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4 Hidden Islands The World Needs To Know

4 Hidden Islands The World Needs To Know

The world is a wide and mysterious place. Even though our technology is meant to make it smaller, the world is somehow expanding in different ways. Different untouched lands and islands exist in various parts of our planets. Some of these islands may pose danger while a majority of them just scream adventure and beauty.

If you’re a person who enjoys adventure and the water, some of these islands are meant for you. However, if you’re planning on enjoying a nice glass of red wine and visiting spas, then there definitely are islands which tend to those needs. These places are usually unexplored or often too exclusive to be a traditional tourist destination.

So, we have put together four islands that will be intriguing to your interest and you’ll definitely have fun exploring them.

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1. Pitcairn Island, Pacific Ocean

Pitcairn Island is one of the unique islands that’s located among a few volcanic islands around the British Islands. It’s a small island which consists of about 4 families and about 50 inhabitants. If you’re planning to head there, you might have to stay with the locals instead of hotels or hostels; as there are none on that island.

If you’re a technology dependent person, then you definitely are up for a challenge because most people on that island are strangers to technology. However, it’s definitely a place worth visiting because, for once, you get to unwind and let yourself go. If you love culture and heritage, then you would enjoy being part of the Polynesians and Bounty Mutineers.

By end of this trip, whether you’re traveling with a partner or alone, you’ll enjoy the calmness and indulge in a completely different culture which can be refreshing.

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Note: If you get lost, try describing the buildings because there are no street names.

2. Monuriki Island, Fiji

The Monuriki Island is a tiny island located among a cluster of islands. This cluster of islands is also known as Mamanuca. The beauty of this island is breathtaking as it’s surrounded by beautiful flora and fauna as well as amazing coral reefs. It’s no surprise that this island became the Castaway Island that hosted the lost and lonely Tom Hanks.

If you’re wondering if you’re going to be stranded, don’t worry. There are inhabitants on that island. However, this island isn’t a typical tourist destination due to its isolation as well as the obscure way to get there. Just like the previous island, you would be able to unwind and enjoy your holidays far from technology and constant communication.

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If you enjoy the flora and fauna, you’ll be amazed by all the plants and animals you can find there. From the Fiji Chameleon to the ripe beautiful coconuts. You’ll find yourself in for a treat.

3. Lanzarote, West Africa

Lanzarote is an island that’s located among the cluster of the Canary Islands. This island is heavily influenced by the Spanish regime allowing it to not only adopt its language but also its culture. Unlike the other islands, this island is an island of luxury. It’s much better suited to be explored with a partner or on a honeymoon.

You’ll not only be able to enjoy a fine glass of wine cultivated from the best vineyards, but you would be living a life of luxury. You’ll be able to explore the nature as well as the beautiful scenery. If you’re a person who enjoys exquisite luxury, then don’t forget to visit the cactus garden to embrace the beauty of the cactuses from all around the world. The highlight of this place is, however, its pristine blue waters as well as its beautiful corals.

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Swimming there will not only create a sense of peace, but it will also rekindle the romance between you and your partner.

4. Pig Beach, Bahama

The Pig Beach, or better known as Major Cay, is located on the coast of Bahamas. Its unique name is due to the fact that this island’s inhabitants are all pigs. You can notice pigs swimming on the beach and getting a tan on the side. Some say that these pigs escaped from a ship while others say they were the original inhabitants. However, these rumors were never proven.

This beach isn’t for someone to spend a night, however, there are various tours that go there to observe these happy pigs. Who wouldn’t want to enjoy watching pigs acting like humans? So if you’re ever in the Bahamas, make sure that this beach is part of your bucket list.

You won’t regret it.

In Conclusion

The world is a wonderful place, so never view it from a single point of view. Escape reality for some time and explore these amazing islands.

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Last Updated on May 21, 2019

How to Communicate Effectively in Any Relationship

How to Communicate Effectively in Any Relationship

For all our social media bravado, we live in a society where communication is seen less as an art, and more as a perfunctory exercise. We spend so much time with people, yet we struggle with how to meaningfully communicate.

If you believe you have mastered effective communication, scan the list below and see whether you can see yourself in any of the examples:

Example 1

You are uncomfortable with a person’s actions or comments, and rather than telling the individual immediately, you sidestep the issue and attempt to move on as though the offending behavior or comment never happened.

You move on with the relationship and develop a pattern of not addressing challenging situations. Before long, the person with whom you are in relationship will say or do something that pushes you over the top and predictably, you explode or withdraw completely from the relationship.

In this example, hard-to-speak truths become never- expressed truths that turn into resentment and anger.

Example 2

You communicate from the head and without emotion. While what you communicate makes perfect sense to you, it comes across as cold because it lacks emotion.

People do not understand what motivates you to say what you say, and without sharing your feelings and emotions, others experience you as rude, cold or aggressive.

You will know this is a problem if people shy away from you, ignore your contributions in meetings or tell you your words hurt. You can also know you struggle in this area if you find yourself constantly apologizing for things you have said.

Example 3

You have an issue with one person, but you communicate your problem to an entirely different person.

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The person in whom you confide lacks the authority to resolve the matter troubling you, and while you have vented and expressed frustration, the underlying challenge is unresolved.

Example 4

You grew up in a family with destructive communication habits and those habits play out in your current relationships.

Because you have never stopped to ask why you communicate the way you do and whether your communication style still works, you may lack understanding of how your words impact others and how to implement positive change.

If you find yourself in any of the situations described above, this article is for you.

Communication can build or decimate worlds and it is important we get it right. Regardless of your professional aspirations or personal goals, you can improve your communication skills if you:

  • Understand your own communication style
  • Tailor your style depending on the needs of the audience
  • Communicate with precision and care
  • Be mindful of your delivery, timing and messenger

1. Understand Your Communication Style

To communicate effectively, you must understand the communication legacy passed down from our parents, grandparents or caregivers. Each of us grew up with spoken and unspoken rules about communication.

In some families, direct communication is practiced and honored. In other families, family members are encouraged to shy away from difficult conversations. Some families appreciate open and frank dialogue and others do not. Other families practice silence about substantive matters, that is, they seldom or rarely broach difficult conversations at all.

Before you can appreciate the nuance required in communication, it helps to know the familial patterns you grew up with.

2. Learn Others Communication Styles

Communicating effectively requires you to take a step back, assess the intended recipient of your communication and think through how the individual prefers to be communicated with. Once you know this, you can tailor your message in a way that increases the likelihood of being heard. This also prevents you from assuming the way you communicate with one group is appropriate or right for all groups or people.

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If you are unsure how to determine the styles of the groups or persons with whom you are interacting, you can always ask them:

“How do you prefer to receive information?”

This approach requires listening, both to what the individuals say as well as what is unspoken. Virgin Group CEO Richard Branson noted that the best communicators are also great listeners.

To communicate effectively from relationship to relationship and situation to situation, you must understand the communication needs of others.

3. Exercise Precision and Care

A recent engagement underscored for me the importance of exercising care when communicating.

On a recent trip to Ohio, I decided to meet up with an old friend to go for a walk. As we strolled through the soccer park, my friend gently announced that he had something to talk about, he was upset with me. His introduction to the problem allowed me to mentally shift gears and prepare for the conversation.

Shortly after introducing the shift in conversation, my friend asked me why I didn’t invite him to the launch party for my business. He lives in Ohio and I live in the D.C. area.

I explained that the event snuck up on me, and I only started planning the invite list three weeks before the event. Due to the last-minute nature of the gathering, I opted to invite people in the DMV area versus my friends from outside the area – I didn’t want to be disrespectful by asking them to travel on such short notice.

I also noted that I didn’t want to be disappointed if he and others declined to come to the event. So I played it safe in terms of inviting people who were local.

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In the moment, I felt the conversation went very well. I also checked in with my friend a few days after our walk, affirmed my appreciation for his willingness to communicate his upset and our ability to work through it.

The way this conversation unfolded exemplified effective communication. My friend approached me with grace and vulnerability. He approached me with a level of curiosity that didn’t put me on my heels — I was able to really listen to what he was saying, apologize for how my decision impacted him and vow that going forward, I would always ask rather than making decisions for him and others.

Our relationship is intact, and I now have information that will help me become a better friend to him and others.

4. Be Mindful of Delivery, Timing and Messenger

Communicating effectively also requires thinking through the delivery of the message one intends to communicate as well as the appropriate time for the discussion.

In an Entrepreneur.com column, VIP Contributor Deep Patel, noted that persons interested in communicating well need to master the art of timing. Patel noted,[1]

“Great comedians, like all great communicators, are able to feel out their audience to determine when to move on to a new topic or when to reiterate an idea.”

Communicating effectively also requires thoughtfulness about the messenger. A person prone to dramatic, angry outbursts should never be called upon to deliver constructive feedback, especially to people whom they do not know. The immediate aftermath of a mass shooting is not the ideal time to talk about the importance of the Second Amendment rights.

Like everyone else, I must work to ensure my communication is layered with precision and care.

It requires precision because words must be carefully tailored to the person with whom you are speaking.

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It requires intentionality because before one communicates, one should think about the audience and what the audience needs in order to hear your message the way you intended it to be communicated.

It requires active listening which is about hearing verbal and nonverbal messages.

Even though we may be right in what we say, how we say it could derail the impact of the message and the other parties’ ability to hear the message.

Communicating with care is also about saying things that the people in our life need to hear and doing so with love.

The Bottom Line

When I left the meeting with my dear friend, I wondered if I was replicating or modeling this level of openness and transparency in the rest of my relationships.

I was intrigued and appreciative. He’d clearly thought about what he wanted to say to me, picked the appropriate time to share his feedback and then delivered it with care. He hit the ball out of the park and I’m hopeful we all do the same.

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