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5 Things You Need to Know When Choosing a Dress for a Wedding

5 Things You Need to Know When Choosing a Dress for a Wedding

There are just a few occasions in life when we need to find “The Dress”; that perfect and glamorous one that will leave everyone speechless. When you’re having a wedding or going to a celebration, there is always the distressing moment of choosing the right outfit. Of course, the worst thing that can happen to you is to arrive at the event and see someone else wearing the same dress, or seeing the pictures and realizing it didn’t fit as well as you wanted it to. But don’t worry. None of these potentially embarrassing situations will happen if you follow the tips and advice below.

So here are some important tips to keep in mind when choosing your dress for that special occasion:

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1. First of all, keep in mind which type of dress you want to wear.

Based on that, do a little research on the web and look for the best option to wear depending on the weather, whether the event is going to be at day or at night, which season is it going to be in and where is it going to take place. That way, you can choose between a smaller range of dresses without going crazy.

2. Think of a maximum budget you would spend on your dress and celebration.

Don’t spend too much but don’t spend too little. It’s a special occasion, and you will want to look nice, but also you won’t be wearing that dress too many times, so be aware of that and try looking for an outfit that will cover your necessities without leaving you in bankruptcy. There are many economical options out there!

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3. Stick to your style and taste.

This is a really important statement, don’t wear something that doesn’t fit with your style. Choose a dress that goes with your age and your style, if you like bright colors, then try not to choose a dark dress just because people say it’s elegant. Or if you are a little bit more serious, maybe something more mature and discreet will go with you.

4. Choose the right fit for you.

Let’s face it, not everything looks good on us, it depends a lot on our body structure or type, so be very careful with this when choosing a dress for a wedding. Choose one that sculpts your figure, whether you are thin or curvy, there are always many beautiful gowns that will look great on you, just choose correctly. There are many stores and online sites like Mother of the Bride that actually offer extra sizes that can help. Don’t think about the future, like if you’re going to gain or lose weight to look better in your outfit, just think of the present and which dress looks better on you now.

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5. Don’t buy something too trendy.

If you do this, number one: there will be more of a chance that someone will arrive with the same dress, and number two: in a few years or even months, your dress will be out of fashion. So just choose something a little more classic, take in mind that some old trends are back now, like the vintage style. And it will look much better and more fabulous on you.

Remember that there’s no perfect body or an established size, you just need to feel comfortable and happy to look good. Choosing a dress shouldn’t be tedious or stressful at all, and it doesn’t matter if you’re the bride or a guest, there will always be a perfect outfit for that special occasion. Make this shopping experience as easy and joyful as possible!

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Last Updated on January 3, 2020

The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

Are you waiting for life events to turn out the way you want so that you can feel more positive about your life? Do you find yourself having pre-conditions to your sense of well-being, thinking that certain things must happen for you to be happier? Do you think there is no way that your life stresses can make you anything other than “stressed out” and that other people just don’t understand?  If your answer is “yes” to any of these questions, you might find yourself lingering in the land of negativity for too long!

The following are some tips to keep positive no matter what comes your way. This post will help you stop looking for what psychologists call “positivity” in all the wrong places!  Here are the ten essential habits of positive people.

1. Positive people don’t confuse quitting with letting go.

Instead of hanging on to ideas, beliefs, and even people that are no longer healthy for them, they trust their judgement to let go of negative forces in their lives.  Especially in terms of relationships, they subscribe to The Relationship Prayer which goes:

 I will grant myself the ability to trust the healthy people in my life … 

To set limits with, or let go of, the negative ones … 

And to have the wisdom to know the DIFFERENCE!

 2.  Positive people don’t just have a good day – they make a good day.

Waiting, hoping and wishing seldom have a place in the vocabulary of positive individuals. Rather, they use strong words that are pro-active and not reactive. Passivity leads to a lack of involvement, while positive people get very involved in constructing their lives. They work to make changes to feel better in tough times rather than wish their feelings away.

3. For the positive person, the past stays in the past.

Good and bad memories alike stay where they belong – in the past where they happened. They don’t spend much time pining for the good ol’ days because they are too busy making new memories now. The negative pulls from the past are used not for self-flagellation or unproductive regret, but rather productive regret where they use lessons learned as stepping stones towards a better future.

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4. Show me a positive person and I can show you a grateful person.

The most positive people are the most grateful people.  They do not focus on the potholes of their lives.  They focus on the pot of gold that awaits them every day, with new smells, sights, feelings and experiences.  They see life as a treasure chest full of wonder.

5. Rather than being stuck in their limitations, positive people are energized by their possibilities.

Optimistic people focus on what they can do, not what they can’t do.  They are not fooled to think that there is a perfect solution to every problem, and are confident that there are many solutions and possibilities.  They are not afraid to attempt new solutions to old problems, rather than spin their wheels expecting things to be different this time.  They refuse to be like Charlie Brown expecting that this time Lucy will not pull the football from him!

6. Positive people do not let their fears interfere with their lives!

Positive people have observed that those who are defined and pulled back by their fears never really truly live a full life. While proceeding with appropriate caution, they do not let fear keep them from trying new things. They realize that even failures are necessary steps for a successful life. They have confidence that they can get back up when they are knocked down by life events or their own mistakes, due to a strong belief in their personal resilience.

7. Positive people smile a lot!

When you feel positive on the inside it is like you are smiling from within, and these smiles are contagious. Furthermore, the more others are with positive people, the more they tend to smile too! They see the lightness in life, and have a sense of humor even when it is about themselves. Positive people have a high degree of self-respect, but refuse to take themselves too seriously!

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8. People who are positive are great communicators.

They realize that assertive, confident communication is the only way to connect with others in everyday life.  They avoid judgmental, angry interchanges, and do not let someone else’s blow up give them a reason to react in kind. Rather, they express themselves with tact and finesse.  They also refuse to be non-assertive and let people push them around. They refuse to own problems that belong to someone else.

9. Positive people realize that if you live long enough, there are times for great pain and sadness.

One of the most common misperceptions about positive people is that to be positive, you must always be happy. This can not be further from the truth. Anyone who has any depth at all is certainly not happy all the time.  Being sad, angry, disappointed are all essential emotions in life. How else would you ever develop empathy for others if you lived a life of denial and shallow emotions? Positive people do not run from the gamut of emotions, and accept that part of the healing process is to allow themselves to experience all types of feelings, not only the happy ones. A positive person always holds the hope that there is light at the end of the darkness.  

10. Positive person are empowered people – they refuse to blame others and are not victims in life.

Positive people seek the help and support of others who are supportive and safe.They limit interactions with those who are toxic in any manner, even if it comes to legal action and physical estrangement such as in the case of abuse. They have identified their own basic human rights, and they respect themselves too much to play the part of a victim. There is no place for holding grudges with a positive mindset. Forgiveness helps positive people become better, not bitter.

How about you?  How many habits of positive people do you personally find in yourself?  If you lack even a few of these 10 essential habits, you might find that the expected treasure at the end of the rainbow was not all that it was cracked up to be. How could it — if you keep on bringing a negative attitude around?

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I wish you well in keeping positive, because as we all know, there is certainly nothing positive about being negative!

Featured photo credit: Janaína Castelo Branco via flickr.com

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