Probably, many of you are making the final preparations for your wedding or maybe you may still have a little more time to continue organizing.
It’s your wedding! It is good to be advised by your family and friends but never forget that it’s your wedding and not theirs. Do what you really wish for the celebration without allowing the people influence on you. Usually, this is going to be just a once in a lifetime experience, so why not to do it as you have always dreamed?
To help you in this task, I’ll give you some simple tips that will help you to achieve the wedding of your dreams.
If you have already been in a wedding as a guest you may have noticed when the bride and groom have made an effort to prepare it for their personal style and when they don’t.
Every one of the aspects to be considered at a wedding (music, food, decoration, details, etc) should be chosen depending on the tastes and personality of the couple. Be different and be unique so that your wedding event is remembered for a long time.
2. Good food
Food is probably what will be remembered by your guests for a long time. So carefully choose the dishes to create a delicious menu.
Make sure you know what your guests would like to eat, what their preferences are – vegetarian or non vegetarian – and arrange the dishes accordingly.
3. Control the timing
At a wedding, like in any other event, it’s important to manage the time for the celebration to make it as comfortable as possible.
Religious ceremonies are more difficult to control (although you can choose a longer or shorter mass) but if it is a civil marriage, do not hesitate to make it as short as possible!
4. Good choice of music
The songs chosen by you, or with the Dj’s help, are the key to amuse the people at the party. Choose music which fits the occasion and good enough to make the guests dance, laugh and enjoy.
5. The best company
Any celebration is important if the people you care the most are there. Leave behind commitments and surround yourself with people you love, especially friends. It’s youngest people, usually friends of the couple’s wedding, who are going to enliven and animate the party.
So make sure you invite plenty of young guns to energize your party and create more fun for the crowd.
6. Traditions that should disappear
Every wedding follows some traditions. Maybe your family wants you to do some rituals or your religion insists you have to perform some. Whatever they are, if they are not compulsory, make sure to do away with them.
Focus more on the excitement and fun.
7. Dressing the Bride and Groom
To customize the wedding itself is as important as the style chosen by the couple. Forget the impossible and uncomfortable looks. Choose a dress that you really feel identify with. That will make you feel beautiful, instead of artificial and overdressed.
Do not wear a large skirt if you are going to move or dance. With the uncomfortable dress, you are not going to enjoy your wedding party.
8. Natural photos
The best memory you’ll have will be your wedding photographs and this is a task which should be left to a professional wedding photographer.
Hire a good photographer and give natural poses. Strictly ask the photographer not to apply any photoshop or other tricks. Make them look natural and raw.
Above are some tips to make your wedding a memorable event. Always plan ahead and budget for your wedding properly. Remain within your expense limits and make simple changes to make your wedding a really great event to be remembered for a long time.
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