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Why Your Astrology Sign Makes You A Perfect Love Match

Why Your Astrology Sign Makes You A Perfect Love Match

No matter who you are, your astrology sign comes with some great relationship attributes. Maybe the Aries traits in you make you exciting and dazzles everyone around you. Maybe your Pisces traits make you a trustworthy companion that someone cherishes very much.

This is dedicated to the best personality traits of every sign because we’re all worthy of love and the stars explain why.

An Aries in love is an exciting rollercoaster ride

You’re direct and you don’t play mind games because you have the courage to live in truth. People admire this quality along with your genuine, bold manner. Whatever negative qualities there are, you charm your loved ones with your almost childlike enthusiasm for life.

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A Taurus romance is one that comes with trust

Honesty is a quality that is so essential for a relationship to flourish and you have it nailed. You are a kind and warm hearted partner who is anything but boring. While you may need stability, you also deeply love in a romantic way.

A Gemini is the best of two worlds

The Gemini, also known as the twins, are exciting because you’re two people. That makes you really diverse and interesting, capable of shifting yourself from one type to the next. You keep your partner guessing and that keeps a relationship fresh. Both of your sides are compassionate and loving, making it easy to maintain a healthy relationship that never goes stagnant.

A Cancer is a loving and loyal companion

Oh Cancer, you are so worth knowing. They say, that still waters run deep and it’s possible this was written with Cancer in mind. Though you may not show it, people that you love will forever have your loyalty and through time you will show more of yourself. You are often introverted but you love deeply and play for keeps.

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Leo is the king of the jungle for a reason

Leo stands out in a crowd like no other and you’re highly adored by many. If you feel like being in a loving relationship, you’ll have it in no time. The person who wins your heart is eternally lucky because you offer love, excitement and adoration. Your loyalty along with your charismatic nature will make it difficult for partners to get over you.

A Virgo nurtures the ones they love

You are well put together Virgo and attractive to many. You may be able to tame some of the wilder characters out there with your practicality combined with your nurturing nature. You are a kind and gracious person that gets along well with many different types. While you may be better-suited to an equally logical person, you can tame the wild ones and develop a long lasting relationship.

Libra is born to love

Dear Libra, we know it’s important for you to be in a partnership. Thankfully your personality traits associated with Libra include all the attributes that will ensure you’re not alone. You are gracious and fair-minded and because you’re social, it’s easy to meet new people.

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A Scorpio romance is sizzling and intense

The traits associated with Scorpio include loyalty and sensuality. You take your time examining people before you make a decision on who they really are. You’re not easily fooled so while it may take some time to gain your trust and admiration, it’s likely you won’t have the wool pulled over your eyes.

A Sagittarius is a warrior that fights for who they love

Sagittarius, you are a true modern warrior. You say what you think regardless of diplomacy which can be pretty attractive actually. You give a lot of yourself and your character is entertaining, you make people laugh. That sense of humour is what gives people a long lasting impression of you. You can often find yourself in a committed relationship without much effort because you’re a big personality with an alluring nature.

Love with the Capricorn will be full of respect

A Capricorn works hard in any given situation and this includes relationships. You don’t give up on people easily and that kind of dedication is rare. Your way of being can be highly inspirational to someone close to you which makes you a gem in a world of impermanent emotions. You may not be ultra romantic but you are a solid person to be with and can change the wildest at heart into a lamb.

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Aquarians will help you weather any storm

Aquarians, you are said to be well ahead of your time. You are highly interesting and inspiring to people around you and that makes you highly attractive. You are the kind of person that someone will want to spend their life with because you’re gentle and always interesting. You are a great partner to someone who has been through a lot in their life because you’re a born humanitarian.

The multi-faceted Pisces bring excitement to any romance

The Pisces traits make you a dedicated partner that is both logical and artistic. You maintain exciting relationships because you are multi-faceted. Your selflessness makes you a great catch. You can take your pick of suitors because your independence is so attractive.

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The Gentle Art of Saying No

The Gentle Art of Saying No

No!

It’s a simple fact that you can never be productive if you take on too many commitments — you simply spread yourself too thin and will not be able to get anything done, at least not well or on time.

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But requests for your time are coming in all the time — through phone, email, IM or in person. To stay productive, and minimize stress, you have to learn the Gentle Art of Saying No — an art that many people have problems with.

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What’s so hard about saying no? Well, to start with, it can hurt, anger or disappoint the person you’re saying “no” to, and that’s not usually a fun task. Second, if you hope to work with that person in the future, you’ll want to continue to have a good relationship with that person, and saying “no” in the wrong way can jeopardize that.

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But it doesn’t have to be difficult or hard on your relationship. Here are the Top 10 tips for learning the Gentle Art of Saying No:

  1. Value your time. Know your commitments, and how valuable your precious time is. Then, when someone asks you to dedicate some of your time to a new commitment, you’ll know that you simply cannot do it. And tell them that: “I just can’t right now … my plate is overloaded as it is.”
  2. Know your priorities. Even if you do have some extra time (which for many of us is rare), is this new commitment really the way you want to spend that time? For myself, I know that more commitments means less time with my wife and kids, who are more important to me than anything.
  3. Practice saying no. Practice makes perfect. Saying “no” as often as you can is a great way to get better at it and more comfortable with saying the word. And sometimes, repeating the word is the only way to get a message through to extremely persistent people. When they keep insisting, just keep saying no. Eventually, they’ll get the message.
  4. Don’t apologize. A common way to start out is “I’m sorry but …” as people think that it sounds more polite. While politeness is important, apologizing just makes it sound weaker. You need to be firm, and unapologetic about guarding your time.
  5. Stop being nice. Again, it’s important to be polite, but being nice by saying yes all the time only hurts you. When you make it easy for people to grab your time (or money), they will continue to do it. But if you erect a wall, they will look for easier targets. Show them that your time is well guarded by being firm and turning down as many requests (that are not on your top priority list) as possible.
  6. Say no to your boss. Sometimes we feel that we have to say yes to our boss — they’re our boss, right? And if we say “no” then we look like we can’t handle the work — at least, that’s the common reasoning. But in fact, it’s the opposite — explain to your boss that by taking on too many commitments, you are weakening your productivity and jeopardizing your existing commitments. If your boss insists that you take on the project, go over your project or task list and ask him/her to re-prioritize, explaining that there’s only so much you can take on at one time.
  7. Pre-empting. It’s often much easier to pre-empt requests than to say “no” to them after the request has been made. If you know that requests are likely to be made, perhaps in a meeting, just say to everyone as soon as you come into the meeting, “Look guys, just to let you know, my week is booked full with some urgent projects and I won’t be able to take on any new requests.”
  8. Get back to you. Instead of providing an answer then and there, it’s often better to tell the person you’ll give their request some thought and get back to them. This will allow you to give it some consideration, and check your commitments and priorities. Then, if you can’t take on the request, simply tell them: “After giving this some thought, and checking my commitments, I won’t be able to accommodate the request at this time.” At least you gave it some consideration.
  9. Maybe later. If this is an option that you’d like to keep open, instead of just shutting the door on the person, it’s often better to just say, “This sounds like an interesting opportunity, but I just don’t have the time at the moment. Perhaps you could check back with me in [give a time frame].” Next time, when they check back with you, you might have some free time on your hands.
  10. It’s not you, it’s me. This classic dating rejection can work in other situations. Don’t be insincere about it, though. Often the person or project is a good one, but it’s just not right for you, at least not at this time. Simply say so — you can compliment the idea, the project, the person, the organization … but say that it’s not the right fit, or it’s not what you’re looking for at this time. Only say this if it’s true — people can sense insincerity.

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