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6 Steps to a Headache-Free Move

6 Steps to a Headache-Free Move

Once you’ve decided that it is time to move, there are many steps between you and setting up at your final destination. Whether you are moving for work or fun, taking the time to properly plan can save you a number of headaches along the way. Before you let time pass you by, follow these steps to help make sure your move goes as smoothly as possible.

1. Choose a Move Date

Whether the date of your move is in your control or is dictated by other circumstances, it is important to understand precisely when you will have access to your new home, as well as when you must vacate your current one. Failing to properly time your move can lead to unforeseen consequences, some of which can be quite costly. Make sure you leave yourself a properly sized window of time to accommodate any unexpected shifts or delays.

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2. Decide How to Move

The decision as to whether you will move yourself or go with a man with a van (and hire a professional removal service) is a big one. While moving yourself may seem less expensive, it can be more complicated depending on the availability of proper transportation.

If you do decide to move yourself, understand how many trips it may take with the available vehicles to move your entire household, and make sure your largest items will be able to be relocated successfully. If you prefer the ease of using a removal service, you will need to estimate the volume of your belongings.

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3. Make Transportation Arrangements

For those who choose to work with a removal service, it is important to get those services scheduled as soon as possible, especially if you are moving during a peak season. Not only can the availability of choice movers be limited, your preferred service may not be available at all. You need time to be able to receive any required quotes, make a decision, and confirm your reservation.

If you are enlisting the assistance of friends and family for the move, it is also wise to get the timing details figured out early. This will help make sure they have the time available to help, and makes it less likely that they will accept another obligation once they have promised their attendance.

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4. Organize and Review Your Belongings

Since you do not want to move anything you do not intend to keep, it makes sense to organize your belongings now and get rid of items you no longer need.  Consider every item in your space, and separate the rubbish from everything else. If certain items are in good repair but aren’t things you will need in your new home, consider options for donating or selling the items.

For items, you are keeping, begin to divide them into logical groups to ease the packing and unpacking of items. This can include packing items based on the room in which they are used, or grouping delicate items together for more careful packing.

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5. Begin Packing

While those who are working with a removal service who will complete the packing duties for you can skip this section, everyone else will want to start packing as soon as possible. This allows the process to be broken into stages, making it feel less overwhelming.

You can begin the process in a number of ways. Some prefer to start in one room and have that completed before moving to the next. Others prefer to pack based on the likelihood of needing that item immediately before or after the move is complete. Any process can work as long as it is an organized one.

6. Move

Once everything is packed, and the date of your move arrives, you have nothing left to do but complete your move. Make sure everything is handled with care and try to keep packed items organized. You will be enjoying your new home before you know it.

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Last Updated on October 22, 2019

How to Get “I Can’t Do It” Out of Your Vocabulary

How to Get “I Can’t Do It” Out of Your Vocabulary

When someone says, “I can’t do it” . . . I say to myself, “What do you mean you can’t do it?” Maybe you don’t want to do it, but saying you “can’t” do it is a completely different story.

With the right mindset, positive attitude, and a clear vision of what you want to accomplish, the only thing that is holding you back is yourself.

Can’t is a terrible word and it has to be taken out of your vocabulary.

By saying you can’t do something, you’re already doubting yourself, submitting to defeat, and you’re making that barrier around your life tighter.

So today, right now, we are going to remove this word for good.

From now on there is nothing we can’t do.

“Attitude is Tattoo”

Your attitude is everything; it’s your reason, your why and how, your facial expression, emotions, body language, and potentially the end result. How you approach an opportunity, and the result of it, is solely based on you — not your boss or your co-worker or friend.

If you enter a business meeting with a sour attitude, that negative energy can spread like wildfire. People can also feel it — maybe even taste it. This is not an impression you want to leave.

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Now imagine you enter a business meeting with a positive attitude, that whatever happens in here is going to be your result, in your control, not someone else’s. Of course, we can’t always win, but even if the outcome is negative, your attitude and perception can turn it into a positive. The question is: can you do it?

Of course you can, because there is nothing in this world you can’t do.

It’s much better to be known for your positive attitude — your poise, your energy, the reason why things go so well because you are able to maintain such character. A negative attitude is easy. It’s easy to complain, it’s easy to be mad, and it’s even easier to do nothing to change it.

When I say your “attitude is tattoo”, it sounds permanent. Tattoos can be removed, but that’s not the point. Your attitude is like a tattoo because you wear it. People can see it and sometimes, they will judge you on it. If you maintain a negative attitude, then it is permanent until you change it.

Change your attitude and I guarantee the results change as well.

Believe You Can Do It

Do you know why most people say “can’t” and doubt themselves before trying anything?

It’s our lack of self-confidence and fear on many different levels. The one thing we have to purge from ourselves is fear — fear of bad results, fear of change, fear of denial, fear of loss, the fear that makes us worry and lose sleep. Worrying is the same as going outside with an umbrella, waiting for rain to hit it. Stop worrying and move on.

Confidence is fragile: It builds up slowly, but can shatter like glass. Project your confidence and energy into believing in yourself. This is a very important and groundbreaking step — one that is usually the hardest to take. Start telling yourself you can do something, anything, and you will do it the best to your ability. Remove doubt, remove fear, and stick with positive energy.

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Embrace Failure

Do not fear failure. Do not run away from it. Face it, learn from it, grow, and take action. Just remember: You will never know success if you have never failed.

Your confidence will bolster after embracing these facts. You will be immune to demoralizing results, and instead you will find ways to fix it, improve upon it, and make it better than before. You will learn to never say “can’t,” and will realize how many more opportunities you can create by removing that one word.

Don’t let one simple and ugly word plague your confidence. You’re better and stronger than that.

Start Making the Change

But to actually start the process of change is very challenging.

Why is that?

Fear? Time? Don’t know how — or where — to start?

It’s hard because what we’re doing is unlearning what we know. We are used to doing things a certain way, and chances are we’ve been doing them for years.

So here are some ways that I avoid using the word “can’t”, and actually take the steps to put forth the change that I wish to see. I hope you can incorporate these methods into your life.

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Write down What You Want to Change

Write it on post-its, notecards, whatever makes you comfortable — something you will always see. I usually write mine on post-its and put them all over the wall behind my monitor so I always see them.

Tell a Friend and Talk About It

Discussing your goals, what you want to change, is very effective when you say it out loud and tell another person other than yourself. It’s almost like saying, hey, I bet I can do it — watch me.

When you fulfill that goal and tell your friend, it feels rewarding and will motivate you to do it again in a different aspect. Who knows? Maybe your friend adopts the same mindset as you.

Stop Yourself from Saying the Forbidden Word

Sometimes,I can’t control myself in public when I’m with friends, so I have to be careful with the words I use so I don’t embarrass or insult anyone.

Treat the word “can’t” as the worst word you can possibly use. Stop yourself from saying it, mid-sentence if you must, and turn your whole perspective around — you can do it, you will do it, and nothing is impossible!

Repetition, Repetition, Repetition

You think this change will be overnight? No way. This is a practice. Something you’re going to be doing for the rest of your life from now until forever.

As I said earlier, you are unlearning what you know. You know how easy it is to say you can’t do something, so by unlearning this easy practice, you’re self-disciplining yourself to live without boundaries.

Practice this everyday, a little at a time, and before you know it, the word can’t will not be part of your language.

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Do Anything That Can Relieve Your Uncertainty

When I catch myself saying I can’t do something or I don’t know something, looking up information on that action or subject, doing research, educating yourself, relieves that uncertainty.

Sometimes, we think we can’t do something because the whole idea of it seems too large. We skip the small steps in our head and only focus on the end.

Before you say you can’t do something, rewind and slow down a little bit. Focus on what the first step is, then the next. Take it a step at a time, and before you know it you will have done something you previously thought you couldn’t do.

Final Thoughts

You know what you must do. The first step is right now. Once you begin this habit, and really start noticing some change, you’ll realize the door to opportunity is everywhere.

The funny thing is: Those doors have always been there. The evil word that we no longer use put a veil over our eyes because that’s how powerful that word is.

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