you want to be fit so you can be a positive example that your children can admire and look up to?

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    Do you want to lose fat so you’ll feel more confident and sexy in your body than ever before?

    Do you want to be healthy so you’ll have increased clarity, energy, and focus that would carry over into every single aspect of your life?

    Whether you’re getting in shape because you want to live longer, be a good example, boost your energy, feel confident, have an excuse to buy hot new clothes, or increase your likelihood of getting laid (hey, I’m not here to judge) is up to you. Forget about any preconceived notions and be true to yourself.

    • The more specific you can make your goal,
    • The more vivid it will be in your imagination,
    • The more encouraged you’ll be,
    • The more likely it is you will succeed (because yes, you CAN do this!).

    I hope this guide to why New Year’s resolutions fail helps you achieve your goals this year. If you found this helpful, please pass it along to some friends so they can be successful just like you. What do you hope to accomplish next year?

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