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10 Ways To Embrace The Energy Of Words For A More Positive Thought Process

10 Ways To Embrace The Energy Of Words For A More Positive Thought Process

Has this ever happened to you? You walk into a room where others are talking, only to get the distinct feeling that they were just talking about you, and not in a nice way. You felt that uneasy sense of embarrassment and discomfort, not even being quite sure of where that feeling stemmed from. Except one of the clues being that they stopped talking as soon as you stepped in, changing the conversation to something mundane. I’m sure this has happened to you at least once in your life. Right?

Words Have Power and Energy

Since words have a power of their own, they can effect the way we think, feel and perceive thoughts and ideas. So that distinct feeling inside of you, when you walked into that room came from the intensity and reaction of the conversation. It made you aware that, of what they were saying, involved you and possibly in a negative light, whether it was true or made up gossip.

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Just like all things in life, words have a vibration of energy to them with a momentum full of emotion and feeling. Words or phrases can either be empowering and encouraging or they can be toxic and destructive. For example higher vibration words can be used to help you feel happy, pleased and excited. Where as lower vibration negative words can make you feel the opposite. With the use of positive thinking and positive self-talk you can change the chemistry within yourself and create a more powerful you.

Instead of having your words work against you, use positive self-talk and create an awareness within and use it as a benefit to your energy. As you start to have a perception of how negative statements or gossiping can effect your chemistry you can begin to rise above it. You will begin to remove yourself from situations and people that nag and complain, because ultimately you get to decide what you let seep into your brain. By having a better relationship and understanding with your choice of words, you can feel more balanced on a daily basis.

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10 Ways To Embrace The Energy Of Words

Embracing the energy of words gives rise to a more positive thought process.

  1. Start to become aware of using positive rather than negative verbiage.
  2. Be kind with your words throughout the day and have thoughts of gratitude by expressing what you are grateful for.
  3. Refrain from gossiping about others and separate yourself from it.
  4. Steer clear of negative people that make you feel drained after talking to them.
  5. Whether you are thinking or talking to someone, be choosy about what you say, and also of how you say it.
  6. Use affirmations to strengthen your self confidence.
  7. Stop using the trashy choice words.
  8. Give words of encouragement or compliments to others.
  9. Don’t give power to negative comments brought on by others, you can choose what you let sink into your mind.
  10. Use positive “I Am” statements. i.e: I am deserving, I am capable etc….

Encouraging and supportive words towards yourself will strengthen your innermost being. By a simple change in your mindset you can begin to create the pattern of a confident frame of mind.

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“Be Willing, Be Deserving, and Be Worthy, so that you will have many reasons to Be Grateful!”

Knowing how the energy of words can make you feel will be a game changer. Just like starting a new habit, it will take time for you to change the way you think or react.

At first you will need to remind yourself throughout the day to be conscious of what you are telling yourself. But in time, you will start to notice a shift in your balance stemming from the higher vibration of affirming words, giving you a sense of power and strength. If you can positively talk yourself through it, then you can most definitely achieve it as well.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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