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12 Funny Illustrations That Perfectly Sum Up What Adulthood Is Like

12 Funny Illustrations That Perfectly Sum Up What Adulthood Is Like

Writer Chaz Hutton created these incredibly accurate depictions of the grim realities of adult life. Using nothing more than stick figures and simple graphs, he makes the struggles of adulthood all too real.

#1: Not feeling like folding your clothes before you go to bed

We’ve all been there. Sometimes your need for sleep is greater than you care for putting clothes away.

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    #2: When getting up early to beat the rush sounds better than partying

    Hey, who wants to stand in line, anyway?

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      #3: Distractions at work

      We’ve all had days… or weeks… like these.

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        #4: When pizza beats dieting

        Hey, at least you had a good time, right?

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          #5: Cheap flights dictate travel

          Sometimes not breaking the bank sounds like a better idea than culture.

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            #6: The reality of directions

            It doesn’t matter how many times you repeat, “go left, right, right, left” – you still manage to get lost.

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              #7: Being stuck in a crappy job

              Sometimes our friends just get ahead of us… and more ahead, and more ahead…

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                #8: Putting together furniture

                There’s nothing worse than spending 20 minutes putting something together only to find you screwed something up… literally.

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                  #9: The furniture graph

                  What’s wrong with hand-me-downs?

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                    #10: When excitement never goes down

                    You can’t tell me you wouldn’t be just as excited as this graph shows.

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                      #11: The realities of getting a dog

                      First you hate ’em… then you can’t live without ’em.

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                        #12: Cords are a nightmare

                        It seems like no matter how hard you try, you can never keep them organized.

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                          Featured photo credit: Chaz Hutton via instagram.com

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                          Last Updated on November 19, 2020

                          The Gentle Art of Saying No for a Less Stressful Life

                          The Gentle Art of Saying No for a Less Stressful Life

                          It’s a simple fact that you can never be productive if you take on too many commitments—you simply spread yourself too thin and will not be able to get anything done, at least not well or on time. That’s why the art of saying no can be a game changer for productivity.

                          Requests for your time are coming in all the time—from family members, friends, children, coworkers, etc. To stay productive, minimize stress, and avoid wasting time, you have to learn the gentle art of saying no—an art that many people have problems with.

                          What’s so hard about saying no? Well, to start with, it can hurt, anger, or disappoint the person you’re saying “no” to, and that’s not usually a fun task. Second, if you hope to work with that person in the future, you’ll want to continue to have a good relationship with that person, and saying “no” in the wrong way can jeopardize that.

                          However, it doesn’t have to be difficult or hard on your relationship. Here’s how to stop people pleasing and master the gentle art of saying no.

                          1. Value Your Time

                          Know your commitments and how valuable your precious time is. Then, when someone asks you to dedicate some of your time to a new commitment, you’ll know that you simply cannot do it.

                          Be honest when you tell them that: “I just can’t right now. My plate is overloaded as it is.” They’ll sympathize as they likely have a lot going on as well, and they’ll respect your openness, honesty, and attention to self-care.

                          2. Know Your Priorities

                          Even if you do have some extra time (which, for many of us, is rare), is this new commitment really the way you want to spend that time?

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                          For example, if my wife asks me to pick up the kids from school a couple of extra days a week, I’ll likely try to make time for it as my family is my highest priority. However, if a coworker asks for help on some extra projects, I know that will mean less time with my wife and kids, so I will be more likely to say no. 

                          However, for others, work is their priority, and helping on extra projects could mean the chance for a promotion or raise. It’s all about knowing your long-term goals and what you’ll need to say yes and no to in order to get there. 

                          You can learn more about how to set your priorities here.

                          3. Practice Saying No

                          Practice makes perfect. Saying “no” as often as you can is a great way to get better at it and more comfortable with saying the word[1].

                          Sometimes, repeating the word is the only way to get a message through to extremely persistent people. When they keep insisting, just keep saying no. Eventually, they’ll get the message.

                          4. Don’t Apologize

                          A common way to start out is “I’m sorry, but…” as people think that it sounds more polite. While politeness is important when you learn to say no, apologizing just makes it sound weaker. You need to be firm and unapologetic about guarding your time.

                          When you say no, realize that you have nothing to feel bad about. You have every right to ensure you have time for the things that are important to you. 

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                          5. Stop Being Nice

                          Again, it’s important to be polite, but being nice by saying yes all the time only hurts you. When you make it easy for people to grab your time (or money), they will continue to do it. However, if you erect a wall or set boundaries, they will look for easier targets.

                          Show them that your time is well guarded by being firm and turning down as many requests (that are not on your top priority list) as possible.

                          6. Say No to Your Boss

                          Sometimes we feel that we have to say yes to our boss—they’re our boss, right? And if we start saying no, then we look like we can’t handle the work—at least, that’s the common reasoning[2].

                          In fact, it’s the opposite—explain to your boss that by taking on too many commitments, you are weakening your productivity and jeopardizing your existing commitments. If your boss insists that you take on the project, go over your project or task list and ask him/her to re-prioritize, explaining that there’s only so much you can take on at one time.

                          7. Pre-Empting

                          It’s often much easier to pre-empt requests than to say “no” to them after the request has been made. If you know that requests are likely to be made, perhaps in a meeting, just say to everyone as soon as you come into the meeting,

                          “Look, everyone, just to let you know, my week is booked full with some urgent projects, and I won’t be able to take on any new requests.”

                          This, of course, takes a great deal of awareness that you’ll likely only have after having worked in one place or been friends with someone for a while. However, once you get the hang of it, it can be incredibly useful.

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                          8. Get Back to You

                          Instead of providing an answer then and there, it’s often better to tell the person you’ll give their request some thought and get back to them. This will allow you to give it some consideration, and check your commitments and priorities. Then, if you can’t take on the request, try saying no this way:

                          “After giving this some thought, and checking my commitments, I won’t be able to accommodate the request at this time.”

                          At least you gave it some consideration.

                          9. Maybe Later

                          If this is an option that you’d like to keep open, instead of just shutting the door on the person, it’s often better to just say,

                          “This sounds like an interesting opportunity, but I just don’t have the time at the moment. Perhaps you could check back with me in [give a time frame].”

                          Next time, when they check back with you, you might have some free time on your hands. If you need to continue saying no, here are some other ways to do so[3]:

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                          Saying no the healthy way

                            10. It’s Not You, It’s Me

                            This classic dating rejection can work in other situations. Don’t be insincere about it, though. Often, the person or project is a good one, but it’s just not right for you, at least not at this time.

                            Simply say so—you can compliment the idea, the project, the person, the organization—but say that it’s not the right fit, or it’s not what you’re looking for at this time. Only say this if it’s true, as people can sense insincerity.

                            The Bottom Line

                            Saying no isn’t an easy thing to do, but once you master it, you’ll find that you’re less stressed and more focused on the things that really matter to you. There’s no need to feel guilty about organizing your personal life and mental health in a way that feels good to you.

                            Remember that when you learn to say no, isn’t about being mean. It’s about taking care of your time, energy, and sanity. Once you learn how to say no in a good way, people will respect your willingness to practice self-care and prioritization. 

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                            Featured photo credit: Kyle Glenn via unsplash.com

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